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Talking Narcissism | The Narcissist Guide

52 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 3 years ago - ★★★★ - 14 ratings

This channel is about the phenomenon subject of Narcissistic behaviour. How do you recognise a narcissist? How does the narcissist think. How you can break free and leave the narcissist. Why is it hard to detect a narcissist? We will cover all the above and so much more to have better understanding in and educate yourself on narcissistic personality disorder. An educated person is the narcissist worst nightmare! Support and subscribe to my YouTube channel: The Narcissist Guide. Buy me a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide

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Episodes

The 6 Stages of Healing After Narcissistic Abuse | How to Move On?

June 16, 2021 20:00 - 15 minutes - 21.1 MB

In many cases, victims of narcissistic abuse don’t leave the toxic relationship, they are discarded. You will feel as if you have been left in the middle of an ocean with no anchor and no way to swim back to shore. The confusion is immense, you don’t understand why he left you because you tried to do everything right, but it wasn’t good enough.  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Opposite of Empath and the Empath Narcissist Relationship Explained

June 11, 2021 22:00 - 15 minutes - 21.6 MB

Empath narcissist relationships are, unfortunately, all too common. This is because empaths and narcissists are on opposite sides of the same coin. For some, this statement is a little hard to accept. After all, empaths and narcissists are so different.  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

It is high time you stopped playing an empath to a narcissist

May 27, 2021 11:00 - 28 minutes - 38.9 MB

The super empath and empath is the highest form of supply to a narcissist  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Inverted (mirror) Narcissist

May 26, 2021 15:00 - 11 minutes - 15.6 MB

Can a narcissist’s partner also be a narcissist? Many partners who have stayed with their narcissist have questioned whether they themselves were selfishly staying with him or her (because they liked the fame, success, wealth, etc). Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Passive Aggressive Narcissist

May 20, 2021 09:00 - 9 minutes - 12.9 MB

Although the classic narcissist is often thought of as charming, boisterous and positive (in public), they can also reflect traits of the passive-aggressive personality. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

10 flaunting signs of a Somatic Narcissist

May 14, 2021 23:00 - 16 minutes - 23.1 MB

As we know, narcissists are people who tend to inflate their own importance, lack empathy for others, and need constant validation (1). How is a somatic narcissist different? Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Family Scapegoat: When The Scapegoat Fights Back

May 08, 2021 21:00 - 16 minutes - 22.1 MB

In families with one or more narcissistic members, the dynamics are inherently dysfunctional. Children often grow up feeling confused, insecure, and afraid. They may not know who to trust, and they usually blame themselves for the problems occurring at home. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Will narcissists come back after dumping you?

May 05, 2021 18:00 - 15 minutes - 21.3 MB

Unfortunately for you, narcissists don’t like being alone; they’re always searching for a source of supply, someone that can make them feel better about themselves. Sometimes they’ll find a new source, but often they’ll come back to you. Do Narcissists come back after dumping you? Yes! They most often come back after ending the relationship if there is still enough supply for them. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

11 lies narcissists use to control you

April 28, 2021 20:00 - 14 minutes - 19.5 MB

The narcissist is a Oscar winning actor or actress and has refined their lies over the years. Here are 11 lies narcissists use to control you Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Narcissists claiming to be empaths

April 23, 2021 20:00 - 19 minutes - 26.6 MB

There is a special kind of Narcissist, often referred to as the “Covert Narcissist” that only loosely appears as a typical, garden variety pathological Narcissist. These are the hyper sensitive and perceptive Narcissists. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

the parasitic relationship between a narcissist and an empath

April 18, 2021 23:00 - 13 minutes - 19.1 MB

The dance between the narcissist and the empath resembles a parasitic relationship. Motivated by the desire to seek love and to heal the wounded narcissist, the empath becomes the perfect host to the parasitic narcissist. Being preoccupied with emotionally feeding off of others to supply his/her egotistical needs, the narcissist uses tactics of manipulation and control in the relationship. Often times, the narcissist remains in power and the empath feels victimized and powerless.  Support th...

