"...and these abusers, what their goal is, is again, to strip us of our autonomy. So as we keep giving, They keep taking, and so the boundary just keeps getting pushed and pushed and pushed and pushed.So then before you know what your car is being tracked, your computer's hacked. I mean, all of these technology things that happen that people don't even realize, you don't have to have access to someone's computer to hack their computer."

What is coercive control? And how does the Narcissist demonstrate it? And How do we protect ourselves personally and systematically through law?

Today I share a conversation with Dr. Christine Cocchiola

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Here are some key moments:

[10:07] Even the most astute of us can miss the signsWhat is coercive control? [12:12] We know that most domestic abuse is based on this coercive control and there's a pathology difference in abusers[13:57] Five states codifying, coercive control is a form of domestic violence or domestic abuse. Meaning there does not require physical bruising evidence, validating emotional abuse. We still have a lot of work to do! [14:15] Many victims are perfect prey [18:12] Evan Stark termed the phrase Coercive Control, in a book he wrote How Men Entrap Women[19:05]What is the Goal of the abuser?
[21:21] "Abuse is a choice. And many of us have experienced trauma and we don't go on and abuse. "[28:32] What is Victim subjugation?

Guest Bio

Christine is a DSW, LCSW and is a coercive control advocate, educator, researcher, and a survivor. She is a full-time college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years in Connecticut and also an adjunct instructor at NYU.

Her expertise is in the areas of intimate partner, violence, trauma, and child abuse, developing. And presenting workshops on these topics, both nationally and internationally. As a board member of the national coalition against domestic violence. And has supported policy codifying, coercive control.

And it has a small private practice, primarily serving victims and survivors of coercive control. She is the creator. Of the protective parenting program. Supporting protective mothers on their journey towards healing, their children.

www.drcocchiola.com

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