At times you may find yourself in a relationship with someone who is just not available, either physically or emotionally. Life is just too short to waste on someone who is unavailable, because these guys and girls, are very difficult to be with. When you are emotionally available to them but they are not with you, the relationship will be very unbalanced, dysfunctional and draining.  This situation happens quite a bit when it comes to matters of the heart, that the one we love is emotionally unavailable but what can be done about it? Sometimes the relationships we want to work out the most, don’t.  Not all emotionally unavailable men will stay that way. Will the one you love ever be emotionally available to you? Is there any way you can help create that change? Loving someone who is emotionally unavailable is very draining because you are doing all the work. They are doing nothing. You are giving and not receiving anything. You can only do that for so long until all your reserves are gone. Sitting back and hoping for change is not going to fix this dysfunctional relationship.