So Shameless
503 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 days ago - ★★★★★ - 1.3K ratingsTahoe, Ms. DajahBelle and Dj Trauma talk relationships, friendships, life issues, finance, sex, and everything about men that annoys women.
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7 Minutes Of Thunder (pt 4) feat @TheFreshFather
February 01, 2024 12:00 - 44 minutes - 82 MBWelcome back to part four of this weeks episode featuring @TheFreshFather. On todays segment we ask The Fresh Father why virgos are the way they are, and then the crew asks does the way you wear your hair have an effect on whether you should be in a certain profession?? This got HOT...ENJOY!!! Listen to the full episode at Patreon.com/SoShamelessPodcast Socials @TheFreshFather on Instagram @Tahoe_TV on Twitter and Instagram
7 Minutes Of Thunder (pt 3) Feat @TheFreshFather
January 31, 2024 12:00 - 41 minutes - 76.2 MBOn our third segment of the week a woman asks what exactly did black women do for black men to hate them so much, a guy who thinks women think too much of themselves, men being scared of their girlfriends, and Dominicans arent black?? @TheFreshFather has something to say...ENJOY!!! Listen to the full episode at Patreon.com/SoShamelessPodcast Socials @TheFreshFather on Instagram
7 Minutes Of Thunder (pt 2) feat @TheFreshFather
January 30, 2024 12:00 - 49 minutes - 90.1 MBWelcome back to part two of this weeks episode featuring @TheFreshFather! On todays segment we ask why do men have sex with women they know are toxic, having a backup partner in mind just in case your marriage fails, and who is really failing our children, their parents or the education system...ENJOY!! Listen to the full episode at Patreon.com/SoShamelessPodcast Socials @TheFreshFather on Instagram
7 Minutes Of Thunder (pt 1) Feat @TheFreshFather
January 29, 2024 12:00 - 45 minutes - 83.3 MBWelcome Back!! This week the crew welcomes @TheFreshFather of The Podium Podcast to talk being intentional about being healthy, a girl who said she was traumatized by her step dad leaving, and is it ok if you find yourself not liking your child at times? Enjoy! Listen to the full episode at Patreon.com/SoShamelessPodcast Socials @TheFreshFather on Instagram
Patois For Dummies (Part 5) Feat @AbsoTheGreat
January 26, 2024 12:25 - 49 minutes - 90.5 MBWelcome to the final episode of this week as the crew talk kids dancing to Sexxy Red and little girls taking pole classes with their mother?? Is this appropriate??? idunno but..ENJOY!! To listen to the full episode please join our Patreon at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials Abso @AbsoTheGreat on Twitter and Instagram
Patois For Dummies (Part 4) Feat @AbsoTheGreat
January 25, 2024 12:35 - 37 minutes - 68.1 MBWelcome back NSG!! Today we talk how social media has changed societies view of marriage and how important the cost of the engagement ring is...ENJOY!!! To listen to the full episode please join our Patreon at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials Abso @AbsoTheGreat on Twitter and Instagram
Patois For Dummies (Part 3) Feat @AbsoTheGreat
January 24, 2024 12:30 - 44 minutes - 81.5 MBWelcome back No Shame Gang!! In todays episode we talk the beginning of the "African American" experience and how ppl identify culturally, then we discuss a young lady who believes men and women should not cohabitate and that marriage was made for men...ENJOY!!! To listen to the full episode please join our Patreon at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials Abso @AbsoTheGreat on Twitter and Instagram
Patois For Dummies (Part 2) Feat @AbsoTheGreat
January 23, 2024 12:25 - 44 minutes - 81.6 MBWelcome Back to another episode of So Shameless! Today we discuss a list of AAVE words or phrases that one teacher prohibits in her classroom...or else!!! ENJOY!!! To listen to the full episode please join our Patreon at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials Abso @AbsoTheGreat on Twitter and Instagram
Patois For Dummies (Part 1) feat @AbsoTheGreat
January 22, 2024 12:30 - 36 minutes - 66.5 MBIn The first episode of this week, Tahoe tries to talk Patois as he opens the floor for discussion around Jada Kingdom and Steph Londons new dancehall beef. Hilarious episode..ENJOY!! To listen to the full episode please join our Patreon at Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials Abso @AbsoTheGreat on Twitter and Instagram
I Flirt When I Want To (Part 5)
January 19, 2024 12:30 - 47 minutes - 87.5 MBWelcome Back guys!! In todays episode we talk people who test their partners in a relationship and the negative effects of it. Then we lighten up the mood to test the crew with who can name some old sitcom living rooms. To see the rooms head to our patreon..and ENJOY!!!! Patreon.com/SoShamelessPodcast
I Flirt When I Want To (Part 4)
January 18, 2024 12:30 - 36 minutes - 66.8 MBWelcome Back to CHAOSSS!! This week the crew get into a heated debate about why some men dont like when their lady accepts drinks from other men when she is out. Tensions flare super high in this one guys...ENJOY!!! To hear the full episode head to our Patreon Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
