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Rendezvous Quickies

680 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 3 ratings

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Julie's Nerdy Proposal

September 16, 2021 00:10 - 1 minute - 1.6 MB

Julie's husband gave her the most romantic proposal she could have ever asked for. It was perfect for their nerdy love story. She was so happy she just had to call Simon and tell him the good news and details of how the fun went down. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love Story: Vanetta Met Him at a Wedding

July 08, 2021 21:35 - 2 minutes - 2.05 MB

Vanetta thinks she may have met The One at a wedding she just attended where she knew no one but the bride. During the reception she was feeling kind of awkward and lonely so she was sitting alone when a man came up and asked her to dance. He was in her words 'gorgeous' so she said yes. Before she knew it, it was two in the morning and they had danced and talked all night. The set up a real date and since her friends are sick of hearing about this guy she had to call in to gush about him t...

Do We Control Who We Love?

July 06, 2021 20:37 - 57 seconds - 913 KB

Leah wants to know if we have any control over who we fall in love with. Simon has many thoughts on this question but we also want to know what you think. Have you ever talked yourself into loving someone? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mischa's Guy Has Depression

June 29, 2021 20:50 - 2 minutes - 1.99 MB

Mischa has been chatting with a guy she met online and they really clicked and hit it off, she was even thinking that he might her next boyfriend but there's just one hiccup that she wasn't expecting. Out of the blue he told her that he is battling depression. Hear what Simon has to say about getting involved with someone who is trying to work out their mental health issues because no one should be made to feel like a therapist when they should feel like a lover and a partner. Learn more ...

Mistakes Women Make

June 24, 2021 21:49 - 1 minute - 1.07 MB

Aria emailed Simon to find out what little mistakes women might make on dates that turn guys off. She gets a lot of first dates but not second ones and she doesn't know what she's doing wrong. Turns out, Simon doesn't have some magical list to give out that will solve all of her problems. If only, it were that simple! Instead Simon gives her some great advice about turning that thirst for reflection inward to see if she is even into these guys before worrying if they're into her...take a li...

Cassidy's Boyfriend Said He'd Always Love His Ex

June 22, 2021 20:31 - 1 minute - 1.09 MB

Cassidy called in because she's concerned. She was talking with her boyfriend and he admitted that he would always love his ex. This seemed like a big red flag for her and made her feel insecure about her place in their relationship together. Simon gave her some practical advice, including some from his own perspective. Has this ever happened to you? Do you have an ex who you will always have a soft spot for? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See om...

Caroline's Husband Kicks Her in His Sleep

June 15, 2021 19:42 - 2 minutes - 2.24 MB

Caroline called in to ask some advice because she is concerned for her husband's health and quite frankly, her sanity. All night long while she's trying to sleep, her husband is kicking her under the covers and she can't take it any more. She confronted him and said he might need to see a doctor but he blew it off. She doesn't know what to do now, he won't see a doctor and she can't get a decent night of sleep. At her wit's end, Simon will save her. He knows what to do and how to approach h...

Her Boyfriend Plays Videogames While They Talk

June 08, 2021 20:26 - 3 minutes - 3.06 MB

Claire is in a long distance relationship and they have time set every day to talk on the phone and usually they do facetime. Lately, when they're having their calls Claire says that he's distracted playing a videogame with his friends (remotely in their own homes). They could be mid conversation and he'll tell her to hold on so he can 'kill this guy'. WHAT. Simon is having none of this. He suggested just flat out hanging up on him when he does this but Claire doesn't want to go nuclear. T...

Emma's Boyfriend Named His Privates...Yikes

June 03, 2021 21:29 - 3 minutes - 3.02 MB

Emma called in because she's a little creeped out by some behavior her boyfriend is exhibiting in the bedroom. She recently discovered that he has a nickname for his private parts and refers to it/them in the third person when they're getting into the zone for ooh lala and it's an instant turnoff for her. Simon actually had a very clear explanation for why he is likely doing this and it's so interesting to get a man's perspective on something like this. Listen in and let us know if you thin...

