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Real Talk with Life After Grief Chris

75 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 3 ratings

"Helping those in grief (and the advisors who support them) navigate financial matters."In 2008, at the peak of the recession, I lost my mother to cancer in August and my father to a broken heart in November. In 2010, my grandmother passed away after a stroke. Then a heart wrenching experience in 2012 of losing my oldest child.I became a financial planner in 2003 during the process of helping my parents in their declining health. In 2011, three years after my parents passed, I became a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ to better help families in need. In 2021, I became a Certified Financial Transitionist® to complete my personal and professional experience with formal education and scientific theory. My personal experiences and knowledge of grief and loss of loved ones helps me to understand and assist families enduring similar situations. I’ve helped over 400 families navigate many financial issues and life circumstances such as grieving loss of loved ones.

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Trauma is Personal

March 04, 2024 16:00 - 9 minutes - 6.87 MB

Welcome back to Real Talk with Life After Grief Chris.  We have made it to Season 6 with a tremendous amount of support.   This season is all about Trauma. On the heels of releasing a lot of information at the tail end of Season 5, I thought a natural extension would be a deep dive into trauma.   As trauma can very emotional and triggering, I am going to be very thoughtful as to any potential guests as I do not want to place on unfair burden on their journey. I will share my own experien...

Depression Sucks; You Deserve Happiness!

March 04, 2024 16:00 - 16 minutes - 11.4 MB

Depression is a subject not often talked about by men.  In this episode, I will talk about my experience with depression.  I also talk about how I identified periods in my life where I experienced depression.  With a ton of support and resources at my fingertips, I have a steady flow of positivity that helps me deal with extreme hardship and trauma.  You will hear ongoing habits that I have instilled to help me avoid emotional pitfalls that can lead to depression.   Here are a few of the re...

Trauma: Racism and Discrimination

March 04, 2024 16:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MB

Greetings and welcome to episode 4 of Season 6-Racism and Discrimination I decided to reboot a previous episode on the subject.  As I have gotten older, and maybe wiser, I understand the traumatic effects of dealing with years of unsolicited biases due to the color of my skin.   In this episode, I describe some horrible experiences I have had with racism and discrimination.  These experiences have been  both emotional and physically exhausting.  The trauma is constant as situations continu...

Daunting Effects of Trauma

March 04, 2024 16:00 - 11 minutes - 7.72 MB

Welcome back to Real Talk with Life After Grief Chris episode 2. In this episode, I go into further detail about trauma. Listen in as I provide a personal example as well as the emotional and physical effects. Trauma is not something we create, but something from which we recover.    I also provide a link, which details the dramatic effects on both the mind and body.  themind.org.uk  See you on the next episode. Cheers and be well.   Support the show Did you know you can now Help Us Co...

Emotional Effects of Trauma Through a Personal Example

March 04, 2024 16:00 - 10 minutes - 7.26 MB

Greetings and welcome to Episode 3.  In this week's episode, I use a personal example of a traumatic event to demonstrate its emotional effects.   I share the many emotional and physical effects of trauma. I share what trauma looks and feels like.   My hope is to normalize trauma and shed light on the subject. I hope you like this week's episode. Cheers and see you next week.   Support the show Did you know you can now Help Us Continue Making Awesome Content for Listeners Affected by Gr...

Allow Me to RE-Introduce Myself-- Real Talk with Life After Grief Chris

September 01, 2023 20:00 - 19 minutes - 13.5 MB

Allow me to Re-Introduce myself.....  I have been leading up to some very traumatic stuff that has happened in  life. I thought that I should lead up to the next podcast (where I fully disclose) with my initial  introduction before I could no longer hide what transpired.   Below is what I used to introduce myself on my inaugural podcast.  I am  both a financial planner to clients and consultant to other financial planners. I help clients and advisors navigate grief by providing deep insig...

Child Abuse & Infidelity: My Story, Pt. 1

August 31, 2023 19:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MB

I have been leading up to some heavy stuff this season.  I have also been told that my willingness to share my experiences with trauma could ultimately help others with theirs.  I am opening up about some of the traumas of my past.   Infidelity and Child Abuse are often taboo topics.  Unfortunately, I have trauma from both as they overlapped most of my life.  Take listen to my story.  If it resonates, I hope it helps you.  If you know someone that experiences any part of my story, please sh...

