Should We Get Married

E34 - YES

June 16, 2021 08:00 - 1 hour - 62.1 MB

In a surprising plot twist, Kyle & Kiley share the detailed story of their engagement, how the answer to this podcast came to be "yes", and what's next on this journey. Watch on YouTube to see the proposal video, photos and more goodies. Is this the Finale or do you want more Episodes? Let us know on Instagram @SWGMpod Continue the Journey: @tamekyle @motorcyclesandfilm @kileybs

E33 - Ask These Questions Before You Get Married

February 23, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 58.4 MB

Ask These Questions Before You Get Married: What is the meaning of life? What happens when we die? Do you believe in ghosts or spirits? How religious are you? Does religion show up at our wedding? The list goes on... Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask Us Anything: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? Leave a Review!

E32 - Are We Monogamous?

February 09, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 54.9 MB

It may be an easy questions on the surface, but how about when we dissect it as a societal construct in a world of ever-evolving human relationships? Kiley & Kyle watched "Monogamy, explained" by Vox on Netflix and waited for this episode to discuss it. Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask Us Anything: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? Leave a Review!

E31 - Are You Me Or Am I Me?

January 26, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 59.1 MB

Kyle & Kiley talk about checking other people out on social media and who they're attracted to, what they need from one another during rough times since they have different love languages, and answer some listener questions. Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask Us Anything: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? Leave a Review!

E30 - A Midnight Piss

January 05, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 65.2 MB

Kyle & Kiley tell the story of what happened at midnight on New Year's Eve - the most magical moment followed by horror. After story time, they each share Top 5 Relationship Moments of 2020, and personal goals for 2021. Happy New Year! Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Behind the scenes: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? Leave a review!

E29 - A Very Married Christmas

December 29, 2020 10:00 - 1 hour - 73.9 MB

This Covid Christmas looked a bit different than others. Kiley & Kyle reflect on what they learned about each other during the first few years of meeting family and attending holiday functions, and how that's changed. They get into the nitty gritty about some current disagreements and how to laugh them off. Enjoy the last episode of 2020! Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Behind the scenes: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? Leave a review!

E28 - Is This Thing On?

December 15, 2020 10:00 - 1 hour - 79.9 MB

What's been going on? Kiley & Kyle are here to talk about it. In a new location! Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Behind the scenes: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? Leave a review!

Episode 27 - Repairing Relationships During Isolation

April 08, 2020 02:05 - 1 hour - 68.2 MB

Kiley & Kyle are isolating together during the Covid19 pandemic, which is full of sex, video games & working from home. But when your lockdown buddy gets on your nerves, it's a good time to review Gottman's Repair Checklist! Episode credit: Gottman's Repair Checklist Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 26 - Coronavirus Family Time

March 17, 2020 06:04 - 1 hour - 64.6 MB

Coming at ya from a Coronavirus HOT SPOT, Kiley & Kyle end up talking sex, birth control, PMS, recent (poorly timed) travels, plans and ideas for social distancing during the looming Washington shutdown. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 25 - What Happens When You Cheat

March 02, 2020 06:34 - 1 hour - 67.2 MB

Kiley & Kyle discuss their unplanned 3 month hiatus from the podcast. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 24 - Inevitable Blessing Slams

November 30, 2019 06:10 - 1 hour - 63.4 MB

Kiley & Kyle tune in POST-Thanksgiving and PRE-vacation with gratitude talks and favorite traditions, ending with Kyle playing Blackbird on the Ukulele! Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 23 - Binge-Watch the Universe

November 07, 2019 03:55 - 1 hour - 58.3 MB

Kiley & Kyle talk about 25 things to do together instead of binge-watching Netflix, and then talk about all the sweet shows & movies they've been watching lately. Also in this episode: Most embarrassing childhood halloween costumes. Episode Credits: 25 Things to Do as a Couple instead of Binge-Watching Netflix Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 22 - Zip on your Winkle

October 30, 2019 04:47 - 1 hour - 62.9 MB

Kiley talks about her trip to London & Birthday abroad. Kyle takes us on a stroll through Reddit of why different couples decided to divorce after 20+ years of marriage. Can you find the impromptu Me No Likey in this episode? Episode Credits: Butt-wiping giff & Reddit Feed Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 21 - We're All Flawed & It's Ok

