Sex Chat for Christian Wives
171 episodes - English - Latest episode: 17 days ago - ★★★★★ - 801 ratingsFour Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.
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Learn About His Body (Quickie)
April 02, 2024 23:32 - 1 minute - 2.21 MBThis week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.
What's So Great About Sex?
March 26, 2024 18:57 - 23 minutes - 31.8 MBYou've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in! Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun....
Undress for Your Husband (Quickie)
March 19, 2024 18:58 - 1 minute - 1.04 MBIn this week's sex tip, Chris talks about undressing for your husband as a sort of foreplay that helps both of you.
Sex Drive & Genetics, Erectile Problems, and Missing Sleep for Sex (Listener Questions)
March 14, 2024 03:22 - 26 minutes - 36.8 MBToday, we tackle listener questions about whether low sex drive might be genetic, as well as how to address lack of desire; dealing with a husband's erectile problems; and what to do about a husband who disrupts a wife's sleep for sex. Sponsor Share the Soap goat milk aromatic bath and body skin care Sex Chat Special: Order Face Serum, get Lip Balm for free! Enter code FCWSPRING at checkout (through March 31, 2024). From the Bible Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. S...
Quickie: Learn About Your Body
March 05, 2024 18:35 - 1 minute - 1.89 MBThis week's Sex Chat Quickie is about learning about your own body.
Prioritizing Sex
March 01, 2024 03:17 - 27 minutes - 37.3 MBWhat does it mean to prioritize sex? What does that look like in a real-life marriage, especially in a real-life marriage and when there are obstacles to sexual intimacy? From the Bible Do not deprive one another—except when you agree for a time, to devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again; otherwise, Satan may tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 (CSB) Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have...
Ask Your Spouse (Quickie)
February 20, 2024 22:15 - 1 minute - 1.36 MBWe're launching a new feature of the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast—Sex Chat Quickies! On the weeks between our full-length episodes, one of our hosts will bring you a quick sex tip. This week's tip is what to ask your husband.
Q: Ask Your Spouse
February 20, 2024 22:15 - 1 minute - 1.36 MBWe're launching a new feature of the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast—Sex Chat Quickies! On the weeks between our full-length episodes, one of our hosts will bring you a quick sex tip. This week's tip is what to ask your husband.
7 Years, Lessons Learned, and a Big Change
February 13, 2024 17:25 - 20 minutes - 28 MBIt's hard to believe that we started this podcast seven years ago! Today, we're giving updates about our endeavors, talking about lessons learned, and announcing a few changes, including one big announcement. From the Bible Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice. Proverbs 27:9 Resources The Healthy Dinners Toolbox - podcast listeners can save 50% by using the code FRIEND50 at checkout. Podcast Bingo Card 5 W...
Sharing Some Sad News
November 30, 2023 20:31 - 5 minutes - 7.22 MBPsalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We are mindful of this promise as we share sad news about the unexpected death of Chris Taylor's husband. Please listen and consider how you can help. Support Any amount is appreciated. Thank you! Fundraiser for Christel Taylor: Grateful for Doug Taylor (gofundme.com) To send a check directly: Chris Taylor c/o Cullom UMC 103 E. Van Alstyne PO Box 264 Cullom, Illinois And if ...
Stocking Stuffers for Married Couples
November 22, 2023 00:00 - 26 minutes - 24.6 MBWe carry on our annual tradition of sharing Christmas season gift ideas with stocking stuffers that are sweet, surprising, sensual, and sexy! Happy holidays, everyone. Sponsors Share the Soap Married Dance Gift Ideas Sweet Framed Photo or Memento from Early in Your Relationship TableTopics Couples Question Game TableTopics Date Night Our Bucket List Adventures: A Journal to Plan Your Life Dreams as a Couple and Celebrate Your Favorite Memories Keto Christmas Desserts Co...
What About Sex Toys?
September 27, 2023 17:31 - 24 minutes - 33.6 MBOne of our earliest episodes addressed sex toys, but we haven’t talked about it in a while. And yet, it’s one of the most often asked questions. Are they okay? How to use them? How not to use them? We cover that ground and more. And stay tuned to the end for our special announcement. Sponsor Married Dance Christian Sex Toy Store (Nudity-Free, Discreet Shipping) From the Bible “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anythi...