Child Abuse & Infidelity: My Story, Pt. 2

August 31, 2023 19:00 - 24 minutes - 16.9 MB

Coming on the heels of the first of a 3 part mini-series.  In last week's episode, I shared a surprise that would lead me down a dark path of discovery, highlighting significant traumas early in my life.   I've been told that my willingness to share will help others. If you are wondering if I received help dealing with these traumas----the answer is yes.  As I advise anyone of my grieving clients to seek the guidance of a trained professional, I did the same. In the spirit of the Super Sur...

Super Survivor Megan Kopka

August 28, 2023 18:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MB

Today I had the extreme pleasure of interviewing and learning from Megan Kopka, CFP®, CRPC®.  Megan is wonderful financial planner with a ton of experience in both life and career.  Megan is also a widow who had the daunting experience of being a caregiver for her husband, while raising two children.  Her ability to not only make it through the experience, but to help others in their journey, is truly remarkable.  I am honored to learn from her.  Megan mentions a wonderful organization o...

Grief Reminder vs. Grief Trigger

August 17, 2023 18:00 - 6 minutes - 4.5 MB

In today's episode I talk about grief reminders.  I want to be clear that grief reminders are different than grief triggers. I explore the technical definition by the Mayo Clinic. I also use a personal example of a grief reminder that I recently experienced. I also mention free resources for Grief Trigger support. If you like this episode, please free to pass this along to any friends, family members & colleagues. Cheers! See you on the next episode.   Support the show Did you know you...

Super Survivor Carolyn Moor

August 16, 2023 20:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MB

In today's episode I have the distinct pleasure of RE-Introducing Carolyn Moor.  Although she needs no introduction, Carolyn was the first to introduce me to the idea of Super Survivors.  She is well known as the founder and director of the Modern Widows Club. Today, I have the honor of picking Carolyn's brain in terms of what made her a Super Survivor.   We focus on 4 main areas: Choose Life:  live for the future, not in the past Reach out:  connect with other survivors—or in Carolyn's ...

Super Survivors Volunteer

August 15, 2023 12:00 - 11 minutes - 7.66 MB

Super Survivors Volunteer! Super Survivors Volunteer!! Super Survivors Volunteer!!!  I have spoken in previous podcasts about the power of volunteering.  In this podcast I talk about 10 definitive benefits of volunteering.  Furthermore, Super Survivors embrace volunteering in the format of striving to help others.  Here are the 10 benefits mentioned above: 1. Provides you with a sense of purpose You may be able to find your purpose through volunteering and becoming part of something great...

Child Abuse & Infidelity: Pt. 3 - My Brother's Story

August 08, 2023 18:00 - 27 minutes - 19.2 MB

In this final episode of season 5, I interview my brother, Mike.  His experiences coupled with mine bring our shared experience full circle.  Forgiveness is the key.  Looking at the bright side of life does make things better.  We survived with a lot of trauma along the way.  Our hope is that by talking about the hard stuff, it allows just one other person the ability to change the trajectory of their life. Please feel free to share this episode with anyone you think could benefit.   This ...

Brain Fog

July 25, 2023 02:00 - 12 minutes - 8.3 MB

In this episode we explore Brain Fog.  Simply stated, Brain Fog is the brain's way of protecting itself. Brain Fog  clouds memory function during times of grief, trauma or extreme stress.   Specifically, concentration and  mental acuity are affected.   I noted having a hard time juggling normal tasks without feeling overwhelmed.  I also seemed to forget things with regularity until the brain fog passed.   In my travels and seeking guidance from professionals, I have come across a very goo...

Lisa McFarland Super Survivor

July 10, 2023 19:00 - 43 minutes - 29.7 MB

In today’s podcast I have the distinct pleasure of interviewing Lisa McFarland.  If you recall I interviewed Lisa in Season 3.  Lisa is a mother who has thrived through significant grief from child loss, divorce and caring for a special needs child.  In our conversation today, we talk at length about her uncanny ability to become a Super Survivor. During her explanation you will understand the four areas in which Lisa has transitioned from a resilient survivor to Super Survivor. Lisa has d...

Super Survivor Donna Kendrick CFP®, CDFA®

June 29, 2023 20:00 - 45 minutes - 31.3 MB

I am pleased to introduce Super Survivor Donna Kendrick.  Donna was widowed in 2013.  Remarkably, she made Super Survivor status in her plight to make life easier for other widows after her own experience.  Donna found life after grief when she found new love and remarried in 2022.  She now enjoys an expanded family with six children.  Donna focuses on helping families in transition.   Donna has many resources available including her podcast,  Widow Wisdom and Wealth.  She has a very intri...