October 11, 2019 04:07 - 56 minutes - 52.1 MB

Why Fleabag is everything, Kyle's very specific (hilarious) dating fear, how to walk through anxiety & be there for others, internet "tips" on traveling away from your SO, a "Question of Questions" segment on losing virginity, and more. Check us out on the Live In Everett Podcast! Sharing Secrets with Should We Get Married Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 20 - Word Association Test Gone Wrong

September 20, 2019 04:10 - 1 hour - 59.6 MB

Word Ass Tests have been used in therapy for years, but can be a good dating tool to sift through weirdos or gain insight into your current partner's psyche in surprisingly few words. See what happens when Kiley & Kyle try it out. More from this episode: relationship challenges of home remodeling and the Emmy's! Credits: All about Carl Jung's Word Association Test and his full word list. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be ...

Episode 19 - Snack Wipe Ball Hit

September 11, 2019 18:53 - 1 hour - 57 MB

Me Likey Me No Likey is back for another segment with confessions of things that irritate and satisfy each other. Kiley & Kyle get into the weeds about making the bed (it's important) and other bedroom habits. They talk about seeing Bon Iver & Sharon Van Etten at the Gorge, chasing a thunderstorm, and answer some thoughtful listener questions. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

Episode 18 - Non-pubis Hairomie

September 04, 2019 04:39 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MB

Kiley & Kyle sit down this week to decipher the newest dating lingo. They share plenty tales of "first times", like first (awkward) I Love You's, first time shaving, first bra (and bully), etc. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool. Episode Credits: WTF Is Roaching?...

Episode 17 - 7 "Signs" It Won't Last

August 27, 2019 05:28 - 47 minutes - 43.8 MB

The Pod is back on track! In this episode, Kiley & Kyle take a "Should we get married?" temperature check, set half-way expectations for those New Year resolutions, and talk through another helpful (or not) internet article about 7 subtle signs that a marriage/relationship won't last. Complete with a violent edition of the returning segment: Question of Questions. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool. Episode Credit: Ex...

Episode 16 - F*** Wholesome

August 12, 2019 03:26 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MB

If you want wholesome, you'll have to go to Reddit. Instead, we're here to answer all of our listener questions. Find out who has faked an orgasm, our astrological compatibility, how we feel about the 4 relationship pillars, and more. Thanks for writing in! ASK MORE QUESTIONS! Tell us your secrets. It's anonymous: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 15 - 6 Years Later

June 30, 2019 22:39 - 55 minutes - 51.3 MB

So much time has passed. 6 Years as a couple, and 6 weeks since the last episode. Kiley & Kyle are back to chat about road trips, fights, and motorcycle meltdowns. Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 14 - The first rule of fight club...

May 22, 2019 05:45 - 1 hour - 88.2 MB

...is don't talk about fight club. But Kiley & Kyle want to share some humble learnings on conflict resolution, because we're all different and emotions are complicated, man. Credit: Conflict Resolution Skills Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 13 - SEXUALS

May 10, 2019 18:11 - 52 minutes - 72.3 MB

Real Talk: Kiley & Kyle on sex & intimacy. They ask each other questions and share some personal views & experiences. This is most likely 1 of many "SEXUALS". Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Bonus Episode - 15 "Facts"

May 07, 2019 04:58 - 41 minutes - 57.5 MB

15 "Facts" the internet wants you to consider before marriage, some backed up by studies and/or experts, with a few obvious ones thrown in. Credit: 15 Relationship Facts Everybody Should Know Before Getting Married Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 12 - When Reality Sets In

April 26, 2019 04:15 - 1 hour - 94.4 MB

Kiley & Kyle walk through the "5 Stages of a Relationship" - Attraction & Romance, Reality Sets In, Disappointment, Stability, Commitment - and share tidbits from their time in each stage. Episode Notes & Credits: 11:00 Relationship Timeline animation 16:29 The 5 Stages of a Relationship 53:57 Me Likey Me No Likey 1:07:00 Cliff Hanger: Sex Episode Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 11 - Kyle's Getting Fat