I Flirt When I Want To (part 3)
January 17, 2024 12:30 - 47 minutes - 86.3 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang!! In Todays episode we talk why supporting black businesses will not help make black people rich. Then Tahoe takes somebody to Homie Court. ENJOY!! To hear the full episode head to our Patreon Patreon.com/Soshamelesspodcast
I Flirt When I Want To (Part 2)
January 16, 2024 12:30 - 37 minutes - 68.1 MBWelcome Back Yall! In todays episode we discuss what happens when the child needs protection from its Mother and the effect bad parenting has on the children. Sad story loading but ENJOY! To hear the full episode head to our Patreon Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
I Flirt When I Want To (part 1)
January 15, 2024 12:30 - 43 minutes - 79.1 MBWelcome back to So Shameless! In todays episode we talk a stepfather that wants to take his 16 year old stepdaughter on a solo daddy/daughter trip without the mom? The crew has mixed feelings about this one. ENJOY! To listen to the full episode head to our patreon Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
Black Man Syndrome Feat @LookAtDustin and @Gregneverchills (part five)
January 12, 2024 12:00 - 37 minutes - 69.5 MBIn the most heated segment of the week the crew talk Simone Biles and her husbands comments about how they met. Enjoy! To join Patreon head to Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials: Dustin @LookAtDustin Greg @GregNeverChills
Black Man Syndrome feat @LookAtDustin and @GregNeverChills (part four)
January 11, 2024 12:00 - 34 minutes - 62.9 MBIn todays segment we talk men who live with women and our disdain for lazy men, whether the BD should change his contribution if a man moves in with his Baby mother and child, black men needing to be better leaders, black men who make money saying they cant find a good black woman, women who choose their environment and putting themselves around successful women, and Tahoe remembers!!!! ENJOY!! Tune into or Patreon to hear the episode in full Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials: Dusti...
Black Man Syndrome Feat @LookAtDustin and @GregNeverChills (Part Three)
January 10, 2024 12:00 - 44 minutes - 81.8 MBIn todays segment we talk men who dont realize they may have been secksually assaulted, women who are allies to the "community" being better relationship partners, how men react when they find out their woman has more money than them and establishing the dynamics of joint accounts. Tune into tomorrows segment for more or join our patreon to hear the full episode!! ENJOY!!! To join Patreon head to Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials: Dustin @LookAtDustin Greg @GregNeverChills
Black Man Syndrome Feat @LookAtDustin and @GregNeverChills (part two)
January 09, 2024 12:00 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MBIn Todays segment we talk how a womans delivery can effect the response she gets from the man, does a strong man create a soft woman or is she gon be who she gon be, the head of the secksuals, horrible parenting combined with horrible teachers and we ask..why isnt Christian Reyes actually dropping names?? See you tomorrow for part three or join patreon now to hear the full episode! ENJOY!! To join Patreon head to Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials: Dustin @LookAtDustin Greg @GregNev...
Black Man Syndrome Feat @LookAtDustin & @GregNeverChills (part one)
January 08, 2024 12:00 - 46 minutes - 85 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang and Happy New Year!!! In our first segment of the New Year, Dustin and Greg join Daj and Tahoe to talk the core of their unhappiness, New Year resolutions, not being able to save when you are poor, and a woman paying for a guys food is masculine energy?? Tune in tomorrow to hear more or join our patreon to hear the entire episode NOW...ENJOY!! To join Patreon head to Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials: Dustin @LookAtDustin Greg @GregNeverChills
Nicole
January 01, 2024 12:45 - 1 hour - 169 MBThis week we welcome Tahoes cousin, Nicole Shawan Junior, to speak on her life and how she has endured through countless obstacles to become the woman she is today. This was our favorite episode of all time.. we hope its yours too. ENJOY! Socials Nicole @NicoleShawanJunior on Instagram @NicoleShawan on Twitter Link to Nicoles essay https://www.massreview.org/sites/default/files/11_64.4Junior.pdf
I Can Fix Anything Except Stupid
December 27, 2023 15:40 - 1 hour - 167 MBWelcome back No Shame Gang!! Before se start i just would like to say that this episode has alreaady been hailed by several of us as one of the best episodes we have ever done so stay tuned for part two which is where the action goes down. But first!!! Tahoe, Daj and Melly talk why men dont like taking pain killers or asking for help, Trap Karaoke, Xmas and New Years resolutions, Simone Biles husband speaks on how they met and the internet is furious, and women who dont believe in child suppo...
