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Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

152 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 months ago - ★★★★★ - 1 rating

Witty, gritty and uncensored, Can't Keep My Mouth Shut by award-winning content creator Nixalina explores all the stuff nobody wants to talk about, focusing on sex, dating & love.

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Episodes

End of Year Wrap Up - Goodbye 2023 & Season 7!

December 18, 2023 08:41 - 14 minutes - 19.6 MB

It's been a damn whirlwind of a year for me and yet I am so thankful for all of the experiences 2023 brought to my front door.  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

Nixalina's Enchanted Ball of Eden - A New Year's Eve Masquerade in Singapore

December 11, 2023 09:55 - 16 minutes - 22 MB

This New Year’s Eve, join Nixalina, The Orientalist Spirits and the newly opened Pullman Singapore Orchard for a one-night-only Masquerade: The Enchanted Ball of Eden. On 31st December from 9:30pm until 3am, Nixalina will take over the 5-star hotel’s entire Level 4, transforming the 3-concept space, including the outdoor pool, into a decadent Italian ball, inspired by the magical Venetian gardens of old. Enjoy a welcome complimentary flute of Nicolas Feuillatte Champagne, a reception l...

In a world obsessed with ANTI-Aging, do I wish I was 25 again?

December 04, 2023 10:11 - 14 minutes - 20.1 MB

Short answer? No I don't. Long answer? Nooooooooo, I don't. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

Exploring my Multicultural Relationship in Singapore

November 27, 2023 06:56 - 21 minutes - 29.1 MB

​Well well well, who could have called this one?  It's the plot twist none of us saw coming!  For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

I Only Have a Boyfriend, Because I Didn't Want a Boyfriend

November 20, 2023 08:06 - 16 minutes - 22.7 MB

It's the plot twist NOBODY saw coming. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

Do Yourself a Favour - Delete ALL Your Dating Apps

November 13, 2023 10:47 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MB

I promise you, it's the right move. Let me tell you why... ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

10 Tips to Ace a First Date

November 06, 2023 09:32 - 19 minutes - 27.1 MB

If you want to ensure you bag yourself date number 2, or 3, or even 4...you need to make sure you leave the right first impression on the first date. Allow me to help you out, with my 10 easy tips on getting the green flag!  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my  Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

"I Wanna Marry Rich" Girl, No.

October 23, 2023 09:31 - 16 minutes - 22.5 MB

Can we all just move past the obsession with money for 5 damn minutes and take a look at the human behind the bank account instead?  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

7 Years of Singapore: Pros & Cons of Expat Life

October 16, 2023 08:20 - 21 minutes - 29.2 MB

It was a life I was absolutely not prepared for.  And I'm so glad! ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.  

My Vagina is on Strike - And I Love Her for It

October 09, 2023 10:15 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

It wasn't a conscious decision.  It was my vagina's decision. One must respect the vagina. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.  

My Dungeon of Desire: A Haunted Affair this Halloween

October 02, 2023 07:19 - 12 minutes - 17.4 MB

Dare to descend into the eerie depths of the century-old Alkaff Mansion's Dungeon, where an unparalleled Halloween party awaits. In the Dungeon of Desire, dimly lit corridors decked with cobwebs and flickering candles beckon, as a DJ spins sinister beats. Underneath ancient stone arches, mingle with devilish dark souls dressed for the mystical and macabre. Don your most enchanting and chilling attire and join us for a night steeped in thrills, chills, and captivating fright. Event Deta...

Nix's 13 Rules to BUM FUN

September 25, 2023 13:28 - 20 minutes - 28.7 MB

Just because she has a big juicy ass, does not mean she has a big ass-hole.  Did you learn nothing in Biology? 7 seasons in, I've finally opened up the can of worms that is - anal sex. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Don't Let Loneliness Choose Your Partner

September 11, 2023 09:30 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MB

Allow me to explain, from my personal experience, how this is the worst thing you can possibly do - and yet we all do it, often subconsciously, A LOT. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Dude, You Gave Me The Ick - 15 Things NOT to Do When Dating

September 04, 2023 10:13 - 23 minutes - 32.1 MB

Sigh. Just when it was going well - he went and gave me the damn ICK. Here's my list of 15 things that immediately put me off a guy in the early stages of dating. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Rumination after a Toxic Relationship - You’re Being Punished TWICE

August 28, 2023 09:12 - 16 minutes - 22.7 MB

Toxic breakups are harder to recover from than normal, it's just fact, sadly. What makes it even HARDER, is that you might end up stuck in a rumination loop that starts to damage your mental health. Let's delve into what this is, what it does and how to get over it.  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide...

One-Night Stands - Are They Worth It?