Pride Vs Narcissism - 3 Ways to Spot the Difference

April 13, 2021 20:00 - 11 minutes - 15.2 MB

If you are close to someone who seems self-centered and preoccupied with image and achievements, you may have wondered if they are a narcissist. Understanding pride vs narcissism helps you know whether or not you’re dealing with a disorder. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Empath & Narcissistic Sister

April 11, 2021 18:00 - 17 minutes - 24.5 MB

There’s an unwritten rule that we have to love our family unconditionally, so admitting that your sister is a narcissist can make you feel guilty or ashamed. But dealing with a narcissistic sister can be exhausting and wear down your self-esteem. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Painful Narcissist Silent Treatment is a Form of Abuse

April 09, 2021 15:00 - 15 minutes - 21.4 MB

Sometimes it starts with an argument, an off-handed comment in front of a mutual friend, or maybe just forgetting to do something your partner asked of you. They’re minor slights that most couples work through by having a dialogue and understanding each other’s feelings. Narcissists have a completely different playbook though. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Empath, The Narcissist And The Path To Freedom

April 04, 2021 00:00 - 22 minutes - 31.1 MB

Some people seem to always invite narcissists into their lives. They don’t mean to, it just happens. The dynamic fits like a glove. They might be recreating the family dynamics they grew up with while being raised by a narcissistic parent. That could well be true. The other reason, however, might be less nurture and more nature; they could be an Empath. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The narcissist dirty smear campaign

March 25, 2021 19:00 - 15 minutes - 21.5 MB

In this episode I'll be talking about the narcissist smear campaign. I'll explain what a narcissist smear campaign is and how to deal with this toxic tactic.  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

How to get over your Narcissist. steps to healing!

March 20, 2021 16:00 - 16 minutes - 22.2 MB

Getting over a narcissist can be very hard. in this episode we will go through the most valuable tips and steps to healing. Allow Yourself to Grieve! How to Cope With Missing Your Narcissist? How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Narcissist? Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The narcissistic rage

March 17, 2021 20:00 - 17 minutes - 24.1 MB

The explosive and passive agressive narcissistic rage. How the narcissist goes straight to level 7. 7 stages of anger explained Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Narcissist mirroring

March 15, 2021 22:00 - 8 minutes - 12.4 MB

The dark mirroring of a narcissist Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The narcissistic mother

March 14, 2021 09:00 - 12 minutes - 17.9 MB

A narcissistic mother is a parent with narcissistic personalty disorder who is “psychologically constructed to garner attention, be it from charisma, beauty, smarts, or finance.” In this definition, there exists a catch. When the world views a charismatic, attention-seeking woman- and chances are she will be in a powerful position for all to admire, such as a lawyer, judge, head of the PTO, etc. – the family witnesses the other, unpolished side of the coin. Support the show (https://www.buy...

12 ways to piss off a narcissist

March 08, 2021 23:00 - 15 minutes - 21.1 MB

Narcissists love attention, validation, and power. So what drives a narcissist crazy? Simply put, anything that jeopardizes their basic needs for superiority can quickly irritate them. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The narcissistic daughter-in-law

March 06, 2021 19:00 - 15 minutes - 21.1 MB

Often, mothers-in-law are portrayed in a bad light, with suggestions that they are possessive and reluctant to let go of their sons or daughters. But what happens when it’s actually the other way round and you’re faced with a narcissistic daughter-in-law who seems to want to separate you from your children? How to cope with a narcissistic daughter-in-law? Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

What happens when you expose a narcissist?

March 04, 2021 16:00 - 14 minutes - 20.3 MB

How will a narcissist react to they are exposed? When you expose a narcissist you need to be prepared for their backlash. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Narcissist Discard Phase: 3 Signs a Final Discard is Coming

March 03, 2021 04:00 - 15 minutes - 20.7 MB

What are the signs of the Narcissist final Discard? The Narcissist discard phase is often the final phase in the relationship. Relationships with narcissists follow a familiar pattern that begins the moment you meet them.  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

5 Risky ways to take revenge and how to outsmart a narcissist

March 01, 2021 08:00 - 14 minutes - 19.9 MB

Even when things seem to be getting better, you may feel like you’re walking on eggshells. It’s like they can change their mood or behavior at any given moment, and you always feel like your five steps behind them.  Although it may seem surprising, narcissists are incredibly sensitive. They have fragile egos, and they spend a great deal of time and energy protecting those egos.  Here are 5 ways to take revenge and how to outsmart a narcissist Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/...