The Rudolph (part two)
December 22, 2023 12:40 - 1 hour - 160 MBWelcome back to part two!! Jonathan Majors, mens egos being too fragile, Belly vs Juice, road rage, jail aint THAT bad, and Daj has the guys do a word challenge.. ENJOY!!!
The Rudolph (part one)
December 20, 2023 18:24 - 1 hour - 179 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang!!! This week the crew were supposed to wind down for the last episode of the year but...Tahoe had other plans. We are not even going to try and explain what you are about to witness..just know, we dont know wth is going on either. ENJOY!!!
It might be the CRACK!!! (part two)
December 14, 2023 12:35 - 1 hour - 180 MBWelcome bsck to part two as the crew dives right into Russell Simmons (pause), Melyssa Fords wild statement about Camron, can women smoke weed while pregnant, being a millionaires 3rd baby momma, wearing your natrual hair to special outings and a woman hates tht her mans babymomma takes her shine at family events. ENJOY!!!
It might be the CRACK!! (part 1)
December 13, 2023 19:58 - 1 hour - 162 MBWelcome back to So Shameless!!! This week the crew go over why they haven't recorded in weeks, Traum says if it aint my business idc, Daj tries to help Tahoe with some math and english problems and then Tahoe talks about some health issues he is having. Finally we circle back to Diddy or..didnt he? (sorry i had to lol...) ENJOY!!!!
Do Men Care Wht Women Think?
November 28, 2023 15:43 - 1 hour - 184 MBWelcome back to this weeks episode of So Shameless! This week in the crews only episode we talk Tahoe missing a friendsgiving, the traits of a masculine woman compared to a feminine one, men not caring what women have to say, a listener letter about brotherhood, the pros and cons of having children, the difference between a real nigga and a real man, and cap or no cap...ENJOY!!
Why Are Yall So Chaotic?? (Part Two)
November 24, 2023 12:00 - 58 minutes - 106 MBOn Part Two of this weeks episode the crew finish up the Diddy/Cassie convo, men forcing women to be masculine, and everybody tries to take accountability for what their gender does wrong in failed relationships. ENJOY!!!
Why Are Yall So Chaotic?? (Part One)
November 21, 2023 16:09 - 2 hours - 221 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang! This week the gang is reunited as Daj asks Traum and Tahoe why they like to live in chaos, a young teacher is stressed out about teaching bad children, and Cassie lights Diddys world on fire. ENJOY!!!
Its The Nonverbals For Me!!! (Part Two)
November 16, 2023 17:48 - 1 hour - 149 MBWelcome back to part two as we talk how long does it take to actually form a secksual connection with a person, mother/daughter relationships and knowing how and why you should establish boundaries between being parents and being friends with your children, hate crimes against white people, and are men using being woke to get women?? ENJOY!!
Its The Non-Verbals For Me!!! (Part One)
November 14, 2023 18:31 - 1 hour - 172 MBWelcome back to So Shameless!!! This week daj brought Gunna by as we talked why women always have to find something to be mad about, Lauren Hill said idc, agreeing to disagree and living with disagreements, Keke palmer again, and two men speak on what being a man really is. Enjoy!!
The Daj Show (Part Two)
November 09, 2023 16:11 - 1 hour - 200 MBWelcome back to part two of this weeks episode as Tahoe, Daj and Melly talk about the level of customer service at black owned businesses, the differences between how different cultures distribute wealth, cheating and leaving your marraige when it gets rough, staying away from tempting situations, men loving more authentically, and ugh..those stupid lists lol. ENJOY!!!!
The Daj Show (Part One)
November 07, 2023 16:52 - 1 hour - 160 MBWhats Good No Shame Gang!!!! This week Daj returns to discuss Akademiks vs Saucy Santana, Dwight Howard vs Homophobia annnnd Atlanta vs Keith Lee. Then we get into a young lady who feels that once she likes you the plans change and a wife that feels like she didnt need to tell her husband about her only fans? Enjoy!!!
