50 Ways to LOSE Your Lover.. Nope that is not a typo. People can become so focused on what they can do to keep their romantic partner around they unwittingly miss what they are doing to repel them. There are so many ways to turn a guy, or gal, off and make them head for the hills so fast they leave skid marks. Now is your opportunity to learn what they are, so you do not do them, and risk losing your lover...unless you want to, of course. Otherwise known as "The Silly Girls Way to Get Her Guy to Dump Her".