The Mindset of Resiliency: Inherited or Acquired

June 29, 2023 20:00 - 11 minutes - 7.93 MB

As we begin Season 5 with a bang, I have encountered so many strong, enduring and growth minded folks.  In this episode I speak about Resilience.  The power of resilience can be inherited and/or acquired.  In my case, I gained resilience through a combination of both.  Throughout this season you will hear me bring up the concept of Super Survivor.  I was fortunate to be introduced both to the idea and some pretty dynamic Super Survivors.  Some of the Super Survivor we meet have fought throug...

The Super Survivor Mindset

June 29, 2023 20:00 - 15 minutes - 10.5 MB

This episode is all about Super Survivors. A Super Survivor is an individual that faces tragedy head on, turns it on its head and makes use of the tragedy in a manner that helps others.   I talk about a book, which I will refer to periodically this season---Resilience: The Science of Mastering Life’s Greatest Challenges by Steven M. Southwick & Dennis S. Charney. On Page 230 we dive into what sets a Super Survivor apart from someone who is resilient alone. A Super Survivor: 1.  Faces Fac...

Complete Gratitude

March 27, 2023 19:00 - 9 minutes - 6.67 MB

In the final episode of Season 4, I would like to extend my complete gratitude to all guests, listeners and supporters of the podcast. In my wildest dreams, I  would never have  imagined that my experience, let alone my podcast, would be able to touch so many folks.   I have been told over and over that my podcast has given life, eased the burden, provided perspective and renewed faith in the lives of so many. In this episode, I highlight some of the most popular guests from my four season...

Learning from the Grief Smart Professional, Kathi Balasek, MA

March 20, 2023 17:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MB

In today's episode, I have an awe inspiring guest. Please meet Kathi Balasek, MA. Kathi is an educator, grief literacy communication coach, corporate consultant, university lecturer, speaker, podcast host, and widow advocate. She teaches professionals how to improve their grief literacy communication skills to best serve bereaved clients. I asked Kathi to be on the podcast, not only for her accolades, but for the compassion she brings to others during a major transition of widowhood. Kathi ...

Meningitis

March 13, 2023 11:00 - 14 minutes - 10.1 MB

In this week's episode I talk about my experience with Meningitis and the financial impact to my family.   I was in the hospital for 7 days as a child and the financial impact on my family was real. My mother was always a saver and put funds away for rainy days.  #Saving #financialawareness #emergencyfunds  Support the show Did you know you can now Help Us Continue Making Awesome Content for Listeners Affected by Grief! Thanks for listening! Follow us on twitter or follow us on Facebook. ...

Cheers from South Africa with Louis Van Der Merwe, CFP®, CeFT®

February 20, 2023 18:00 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MB

In today's episode, I am reaching across the globe. I am excited to interview a like minded financial professional all the way from South Africa. Please meet Louis Van Der Merwe.   Louis  a fellow Certified Financial Transitionist® and CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®, Podcaster, Financial Planner, husband and  father. Louis is unique in his practice as he specializes in working with clients who lost parents through death or divorce.  Louis is a family man—happily married and has a young daugh...

Therapist Turned Financial Planner, Elizabeth Snyder, CFP®

February 06, 2023 17:00 - 33 minutes - 23 MB

In this week's episode, I am delighted to meet and introduce a marvelous lady with a ton of wisdom, perspective and life experience. Please meet Liz Snyder, CFP®.  Liz is a former therapist, turned financial planner. I love her gentle disposition and the way she helps clients, unlike any other financial planner I have met.  Liz really dives deep with her clients, understanding how their emotions impact financial decisions. She goes well beyond simple financial matters. Liz also made refer...

Modern Widows Club with Carolyn Moor

January 23, 2023 21:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MB

In today's episode, I have the distinct pleasure of introducing Carolyn Moor. Carolyn needs no introduction as she is very well known even before this podcast. She is the founder and director of the Modern Widows Club. Carolyn's  organization grew out of 11 years of widowhood and the figuring out of resources on her own. Since 2011 her organization is known worldwide and helps widows immensely. Her website is https://modernwidowsclub.org/.  This organization helps to transform grief after l...

