Stripping Away All the Labels to Come Back to Yourself Again with Hilary Porta

We all have responsibilities that we devote large portions of our lives to. From careers to motherhood to relationships, it’s easy to think that these labels define us. And while they certainly add to our lives in some way, none of the roles should encapsulate our entire identity. Rather, we are worthy simply just by being. This is the message that Hilary Porta, our guest today, wants to share with us. Along with being one of the most influential people in Cassandra’s life, Hilary is also a mindset ninja, a generational-shifter, and a shame-slayer. In this episode, we gain insights into Hilary’s background and how playing boss in her dad’s office from an early age instilled a desire to forge her own path. We learn more about the different clients she has worked with and what her role as the Life Architect entails. Through her practice, she guides people to break themselves open and to dig deep into who they really are. She has done ‘the  work’ herself and shares with us how having her marriage fall apart led her down a path of self- discovery. By doing this, she was able to dial into her ‘why’, and she now helps clients do the  same. Life, love, and work aren’t simply things you fall into. They are all intentionally created by you and if you choose to go through everything unconsciously, it will feel like life is happening to you. Hilary sheds light on the importance of stripping away the labels and unearthing who you really are. By doing this, you will be able to weather any storms that may come your way. We also talk about merging your passions, the power of stepping back into your divine feminine self, and the importance of walking through this life while like-minded people. We cannot get enough of Hilary, and we know you’ll feel the same. Tune in today!

Key Points From This Episode:

Learn more about the work that Hilary does and how it combines her many passions. The importance of servant-leadership and appreciating the people around you. Find out more about Hilary’s ‘fetal position moment’ and how she overcame it. If we don’t do the due diligence and ask probing questions, we can’t create the life we want. Learn more about Psyche-K and how it helped Hilary in her healing process. Where your passions intersect, that’s where the magic happens. Your limitations become entrenched in you and true if you keep arguing for them. The power of doing life with other people and holding one another through the journey. Learn more about Hilary’s ‘why’ and how it propels her to make the world a better place.

Tweetables:
“What my sweet spot is is breaking people wide open and helping them step into themselves fully.” — @HilaryPorta [0:10:40] 

“When you can do the deep work, then you can let go of the things that are limiting you so that you can really then apply a true strategy and a framework for true success.” — @HilaryPorta [0:12:22] 

“You really don’t know who you are because you’re so busy serving the shit out of everyone else. Let's pull it back. Let’s figure out what do you like to do?” — @HilaryPorta [0:32:38] 

“Having an identity crisis is not easy, but it’s a beautiful kind of brokenness.” — @HilaryPorta [0:44:40] 

“You are not created to be a lone ranger.” — @HilaryPorta [0:47:38] 

“I just want to serve the shit out of everybody until my last breath.” — @HilaryPorta [0:54:19]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
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