He Tracked Down Her Childhood Toy

June 01, 2021 21:17 - 1 minute - 1.74 MB

Okay well this guy just set the bar. Gabriella called in to tell us her beautiful love story about the time her boyfriend tracked down her favorite childhood toy to give her as a gift and wow, you just have to listen in to hear it. Have you ever given your partner a gift that you just knew would sweep them off their feet? What was it? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He Needs Ooh Lala Movies

May 27, 2021 19:41 - 3 minutes - 2.93 MB

Ashlynn's boyfriend needs ooh lala movies to get in the mood for real ooh lala. It makes her feel like she's not enough and that he needs the movies to really get into it. She'd tried to confront him before but he was not receptive to the conversation. Simon had a harsh way for her to force the talk again and hopefully he'll really hear her and they can have a fulfilling ooh lala part of their life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.co...

He Undermines Her Parenting

May 25, 2021 22:35 - 3 minutes - 2.81 MB

Sharon and her husband are not on the same page at all when it comes to how they want to raise their children and when he undermines her parenting style she feels like he doesn't value her as a mother and she definitely doesn't want to have any kind of ooh lala with him. Simon helps her out and they find the words that she needs to use to have her husband see what she's going through from her perspective. Have you ever had to assert yourself in your relationships like this, whether is be a...

Love Story: Shoshanna Has Her Cake and Eats it Too

May 20, 2021 21:42 - 2 minutes - 2.45 MB

She loves to bake and her boyfriend knows it so he set the entire day aside to bake a six layer cake and then eat it all day. But that wasn't it...he also went out and got a huge dinner from their favorite restaurant and surprised her with a delicious meal. Shoshanna has never had such a wonderful birthday from a partner, she just had to call in and share her romantic story with us. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for pr...

Keith's Girlfriend Posts Too Much

May 18, 2021 20:15 - 2 minutes - 2.35 MB

Keith's girlfriend loves to post on social media and it's starting to become a problem. He explained to Simon that he's proud of her and supportive since she's started to develop a sizable following but she's literally documenting everything she/they do and everywhere they're going in real time. It all boils down to, he wants some privacy but also he just wants some of his girlfriend back. How do you think Simon advises him to approach her? How would you handle something like this? Have yo...

Julia's Friend With Benefits

May 13, 2021 21:31 - 2 minutes - 2.6 MB

Julia is in a friends with benefits situation with a guy she sees once a month where they hang out and have a lot of great ooh lala. The problem is that she wants to see him more often. Don't get it twisted, she's not trying to have a relationship but she needs more that just ooh lala once a month. Simon works his magic to figure this situation out for Julia Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lena's Proof of Love

May 11, 2021 20:09 - 2 minutes - 2.08 MB

Just when Lena had stopped believing in love and decided that she was going to be happy living life as a single parent to her daughter she met her man who not only loves Lena but loves her daughter. Simon loves to say that there is no love without proof of love and this love story will have you believing that it's possible for everyone. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Elizabeth's Ghost is Back

May 06, 2021 21:28 - 1 minute - 1010 KB

Elizabeth dated a guy who ended up ghosting her but now he's back and she's wondering if she should give him another chance. What do you think Simon's advice was? Listen in and see what he thinks she should do. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He Doesn't Respect Her Boundaries

May 04, 2021 22:41 - 2 minutes - 2.13 MB

Tiana is in a new relationship and her guy doesn't respect her boundaries. She called in to ask Simon about not only setting boundaries but keeping them. He asks her what he's up to and she says it's little things like tickling her when he knows she doesn't like it and so on. Simon asks her a question that blows her mind and has her rethinking her ENTIRE relationship and whether or not she should even bother staying with this guy at all. Red flags at the beginning of a relationship are a w...