August 22, 2023 04:09 - 17 minutes - 23.3 MB

Are they mindblowing spontaneous epic sex with a stranger, OR, are they awkward, embarrassing, regretful rubbish sex where you wish you could forget the entire thing? Let's discuss one night stands shall we!   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Dudes & Dating Apps - 10 Reasons Why I’d Swipe LEFT

July 24, 2023 11:03 - 22 minutes - 30.9 MB

Point one...OMG point one. It infuriates me. STOP DOING IT. Point 8 isn't a f*cking vibe either.  ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

15 Red Flags to Look Out for in Relationships, Part 2

July 10, 2023 11:00 - 13 minutes - 18.2 MB

Aim of the game? Get wind of the red flags BEFORE you get in too deep, and then run a mile in the opposite direction. Let's go! ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

15 Red Flags to Look Out for in Relationships

July 03, 2023 10:36 - 19 minutes - 27.3 MB

Aim of the game? Get wind of the red flags BEFORE you get in too deep, and then run a mile in the opposite direction. Let's go! ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

10 Ways to Engage your Phoenix Energy, the Nixalina way

June 12, 2023 10:10 - 23 minutes - 32.9 MB

Where are all my fellow Phoenixes at?   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

20 Signs He's a Fuckboy

May 29, 2023 11:14 - 31 minutes - 42.6 MB

Why is the world breeding fuckboys like there's some fuckboy farm out there making billions for every fuckboy let out into society? ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

How I Deal With My Private Life Being in The Public Eye

May 22, 2023 11:32 - 22 minutes - 31 MB

It's interesting, to say the very least. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

I Don't Love You Anymore

May 15, 2023 11:00 - 19 minutes - 26.6 MB

It suddenly came to me (call it a shower thought, if you will)  They teach us all how to love, but they don't teach us how to STOP. We need to discuss the ability to stop loving people. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Storytime: Sex So Good it Matted my Hair Together

April 17, 2023 11:00 - 11 minutes - 15.7 MB

I swear, 'stuff' just happens to me.   Ridiculousssss stuff.   This is a story of aforementioned stuff.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

My 10 Lifestyle Changing Tips from Experiencing a Solo Wellness Retreat

April 10, 2023 11:00 - 33 minutes - 46.3 MB

​​I just felt, how do I say, 'stuck' and needed to reconnect with my inner self, which is why I took myself off to REVIVO Wellness Resort in Bali for a wellness retreat. It was my first ever wellness retreat and I had no idea what to expect, but it exceeded all my expectations.   Check out what happened during my stay there and my life-changing takeaways from my trip.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my d...

Never Have I Ever...Had a Threesome

April 03, 2023 11:00 - 13 minutes - 18.9 MB

Spoiler alert...I have. And I don't regret it.   ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.  

Singapore: Losing all the GOOD Women because of the SHIT Men

March 27, 2023 11:00 - 19 minutes - 26.5 MB

I have had it with this negative narrative of men treating their women like rubbish.   I am fed up of women emigrating to other countries because they cannot find true love on this island, as the main stories that run on repeat is the women being f*cked over. These are high-value women too, being treated appallingly by absolute losers.   I. AM. OVER. IT. ​​  ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital p...

Want to Get Fit, Love the Beach, Ocean & Want Instagram-worthy Shots? Enter, Sentosa

March 23, 2023 11:00 - 16 minutes - 22.6 MB

If you adore fitness classes but fancy something different, why not head to the beach on Sentosa and workout against a stunning sunset or sunrise? Check out all the classes available and book online here: https://islandhappenings.sentosa.com.sg/Activity   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my ...

Toxic Relationships: Your Firefighter is also the Arsonist

March 20, 2023 11:00 - 16 minutes - 22.7 MB

"You open the door to the firefighter, and the next day you wake up next to the arsonist." Toxic relationships is well up there on the list of my favourite topics to discuss.   Today, we're looking at the CYCLE of toxic relationships and how people remain stuck in them for yearssssssssssss.   ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over ...

Struggling with Modern Dating & Breakups? Bestselling Author Daniel Chidiac is Here to Help

March 13, 2023 11:00 - 49 minutes - 68.2 MB

I had the pleasure of catching up with Daniel Chidiac, the best-selling author of 'Who Says You Can't? You Do' and 'The Modern Break-up', to talk about the trials and tribulations of writing a novel, finding career success in the unknown and navigating break-ups and dating in this modern world.    ​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head ov...

Confessions of a Dominatrix - We talk BDSM, Subs, Kink, Shibari & Femdom

March 06, 2023 11:00 - 39 minutes - 54.8 MB

I sit down with Ashley - one of Singapore's Dominatrix - and we delve into the world of BDSM, femdom, Shibari and allllllll things KINK. Enjoy everyone! For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

‘Cookie Jarring’ – The Dating Trend that’s NOT Sweet

February 27, 2023 11:00 - 27 minutes - 38.1 MB

What's the difference between just dating multiple people in the early stages (which is totally fine) vs cookie jarring? How can you work out if you're stuck in a cookie jar? What does it even meannnn? Allow me to enlighten you all...  ​​​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Nix’s 6-T Tips on Giving a Mindblowing Blowjob