Hamsters and Grief

January 15, 2023 21:00 - 11 minutes - 8.22 MB

You heard that right!!! Hamsters and Grief. In this episode I speak about the opportunity cost of having a hamster in terms of children bearing the responsibility of caring for a living creature.   The opportunity cost for my son to learn responsibility the hard way after losing Otis, the hamster, twice was roughly $1000. The experience was priceless. Luckily for us, Otis has 9 lives.  The USDA estimates the true cost of raising a child in 2022 is between $15,438 and    $17,345. That amoun...

Hamsters and Grief: Meet Otis

January 15, 2023 21:00 - 11 minutes - 8.22 MB

You heard that right!!! Hamsters and Grief. In this episode I speak about the opportunity cost of having a hamster in terms of children bearing the responsibility of caring for a living creature.   The opportunity cost for my son to learn responsibility the hard way after losing Otis, the hamster, twice was roughly $1000. The experience was priceless. Luckily for us, Otis has 9 lives.  The USDA estimates the true cost of raising a child in 2022 is between $15,438 and    $17,345. That amoun...

Financial Steps for Widows

December 21, 2022 19:00 - 15 minutes - 10.8 MB

On the heels of an amazing episode with Carolyn Moor of the Modern Widows club, I thought it would be appropriate to share Financial Steps for Widows.  I break the steps into Emotional and Technical (Financial). Emotional.... As emotions drive decision making, I encourage all grievers to give themselves space to breathe.  Let your emotions out.  They are normal.   Surround yourself with positive people and positive energy.   Know your grief counseling status. Financial.... Connect wit...

Sibling Loss, Effects and the Far Reaching Impact

December 15, 2022 19:00 - 10 minutes - 7.41 MB

In this week's episode I touch on a subject matter not broadly discussed--Sibling Loss. I discuss this subject from the point of view of my own children and that of two dear friends who have also lost a child. This is a sensitive topic, which forced me out of my comfort zone. Through my discovery, there are clear signs siblings display during their struggles with grief. I located a fantastic website that discussed in detail the signs and impact on a sibling who has lost a brother or sister....

Marriage and Child Loss

December 15, 2022 19:00 - 10 minutes - 7.4 MB

In today's episode I dig headfirst into a very sensitive topic -- Marriage and Child Loss. I wanted to start out the podcast with a powerful resource for any parent facing child loss. https://marriagemissions.com/childs-death-changes-everything/  I also wanted to provide a list of tips from the resource above. You Become Different People after Child Loss Work together in grief Most Couples Worry -- allow space History Together is important Determination to Stay Together You’ll Griev...

Brian Thompson, JD, CFP ®--The Mission Driven Man serving a new generation of LGBTQ+, mission-driven entrepreneurs

December 13, 2022 21:00 - 29 minutes - 20.5 MB

I have the pleasure of introducing Season 4 with a rockstar. Please meet Brian Thompson, JD, CFP®  of Brian Thompson Financial (BTF). He is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ and tax attorney.  Brian runs a truly unique firm, but I will get to that in a bit. Brian and I have both struggled as African American brothers in the financial industry. We have both persevered and achieved happiness in our own lives, which has translated to success for the clients we serve. Brian and I dig deep into ou...

Introducing Dillon Cobb of Simply Human Advisors

December 08, 2022 21:00 - 32 minutes - 22.7 MB

In this week's episode, I have the pleasure of introducing a fellow griever and financial planner. Meet Dillon Cobb of Simply Human Advisors. Dillon's firm was born out of the tragic loss of his best friend. The loss was tragic and affected two families deeply with many repercussions. Simply listening to his story brought tears to my eyes.  Dillon has a passion for helping others around him with a bit of southern charm. Once you hear him, you will understand his southern charm.   Dillon is...

Debt Survivor Turned Coach, Elizabeth Ramos

September 20, 2022 19:00 - 27 minutes - 18.6 MB

In week's episode, I have a special guest who has come from some very humble beginnings.  Meet Elizabeth Ramos, MBA.  Liz also holds a Master of Science in Management and Leadership.  Liz is also a Certified Master Financial Coach.  On today's episode Liz talks about her own struggles as a single mother amassing huge amounts of debt in order to support her and her son.  Her story is both unique and inspirational as she describes the emotional rollercoaster debt has brought her.  She has made...