Love Story: Marilyn's Long Distance Boyfriend

April 29, 2021 19:34 - 2 minutes - 2.53 MB

Marilyn was able to make the jump from friends to a relationship. He lives in The Netherlands and he sent her his list of what he'd want in a perfect relationship and it was exactly what she wants in a relationship too. She feels like he's the one - listen to this beautiful love story, even Simon was stunned by this beautiful story. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cat Wasn't Into the Ooh Lala

April 27, 2021 20:30 - 1 minute - 1.07 MB

Cat called in because she wasn't sure if she should give her new guy a second chance after a really disappointing first time with ooh lala. Simon broke down why she might want to reconsider her stance depending on if the ooh lala was bad because he was selfish or if it was bad because he was nervous. Listen in...what would you do? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lindsay and Her Husband Are Too Busy With Their Kids For Each Other

April 22, 2021 20:32 - 2 minutes - 2.08 MB

Lindsay called in with a dilemma. She and her husband still love each other but are both very busy between work and having active teens who do sports and other things that the parents participate in. She wants to know if she and her husband should step back from the kid's schedules to spend more time together or wait until they are empty nesters in a few years to get the alone time she and her husband crave. Simon gives her some creative advice - listen in! Learn more about your ad-choice...

Tara Needs to Know

April 20, 2021 20:33 - 1 minute - 1.05 MB

Tara left us a voicemail asking Simon for advice - she got a wedding invitation for later this summer and when she showed the guy she was dating (as a hint that she'd like him to be her plus one) he replied with "lol, we'll see...." WTF does that mean?! Luckily for Tara, Simon speaks the language of men and was able to translate for her...the answer is not so good. Listen in and let us know if you agree with his analysis. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwo...

Love Story - Sky in a Poppy Field

April 15, 2021 20:17 - 2 minutes - 2.25 MB

Sky called in to tell us a romantic love story of a date she went on where they went to a poppy field, listen in and let us know if it's a date you'd like to go on. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nikki Wants to Date a Fellow Comedian

April 13, 2021 21:00 - 2 minutes - 2.76 MB

Nikki works as a comedian and has a crush on another comedian and is shy to make a move on him because the last time she dated a comedian it didn't work out. The business got in the way of her last relationship with her ex and she is bringing that baggage into the next one. Simon told her to check her intuition, listen to what she decides to do. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aaron Keeps Getting Rejected

April 08, 2021 23:11 - 2 minutes - 2.29 MB

Aaron is having trouble dating. He got up the courage to ask out his crush she rejected him. She said she loved him but couldn't date him. She didn't give him a specific reason so he called in to ask Simon for some advice on how to get out of this dating rut. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Angel is Bored

April 05, 2021 22:01 - 2 minutes - 2.57 MB

Angel is lusting over other guys but loves her boyfriend. She admits to Simon that she is fantasizing over other men - she looks but doesn't touch and wants some advice on how to keep the spark in her current relationship because she loves her man but needs some romance. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sidney's Boyfriend Has Covid

April 01, 2021 19:16 - 2 minutes - 2.54 MB

Sidney's boyfriend is isolating in a room in their home and she hasn't seen him in over ten days. To say she misses him would be an understatement. She called in to ask Simon for some way to flirt with him from behind closed doors. He advised her to think like a man and they got down to the nitty gritty...it may or may not involve some ooh lala pictures - take a listen. If you were in lockdown isolation quarantine, how could your partner cheer you up? Learn more about your ad-choices at ...

Was Shonda Ghosted?