April 11, 2019 17:10 - 55 minutes - 76.3 MB

Kyle talks about his bad habits and wants to know if Kiley is still attracted to him. Can you get "too" comfortable in a relationship? Also, the debut of a new segment: "The Question of Questions" Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 10 - Common-law Marriage is a LIE

April 02, 2019 06:00 - 1 hour - 84.2 MB

How do you get common-law married? What does KNT stand for? What are the top 3 reasons couples get divorced? What new segment do Kiley & Kyle announce? Common-law marriage article by NPR. Top 3 Reasons Article. 12 Minute attitude adjustment. Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 9 - Too Much Information

March 29, 2019 23:02 - 1 hour - 101 MB

Kiley & Kyle talk openly about how to wipe your butt, and share a positive conversation about PMS. Kyle tells his journey of finding his lost & beloved Uncle Gary. Also, "Me Likey, Me No Likey" is back with new gripes & compliments. 00:00 How to wipe your butt 13:43 We should talk about Periods more 33:10 Finding Uncle Gary 55:56 Me Likey, Me No Likey Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Bonus Episode: A Search for Love & Power

March 29, 2019 22:13 - 34 minutes - 47.6 MB

29 Ideas, big and small, to consider on your journey to finding "wholeness as a person". You can find this list on Kiley & Kyle's fridge, taken from addiction, codependency and empowerment expert: Charlotte Kasl. Ideas are credited to Charlotte Kasl. Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

Episode 8 - Kyle Takes Kiley's Last Name

March 21, 2019 04:43 - 48 minutes - 66.9 MB

This week, Kiley & Kyle discuss last name options if they were to get married, and share the results of the @SWGMpod Instagram Poll. Stay tuned while they talk actual wedding what-ifs. Ask us anything at shouldwegetmarriedpod.com, Follow along @SWGMpod on Instagram, Rate & Review on iTunes. We appreciate you.

Episode 7 - We've Been Fighting

March 14, 2019 04:59 - 57 minutes - 79.2 MB

Hang on to your butts, because Kiley & Kyle get off to an awkward start, catch their footing to talk pet peeves & shortcomings, and then dip back into weirdness. Thanks for joining us on this journey. Follow along on Instagram @SWGMpod or ask us anything on shouldwegetmarriedpod.com. If you likey, we'd appreciate a rate and/or review on iTunes!

Episode 6 - Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

February 27, 2019 05:12 - 56 minutes - 76.9 MB

How many times have Kiley & Kyle broken up? Listen-in to discover how it all started, what drove them apart, the first awkward "I love you" and the fight that drove them to move in together. And remember: Pobody's Nerfect. Ask us anything, it's anonymous!: www.shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Instagram: @SWGMpod

Episode 5 - Living Child Free

February 21, 2019 05:43 - 36 minutes - 49.9 MB

Kiley & Kyle talk kids. Would life be sweeter with children or would you rather do whatever you want, whenever you want, all the time? Child Free Subreddit: www.reddit.com/r/childfree/ **If you like the podcast, let us know! ** Rate & Review on iTunes: https://apple.co/2EmUGlL Follow @SWGMpod: www.instagram.com/swgmpod/ Ask us Anything: www.shouldwegetmarriedpod.com

Valentine's Day "Spectacular"!

February 14, 2019 05:49 - 42 minutes - 38.9 MB

Surprise!! It's short. It's sweet. It's Valentrine's Day. Enjoy some jibber jabber and a bonus "Me Likey, Me No Likey"! New Episodes every Monday. Ask us anything at shouldwegetmarriedpod.com. Follow us on Instagram @swgmpod for updates.

Episode 4 - Moonlight Buttress

February 10, 2019 22:23 - 1 hour - 56.8 MB

Kiley & Kyle talk about money stuff. Such as when the bill comes, merging finances, female "breadwinners", and buying houses together. Or in this case, one person buys a house and it gets weird but they both end up living there together and it all works out. This week's "Me Like, Me No Likey" brings up some embarrassing habits but EVERYONE IS DOING IT. 04:52 Money Stuff, 39:33 Me Likey Me No Likey, 59:50 Episode 5 Teaser - Should we have kids?

