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Sh*t Women Think About

39 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 months ago - ★★★★★ - 176 ratings

Sh*t Women Think About is hosted by Aishia Deal. A weekly Podcast that covers dating, sex, love, relationships, parenting and more, from a woman's perspective.

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S*HIT WOMEN THINK ABOUT

December 02, 2023 22:02 - 14 minutes - 20 MB

Relationship aren't together on both sides with across all nationalities. There's a sense of resentment and I have feeling that I know why. Take a listen to the podcast and let me know your thoughts.

The Science Behind A Broken Heart

February 26, 2023 19:43 - 19 minutes - 19.2 MB

The Science Behind A Broken Heart 

Teem Us

December 22, 2022 21:24 - 17 minutes - 17.3 MB

Teem Us

Peace That Passes All Understanding

November 28, 2022 20:32 - 22 minutes - 21.1 MB

Peace That Passes All Understanding.

"SEX.. RELATIONSHIP.. SLOW DOWN"

July 13, 2022 18:10 - 9 minutes - 9.06 MB

"SEX.. RELATIONSHIP.. SLOW DOWN"

Why is everybody so got damn mad???

March 15, 2022 16:36 - 20 minutes - 19.6 MB

Why is everybody so got damn mad???

'Life After Love" means you were in love, that person played a significant role in your day to day life.

February 25, 2022 22:09 - 22 minutes - 21.1 MB

Now that they're gone, it's like you are getting a new life in which you have to focus on yourself.

"Pop Up Pod" Experationship

January 26, 2021 09:00 - 22 minutes - 10.8 MB

Why do people hold on to a relationship—ignoring their own misery—even when they know it's over? the biggest sign you're in a dead-end relationship is when there's inequity of effort i.e. one member of the relationship is working much harder to maintain the relationship than the other. Long story short, a dead-end relationship is one you're hoping could go the distance but it can't — and it won't.

"Pop Up Pod" Situationships

January 13, 2021 09:00 - 16 minutes - 8.33 MB

A Situationship is that space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship. On the one hand, removing the pressure of putting parameters on what the relationship is and isn't can be freeing – as long as both parties are okay with leaving things open. On the flip side, not knowing where you stand can be detrimental, especially if one party wants more of a commitment. This vagueness often leads one person to feel uncertainty and rejected.

Pop Up Pod: 10 SEX COMMANDMENTS

October 02, 2020 08:00 - 24 minutes - 22.9 MB

It is my personal belief that you cannot have a good relationship without good sex. How you connect physically is incredibly indicative of how you connect emotionally. We guard our emotions the same way we guard our physical imperfections – and if we can expose both to our partner, we can connect on a deeper level. Part of this requires communication and work as a couple, but it requires equal parts of honesty and work within yourself.

Pop Up Pod: Why Do We Want People Who Won't Love Us Back?

September 11, 2020 08:00 - 14 minutes - 14 MB

Have you ever spent hours trying to decode the behavior of a love interest and end up lashing out out of frustration and confusion? You're far better off focusing on living your life than trying to understand someone who doesn't care as much as you do.

Pop Up Pod: "F*ck Disappointment"

September 02, 2020 08:00 - 14 minutes - 14.3 MB

There are certain things in life that no one can teach us. We must experience many situations for ourselves in order to better understand what it means to be human. Disappointment vs Heartache they may sound the same but somehow the pain of disappointment can hurt worse than heartbreak.

"Horny Much?": Why Sexual Energy is Reaching its Peak During Quarantine

April 08, 2020 08:00 - 10 minutes - 5.4 MB

Sexologist say it's normal in a pandemic to experience an increase in libido. Millions are drawn towards sex because they want to feel close & secure, it's an anxiety-fueled dopamine kind of high. Sexual desire can be enhanced (often significantly) by unpleasant emotions like anxiety, guilt, and anger, fear and grief. One can argue that these emotions can be aphrodisiacs in the right degree, at the right time, and under the right conditions.

Is the Love of Your Life in Your Friend Zone?

March 13, 2020 08:00 - 12 minutes - 6.22 MB

It's considered to be one of the biggest perils of modern heterosexual dating: ending up in the “friend zone.” As most of us know, the friend zone is a place that romantic intentions go to die: but what if I told you your person might possibly in your own backyard? Join @aishiadeal as she explains how the love of your life might be in your friend zone.