Listener Questions - Depriving, the Mess, and When It Can't Happen
September 14, 2023 01:01 - 28 minutes - 26 MBOnce again, we're answering your questions! Today, we'll cover three topics: what does "deprivation" really mean (1 Corinthians 7:3-5), dealing with the messiness of sex, and when sex cannot happen. Sponsor Share the Soap has a September Special for our listeners! Buy a Face Set (face renewal, eye gel & facial soap) and get a free lip balm. Put the face set & lip balm of choice in the cart, then add coupon at checkout: FCWFS. Helps skin transition to the Fall! From the Bible The husban...
Fact or Fiction: Sex Edition
August 30, 2023 02:25 - 24 minutes - 33.7 MBSubscribe to our upcoming newsletter HERE! Recorded while still on our retreat in Nashville, Tennessee, we're playing a game and invite you to play along! Inspired by a board game in the Airbnb where we stayed, Chris and J present trivia questions about sex and test how much we "sexperts" really know. DOWNLOAD YOUR FACT OR FICTION PRINTABLE! Sponsor Married Dance online Christian sex toy / marital aid store 13% off sitewide for Labor Day with code LD23 at checkout. From the Bi...
Things Not to Do During Sex
August 16, 2023 00:16 - 22 minutes - 21 MBWe have often shared tips of things you can do to enjoy sex more, but today we're going to talk about things not to do. In this episode, we address 6 things not to do during sex. Sponsor Hot, Holy & Humorous Intimacy Cruise From the Bible My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources Enough, Already | The Forgiven Wi...
Love Languages & Sexual Intimacy
August 01, 2023 12:25 - 31 minutes - 43.3 MBYou’ve probably heard of love languages, or maybe you haven’t. But when minister Gary Chapman noted that spouses often communicated love past one another, he realized that we express love in different ways. So, he proposed that there are five love languages—and his book of the same name became a bestseller and perennial favorite. Today, we’ll talk about those languages and what they mean when it comes to our favorite topic: sex. Sponsor Get 20% off the new CBD skincare and bath & body li...
Emotional Labor and How it Affects Sexual Interest
July 18, 2023 21:31 - 40 minutes - 37 MBThe term “emotional labor” has come to mean the emotional cost of outwardly acting with composure when inwardly we are feeling something different. Rose Hackman, an expert on emotional labor describes is at the editing work of emotions that someone would do in order to have an effects on the emotions of someone else. Today, we want to talk about emotional labor and how it can negatively affect sexual interest. Sponsor MarriedDance - Christian sex toy store - Nudity-Free, Discreet Shipping...
Creating Fireworks in the Bedroom
July 04, 2023 13:51 - 27 minutes - 38.5 MBWe’re recording before the American Independence Day, but this episode will air on July 4th—a time when fireworks displays can be found all over the country. But what about the explosive power of lovemaking? How can you create fireworks in the bedroom? Sponsor From Share the Soap, check out the new quarterly subscription box! And for FCW listeners only, use coupon code FCWJuly and get a free lip balm. Put the Celebrate box and the desired lip balm in the cart, apply the coupon, and the l...
What's Up with the Penis?
June 21, 2023 16:30 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBAbout this episode Today we're talking about the penis. What exactly is it? How does your husband feel about it? How do you feel about it? And how can you get comfortable and have fun with it? Sponsor Click here to learn more From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 Resources Diane Kelly: What we didn't know about penis anatomy | TED Talk Oral Sex Webinar - Sex Chat for Christian Wive...
Sex for Busy Moms
June 08, 2023 23:33 - 32 minutes - 45.1 MBToday's episode focuses on a group of women who often struggle to enjoy sex or prioritize sex in their marriages – busy moms. This group includes women across a wide range of ages and life stages 0151from those caring for infants and toddlers at home to those juggling all of the activities, demands, and worries involved in raising teenagers. We talk about some of the things that get in the way of busy moms enjoying sex in their marriages and share some ideas for creating a more enjoyable sex...
Why We're Against Porn and Erotica
May 31, 2023 04:03 - 33 minutes - 46.1 MBToday, we're discussing pornography and erotica, and you can probably guess where our collective opinions land. But we want to explore this topic just a little further to solidify where your values land. Sponsor Strong Wives - Coaching & Sexual Clarity Course Email Bonny: [email protected] From the Bible So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 (NLT) I will conduct the affairs of my house ...
Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm
May 17, 2023 02:45 - 32 minutes - 30.2 MBAbout this episode One of the most frequent questions we hear is how can we more easily achieve the ultimate moment with our husbands in the bedroom. So today, we are talking about practical tips to reach orgasm. Sponsors Venus Pearls This episode is also sponsored by Married Dance, an online Christian sex toy store From the Bible Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine. Song of Songs 1:2 Eat, friends, and drink; drink your fi...
What We'd Tell Your Pastor (About Sex)
May 02, 2023 16:24 - 29 minutes - 40.1 MBWhile some Christian leaders and churches address the topic of sex well, too many either mishandle it or ignore it altogether. We here at the virtual kitchen table have heard the stories, good and bad. And we’re bringing our collective wisdom today to share what we wish more churches knew about sex and how to encourage church leaders to talk more biblically, authentically, and respectfully about it. Sponsor SHARE THE SOAP: Its purpose is to provide you with the essentials you need in a w...
Q&A - Sex Tips, Fantasy, Refusing Sex & Elusive Orgasm
April 19, 2023 02:19 - 26 minutes - 36.7 MBIn this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold of an elusive orgasm. Sponsor J. Parker is hosting an online conference for higher desire wives! It's coming up on April 29, 2023 and features six speakers addressing our common-yet-challenging situation. You can attend live, part-live and part-recorded, or all recorded on your own time. But REG...
Perfectly Imperfect - Real Women, Real Bodies
April 06, 2023 16:53 - 31 minutes - 43.8 MBWe’re back at the virtual kitchen table, and today we’re talking about our bodies. That is, women’s bodies—what real women look like, how we view our bodies, and how we can care for and embrace those bodies that we bring into the marital bedroom. SPONSOR Share the Soap - natural skin care, aromatherapy, and more! Also, the Hot, Holy & Humorous cruise. FROM THE BIBLE For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully ...
Your Body, Your Health, and Your Sex Life
March 22, 2023 01:27 - 37 minutes - 51.1 MBToday we’re talking about your health and health habits and the ways they can affect your sex live. As you know, we’re not medical professionals, so we won’t be talking about specific health conditions or medical advice. Instead, we’ll focus on the kinds of healthy habits that almost every woman can establish in her life and the ways that those habits might affect her body and sex life. Sponsor Hot, Holy & Humorous Couples' Cruise - October 14–21, 2023 Cruise, connect, and cultivate bet...
Sex Scheduling 101
March 07, 2023 18:11 - 26 minutes - 36.5 MBToday, we are discussing sex scheduling. This is a term we throw around in our kitchen table conversations, and yet it’s been a while since we devoted a whole episode to this controversial topic. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap for sponsoring this episode! Check out their wonderful, natural skin products. Great for gifts or self-care. Also sponsored by the Hot, Holy & Humorous Cruise, coming October 12–21, 2023. From the Bible There is a time for everything, and a season for every...
God, Sex, and Your Marriage, with Dr. Juli Slattery
March 01, 2023 03:20 - 42 minutes - 58.7 MBDr. Juli Slattery, the co-founder of Authentic Intimacy and author of numerous books, joins us at the virtual kitchen table to discuss some topics found in her latest book, God, Sex, and Your Marriage. Sponsor Venus Pearls Vaginal Comfort Suppositories, formulated to relieve vaginal dryness and enhance sexual response. Buy 2 Get 1 with coupon code B2G1 Also sponsored by Married Dance, an online Christian marital aid store from a Christian husband and wife. From the Bible (in order of ...
The Spectrum of Sexual Desire
February 09, 2023 05:10 - 31 minutes - 43.8 MBWhen it comes to sexual interest, we tend to talk about which spouse has the higher or lower drive. Whichever you are, it can be helpful to understand where the opposite is coming from. So today, we’re going to illuminate what desire is like for the higher drive wife and lower drive wife—recognizing that this can help us better understand our own spouse’s perspective and be advocates for one another! Sponsor Thank, Share the Soap! For a limited time, buy a date night set and get a bon...
