If family is defined by the people whose DNA I share, then I'm definitely related to thousands of men out there. Finding your chosen family, passing on your wisdom, and leaving the space better than when you found it is the central idea of Michael Dumlao's book, The Wisdom of Guncles. We discuss what it means to be a guncle and have a little kiki on our similar experiences of growing up as the immigrant gay Filipin-hoe in toxic masculine Western society. Embrace your roots, babe!Follow Michael's socials!Instagram: @michaeldumlaoWebsite: thewisdomofguncles.comBuy his book here______________________________________________________________________________How to support this show and help keep the show free!Use code SEX ED WITH TIM (no spaces) at any of the below sites for awesome discounts!Find a fun new toy at Le Wand and b-Vibe for 20% off site wide!Kink closet need a glow up? Head to dalekuda.com for 25% off your entire purchase plus free shipping.Go to goodforher.com for 10% off your order of any toys online. Ships worldwide!And check the affiliates below!Fuck like a porn star with these PornHub Toys.Need a brand-spankin' new sex toy? Find your fun with Lovehoney.Want to enhance your oral sex experience? Naturally change the way you taste with Taste Vita.Find the lube that's right for you at pjur.______________________________________________________________________________Email: [email protected] early access, ad-free episodes and more, support the show through PatreonFollow Tim on all social media!Instagram: @sexedwithtimFacebook: Sex Ed With TimTwitter: and @sexedwithtimVisit my website See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.