Real Talk With Joy Chisom

VALENTINE'S DAY GIFT IDEAS! ❤️

February 10, 2024 07:48 - 9 minutes - 25.8 MB

Find thoughtful Valentine's Day gift suggestions to please your special someone! Get ideas for showing your loved ones how much you care, from homemade surprises to individualized tokens. Use our considerate gift guide to create an amazing Valentine's Day 💝 https://youtu.be/qCqRukMtoXo

HOW TO FLIRT 😉

February 08, 2024 09:18 - 15 minutes - 35.2 MB

Discover the secrets to mastering the art of flirting in this video! Learn essential techniques and subtle cues to charm effortlessly and make meaningful connections. Watch now to level up your flirting game! Don't forget to subscribe for more tips on communication and relationships. Let's flirt like pros! https://youtu.be/cYHlCp8w6dE

WHY SHE CAN'T SUBMIT (Part 1)

June 06, 2023 23:42 - 13 minutes - 12.8 MB

In this insightful relationship video, we examine the intricate dynamics present-day relationships and consider the factors that may contribute to some women's difficulties with submitting. Find out what causes a woman to be unable to accept vulnerability.

WHAT TO DO WHEN CONFLICT ARISES (PART 2)

May 27, 2023 04:02 - 17 minutes - 16 MB

More tips on how to respond when conflict arises.

WHAT TO DO WHEN CONFLICT ARISES.

May 20, 2023 14:38 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MB

We're delving into a subject today that touches everyone of us at some point: conflict. Conflicts will always arise, so do not worry! In this video, we'll discuss insightful tips for handling and resolving disagreements in a healthy and positive manner. Let's get started 😊 https://youtu.be/LrgvSv667e4

BREAK THE ROUTINE

April 29, 2023 08:32 - 13 minutes - 24.8 MB

Restoring excitement and passion to your romantic life is the main goal of "Break the Routine in Your Relationship." Join us as we discuss ways to change up your routine and spice up your relationship. This episode will encourage you to escape the daily grind and rekindle the spark with your partner by suggesting unexpected date nights and trying out new hobbies. Prepare to rekindle your love and make new memories. https://youtu.be/y0Cgc--HnFU

WHY HE DOES NOT OPEN UP

April 26, 2023 18:43 - 14 minutes - 27 MB

Having your man open up to you is based on how safe he feels with you. True companionship is only possible when both parties can easily speak about their emotions. Remember opening up helps you understand each other more 💯 Hear why he's yet to be open about a lot if his emotions and thoughts.

HOW TO KNOW WHEN A GUY IS INTERESTED IN YOU.

April 16, 2023 18:27 - 15 minutes - 27.7 MB

Today we have a lot of heartbreaks cause of assumptions. Feeling we are special to someone who sees us as just a friend. In this episode Joy Chisom shows us the trick to knowing when he wants you. https://youtu.be/daWqvBimSbk Let's go Fam 🤗 it's time to stream 😎 Happy New Week 🤗

WHEN YOUR PARTNER DOES NOT LIKE THAT FRIEND

April 07, 2023 20:14 - 9 minutes - 17.1 MB

There has being so many times we've ended up having to choose between friendship and our partner, but we forget that once we are in a relationship; many of our friendship will not follow us into that relationship. Watch and learn more on this with Joy Chisom using the link below 👇 https://youtu.be/rbtvL4DsREw

FEMINISM

March 31, 2023 21:55 - 9 minutes - 17.5 MB

Many ladies have taken feminism into their relationship and have forgotten that being with someone is not a competition but a journey of completion 💯 Find out all about this by watching and learning more on this topic 🥰🥰 https://youtu.be/D_8XhEhxWPU

DO NOT SHARE YOUR PARTNERS' WEAKNESSES WITH YOUR FAMILY

March 24, 2023 20:28 - 6 minutes - 12.9 MB

Many times we let our emotions make us give out informations to people who do not need it. How your family react to your partner later in future is dependant on the informations about your partner you share with them today 💯 If you're yet to subscribe to our YouTube use the link https://youtu.be/0CE521p67Po

