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Spark

78 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 1 rating

The question I most get having now written 5 books together with my kids is not about the characters or the dog or the castle or if Lu will ever stop eating fries.*

No. The question I get from parents is, "How in the world did you manage to do a creative project with your kids, how did it go, and how can I do it, too?"

The answer was:

1.) I just decided to do it,
2.) it went both terribly wrong and wonderfully right, and
3.) this book is how you can do it, too.

One parent pulled me aside, a bit frazzled, and almost threatened me with, "If you ever hold a weekend workshop on how to do a creative project together with your kids, I'll pay whatever you want to charge."

When I sat down with my then-8-year old on the red chair in early March of 2014, having just read a really bad children's book and said, "Wow, that book was pretty bad." I then immediately followed up with, "We can do better than that." My son looked at me like I was crazy (I was) and challenged me to follow through on my dare.

I did.

Within a month, we had a book on Amazon.

Now we can boast almost all of the list below:

1.) We have sold 1,000,000+ books in 89 countries and 7 languages.
2.) We sometimes had to resort to bribery, coercion, and ice cream to get a chapter done.
3.) Just on royalties alone, Li is eyeing a Maserati for his 16th birthday.
4.) We created something from nothing and no one can ever take that away.
5.) We get regular calls from Hollywood producers about making the movie versions.
6.) We broke all of Audible's rules when we recorded the audiobook version--and got rejected.
7.) Both boys have transformed into perfect angels who study Mandarin in their free time after violin lessons and before their volunteer work for global literacy.
8.) I have a audio proof of my 10-year old narrating Chapter 8 that I can use at his wedding to embarrass him beyond his wildest nightmares and I can bring that up whenever I like to remind my boys that we are a family who shares experiences (and it's good for blackmail).
9.) We did it all right.
10.) We did it all wrong.
11.) We did it. Period.

HINT: Take the list above and choose which one you like.

This podcast is proof that we can create something from nothing together with our kids. What you're about to embark on is a journey that no one can take away from you. We're going to create a time capsule you'll be able to cherish until your 89-year-old neighbor finally tells you she's deaf and hasn't heard a word about it.

This is going to help you create a bond with your kids.

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Episodes

Afterword

December 17, 2020 15:00 - 41 seconds - 1.59 MB

I would say “I can’t believe I finally did it.” except that I can believe it.

Ch. 39: Questions for Parents

December 10, 2020 16:00 - 1 minute - 3.88 MB

Stuff is going to happen.

Ch. 38: Spark Campfire

December 03, 2020 15:00 - 2 minutes - 5.93 MB

If there are marshmallows, we might even get Li & Lu to visit.

Ch. 37: How would your own kid sell his own book?

November 26, 2020 16:00 - 3 minutes - 8.68 MB

Best Ways to Promote your Book

Ch. 36: Make money, teach your kids math, and clean the house…at the same time.

November 19, 2020 15:00 - 9 minutes - 21.5 MB

In fact, some days, any of those alone seem impossible.

Ch. 35: Loss leaders, sales, flea markets and 12-year olds who want new shoes.

November 12, 2020 17:00 - 9 minutes - 22.4 MB

I still haggle. You have to. That's the point of a flea market.

Ch. 34: How to instill creativity in your children in three not-so-easy steps.

November 05, 2020 16:00 - 5 minutes - 12.3 MB

Challenge: he doesn’t wanna.?

Ch. 33: Part VI: Introduction: Matches

October 29, 2020 18:42 - 4 minutes - 10 MB

I’ve been working on this book for the past four years.

Ch. 32: Linda

October 22, 2020 15:00 - 2 minutes - 6.36 MB

Music has always been a huge part of my life.

Ch. 31: Keep it legal, but keep it real

October 15, 2020 13:00 - 4 minutes - 10.4 MB

Let’s take a trip back to the pasta restaurant off Highway 80.

Ch. 30: Don’t talk about the project. Start the project.

October 08, 2020 13:00 - 3 minutes - 9.02 MB

Tell no one. Tell everyone. You choose.

Ch. 29: Brad

October 01, 2020 15:00 - 2 minutes - 6.35 MB

Brad was just asking for trouble.

Ch. 28: How to make friends and influence…your kids

September 24, 2020 14:03 - 3 minutes - 9.01 MB

Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you.

Ch. 27: Want to truly learn something? Learn it through your kids.

September 17, 2020 14:00 - 7 minutes - 16.6 MB

Learn through what your kids learn.

This is me sparking motivation into you to write that nonfiction book

September 10, 2020 15:00 - 10 minutes - 7.95 MB

It's time to get your own book done--or that of someone else you know.

Ch. 26: Meg

September 03, 2020 15:00 - 2 minutes - 6.74 MB

Here’s Meg with the play by play of how it went down.

Ch. 25: Create a Conflict

August 27, 2020 15:00 - 4 minutes - 10.6 MB

Houston, we need a problem.

From CREATE | Give the Gift of You

August 20, 2020 14:00 - 2 minutes - 2.1 MB

I gave them something only I could give.

Ch. 24: Halfway will never finish

August 13, 2020 14:00 - 1 minute - 2.84 MB

The trick, the joke, the bad news comes when you realize that halfway will never get to the finish line. Sure, at the end, the distance will be microscopic, but by definition, he’ll never make it.