Me, Him, Her and Her Feat @Vonnie_B and @JodyPrhoevocative (part Two)
October 26, 2023 12:53 - 1 hour - 152 MBWelcome back as the gang talk a clip from Candace Owens, a young lady in a precarious position, the problem in relationships where women make more than their man, dating outside your race for success, and in what ways do women protect men? ENJOY!!! Socials Jody - @JodyPrHOEvocative on Instagram Vonnie - @Vonnie_B on Instagram
Me, Him, Her and Her Feat @JodyPrhoevocative and @Vonnie_B
October 24, 2023 15:53 - 1 hour - 140 MBNO SHAMMMMMEEEEEE GANGGGG!!!!!! Whats Good yall?! This week we start off the show with Jody from the FC Network and Tahoe wastes no time asking her and Traum are they LIARS and the reason they lie when they do. Then we talk a flyout gone wrong, women asking men for money after a week of dating and are joined by Vonnie B to finish part one with men being too sassy?? We also talk about the conflict in the middle east and whew... what a day. ENJOY!!! Socials Jody - @JodyPrHOEvocative on Insta...
Everywhere You Go..YOU Are There (Part Two) Feat @IamShivonneDavis
October 19, 2023 14:13 - 1 hour - 204 MBWelcome Back to Part Two!!! We continue with Shivonne as we speak healing before dating, being fearful of facing what you think you cannot heal, Kittie Rose's clip regarding social validation when posting your significant other, a woman saying she does not argue with her man in fear of punishing the truth, the difference between a woman and a b***h, and More!! ENJOY!! Socials: Shivonne - @IamShivonneDavis on Instagram
Everywhere You Go..YOU Are There Feat @IamShivonneDavis
October 17, 2023 14:55 - 1 hour - 197 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang!!!! This week we welcome Marriage restoration coach Shivonne Davis to ask do you really take future kids into consideration when dating, Tahoe does a monologue about the Israeli/Palestanian conflict, of course JAda and her comments about her marraige which we all HAD to hear, four plates of oyster and Cheesecake Factory dates,common denominators that are noticed in heakthy relationships and why marraige brings out a different side of your trauma. ENJOY!!! Socials...
WTF Is Going On?? (Part Two)
October 12, 2023 13:18 - 1 hour - 181 MBWelcome Back to part Two/One of this weeks episode where Tahoe Daj and Trauma wind up in homie court to discuss somebody on the team gaslighting and being passive aggressive?? Who do you think it is? Then we talk Doja and Drakes latest shenanigans and if we should separate the artist from the music. Real men being able to bring the lady out of a woman and if women needding aggressive men is healthy and last but not least..a baby making stipulation list??? Enjoy!!!!!! '
WTF Is Going On?? (Part One/Two)
October 10, 2023 15:32 - 1 hour - 208 MBWelcome Back NSG!!! This week part two becomes part one due to a homie court gone wrong (avail on Patreon) as Tahoe asks Do you have to change who you are once you're in a relationship, doing/drinking too much on a first date, and the crew break down a Dr Umar interview where he tells women consider polygamy and/or going abroad to find suitable black men. ENJOY!! listen to part Two/One on patreon here www.patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast
Im Not That Fixed Yet (Part Two)
October 05, 2023 14:10 - 1 hour - 182 MBWelcome Back to Part TWO of this weeks episode!! We dive right in asking if kids should be reminded of their parents struggle while growing up, putting men on child support, kids shouldn't have homework, and who is extended grace more..men or women? Enjoy!!
Im Not That Fixed Yet (Part One)
October 03, 2023 15:25 - 1 hour - 178 MBWelcome Back NSG!!!! This week after Tahoe and Daj curse each other out for an hour (Tune into Patreon for tht content), the gang discuss 3 deal breakers when dating someone new, a clip that says men over 50 cant find love, emily K saying women should marry young to catch the right kinda man, and a guy that says he doesnt wanna be a stepdad because he wants to create his own family. ENJOY!! Tune into Patreon for our behind the scenes episode as well as part two to this weeks episode HERE! ww...