"Pop Up Pod" How To Argue Without Ruining Relationships

January 17, 2020 09:00 - 13 minutes - 6.88 MB

If you “win”, then your partner “loses”, and do you really want to make your partner into a loser? I hope not. Avoidance and passive-aggressivity are immature behaviors still, conflict and disagreements are an inevitable part of life. You can’t avoid your issues, so that’s not an option. And over the long run, the way you argue can make or break a relationship. So our only genuine option is to work through them. Join host @aishiadeal as she goes in depth about how to argue without destroying...

Dating Narcissism

October 24, 2019 08:00 - 34 minutes - 16.6 MB

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a condition characterized by severe lack of empathy for others, selfishness and and excessive need for admiration. It can be hard to spot some narcissistic qualities in someone your dating. Join host @aishiadeal and guest @jeromePVA as they discuss how to identify a narcissist, how to cope with loving a narcissist and how to walk away from a narcissist.

"Pop Up Pod" Life After Love: Letting Go & Moving on

October 11, 2019 08:00 - 22 minutes - 10.9 MB

Holding on is like believing that there's only a past; letting go and moving on is knowing in your heart that what's coming is better than what left. A lot of men and women find comfort in familiarity and justification, even when its rooted in a negative experience. Join host Aishia Deal as she details why not knowing how to let go has no real benefit and why there's so much power in letting go.

Relationship Dynamics with Derrick Jaxn

August 29, 2019 08:00 - 49 minutes - 23.1 MB

Host Aishia Deal and Self Love Ambassador Derrick Jaxn discuss the current state of the dating culture as well as the importance of being realistic and optimistic when picking a partner.

"Pop Up Pod" The Real Deal About Ghosting

August 15, 2019 00:18 - 12 minutes - 6.36 MB

The end of a relationship or potential relationship can be hurtful but being ghosted hurts more. Listen as Aishia breaks down ghosting, the psychology behind why people ghost & how to cope with being ghosted.

Self Love in the Age of Pop Culture

August 02, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 30.9 MB

Aishia Deal is back and kicking off Season 3 of "Shit Women Think About" by unpacking some of the latest pop culture headlines and how this new era has so many people in an emotional state of arrested development. Join @aishiadeal and Author and friend of the show @jackie.elam as they discuss some fun facts and hard truths about self love in the age of pop culture.

"Pop Up Pod" No Label Dating

May 16, 2019 23:43 - 8 minutes - 4.35 MB

Ask yourself... "can I flip a switch and date free of feelings?" that means no strings attached, no added responsibilities and no expectations... Upon first glance it sounds alluring and exciting... However, no label dating can potentially come with a lot more drama than what is expected. Listen as Aishia breaks down dating with no labels in 7 mins or less.

What's The Big Deal? Aishia's take on Ayesha Curry

May 09, 2019 08:00 - 33 minutes - 16.1 MB

Join host Aishia Deal and guest David Daniel as the discuss the desire for attention outside of your relationship, the importance of a "hoe phase" and what we all have in common with Ayesha Curry.

"Pop Up Pod" Physical Attraction vs Connections

May 02, 2019 08:00 - 8 minutes - 4.33 MB

"POP UP POD" The Real Deal About Physical Attraction vs Connections  Bi Weekly 5 min pod segments where Aishia Deal goes in depth discussing The Real Deal about various topics.

Dating as a Millennial

April 05, 2019 08:00 - 34 minutes - 16.5 MB

If you're now in your 20s to mid 30s you're a millennial. From ghosting to lurking..dating has proven to be anything but easy for this particular generation. The large selection of social media apps to the multitude of options in your DMs.. leave me to ask... on a scale of pretzel to ocean, how salty are you about your millennial dating experience?? Join host Aishia and guests December, Isabella and Jajuan as they discuss dating as a millennial.

Cheating

March 15, 2019 08:00 - 42 minutes - 20.1 MB

  Why do people cheat? what actually constitutes cheating in a relationship? and can a couple can ever come back from one partner being unfaithful, well.. it's not so black and white. Join @aishiadeal and guest Sean _@kush_ as they discuss some of the common reasons why some men and & women cheat and the importance of being honest about why you're entering committed relationships to begin with.