Ch. 23: Replace Car Engine in Two Steps

August 06, 2020 14:00 - 2 minutes - 6.57 MB

It was basically a comedy hour. The two guys were so funny it didn’t matter what they were talking about.

Section V: How: Introduction: Sparks

July 30, 2020 13:00 - 1 minute - 4.48 MB

This is the section where I explain how to do it.

Lorena

July 16, 2020 19:26 - 4 minutes - 10.1 MB

When I asked her where the story was today, the pain and regret were evident in her voice.

Lizz

July 09, 2020 15:00 - 2 minutes - 6.41 MB

She’s here so we can root her on.

Ch. 19: Rich

July 02, 2020 13:00 - 3 minutes - 7.68 MB

As much as I don’t like the “threat” of It’s Now or Never, it really comes down to…It’s Now or Never.

Ch. 18: It’s Now or Never

June 25, 2020 17:07 - 3 minutes - 7.78 MB

Your future self is going to thank (the present) you.

Ch. 17: Part 4: When: Introduction: Kindling

June 18, 2020 16:28 - 1 minute - 4.21 MB

This section is called When. For me, the answer to that question is simple: now.

Ch. 16: Arlene

June 11, 2020 15:00 - 2 minutes - 6.19 MB

Do you ever have it where your kid’s school has a program or an event but it sounds so good you’d like to do it yourself?

Ch. 15: Create more than you consume

June 04, 2020 13:19 - 4 minutes - 10 MB

Consuming is easy. Too easy.

Ch. 14: Craig

May 28, 2020 15:00 - 4 minutes - 9.89 MB

Where words fail, music speaks.

Focus, Fergus

May 21, 2020 11:00 - 2 minutes - 2.35 MB

We all could use a little Fergus in our lives.

Create + Spark = Give the Gift of You

May 14, 2020 14:00 - 3 minutes - 2.83 MB

Visiting the SPARK world from the latest book, CREATE, here’s Chapter 14. When you think you don’t have anything to give, you can still give this.

Creating Breeds More Creating

May 07, 2020 16:00 - 2 minutes - 2.29 MB

Even more reason to get going.

Build your confidence when 8-years-old. Oh, it might also help you get into university.

April 30, 2020 16:00 - 1 minute - 1.08 MB

It's never too late--or too early--to create.

SPARK Student Highlight: “Random Acts of Kindness” by Dede Charbonneau

April 23, 2020 14:00 - 9 minutes - 9.04 MB

What effect might your action have today on someone years from now?

The Dog Ate My Homework: How Things Might go While at SPARK Campfire

April 16, 2020 16:00 - 1 minute - 1.59 MB

Co-creating at its worst. Oops, then improve.

Ch. 13: The Great Unknown

April 09, 2020 17:00 - 2 minutes - 6.19 MB

It’s an experiment. We don’t know the outcome.

While much of the world is shutting down, maybe it’s time to start up.

April 02, 2020 16:00 - 5 minutes - 4.02 MB

Cue the woodpecker.

“Grandma, how do you make fried chicken?” My 81-year-old student narrates a chapter of her (audio)book

March 26, 2020 18:13 - 5 minutes - 4.84 MB

How's your audiobook going?

Transforming reader, parents, and kids into writers with Craig Tuch from HiddenGemsBooks

March 19, 2020 16:00 - 17 minutes - 13.3 MB

Including my secret plan to take over the world.

Seems like the time is ripe for another SPARK Campfire

March 12, 2020 21:27 - 3 minutes - 622 KB

Time to get sparkling.

Would you like to earn some extra cash? Become a Spark affiliate.

March 05, 2020 17:00 - 4 minutes - 3.27 MB

Become an ambassador for Spark and earn 40% of the sale price. Take the course, Publish a book (with your/a child), Request “affiliate” status, Share your special link with your friends, You can even offer them a 25% coupon to sweeten the deal, Rake in the cold, hard cash. I know, crazy, right?

I know an 8-year-old girl who has her name on the cover of a published book. If she can do it, so can you.

February 27, 2020 15:32 - 5 minutes - 4.81 MB

Not 8 decades old. 8 years old.

Ch. 12: It’s an Experiment

February 20, 2020 15:00 - 1 minute - 3.73 MB

We're not going to call it a test or a project. It's an experiment.

Annual Autobiographies

February 13, 2020 16:00 - 6 minutes - 4.95 MB

A short story, written by your kids, every single year.

Who will you be next?

February 06, 2020 18:00 - 3 minutes - 675 KB

You get to choose--your kids, too.

The other side of your fear

January 23, 2020 18:41 - 3 minutes - 3.51 MB

At the scene of a crime--or a dream.

This month in the life of your child is only going to happen once and it’s only going to happen right now.

January 16, 2020 16:00 - 3 minutes - 2.72 MB

“Next year will be different.”  It’s not really about better or worse. It’s about now and then.  Maybe your kid is just about the same from 12 to 13. Maybe. Maybe not. Let’s capture the voice in their hearts right now.  If next year is better, great, let’s do it again.  “My dog is as […]

SPARK opening doors March 1, 2020

January 09, 2020 16:00 - 5 minutes - 4.37 MB

Time to write that book.

8-year-old Cassie Akers talks about her first published book

January 02, 2020 17:15 - 14 minutes - 11.9 MB

It's about flowers, happiness, and a spark of a start to 2020.

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