Surrounding Yourself with Good People

September 07, 2022 17:00 - 18 minutes - 13 MB

In this final episode of Season 3, I discuss "Surrounding Yourself with Good People." This very concept has taken me years and a lot of grief to truly understand. As I navigated the grief journey through baptism by fire, I realized that not everyone was a good fit for my life going forward. Through the process, I had to eliminate certain individuals who brought no positivity to my life. I also had to further engage those who could create exemplary influence in my plight to help others naviga...

Overwhelm, Fog and Confusion

August 15, 2022 12:00 - 11 minutes - 7.81 MB

In this week's episode, I speak about one of the most common by products of grief--Overwhelm, Fog and Confusion. I describe what Overwhelm, Fog and Confusion is, how to combat it and how to display empathy to someone in this situation. If you have ever experienced this daunting phase of grief you completely understand what I am talking about. If you like this episode, please feel free to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or where you listen to podcasts. Please feel free to pass this pod...

Role Modeling

August 15, 2022 12:00 - 17 minutes - 12.2 MB

In this week's episode, I talk about a chance encounter in which I was asked to mentor a young boy some 20 plus years ago. This chance encounter forged into a brotherhood. The brotherhood turned into a situation where the young boy turned into a man and would pave the way for his brothers, creating better life circumstances. I am talking about my younger brother from another mother, Ronald Street.     I was ignorant that I was always being watched as a young man. The faith and values my par...

Dealing with Minutia

July 18, 2022 19:00 - 15 minutes - 10.7 MB

In this episode I discuss  "Dealing with Minutia". I share personal examples of things that have gone on in my life and I how I dealt with minutia, especially in times of grief. I also share mindsets when entering situations where minutia tends to sidetrack you. Also, I provide steps to deal with minutia and ways to either eliminate, or place it on the sideline.    Here are the steps that I have researched and personally practice: 1. Choose your battles   2.  Let go of instant rage 3.  F...

Dependent Benefits After the Passing of a Loved One

July 18, 2022 19:00 - 17 minutes - 12 MB

In this week's episode, I answer questions as it pertains to dependent employee group benefits after the passing of a loved one. As we enter the time of year where benefits are renewing, I thought this episode would be very helpful.   The passing of a loved one can be daunting enough. Figuring out what to do, who to contact and options to chose going forward can be overwhelming.  I discuss general areas of benefits and make them unambiguous. I also discuss who to contact and possible resou...

Advisor's Guide to Grieving Clients

July 18, 2022 19:00 - 18 minutes - 12.8 MB

In this week's episode I get to showoff an online education program I built several years ago,  "The Advisor's Guide to Grieving Clients." I built this program as a self-paced tool for advisors and non-financial types. The idea was born and came to fruition as advisors continuously sought me out for my expertise in working with grieving clients. Grieving clients also encouraged me to teach their advisors how to work with them comfortably. I had close friends who gave me a hard time for year...

Recent Widows Need Financial Guidance

July 12, 2022 13:00 - 16 minutes - 11.7 MB

A 3 part mini-series of tips for widows has been created due in part from a lot of feedback from good listeners like you. In this third episode, I focus on specific tips when seeking financial guidance from a professional. I provide information on what a fiduciary is, why it is important and how to find one. I also provide credentials of professionals who are certified in both financial planning as well as financial (life and money) transitions.  I give commentary on asking plenty of questi...

Widowhood Timelines

July 11, 2022 14:00 - 11 minutes - 8.28 MB

I wanted to follow up on last week's episode with some extended tips. If you recall, on last week's episode I had Daniel Kopp, CFP®, MA on the podcast discussing his experience gaining a new identity after the death of his spouse.   As a follow up, I wanted to provide a list timelines for widows. These timelines provide loose guidelines of things to consider immediately after the passing of a spouse. These timelines also consider who to engage for help, who to notify and what documents to b...

A Mother's Grief with Lisa McFarland

July 11, 2022 14:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

In today’s podcast I introduce Lisa McFarland. Lisa is a mother who has thrived through significant grief from child loss, divorce and caring for a special needs child. You will hear her story and how her experiences have shaped her life, inevitably to help others. Lisa allows us to witness her raw emotions and struggles as she has traveled to the other side of grief. She shares her real life journey as she continues to thrive through relationships, her career and passion for life. In a pre...