Why the hoovering narcissist won't leave you alone. 8 Common tactics used by a narcissist

February 27, 2021 16:00 - 14 minutes - 19.8 MB

Please support my YouTube channel and subscribe  The narcissist 8 hoovering tactics explained and how to deal with it. The narcissist hoover can be very convincing when they play with your empathic feelings. Narcissists are very aware of your weaknesses.  The narcissistic hoover manipulation can be effective in breaking your NO CONTACT. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Do Narcissists Love Their Children? Narcissist and their Child!

February 25, 2021 19:00 - 17 minutes - 23.6 MB

A narcissistic parent can impact every area of a child’s development. The problems often start before the child is even born. The parent already likely has unrealistic expectations for how their child will behave in the world.  Even in infancy, the narcissist often acts angry, surprised, or confused by the child’s needs. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The Narcissist’s Fake Apology: 6 Fake Apologies and How to Respond

February 23, 2021 20:00 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MB

Please subscribe to my YouTube channel People often assume that narcissists never apologize for their wrongdoings. However, this myth isn’t true. In fact, some narcissists are more than happy to tell you they’re sorry.   The difference, however, is that their apologies lack sincerity and merit.  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

10 Important mistakes to avoid when going NO CONTACT

February 21, 2021 22:00 - 15 minutes - 21.6 MB

Please subscribe to my channel on YouTube #mentalhealthmatters Going NO CONTACT  with a narcissist is more than just blocking a person's number  Narcissists are not the type of "if you love someone set them free"  type of person. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Narcissism and finances! 36 ways of narcissists abusing YOUR money! The Narcissist money addiction

February 19, 2021 20:00 - 21 minutes - 29.2 MB

Please support my YouTube channel and subscribe The narcissist loves power and control and if they have your money they "own" you! Find out the reasons why and recognise the 36 sneaky ways the narcissist abuses money to control Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

13 sneaky ways of narcissists and blame-shifting

February 17, 2021 23:00 - 26 minutes - 37 MB

Please support my channel on Youtube Narcissistic people are tricky to deal with because they are all into themselves. Whenever they are at fault for something, they try to lay the blame onto other people! Blame-shifting is a common tactic used by narcissists to shift the focus of their wrongful behaving. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Narcissists and Triangulation. When they "invite" a 3rd person into any TYPE of relationship

February 16, 2021 20:00 - 29 minutes - 40.5 MB

Please support my YouTube channel: The Narcissist Guide Triangulation is one of the many manipulation tactics a narcissist has and sadly, they love to use it. It’s a manipulation strategy in which one person doesn’t communicate directly with another person, but rather uses a third person for communication to the second person, thereby forming a triangle. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The shock of betrayal of a narcissist! THE REASON to start healing!

February 14, 2021 17:00 - 24 minutes - 34.3 MB

The shock of betrayal is the reason to start healing and face your awakening! The true evil mask of a narcissist is the reason you are in shock. It doesn't matter how long you had to endure the narcissistic abuse it is the reason  to take responsibility of yourself now! Thenarcissistguide.com Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

When you become "immune" to narcissists. How to deal with future narcissist and "slay" them

February 12, 2021 21:00 - 21 minutes - 29.6 MB

What happens when you have healed from narcissistic abuse? How do you deal with a narcissist in the future. Do you feel so powerful? Are you be able to handle them by giving them a piece of their own toxic medicine with a twist! Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

When you "abandon" the narcissist. The trigger of the anxious feeling they hate.

February 11, 2021 14:00 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

Narcissists and Abandonment Ever went on a business trip or had to be somewhere else for a few days? How about the narcissist telling you they'll leave? The feeling that triggers explained! Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Religious Narcissist vs Christian! The Covert Narcissist abusing religion!

February 09, 2021 18:00 - 21 minutes - 30.3 MB

Subscribe to my YouTube channel The religious covert narcissist professes love! She is holding the bible in her left hand and a knife in her right hand depending on the audience she is serving. The devil knows the bible by heart! When the devil can't get in your head he will sent these minions on his behalf. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

When a narcissist tells you they have changed! Do narcissists change?