When the Relationship Gets in the Way of Sex
January 23, 2023 03:02 - 26 minutes - 24.8 MBAbout this episode For women, sexual interest tends to be affected by many different factors. Of particular significance is the status of our marital relationship. When things are going great in your overall relationship with your husband, sex can feel like an easy and natural extension of that relationship. And what about when things aren’t going so great? It’s normal to have ups and downs throughout the life of your marriage—but how does this affect your sex life, and what can you do ab...
What About Quickies?
November 29, 2022 16:08 - 26 minutes - 36.7 MBQuickie can be used as a noun or adjective to simply mean “something done or made in a hurry.” When it comes to lovemaking, quickies are drive-through sex, rather than the full meal or feast we might prefer to have. But quickies in a marriage can serve a positive purpose, and today we talk about when and how to incorporate them into your marriage, as well as when not to. Sponsor LIMITED-TIME OFFER! Use coupon code FCWQUICK at Share the Soap and get 30% off anything (whole cart) except me...
Holiday Gift Ideas for Wives and Couples
November 16, 2022 16:45 - 25 minutes - 34.5 MBAbout this episode Welcome to our 6th annual Christmas episode! With Christmas only 6 weeks away, we want to help ease your mental load. So, today we are sharing some gift giving ideas that link to our favorite past episodes. These gifts are in the categories of: Something you want Something you need Something you wear and Something you read! And of course, the gift ideas we offer are something that can enhance the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Sponsor Special for our liste...
Sex, Stress, and the Holidays
November 01, 2022 16:09 - 35 minutes - 49.2 MBIt’s hard to believe, but today we’re going to start talking about the holidays. By the time we publish this episode, most of us will have started thinking about the upcoming holiday season. What does that have to do with sex? Just this—the six or seven weeks from mid-November until New Year’s Day are some of the busiest and most stressful of the year for women. And we know from previous episodes (and you likely know from your own experience) that stress can mess with your libido and your ...
How to Do Oral Sex
October 19, 2022 17:19 - 31 minutes - 28.9 MBAbout this episode We hear from many wives who say they struggle with giving oral sex. In episode 42, we looked at the big picture of oral sex and discussed what God has to say, health concerns, and how a couple can work through their disagreement about oral sex. This episode is for wives who are ready to start giving their husbands oral sex or who want to get even better at it. We’re going to get into some specifics here. So, friends, pull yourself up close to our virtual kitchen table an...
God and Your Sex Life
October 05, 2022 01:16 - 25 minutes - 35.4 MBFor many, sexuality and sexual experience are compartmentalized away from God. Today, we want to invite you to sit with us as we discuss how God is interwoven throughout every area of our lives, including (and most importantly for this podcast) our sexual intimacy with our husbands. Sponsor VISIT THE STORE TO LEARN MORE! From the Bible Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23:4...
Sexual Arousal
September 21, 2022 14:24 - 18 minutes - 17.4 MBSexual arousal describes physiological and psychological preparation for a sexual encounter and intercourse. Today, we talk about what it feels like, what gets in the way, and how to enhance your sexual arousal. Sponsor CLICK HERE TO BUY OR LEARN MORE! From the Bible Let him lead me to the banquet hall, and let his banner over me be love. Strengthen me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am faint with love. His left arm is under my head, and his right arm...
4 Mindset Hacks that Can Lead to Better Sex
September 06, 2022 21:05 - 28 minutes - 39 MBToday, Bonny and Gaye share fresh ways of thinking about changes you want to make in your sex life and offer practical tips for taking small, positive steps in that direction. Sponsor CLICK HERE TO BUY OR LEARN MORE! Also sponsored by Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples! From the Bible Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8 Song of Solomon: Solomon’s Song of Songs - Bible Gateway Resources Embrace Uncert...
Best of Summer 2022: Bonny's Pick
August 23, 2022 10:28 - 30 minutes - 42.1 MBThere are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want wives to know about sex. From the Bible What does God have to say about sex? But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. – Galati...
Best of Summer 2022, Chris's Pick
August 09, 2022 21:56 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBAbout this episode We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable being naked with our husbands. Why is having a positive body image such a challenge for women? What can we do to combat messages that make us feel worse about ourselves? Do we have any responsibility to take care of our bodies? Despite how we feel about ourselv...