R Kelly

March 08, 2019 09:00 - 50 minutes - 23.8 MB

Join host Aishia Deal and former editor in chief of King Magazine Sean Malcome as they discuss the Clarys and Savages trading their daughters for potential fame, R Kelly's God Complex, Jocelyn and Azriel denouncing their parents and deny being brainwashed, and what's next for R Kelly..

Ep13 - 3 Guys and a Girl

February 21, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour - 41.4 MB

Three guys and a girl walk into a podcast studio... Join host Aishia Deal and The Dad Presents Podcast in a hilarious crossover episode where no topic if off limits... parenting, politics, sex and so much more!

Ep12 - Depression

February 15, 2019 09:00 - 42 minutes - 19.9 MB

More than 15 millions Americans a year struggle with depression, an illness that comes in many forms. Join host Aishia Deal and her guest Albert Butler @albbdman as they discuss how to identify depression, how Albert handles the waves of sadness and where he finds inspiration to push forward and inspire others to stand up to depression.

Ep11 - Toxic Masculinity

January 24, 2019 09:00 - 43 minutes - 20.8 MB

What is Toxic Masculinity? with Tayo Rockson

Ep10 - Girl Talk w/Africa Miranda

January 18, 2019 09:00 - 28 minutes - 13.9 MB

  While we're focused on one thing, the other is getting away. Join host Aishia Deal & guest Africa Miranda as they discuss family, relationships, career and the importance of learning to unlearn the societal norms that are projected on to women.

Ep09 - Toxic Parenting & Family Secrets

January 10, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour - 34.3 MB

  Toxic Parenting & Family Secrets can emotionally injure us as children and re injure us as adults in ways that make growth and recovery difficult.  Sh*t Women Think About is back! join host Aishia Deal and guest @IamVetta as they discuss the many ways childhood heartbreak and disappointment can negatively affect adult relationships, the importance of accepting the apology you may never receive and how sometimes working on yourself is all it takes to heal and move on.

Ep08 - Gender Roles

November 29, 2018 09:00 - 53 minutes - 25 MB

Do you subscribe to traditional gender roles in dating and relationships? Just as our technology has evolved, have our perception of gender roles evolved as well? Host Aishia & guest @Phillytheboss as they breakdown the mindset behind traditional gender roles.

Ep07 - Dating Miscommunications

November 12, 2018 09:00 - 44 minutes - 21 MB

Host @aishiadeal and call in guest @Comup discuss common misconceptions, misjudgment and miscommunication in dating.

Ep06 - Dating In The Age of Social Media

October 26, 2018 08:00 - 29 minutes - 40.8 MB

Where does virtual lurking end and dating begin? As the lines between private and public become more blurred, so does our perception of what online dating is. Aishia's back with Trill AC to discuss the pros and cons of dating in the age of social media.

Ep05 - Freestyle Friday: WTF Brittney Renner?

October 19, 2018 21:00 - 1 hour - 33.3 MB

Aishia and co host Jackie discuss Brittney Renner's book, their views on kissing and telling and how far is too far when it comes to seeking attention and validation?

Ep04 - Romance & Finance

September 30, 2018 23:48 - 1 hour - 35.1 MB

This battle of the sexes is good! guests Hollywood and Tunisia Offray go head to head in a discussion about dating and money. When does money come into play? who pays on a date? how do men view helping a woman financially? and does sex hold the same weight as money? This is an episode you don’t want to miss!

Ep03 - Let’s Talk About Sex

September 30, 2018 23:46 - 56 minutes - 26.6 MB

Aishia and guest host Jackie Elam get candid about sex. Have you ever wished to be a fly on the wall during “girl talk”? Well now you can.. Listen in as these two friends discuss sex and sexuality from a woman’s perspective.

Ep02 - Dear Aishia Q&A

September 30, 2018 23:44 - 18 minutes - 9.01 MB

Host Aishia Deal answers questions submitted via social media 

Ep01 - Introduction

September 30, 2018 23:39 - 8 minutes - 4.46 MB

Host Aishia Deal kicks off episode 1 with a heartfelt introduction.