February 07, 2021 23:00 - 17 minutes - 23.6 MB

When you've been on your path of healing and overcoming narcissistic abuse you are seeking peace! The narcissist hates it when their victims move on and become more successful  and happy without the narcissist. Learn to be immune for this highly toxic tactical method by the narcissist! Please subscribe to my YouTube channel  Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

If narcissists call you a narcissist or when narcissists make you feel YOU ARE the narcissist

February 07, 2021 23:00 - 11 minutes - 15.3 MB

Narcissists often accuse you for being a narcissist. This is typical narcissistic behaviour at its best. Now sit down and ask yourself these simple questions first before you label yourself as the crazy one! Please support my YouTube channel and subscribe Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Do Narcissists have friends? Covert Narcissists friendships and how to break free! Steps to healing!

February 07, 2021 22:00 - 42 minutes - 58.9 MB

Why are friendships of narcissists unstable? How do they select their friends? Learn how to break free and understand the mind of a covert narcissist! Please support me and subscribe on my YouTube channel The Narcissist Guide Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The narcissist and toxic amnesia

February 01, 2021 09:00 - 5 minutes - 3.93 MB

A dangerous dose to question your own sanity by the narcissist. This is one of the most dangerous tactics a narcissist uses to manipulate your perception. Join me in my podcast and please support me on my YouTube channel:  The Narcissist Guide Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

8 Things a narcissist does that makes you scratch your head

February 01, 2021 07:00 - 9 minutes - 6.39 MB

Wrong gift or maybe a useless unthoughtful gift? You're late from work but being accused of cheating. join me on my podcast! Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The narcissist nightmare! When the Super Empath had enough!

January 30, 2021 17:00 - 9 minutes - 6.76 MB

When empaths use narcissists’ major source of power against them, they become formidable characters on their own, steeped in wisdom. True empaths hate being in the limelight but possess a potent dose of self-esteem and self-awareness. Therefore, they don’t need your validation – you may think they do… but, they don’t. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The aging narcissist! What happens when they get older?

January 29, 2021 23:00 - 9 minutes - 6.69 MB

When a narcissist gets older it gets harder to get or keep their supply. Are they living their 'karma" At some stage the covert narcissist will feel   "depressed"   Join me on my podcast and learn how they evolve. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

"NARCISSISM TIME" possible to manage time with a narcissist?

January 29, 2021 23:00 - 9 minutes - 6.52 MB

When you can't cut ties with a narcissist try to minimise the communication with a narcissist. You might think it's ok to just give one or two hours of your time! Is it possible to manage the time given to the narcissist? yes!  Understand the impact on YOU and how to deal with your feelings Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

10 Signs you're in a relationship with a narcissist

January 29, 2021 23:00 - 9 minutes - 6.35 MB

In previous podcasts I covered the reasons why a narcissist cheats and how to recognise the signs of cheating. Today we will cover the 10 signs that you're in a relationship with a narcissist. Please join me on my podcast: The Narcissist guide available on: - ITunes and Apple music - Spotify - YouTube Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

The female covert narcissist

January 29, 2021 15:00 - 12 minutes - 8.84 MB

The female covert narcissist ia a destructive type of peronity disorder. This type of narcissist creates chaos, drama, gossip and takes a away your healthy concept of life. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

#1 TIP TO SLOW DOWN THE NARCISSIST "LOVE BOMBING"

January 29, 2021 09:00 - 6 minutes - 4.73 MB

Love bombing is one of the most effective and successful tactics of a narcissist. this method is very harmful and will eventually make you the next victim of narcissistic abuse. Here is one simple tip to slow down and recognise the love bombing of a narcissist. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

11 signs of a narcissist gaslighting you

January 29, 2021 09:00 - 8 minutes - 6.21 MB

The term gaslighting comes from the 1944 movie gaslight This is a very manipulative tactic the narcissist uses to question your own sanity. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

5 Signs your dating a cheating narcissist

January 29, 2021 09:00 - 8 minutes - 6.22 MB

Narcissists and Sociopaths are serial cheaters.  I have made a list of the most simple and easiest way to recognise their 5 consistent patterns and cycles. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)

Warning the new partner of a narcissist

January 29, 2021 09:00 - 9 minutes - 6.81 MB

it's very common for victim's in wanting to warn and "protect" the new narcissist supply. However the narcissist has already portrayed you as the toxic ex.  Join me on the journey from further abuse and learn to heal. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soulguide)