February 20, 2023 11:00 - 15 minutes - 21.1 MB

​​ We have 6 'T' tips here that I believe, if used correctly, can lead to a fantastic blowie. Don't take my word for it, ask my exes.   Time - Tongue - Temperature - Talk - Two Balls - Tightness   Let's get down, shall we? Pun intended. ​​​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Single This Valentines? My Top 10 Tips to Find Your Soulmate

February 13, 2023 11:00 - 23 minutes - 32.9 MB

I hope these tips help you if you're wanting to find 'the one' ... or even just to give you an emotional boost over the romantic valentines period.  ​​​​​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DM

Hedonist Girls Talk: Couples That Play Together, Stay Together

February 06, 2023 11:00 - 28 minutes - 39.7 MB

Jacqueline Kee from Singapore's sexual wellness brands Hedonist & Genvie talks to me about the introduction of toys into the bedroom and why toys are actually a fab way to ensure your sex life keeps getting better and better. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Cluster B Personality Disorders to Avoid When Dating – Narcissist, Histrionic, Antisocial and Borderline

January 30, 2023 11:00 - 36 minutes - 49.9 MB

​In my opinion, this stuff needs to be included in school education. For your own help and understanding, I've detailed the cluster B personality disorders that make for toxic relationships that may cause you long-lasting trauma and damage.   My advice? Run for the hills.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Ti...

10 Tips On How To Bag The Guy (And Keep Him)

January 23, 2023 11:00 - 20 minutes - 28.6 MB

Do you find that often as soon as you like a guy, he seems to distance himself? Do you struggle to secure second or third dates? Are you fed up of never being the girl they want to chase?   Fear not, here are my 10 tips to help you secure your desired man.    ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide...

Boys Are Like Boomerangs – They Always Come Back

January 16, 2023 11:00 - 18 minutes - 25 MB

​But...but why?   Is it real regret and remorse? Or is it purely for a quick shag? Let's explore why boys ALWAYS come back.  ​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

I Wanna Normalise Giving Blowjobs (Open Up Ladies)

January 09, 2023 10:00 - 13 minutes - 19 MB

Is there a running theme that women don't realllyyyyy like giving blowies?   Are blowjobs a much-needed part of a great sex life between you both?   Do I personally believe in blowjobs? Let's open up (oi oi) and discuss!   ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

10 Tips To Help You Make 2023 YOUR Year!

January 02, 2023 11:00 - 21 minutes - 29.5 MB

COME AT ME 2023!!! ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Are You Newly Single This Christmas? Listen To This

December 19, 2022 11:00 - 12 minutes - 17.6 MB

Christmas can be a time of heightened loneliness and sadness for we singletons. But I say nay, let's make it FUN FUN FUN. ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

How Long Should It Take For You To ‘Heal’ And Move On?

December 12, 2022 11:00 - 14 minutes - 19.5 MB

Is there a designated timeline to healing from heartache? When is the right time to move on?   ​​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Lovebombing vs The Honeymoon Phase – Is it Healthy or Unhealthy?

November 28, 2022 11:00 - 22 minutes - 30.4 MB

Oushhhh it's a tricky tricky thin line this one. Dating someone new is complex as is, let alone trying to understand if you're with a good soul or a toxic manipulator.   Are they lovebombing you aka tricking you into loving them? Or is this the genuine happy honeymoon period of authentic love? Let's try distinguish between the two shall we?   ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina....

Being Single in Your Mid-Thirties: The Good, The Bad & The Outright Ugly

November 21, 2022 11:00 - 23 minutes - 31.7 MB

Who else has found themselves single in their mid-thirties, unexpectedly? Do you find it so very different to dating in your twenties? We need to talk about it - I've got A LOT to say.   For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

Stop Wanting A Man - Because Then You'll Get One

October 31, 2022 11:55 - 12 minutes - 16.8 MB

Honestly, it's the law of attraction. Google it if you don't believe me. It just works...trust me on this.  Besides, I swear men can smell 'needy and desperate' 40 miles away.

Nixalina, WTF Happened To You???

October 17, 2022 12:15 - 17 minutes - 23.5 MB

The answer to this question is not what you'd expect, I assure you. Tune in to find out exactly what the f*ck has happened to me.

Storytime - "He's My Fingering Game-Changer"

October 10, 2022 11:36 - 15 minutes - 20.8 MB

4 times. Did you hear me? I said 4 TIMES. 

Ghosted You? Then Respect The Dead

October 03, 2022 10:28 - 18 minutes - 25.2 MB

Wave that disrespectful mofo off and don't let them back into your life.  

How The F*ck Has CHEATING Become "Normal"?

September 26, 2022 11:00 - 29 minutes - 40.6 MB

I am OVER it. OVEERRRRRRRR it. What do I need to do or say to stop people cheating on their significant other?  Since when did cheating become a fricking badge of honour for people to boast about?

Normalise Women Wanting Casual Sex Too

September 19, 2022 12:36 - 16 minutes - 22.6 MB

Why shouldn't we want casual sex too? Why shouldn't we enjoy sex for the sake of sex too? Why should men assume we immediately want exclusive relationships if we want sex?