Episode 53: Motherhood, Domination, Squirting, Polyamory, Etc., Etc.

An interview with SinAstasya, a kinky BnB host, mother, dominatrix, polyamorous experimentalist

With all her kinky interests, Sin is actually in a vanilla relationship for the last 9 years (male). However, she has other partners outside that relationship, including a regular girlfriend is submissive. Basically, she’s poly and her partner is not…

So what is it like being a sexually open woman raising a daughter? Does she show about your profession? What is the sex education like at home? She leaves squirting books around, condoms; very open. What about masturbation? She puts a lot of things in her daughter’s bathroom and let’s her check them out at her own pace; porn, toys, etc…

How did she get into being a dominatrix? Burlesque was the entry point, but there was more money in being a dominatrix. She is attracted to the power of sexuality and it allows her to experience control, play with both genders and satisfy her sadistic side.

Dominating as a profession vs. dominating in a personal relationship? Clients are a more clinical experience, with relationships it’s more evolved and deeper.

Next a little detour into her dominatrix equipment and sex furniture, specifically a bench that a friend made for her. Said bench is covered with vinyl because she is a squirter so….

Now for the squirting talk! HYDRATE beforehand, and be prepared to fart in someone’s face when you squirt. Wait, what? Her recommendation is to get comfortable doing it by yourself first, and to do so she suggests stimulation from both the inside and outside and aim for the back of the clit from the inside!

Of course I have to take this opportunity to ask for her guidance because I feel so close!

How does she make her poly lifestyle work within her relationships? Her vanilla partner is monogamous and does struggle with the situation. He doesn’t like seeing the equipment or body marks and prefers not to know; he does tolerate the other partners. And she and her girlfriend are totally open and both bisexual. Also they play with other partners together. Her poly lifestyle was the natural evolution of discovering she was bisexual plus the added influence of reading and friends pointing things out.

Her own sex education began with the discovery of her mother’s toys though she was fairly conservative till she hit 30 and began exploring her sexuality and body with more intention.

Beyond the furry world, what other things is she interested in trying? More bondage — suspension and the like

Detour to talk about blood as a limit and the contradiction being a female who bleeds [via menstruation].

In discussing the timing of her interactions with her girlfriend, it comes up that they see a “BBC” together so I inquire into the importance of this gentleman being black and how and if race plays a part in her preferences or activities.

As we finish up, my guest would like to remind listeners to look her up on FetLife [here’s her profile] if they are interested in her kinky BnB or services as a dominatrix.

Extras
The connector: Lotta / “Alotta” from Episode 41: “Alotta” Experience, Love And Experience
Another referral, ”John” from Episode 51: Sex Magic And Pussy Whispering