Grief and Incarceration

July 11, 2022 14:00 - 17 minutes - 11.8 MB

On today's podcast I discuss a new topic to me---Grief and Incarceration. I recently came in contact with a few clients who have experienced incarceration within their family. From an outsider's perspective incarceration of a family member can certainly lead to grief.  Depending on the length of prison sentence, a sudden family member's incarceration can lead to traumatic grief as if an individual died. The incarceration of a family member can dramatically affect a family's financial stabili...

Hall of Fame Coach Empowers Young Women--Cindy Richardson

July 11, 2022 14:00 - 27 minutes - 18.9 MB

I have the distinct honor of interviewing Hall of Fame Coach Cindy Richardson on the podcast today.  Cindy comes with over twenty years of coaching experience and is the head coach at Colonial High School in Orlando, Florida. Outside of being a wife, mother and basketball coach she empowers young women. Through the podcast, you will see Cindy's unwavering commitment to giving young women the tools they need to succeed in life. On occasion, Cindy has acted as a formal guardian to her girls w...

Life After Losing a Spouse with Daniel Kopp, CFP®, MA

July 11, 2022 14:00 - 26 minutes - 18.6 MB

On this week's episode, I am delighted to have Daniel Kopp, CFP® MA on the podcast for a second time. Daniel has been gracious enough to bestow his wisdom and personal experience of Life After Losing a Spouse.   Daniel talks about his journey through personal growth and development after losing a  spouse. Through his journey, you will see how Daniel grew in his faith with God. He speaks about how his  decision to travel the country alone helped to create a new identity. You will also see ho...

Widowhood Timelines

July 11, 2022 14:00 - 11 minutes - 8.28 MB

I wanted to follow up on last week's episode with some extended tips. If you recall, on last week's episode I had Daniel Kopp, CFP®, MA on the podcast discussing his experience gaining a new identity after the death of his spouse.   As a follow up, I wanted to provide a list timelines for widows. These timelines provide loose guidelines of things to consider immediately after the passing of a spouse. These timelines also consider who to engage for help, who to notify and what documents to b...

The Art of Giving Back Through Mentorship with Mike Jackson

May 24, 2022 14:00 - 32 minutes - 22.5 MB

On today's episode, I interview a truly driven and  philanthropic family man.  Please meet Mike Jackson.  I met Mike over a decade ago through our mutual love of competing on the basketball court. In our interview, you will hear his perspective  of making significant sacrifices for family. We also explore how our complicated (and grief driven) paths as black men has shaped and narrowed our focus as God-fearing fathers.  Mike is a dynamic man who chose to leave corporate America to become a s...

The Best Medicine for Grief---Volunteering

May 16, 2022 15:00 - 13 minutes - 9.62 MB

Did you know that volunteering is one of the most exhilarating ways to accelerate your progression through grief? In this week's episode I talk about "Giving Back" as a source of healing for someone in grief.  It sounds like an oxymoron to even think about helping someone else while you deal with your own grief.  Studies have shown that there are definitive health benefits to giving back.   Volunteering is good for the mind and body.  Giving back through volunteering is a meaningful way to ...

Hospice - Get the Facts

May 03, 2022 21:00 - 18 minutes - 12.7 MB

In this week's episode I talk about Hospice. I talk about the origins and the tremendous benefit enacted by Congress in the 1980s. Many folks are unaware that Hospice organizations offer bereavement services at no cost, even to those who have not utilized Hospice in the formal sense. Hospice specializes in the care of the dying as well as their families. Hospice is not looking to cure a terminal illness, but to make everyone more comfortable during the process. Hospice is available 24 hours...

Terminal Illness (and Cancer)-Delivering News to Children

April 06, 2022 19:00 - 18 minutes - 13.1 MB

In this week's episode, I decided to talk about terminal illnesses, including cancer, as it relates to parents delivering the daunting news to children. I use my own personal example of when my folks delivered the news of my mother's cancer diagnosis. I present this information to you from that of a high school senior's perspective. In my research I have discovered that the tools and tips I have garnered apply to just about any aged child.  During the podcast, I will discuss very specific ti...

Setting Healthy Boundaries Before and After Grief

April 06, 2022 19:00 - 19 minutes - 13.7 MB

In this week's episode I am going to discuss "Setting Healthy Boundaries", both as someone in grief and an advisor helping a client in grief. I am going to draw on my formal training and education as a hospice volunteer with regard to  the area of setting therapeutic boundaries. I am also going to draw on a few personal examples of how I realized my boundaries were becoming violated and how I reacted in the spirit of self preservation. As an individual in grief you many not be as astute as ...

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