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Shooters Gotta Shoot

192 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 months ago - ★★★★★ - 610 ratings

Comedian Erica Spera brings on a guest each week to talk about dating and relationships. In 2019, Erica publicly came out about having herpes, and how that has affected her dating life. Since then, no topic is off limits. She takes a sports mentality when it comes to dating, and instead of throwing in the towel she breaks down different relationship books, research, tricks and tips with her guests to see what is real and what is B.S. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shootersgottashoot/support

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Episodes

#181 Short Kings & Romantic Comedy w/ Ian Lara !

August 18, 2023 08:16 - 1 hour - 58.8 MB

Stand up comedian Ian Lara joins Erica Spera to talk about what really makes a short king, how much attraction matters to men, why some men don't "like like" women, and much more... Use Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off ⁠⁠SunsetLakeCBD.com⁠⁠ Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Ins...

#180 Survivor & Law Abiding Dating w/ Roark!

June 16, 2023 03:44 - 1 hour - 60.5 MB

Former host of the Finding Mr. Height podcast & current lawyer Roark joins Erica Spera to talk about her time as a contestant on the show Survivor, what law terms apply to dating, her set of dating rules, why being there for an emergency isn't that valuable in a friendship, and much more... Use Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off ⁠SunsetLakeCBD.com⁠ Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on o...

#179 F Your Diet w/ Chloe Hilliard!

May 18, 2023 08:39 - 54 minutes - 75.2 MB

Comedian Chloe Hilliard joins Erica Spera to talk about her book "F Your Diet", dating at 40, what she's learned from past relationships, her comedy career, how to avoid men looking for a sugar momma, and much more... Use Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off SunsetLakeCBD.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodca...

#178 As Nasty As Possible w/ Natalie Cuomo!

April 28, 2023 20:10 - 37 minutes - 51.9 MB

Comedian Natalie Cuomo joins Erica Spera to talk about her f**k yes or f**k no mentality, some sex tips, what really brings intimacy to a new relationship, mistakes she's made in the past, and much more... Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠⁠ Watch Natalie's standup special "Shut Up You Loved It" here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWHvFGtxfPU&t=0s Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: ⁠⁠⁠http...

#177 The You're Really Great Speech w/ Elle Orlando!

April 07, 2023 05:31 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MB

Comedian Elle Orlando joins Erica Spera to talk about her muting move, the "you're really great..." speech, long distance relationships, knowing your crazy & much more!   Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spericaa ⁠⁠// Elle Orlando ⁠⁠https...

#176 Business of Love w/ Liz Miele!

March 24, 2023 19:34 - 56 minutes - 51.6 MB

Comedian Liz Miele joins Erica Spera to talk all about the business of comedy, what she's learned from her past long term relationships, why having higher self esteem can make commitment harder, & much more!   Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot⁠ Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast⁠ Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/...

#175 Honesty Hour w/ Erica Spera

March 10, 2023 14:51 - 42 minutes - 58.5 MB

We're back with another solo episode of Honesty Hour! The fans submit their questions for advice from host Erica Spera, and she gets brutally honest. Submit your questions or dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod   Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Sper...

#174 Short but Bold w/ Ali Kolbert

February 24, 2023 06:51 - 41 minutes - 38.2 MB

Comedian Ali Kolbert joins Erica Spera to talk all about coming out, being the pursuer, if lesbians feel the same "attraction can grow" pressure that straight women feel, & much more!   Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Ali Kolbert: http...

#173 Loud about Nothing w/ Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes

February 17, 2023 18:27 - 50 minutes - 68.9 MB

Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes from the Loud About Nothing podcast join Erica Spera for a fun crossover episode!    Promo Code SGS20 for 20% off SunsetLakeCBD.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Loud About Nothing: https://www.insta...

#172 This Happy w/ Meghan Hanley

January 28, 2023 14:00 - 55 minutes - 50.6 MB

Get 20% OFF Manscaped + Free Shipping with Promo Code: SGS at MANSCAPED.com! #ad #manscapedpod Check out Meghan's new album: https://badpassword.lnk.to/MeghanHanley Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Meghan Hanley: https://www.instagram....

