Are you struggling with the magnetic pull of an idealized lover? Wondering how to break free from comparing your significant other to this seemingly perfect person?

Fear not, as we reveal a powerful two-step process that will not only help you tear down that pedestal but also reclaim control over your thoughts and feelings.

Together, we'll explore the childlike part of ourselves that's stunted, and dig deep into our past influences on attraction.

We'll uncover the reasons for this enticing vortex by asking crucial questions about your idealized lover and understanding the connection points between them and significant people from your past.

Learn how to open yourself to Jesus with kindness, and see your idealized lover as a normal human being, regaining control over your life.

Don't let the illusion of perfection hold you back – join us in this eye-opening episode!

Ready? Let's dive in!

-- What We Discuss:

   00:02 - Tearing down the idealized lover.
   01:14 - How to unplug yourself from the vortex.
   03:18 - We all have ways that we do this in ourselves.
   04:27 - How to unplug the magnetism of romantic attraction?
   05:55 - Who does this person remind me of from my past?
   06:25 - What are the characteristics that you’re filling in about that person?
   10:38 - Look at who they remind you of.

-- Transcription: A Journey to Understanding the Roots of Attraction

-- Episode Resources:
    Regen on YouTube
    What We Do

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