Bonus Episode - 36 Questions That Lead to Love (3 of 3)

February 04, 2019 05:24 - 51 minutes - 47.2 MB

In the 3rd and final part of The 36 Questions That Lead to Love, Kiley & Kyle answer the last, most "probing" set of questions. They share embarrassing moments from their lives, ask for advice on personal problems, and possible regrets before dying. Oh, and stare into each others eyes for 4 full minutes, so check "prolonged silence" off the podcast bucket list! Here's the New York Times article with The 36 Questions That Lead to Love. We recommend answering them with your lover, a stranger,...

Episode 3 - Spumoni vs. Vanilla Couples

January 30, 2019 06:41 - 49 minutes - 45.9 MB

Kiley & Kyle discuss the possible pros and cons of an open relationship, swinging and 10-year hall passes. This week's "Me Likey, Me No Likey" segment sheds light on TV remote placement, alarm snoozing habits, and nicknames. 7:15 Swinging & Open Relationships, 32:04 Me Likey, Me No Likey, 42:39 Sexual frequency, 47:10 Bonus Episode 3 teaser Referenced Articles: Actual Statistics on Modern Day Swingers: https://bit.ly/2G84EbW The Slippery Slope of Open Marriage: https://bit.ly/2RW6nbj

Bonus Episode - 36 Questions That Lead to Love (2 of 3)

January 26, 2019 23:58 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MB

Kyle & Kiley answer the 2nd set of The 36 Questions That Lead to Love in a 3-part series that gets increasingly "probing". In Part 2, Kiley & Kyle each share their most treasured & terrible memories, greatest accomplishments, and some thoughts on family. This set of questions produces blood, sweat & tears. Minus the blood. Here's the New York Times article with The 36 Questions That Lead to Love. Perhaps you'd like to grab your lover, a stranger or a friend to sit down and answer them your...

Episode 2 - Tight Little Ditty

January 24, 2019 04:02 - 50 minutes - 46 MB

Your hosts tell the story of the day Kiley met Kyle's Mom, now referred to as the Mt. Pilchuck Poopathon. This experience was a relationship ice-breaker, which leads to discussion of how to introduce farts in a new relationship. This week's "Me Likey, Me No Likey" segment reveals who gets the nightly grumps and who has traffic rage. To cap this episode off, Kyle & Kiley answer their first listener questions! Ask us anything at shouldwegetmarriedpod.com or leave us a Google voice message at (...

Bonus Episode - 36 Questions That Lead to Love (1 of 3)

January 19, 2019 01:38 - 47 minutes - 43.3 MB

Kyle & Kiley answer the 36 Questions That Lead to Love in a 3-part series that gets increasingly "probing". In Part 1, Kiley & Kyle each have 4 minutes to tell their life stories in as much detail as possible, get the chance to describe what constitutes a perfect day, and choose between hot bods or sharp minds at age 90. Bonus within a Bonus: Kyle sings us a new song he wrote called "Well as Hell". Enjoy these easier questions, because part 2 gets a little intense. Here's the New York Time...

Episode 1 - Thousand Year Relationship

January 15, 2019 04:00 - 49 minutes - 45.5 MB

In the first Episode of "Should We Get Married": Your humble hosts, Kyle & Kiley, get to the bottom of mispronounced phrases like "bottles my mind" with no help from Siri or Alexa. They discuss fears associated with never being able to explore a brand new person's mind & body after choosing to partner up for life. And the first confessions of a recurring segment called "Me Likey, Me No Likey" shed light on Kiley's pillow OCD and Kyle's peanut-eating habits.

Episode 0 - Introduction

January 14, 2019 04:30 - 17 minutes - 16 MB

We're Kiley and Kyle! We're not celebrities (we're "normal" like you). We've been together for 5+ years and enjoy talking about the messiness of being human, together. Listen along to VERY open conversations of love and humor, shortcomings and growth as we make our way through the the nooks and crannies of day-to-day relationshipping.