Episode 19: Fetish Play Vs. F*cking

An interview with “Blue Topaz,” or “Blue” about fetish play versus sex

Show notes:

Blue is engaged and sexually monogamous with fiance, who is also in kink scene

Some history of Blue’s involvement with kink and vanilla relationships / The boundaries and agreements about kink vs. sex with fiance and other people

Needle play is something Blue does with other people

Rope play is something fiance does with other people

Fire play is something they do together with other people

More about fire play

Subspace described

How and when she subs or doms

What kink is really about and how she got involved in the scene

About munches

Safety and consent among kink / swingers

Where the play happens

About her bisexuality and how it works within her relationship with her fiance and kink play

More about her vanilla relationship past

Public openness about involvement in the kink scene

More about needle play

Even more details about fire play

The luck of finding her kinky partner

The nature of kink relationships — being open right off the bat

New kink interests on the horizon: Fire floggers on wish list / Kink registry for wedding!

A note about kink people: They are normal and fun! / Join us! / Explore but be safe

The respectful nature of kinky folks as opposed to "normal" / vanilla folks

LINK: Blue’s profile with videos of the fire play and examples of other kink play