#171 Joint Custody w/ Rafi Bastos

January 19, 2023 17:03 - 1 hour - 57.6 MB

Comedian Rafi Bastos joins Erica Spera to talk all about his journey from starting comedy in Brazil, getting divorced, then moving to America solo. They also talk about how herpes is viewed in different countries, sharing custody, getting your first and second wife to get along, and if women can have two different types of orgasms. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.c...

#170 The Herpes "Cure" w/ Ariel Elias

January 13, 2023 15:46 - 1 hour - 60.1 MB

Comedian Ariel Elias joins Erica Spera to talk all about having herpes, how she used to disclose to partners, and much more. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram:...

#169 Religious Moves w/ Justin Smith

January 05, 2023 17:05 - 46 minutes - 42.4 MB

Comedian and former Preacher Justin Smith joins Erica Spera to talk about his journey from being married, pursuing ministry, dating as a preacher, getting divorced, and then pivoting to pursuing standup comedy. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Chan...

#168 Honesty Hour w/ Erica Spera

December 22, 2022 05:14 - 48 minutes - 44.8 MB

The fans submit their questions for advice from host Erica Spera, and she gets brutally honest. Submit your questions or dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod or Erica's Instagram stories on Sundays. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa ...

#167 Pickle Jar Theory w/ Kevin Ryan

December 15, 2022 07:54 - 48 minutes - 44.8 MB

Comedian Kevin Ryan (Are You Garbage Podcast) joins Erica Spera to talk about why wearing a wedding ring doesn't matter, dating someone in a different country, how he used to shoot his shot, and the marriage fights you repeat over and over.  At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off SunsetLakeCBD.com Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgott...

#166 Best Sex You've Ever Had w/ JC Mendoza

December 08, 2022 06:54 - 43 minutes - 39.6 MB

Comedian JC Mendoza (@peachfuzzpapi) joins Erica Spera (@spericaa) to talk about what it means to be the "best" someone's ever had, how we don't always perform to a high level, body counts, slut shaming, how he shoots his shot and much more. At the end, they debate some TikTok dating advice. Submit your dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the Pa...

#165 Orlando Leyba | Marriage & Positivity

December 01, 2022 21:39 - 49 minutes - 44.9 MB

Comedian Orlando Leyba joins Erica Spera to talk about what he's learned to make his marriage better, the importance of therapy, and much more. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Orlando Leyba: https://www.instagram.com/heylando // Podcast: https://www.instagra...

#164 Taping James Corden - Erica Spera

November 21, 2022 08:29 - 50 minutes - 46.4 MB

Erica Spera gives a recap of her LA trip to tape her James Corden standup set and reveals some more exciting news.   Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa   Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod Email us your questions at: [email protected] or DM us on Ins...

#163 Wedding Date Fail w/ Graham Kay

November 10, 2022 07:22 - 51 minutes - 47 MB

Comedian Graham Kay joins Erica Spera to explain why he bailed as a wedding date 5 years ago, some shooting his shot stories, and they debate some TikTok dating advice.  Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off www.SunsetLakeCBD.com Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Gra...

#162 Never Doubt a Man's Taste w/ Jourdain Fisher

November 03, 2022 10:02 - 44 minutes - 40.8 MB

Comedian Jourdain Fisher comes back on the podcast to join Erica Spera in debating some dating advice from TikTok. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot  Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Jourdain Fisher: https://www.instagram.com/jfishercomedy // Podcast: https://...

#161 The Box Theory w/ Mark Normand

October 27, 2022 07:23 - 1 hour - 59.9 MB

Comedian Mark Normand joins Erica Spera to talk about shooting his shot, what to say when your man can't get it up, if "the box theory" is true, how to DM slide,  what really catches a man's attention, and why you need to give your partner space. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootP...