We VS Me Mentality

March 20, 2023 22:16 - 6 minutes - 11.9 MB

We are told to look out for ourselves before anyone else and yes it's a great thing to do. But implementing such in your relationship will reduce how much you'd enjoy that relationship. Listen and learn more 😊 Subscribe to our YouTube channel as we are live 🥳 https://youtu.be/-yiC3EqJa3Q

APPRECIATING YOUR LADY🥰

March 10, 2023 19:15 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MB

We already have a clue of what this episode is about from the topic. In this episode, Joy Chisom tells us of the woman worthy of your appreciation and also makes you see the different ways she can be appreciated ☺️

THE PRESSURE!

February 18, 2023 03:10 - 8 minutes - 8.02 MB

Life will throw surprises at us, many times challenges that come to us seem like it's going to swallow us up. And in times like this, we're at the verge of loosing our true self, which affects how we behave towards us partner. In this episode, Joy Chisom brings to our knowledge how our challenges should not change our true personality and affect our relationship with our partner. Listen to learn more 😊

MAKING IT SPECIAL ❤️

February 11, 2023 04:34 - 5 minutes - 5.25 MB

Valentine! Valentine!! Statements like, everyday in our relationship cannot always be lovey-dovey has made a lot of individuals loose their romantic touch. In this episode, Joy Chisom is asking; What would you be getting or doing for your partner? Gifting should not be seen as a norm but a way to show our partner that we have them in our heart. Listen and learn more 😊

Welcome To 2023 - SKIP FEAR!

February 03, 2023 07:15 - 8 minutes - 8.07 MB

Fear is a natural response to difficult and confusing situations, to dangerous situations. If we are not careful, it can become a default lens that colours how we see the world. In the first episode of this year, our host Joy Chisom shows us the best lens to run life with 💪

POINTERS WE IGNORE.

November 19, 2022 06:50 - 11 minutes - 10.2 MB

When a footballer goes against the rule of the game, they are served yellow cards, some other offences are given red cards immediately. Most of the heartbreaks we've experienced were caused by us. You wonder how possible this is, then listen to this episode.

COMPARISON AND ITS DANGERS

November 18, 2022 19:20 - 7 minutes - 7.4 MB

The only antidote to comparison is contentment and that begins with a thankful heart. In this episode, our host speaks to us about the two types of comparison and how they can affect the flow of affection and commitment in our relationship. Listen and learn more 💞💞

HOW TO HANDLE CONFLICT IN OUR RELATIONSHIP.

November 04, 2022 19:26 - 11 minutes - 10.7 MB

A relationship without misunderstandings cannot last, not that it's impossible to have a relationship without misunderstandings; but knowing how to handle them is the main deal. In this episode Joy Chisom helps us see that it's not that we are not compatible with our partner but our approach when clashes occur is what's important.

THE WOMAN'S ABILITY - Pt. 2

October 21, 2022 19:20 - 10 minutes - 10.1 MB

It's the part two we've being waiting for ☺️ Still on our series, Joy Chisom gives us more abilities that as ladies we should look out for and work towards having if we want to have an ideal man in our life and also have a respectable life of our own. Listen as with this, you're sure going to set off on a great pedestal 😌🤗

THE WOMAN'S ABILITY- Pt. 1

October 14, 2022 19:15 - 10 minutes - 9.57 MB

Knowing one's ability is very important but then there are essential abilities every lady should have. As a woman, lacking knowledge of your qualities would limit how best you give yourself to your partner. How proficient are you in your role as a woman? Find out more in this first series from our host Joy Chisom 🥰

BEING ROMANTIC 🤗❣️

September 30, 2022 19:25 - 7 minutes - 6.77 MB

It's common that being romantic is all about getting flowers, chocolates, and so on. Which I mean is very lovely ☺️ but then it has being made to look like the only thing to offer. In this episode, we'd get to learn more as Joy Chisom tells us that it's about being "observant to do". Listen and learn more.