Aint Nothing Special About You? (Part Two) Feat @SuniMF
September 28, 2023 13:29 - 1 hour - 214 MBWelcome back to part two as we dive right in when discussing rekindling old friendships and pouring into the ppl in your life, a listener writes in asking how to build a relationship with his father, men feeling like women arent paying enough attention to them, Andrew Shultz vs the term "African American", why the term "female" is derogatory, and More!! ENJOY!!! Scials: Suni @SuniMF - Twitter/Instagram
Aint Nothing Special About You? (Part One) Feat @SuniMF
September 26, 2023 14:56 - 1 hour - 196 MBWelcome Back for another hilarious episode of Sooooo Shameless!! This week we welcome @SuniMF to talk why its ok to hate men, why men try to talk to women when they are dressed down, men that only value women that have been well taken care of before them, Tyler Perry suggesting women seek other value in men besides their finances, submitting to your husband, Jeezy files for divorce from Jeanie Mai and Remy Ma is for the streets????..what is goinng ON?!?!... We dont know but..ENJOY!!! Socials...
After The Smoke Clears (Part Two)
September 21, 2023 13:37 - 1 hour - 175 MBWelcome back NSG!!! Why Mens friendships are so different than womens, are moms wrong for piutting their kids first no matter what, do you always like your kids, and can you love someone and lie to them? Listener letter, this week in these n*ggas/B*tches and Cap Or No Cap. Enjoy!!
After The Smoke Clears (part one)
September 19, 2023 14:53 - 1 hour - 169 MBWelcome Back Beloveds! This week we recap last weeks debacle and ask the question..did Tahoe ambush Daj? Is Traum an Opp? Tahoe confronts Daj about the way she handled the difficult conversation and we ask "is there a proper way to handle disrespect?" Do Men have to protect EVERY woman? Women who say their husbands better not just be out there protecting every b*tch, why a woman thinks we need gender roles and... if I cancel a date should I have to pay an inconvenience fee?? Excuse me??? Back...
The Rains Of Castamere (part two) Feat @LizLovesHair and @RayOwusu
September 14, 2023 14:04 - 1 hour - 117 MBWelcome Back to part Two of this weeks episode where the conversation continues..(alot gentler) and we speak on Liz and Rays experiences being Ghanian American here in America, what black Americans are misunderstanding about Ghana, the experiences of Ghanian Americans in Ghana and are black migrants told to stay away from Black Americans. Enjoy! Socials: Liz - @LizLovesHair on Instagram and TikTok Ray - @RayOwusu on Instagram and TikTok
The Rains Of Castemere Feat @LizLovesHair and @RayOwusu
September 12, 2023 18:04 - 57 minutes - 105 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang!! In this weeks episode we are joined by Ghanian American siblings Liz and Ray Owusu to discuss the diaspora wars and what it...well.. it didnt really get much further than the clip we released because tempers FLARED chile..tempers...FLARED!!!! Tahoe narrates a convo he let get out of hand as he basically describes why he put the rest of this episode on to our Patreon. Listen now and then head over to patreon to hear the rest...ENJOY!!! Listen to the whole episode ...
Its Just Not You Feat @ErinTheRenegade (Part Two)
September 07, 2023 14:51 - 1 hour - 206 MBWelcome back to Part Two as we talk setting our kids up for success, reparations, top 10 schools in NY and their black population, saying hurtful words in the heat of an argument and can the step parent piunish your child?? ENJOY!!! Socials: Erin @ErinTheRenegade - Instagram
Its Just Not You Feat @ErinTheRenegade (Part One)
September 05, 2023 15:12 - 1 hour - 180 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang!!! This week we are joined by @ErinTheRenegade of the 8atTheTable podcast to ask are African Americans responsible for the way the rest of the black community views us, what paradise looks like to us, how our childhood trauma is affecting us now, and what havent we heard about how Black Women feel. This episode was so deep...hope you ENJOY!!! Listen to part two here - > www.patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast Socials: Erin @ErinTheRenegade on Instagram @8atThetable
Another Drunk Episode (part two)
August 31, 2023 14:35 - 1 hour - 138 MBWelcome back to Part two of this weeks episode yall! We start off with Keke and Ushers new video, why does the world always think Black women are "angry", generalized similarities based on where women were raised, whats happening with women in this generation, Men not protecting women, Batman being the worst hero, and MORE! Enjoy!!!
Another Drunk Episode (part one)
August 29, 2023 16:25 - 1 hour - 148 MBWelcome Back No Shame Gang! I'm feeling kinda ..so-so this week after getting some bad news so the crew decided, well Tahoe decided that we were going to drink and record.. sigh.. and that probably wasnt the greatest idea.. but ENJOY!