#160 Lesbian Moves & Rules w/ Ashley Gavin

October 20, 2022 06:05 - 52 minutes - 48 MB

Comedian Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex Podcast) joins Erica Spera to talk about lesbian dating rules, why more gay women need to shoot their shot, why moving too fast can end your relationship and for some "Gay Woman's Opinion" questions. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodc...

#159 Religious Trauma w/ Stephanie Andrew

October 13, 2022 05:20 - 48 minutes - 44.1 MB

Friend of the podcast Stephanie Andrew joins Erica Spera to talk about leaving her midwestern life for the big city, being engaged at 18 to an older man, religious trauma, going on a date with a homeless man, why live mixers are better than dating apps, and what she's learned in grad school to help you find the right therapist. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shooters...

#158 16 Sex Tips For Women w/ Phil Duckett

October 06, 2022 07:04 - 48 minutes - 44.4 MB

Comedian Phil Duckett joins Erica Spera to debate the article "16 Sex Tips for Women" to figure out what really makes someone good in bed. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview.   Promo Code: SGS20 for 20% off www.SunsetLakeCBD.com Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Phil Duckett: https://www.instagram.com/funnyphilduc...

#157 Sober & Bipolar w/ Andrea Allan

September 29, 2022 06:29 - 1 hour - 85.4 MB

Comedian Andrea Allan joins Erica Spera to talk about getting sober, how sobriety changed her dating life, navigating bipolar disorder, ALANON, sober dating app tips and tricks, the downfalls of a scarcity mindset, dating mistakes, and much more.  Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Andrea Allan: https://www.instagram.com/andreacomedy69 // Po...

#156 How to be a Hoe w/ Christiana Jackson!

September 22, 2022 06:37 - 58 minutes - 80.3 MB

Comedian Christian Jackson joins Erica Spera to teach her "How to Hoe". They talk about if kegels really work, how to know if you can "hoe", why having faith makes you a better hoe, and how being married changed Christiana's perspective on dating. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Christiana Jackson: https://www.instagram.com/incomparablems...

#155 My Girlfriend has Herpes w/ Raanan Hershberg

September 15, 2022 04:48 - 50 minutes - 69.2 MB

Comedian Raanan Hershberg joins Erica Spera to talk about dating someone with herpes for the first time, what made him feel comfortable with it, why he thinks the stigma should be eliminated, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview. Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Checkout Rannan's new stand up special free on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-L5tTb7TCW8  Follow us on...

#154 The Games We Played w/ Finding Mr. Height (Ali Jackson)

September 08, 2022 06:31 - 52 minutes - 71.8 MB

Dating coach Finding Mr. Height (Ali Jackson) joins Erica Spera to talk all about shooting her shot. The two share some cringe worthy attempts at trying to get men's attention, games they used to play, "subtle" moves they've made, and how some methods worked while others blew up in their face. Ali also shares what keeps her motivated in the dating game and why being in a relationship can be much worse than being alone. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview. Promo Code...

#153 What "Romance" Means to Men w/ Chris Cheney and Rob Haze

September 01, 2022 07:10 - 1 hour - 98.9 MB

Comedians Chris Cheney and Rob Haze join Erica Spera to talk about "Fifteen Ways to Keep The Romance Alive in Relationships; According to Men" chapter of the book "Why Men Love Bitches". The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Pokemon Expo Free G...

#152 Vaginismus & PCOS w/ Riley Lassin!

August 25, 2022 12:35 - 52 minutes - 71.5 MB

Comedian and Riley Lassin joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about Vaginismus and PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome); what signs her gyno missed, how she couldn't even wear a tampon without experiencing pain, going to physical therapy for her vagina, losing her hair, wearing wigs, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episode...

#151 Couples Therapy w/ Dan Perlman

August 18, 2022 18:45 - 53 minutes - 73.4 MB

Comedian and writer Dan Perlman (Flatbush Misdemeanors) joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about going to couples therapy, regular therapy, what makes a good therapist, switching to an open relationship, why you should be the "bad guy", if mysterious women are more attractive, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes ...