Best of Summer 2022, Gaye's Pick
July 26, 2022 20:49 - 25 minutes - 34.8 MBAbout this episode Today we’re talking about something that most women are thinking about at this time of year — taking better care of our health. If you’re like us, you’re probably thinking about getting in shape, eating a healthier diet, getting more sleep, or losing some weight over the next few months. And your reasons, like ours, are probably pretty straightforward — you want to look better. You want to feel better. You want to have more energy. And you want to avoid getting sick. B...
Best of Summer 2022: J's Pick
July 12, 2022 21:52 - 35 minutes - 49.4 MBToday we’re talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you’ll benefit from our conversation. Sponsor Learn more HERE. From the Bible What does God have to say about higher desire wives? “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his o...
How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex
June 28, 2022 19:26 - 30 minutes - 42.3 MBWe’ve talked a lot on this podcast about being able to discuss sex with your husband. And even have "more than one conversation," which is Gaye’s trademark advice. But today, we want to walk through the specifics. Whether it’s actually for small changes, an overhaul of your sex life, or something in between, how can you talk to your husband about sex? Sponsor Get your copy of Pillow Talk today! From the Bible Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bone...
The Orgasm Iceberg
June 15, 2022 10:07 - 28 minutes - 39.6 MBWhen God created women, He gave us an amazing gift—the clitoris! Its only purpose is our sexual pleasure, but many of us don’t know too much about this part of our body. In this episode, we’re going to help you learn about the wonderful clitoris. Sponsor Learn more about Venus Pearls! From the Bible For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well...
Simplify Summer for Better Sex
May 31, 2022 13:46 - 20 minutes - 18.7 MBAbout this episode In summertime, the living is supposed to be easy, but we often find it just as stressful and scheduled as the rest of the year is. In this episode we talk about simplifying your summer in ways that can improve your sex life. From the Bible Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6 So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be...
Listener Questions - Answered!
May 19, 2022 00:51 - 33 minutes - 30.7 MBAbout this episode Bonny and Chris answer questions about older kids knowing that their parents are having sex, responding to a husband's struggle with pornography, and discerning what is okay in the bedroom. Sponsor https://b-ltx.com/venus-pearls/ From the Bible Matthew 5:28 - But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Song of Solomon 2:3 - Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the you...
Non-Sexual Ways to Increase Intimacy in Your Marriage
May 03, 2022 22:58 - 27 minutes - 25 MBAbout this episode You probably know from your own marriage, or from observing other marriages, that non-sexual interactions can make or break a marriage. Today, we talk about why this is true and how we can leverage it to benefit our marriages. Sponsors Use coupon code SC10 for 10% off! Click to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Married Dance, a Christian-owned store for marital aids and sex toys. From the Bible Greet one another with a holy kiss. - 2 Corinthians...
Foundations of Sexual Intimacy
April 19, 2022 18:42 - 37 minutes - 51.1 MBOur listeners have varied experiences, and some may value knowing some basic principles from a physical and emotional perspective. So today, we're getting back to the foundations of sexual intimacy, including what we wish we'd known going into marriage. Sponsor Check out our special offer for women-owned businesses. From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no...
Flirting with Your Husband, with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer
April 06, 2022 00:58 - 36 minutes - 50.1 MBWith Bonny out again, we’re down one wife today, but we’ve invited not one but two other wives to join us at today’s virtual kitchen table. We’re so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, co-authors of The Flirtation Experiment, with us to discuss how flirting with your husband can lead to greater intimacy in marriage and the bedroom. Be sure to check out their book! Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics. This episode is also ...
Is Your Sex Life Boring?
March 22, 2022 19:51 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MBAbout this episode We’ve heard from many women that their sex life sometimes feels boring. Today, we talk about boredom in the bedroom and what to do about it. Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics. From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. – Song of Songs 7:13 Resources Study on sexual satisfaction linked to understanding sexual gr...
Is Sex a Need?
March 09, 2022 02:39 - 30 minutes - 27.8 MBHave you heard it said that sex is a need? We have too. Quite a few people talk about how a spouse can and should meet their mate’s sexual needs. Today we’re addressing that underlying assumption: Is sex a need? Sponsor This episode is sponsored by Strong Wives - Bonny Burns' Coaching Site. Also sponsored by Married Dance, a Christian, marriage-focused sex toy store. From the Bible And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus. – Philippian...