March 30, 2021 20:41 - 49 seconds - 799 KB

Shonda went out on a date with a guy and texted him to go out again. It's been three days and he hasn't replied so she asked Simon what to do - listen in to hear his thoughts. Have you ever been ghosted? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Alaina is Worried They're Moving Too Fast

March 30, 2021 19:16 - 1 minute - 1010 KB

Alaina called in worried her current relationship is moving too fast. Simon told her to follow her intuition and gave her some great advice. Have you ever met someone and just known that they were the person you were going to be with forever? Simon says that women's intuition is never wrong. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Margaret's Fake Engagement Ring

March 28, 2021 23:11 - 53 seconds - 860 KB

Margaret found out her engagement ring is a fake and she's wondering what to do next, should she confront her fiancé and let him know he may have gotten scammed or even worse, does he know and is trying to pass off a fake as a real ring? Simon let her know exactly what he would want her to do in this situation - listen in and let us know what you would do. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love Story: Valentina's Chemo Love

March 25, 2021 22:42 - 2 minutes - 2.5 MB

Valentina called in with her beautiful love story. It truly sounds like a movie, she met a guy and they shared a very intense connection while she went through chemo and health treatments. His conversation really got her through. As Simon likes to say, 'keep the faith!' Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rosalia's Boyfriend Wouldn't Take Her to the Airport

March 24, 2021 20:15 - 3 minutes - 2.93 MB

Rosalia booked a trip to visit her family and when she was planning it her boyfriend offered her a ride to the airport so she wouldn't have to use rideshare. Fast forward to the days leading up to the trip and he hasn't confirmed anything with her and she ends up taking an Uber and now she wants to know if this is a red flag. Simon helps her out but what do you think, should she have been more confident and direct by asking him to take her instead of waiting for him to remember his casual ...

Anthony's eBay Surprise!

March 18, 2021 19:37 - 2 minutes - 2.03 MB

Anthony's girlfriend won a table on eBay but wasn't able to pick it up when the seller wanted so she thought she had lost out but Anthony had other plans....very sweet! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jerome Embarrassed His Girlfriend

March 16, 2021 23:15 - 1 minute - 1020 KB

This man should be so lucky to have a spicy girlfriend who dresses up for him in lingerie and sexy outfits to keep the ooh lala hot and what does he do? He LAUGHS! The audacity! Well, now he's in hot (or should I say cold) water with his girlfriend because she refuses to have ooh lala with him since he embarrassed her. Simon helps him out but I'm not quite so sure there is any way he can really recover from this blunder. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwor...

How Clare Met Her Husband

March 14, 2021 20:06 - 2 minutes - 2.02 MB

Let's start our week off with a sweet and romantic Love Story. Clare and her girlfriend were out at a restaurant having a great time and after a few drinks a handsome stranger came to their table to chat them up and now ten years later, they're married! The details make the story - listen in! Have you ever met someone in a bar or restaurant and had it turn serious? We want to hear about it! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listen...

Athena's Man Follows Instagram Thots

March 04, 2021 20:13 - 1 minute - 1.02 MB

Athena reached out to Simon because she discovered that her boyfriend is following provacative women on Instagram and it's making her feel insecure and uncomfortable. She's wondering if she should confront him or just let it go - listen in as Simon tells her when it's appropriate to make it a big deal. Have you ever had to confront a partner or have you ever been confronted about social media behavior? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudi...

Picking Fights for Makeup Ooh Lala

February 25, 2021 21:02 - 1 minute - 1.06 MB

Melissa's boyfriend likes to pick fights with her seemingly out of nowhere and she's starting to suspect he's starting these fights to work up some passion for makeup ooh lala. The problem is, she's tired of fighting and sees this as a red flag. Simon gives her some great advice on how to figure out if Melissa's boyfriend has genuine concerns/problems or if this his bizarre foreplay to get in the mood. Have you ever picked a fight just to get some ooh lala? Learn more about your ad-choic...