#150 Married at 19 w/ Dustin Nickerson

August 12, 2022 03:49 - 1 hour - 85.7 MB

Comedian Dustin Nickerson joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about getting married to his high school sweetheart, keeping his kids off social media, what made him get a vasectomy, why you shouldn't visit your family during the holidays, the real marriage fights, his book about marriage, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. PROMO CODE: SGS20 for 20% off Sunsetlakecbd.com  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: http...

#149 How to slide into the DMs w/ Mike Coscarelli

August 05, 2022 17:08 - 1 hour - 88.4 MB

Mike Coscarelli joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about how to slide into someone's DMs, the pros of getting on Lexapro, if thirst traps really work, why women should go to more sporting events, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaSho...

#148 Why Men are Terrified of Weddings w/ Jon Laster

July 28, 2022 15:08 - 1 hour - 90.4 MB

Comedian Jon Laster joins Erica Spera this week for a funny and insightful conversation all about how men think in relationships. Why are men terrified of weddings? What "freedom" do men need in relationships? What "privileges" being a college athlete meant with dating, Why you can't change a man, and much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview.    Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full e...

#147 Dating after Divorce w/ Adam Mamawala

July 21, 2022 04:45 - 1 hour - 94.3 MB

Comedian Adam Mamawala joins Erica Spera to talk all about DIVORCE! They discuss; how long the process takes, what helped him get through it, when he knew he was ready to date again, what you should and shouldn't say to someone going through a divorce, and much more. The second half of the episode is filled with "Man's Opinion" all about saying "I love you". The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: ...

#146 Being the Breadwinner w/ Dee Guerreros

July 14, 2022 05:52 - 1 hour - 86.7 MB

Dee Guerreros joins Erica Spera to talk about the pressures of being the breadwinner when her husband lost his job, what the keys are to a happy marriage, why couples tend to stop courting each other, and some photography and self care tips.  PROMO CODE: SGS20 for 20% off Sunsetlakecbd.com Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/Sho...

#145 Polyamorous Family w/ Rachel Wright

July 07, 2022 06:34 - 1 hour - 82.9 MB

Rachel Wright (and one of her partners) joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about their Polyamorous Quad of 4; How do you raise kids in a polyamorous relationship? Is polyamory technically cheating? Can you ever Veto someone your partner wants to sleep with? How do you handle jealousy? and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full e...

#144 Do Men Ever Like their Girlfriend's Friends? w/ Jeff Wright

June 30, 2022 06:02 - 1 hour - 84.5 MB

Comedian Jeff Wright joins Erica Spera this week to talk about; Do Men ever like their girlfriend's friends? What are the "stages" of dating? How long does it take a guy who's interested to ask you out? How has life changed since becoming "TikTok Famous"? and much more. We finish the episode playing the viral "Scale of 1-10 Game" and an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full epi...

#143 PATREON PREVIEW! with Jourdain Fisher

June 16, 2022 03:30 - 56 minutes - 77 MB

Comedian Jourdain Fisher joins Erica Spera this week for an exclusive Patreon Preview. The second half of this episode is available on Patreon only, join here for extra episodes, discounts, giveaways and NSFW content.  Join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us: Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Jourdain Fisher: instagram.com/jfishercomedy // Podc...

#143 Patreon Exclusive! with Jourdain Fisher

June 16, 2022 03:30 - 56 minutes - 77 MB

Comedian Jourdain Fisher joins Erica Spera this week for an exclusive Patreon Preview. The second half of this episode is available on Patreon only, join here for extra episodes, discounts, giveaways and NSFW content.  Join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us: Erica Spera: https://www.instagram.com/spericaa // Jourdain Fisher: instagram.com/jfisherco...

#142 Why Do People Cheat? w/ Emma Willmann

June 08, 2022 23:29 - 51 minutes - 70.8 MB

Comedian Emma Willmann joins Erica Spera this week to talk about; What is the real reason people cheat on their partners? Why ADHD people are more likely to cheat? Where is the line in lesbian friendships? Why are lesbians friends with their exes more often than straight people? and much more. We finish the episode with Emma sharing one of her "shooting his shot" moves and an exclusive Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreo...

#141 Do Men Compare You To Their Ex? w/ Andrew Licout

June 02, 2022 05:26 - 1 hour - 87.1 MB

Andrew Licout joins Erica Spera this week to answer all your questions. Could you see yourself in an open relationship? Do men compare you to your ex? How should you Shoot Your Shot? What are the top 3 qualities men value in women? and much more. We finish the episode with Andrew sharing one of his "shooting his shot" stories and an exclusive Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episod...

#140 Should you tell someone they're being cheated on? w/ Anthony DeVito

May 26, 2022 07:38 - 45 minutes - 62.9 MB

Comedian Anthony DeVito joins Erica Spera this week to share one of the craziest cheating stories we've ever heard. They also talk about first kiss nightmares, why a nice guy isn't necessarily the right guy, if you should tell someone they're being cheated on, and why Anthony likes that his partner is territorial. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview & make sure you check out Anthony's new stand up special on YouTube called "Brain Noise"!   Join the Patreon to support the show ...

#139 What Your Dad Never Told You About Men w/ Yannis Pappas

May 19, 2022 05:06 - 59 minutes - 81.1 MB

Comedian (and new Dad) Yannis Pappas joins Erica Spera this week to debate the book "101 Things your Dad never told you about Men". They discuss the real reason for why men lie, why time alone is important, how your sex life changes after a baby, why you should pretend to like the gift your partner buys you, what really makes your "husband" happy, and much more! The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://...

#138 No Fake Orgasms w/ Caitlin Peluffo

May 12, 2022 06:42 - 47 minutes - 65.8 MB

Comedian Caitlin Peluffo joins Erica Spera this week for a hilarious, wild ride. They debate some classic dating "rules", and Caitlin shares the moves that got her several boyfriends, how often couples have sex, why men like when you look "damp" in photos, what she misses most about being single, and much more! The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot PROMO CODE: SGS2...

#137 The IVF Process and Fertility Struggles w/ Casey Balsham

May 05, 2022 04:36 - 56 minutes - 78.2 MB

Comedian Casey Balsham joins Erica Spera this week to discuss going through the IVF process, how your fertility declines as you age, the importance of finding the right doctors, what the hormone shots and recovery is like, if you should freeze your eggs, and much more! The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview.  Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here:...

#136 Being a Transgender Woman w/ Jaye McBride

April 28, 2022 06:04 - 54 minutes - 74.7 MB

Comedian Jaye McBride joins Erica Spera this week to discuss her process of becoming a woman, when she knew she wanted to transition, what you should and should not say to transgender people, how things have changed since she transitioned 15 years ago, and what she thinks about transgender women playing sports.    Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https...

#135 Why Nagging Won't Get You Anywhere w/ Jared Freid

April 21, 2022 16:18 - 57 minutes - 78.5 MB

Comedian Jared Freid joins Erica Spera this week to discuss Steve Harvey's advice on Nagging, how to get your partner to do the things they don't want to do, and a man's opinion on how to prep for a beach vacation with your significant other's family. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview as well. Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://ww...

#134 Can you really be Friends with an Ex? w/ Lev Fer

April 14, 2022 07:20 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MB

Comedian Lev Fer joins Erica Spera this week for more of a "Patreon Style" episode. They debate what boundaries you should have with your exes, if you can still be emotionally available while being friends with your ex, where the line is between needy and narcissistic, and they debate if who's apartment you spend time at more holds the power in the relationship. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview as well.   Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes...

#133 Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man w/ Oscar Aydin

April 07, 2022 06:21 - 45 minutes - 62.5 MB

Comedian Oscar Aydin joins Erica Spera this week to discuss the blowjob chapter from the book "Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man". Oscar shares some of his own tips and tricks, how much you should communicate with your partner, and why it's ok to ask your partner about their hygiene habits. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview.  Get extra exclusive episodes & your questions answered by Erica on the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episode...