Love Story: Jill's Girlfriend Wrote Her a Song

February 24, 2021 21:19 - 2 minutes - 2.62 MB

This is so sweet! Jill and her new girlfriend were having a conversation about some things Jill was going through and her girlfriend really absorbed it and surprised her with a song about it. Jill was blown away by the tribute and felt like this new partner really sees and hears her. All I want to know is, can WE hear the song?? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jenny Feels Rejected

February 18, 2021 20:15 - 1 minute - 1.12 MB

Jenny's husband doesn't want to ooh lala as much as she does and it leaves her feeling like he isn't attracted to her. Simon has a plan to get her back in the game... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love Story: How Mary Knew

February 17, 2021 21:05 - 1 minute - 1.55 MB

We love a good Love Story and Mary delivered. It has everything - camping, declarations of love, and sunrises. Take a listen, doesn't this sound like it's out of a movie? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kyra Likes Her Boyfriend Better Drunk

February 11, 2021 20:12 - 3 minutes - 2.88 MB

Well...this is a first. Kyra's boyfriend has been drinking a little bit more and truthfully, she tells Simon that she prefers the 'buzzed' version of her boyfriend. She says he's more fun and loosened up and now she's worried that she's potentially enabling bad behavior and that it might be something to be worried about. Simon gives her great advice Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love Story - Joshua's Broke Date

February 10, 2021 21:46 - 1 minute - 1.38 MB

The most romantic thing Joshua has ever done was make a microwave dinner for a date. Yes, you read that right. He was in his early twenties and didn't have a lot of extra money so he bought some cheap microwave pasta dinners and managed to make it a beautiful date. There is a surprise twist that even Simon didn't see coming, listen in for a little romance! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is Gina's Boyfriend Cheating With His Ex-Wife?

February 04, 2021 20:50 - 3 minutes - 2.78 MB

Gina's boyfriend has a young son with his ex-wife and they seem to be on good terms. Maybe too good of terms... She's worried because her boyfriend never spends evenings with her instead choosing to have dinner every night with his ex and their son and often claims he 'fell asleep' after dinner. Simon advises her on what her next move should be. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Marie's Boyfriend Used Her Credit Card Without Asking

February 02, 2021 21:44 - 3 minutes - 2.95 MB

Oh boy. Marie called in to get some advice from Simon after finding out that her boyfriend 'borrowed' her credit card to buy cigarettes without asking her first. Now she's not sure if she can trust him moving forward. How would you have handled this situation? Have you ever had a significant other steal from you? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kristine's Boyfriend Isn't Romantic

January 29, 2021 20:51 - 2 minutes - 2.17 MB

Kristine has had it with her boyfriend. He's not making her feel wanted and every time she's asked him to step it up, he does for the short term but doesn't stick with it. Simon helps her sort out what to do. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Layla Wants to Reach Out to Her Ex

January 26, 2021 20:58 - 2 minutes - 2.68 MB

Stuck at home during the pandemic has Layla thinking about one ex in particular and she's debating reaching out to him for a few reasons. Simon helps her work through her feelings. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How Long To Wait For Ooh Lala

January 21, 2021 19:50 - 3 minutes - 2.82 MB

How long is too long? Simon and Melinda break it down when she called in for advice. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ophelia's Guy Has No Follow Through

January 19, 2021 22:09 - 55 seconds - 884 KB

Ophelia's stuck in a weird friends with benefits loop with her guy. He talks to her like they have a future but then nothing ever materializes, he never puts a label on it. She wants to know why he's doing that and if a commitment is ever actually coming. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Paige's Boyfriend Won't Make Space

January 14, 2021 22:01 - 2 minutes - 2.42 MB

Paige and her boyfriend are moving in together but there is one big problem. He wants her to move into his place and refuses to make room for her stuff. He doesn't want to find a new place and has started making weird comments that seem like red flags to her. Simon helps her figure out if this is a good step to take in their relationship. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trent's Girlfriend Won't Communicate

January 12, 2021 22:02 - 1 minute - 1.71 MB

Trent's girlfriend holds in her issues and concerns until they're boiling over and it turns into a huge blowout even if he asks her what's wrong. Simon gives him some great advice on how to rephrase that question, get her talking, and hopefully avoid future fights. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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