COMFORTABILITY 🤗

September 23, 2022 19:25 - 6 minutes - 5.71 MB

A lot of us undermine how being free and comfortable with our partner can help better our relationship and also help us enjoy and understand our partner. In this episode, we get to understand that comfort is a part of intimacy and love that every relationship need to have. Listen and gain more 🙂

REGRETS

September 16, 2022 19:25 - 8 minutes - 8.25 MB

Feeling sad or disappointed about ones actions is not bad but dwelling on it, is what's bad. The feeling of "Regret" is something that if not checked can ruin ones life and in turn ruin the relationship with those around us and even our partner. Hear more from our host Joy Chisom and let's grow together 😊🤗

CONTENTMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS

September 09, 2022 19:30 - 8 minutes - 8.19 MB

Can two persons be in a relationship and be satisfied with each other and not have the need for someone else? Can there ever be contentment in relationships? We know what they say, the human need is insatiable and same thing goes to relationships; but what makes the difference is how the issues of contentment is managed and handled by both parties. Find out more on this in this episode as Joy Chisom helps us see the light 🥰🥰

ACCEPTANCE 💯

August 26, 2022 19:20 - 7 minutes - 7.38 MB

Been asking what you've missed, then listen to this episode. Here Joy Chisom shares to us how we've channelled our admiration wrongly and this has caused us to not fully accepting our partner. NO ACCEPTANCE MEANS NO COMMITMENT.

SELF-RESPECT🥰

August 19, 2022 19:15 - 6 minutes - 5.85 MB

They say respect is earned and how you portray yourself will decide if people will respect you or not. But how many of us do this? In this episode, Joy Chisom helps us to understand how this can hinder us from having a great relationship because everything about relating well with our partner starts from us first, if we do not get it right with ourselves we can't get it right with our partner. Never forget that being your best is beyond doing it for yourself but also for those around on. List...

INTENTIONALITY

August 12, 2022 19:15 - 4 minutes - 4.42 MB

Intentions! Intentions!! Intentions!!! What are your intentions? What do you want from me? Are the type of questions we mostly ask. But tonight, Joy Chisom wants us to go higher, the level where you and your partner becomes deliberate and purposive. Well learn more by listening ☺️☺️

COMPROMISE

August 05, 2022 19:18 - 5 minutes - 5.41 MB

We all one way or the other have compromised in our personal lifes. And this also should be applied to our relationship life. As without this, it would be difficult to have a relationship that would last. Listen as Joy Chisom tells us more 🤗

THE BARE MINIMUM

July 29, 2022 19:15 - 8 minutes - 7.38 MB

I know mere looking at this topic, we may find it difficult to understand how it relates to relationships 😇 Well this is why you've got Joy Chisom, as she shows us how this applies to our relationships and would help us know when someone is actually interested in being with us😊😊

FEAR 😨😨

July 22, 2022 19:21 - 6 minutes - 5.75 MB

A lot of us are held back by fear. The opposite of fear is faith but tonight we are not looking at this. Rather we are going to be looking inward and asking why the FEAR? Join Joy Chisom on this practical episode ❤️

SECRECY IS NOT PRIVACY

July 15, 2022 19:15 - 7 minutes - 6.88 MB

Respecting each other's boundaries knowing ones limit is very important in relationships but then there are those who begin to be secretive and claim it's privacy. Find out from Joy Chisom more about these two terms that we most time have mixed up and might be affecting our relationship.

ACCESSIBILITY

June 17, 2022 19:35 - 7 minutes - 6.52 MB

So many of us claim to have access to our partner or our partner say they give us access to them. But in real sense, this accessibility is conditioned. Conditioned to good times and to others bad days. Well find out more in this episode as Joy Chisom talks to us on what accessibility should really be that we have missed out.

INTIMACY 🫂 ❤️

April 29, 2022 19:15 - 10 minutes - 18.4 MB

It's our first episode after our 2nd year anniversary and we're looking at a very vital topic. Whenever "Intimacy" is talked about, it's easy to think of sex first. But beyond sex, which we all know that there will come a time you'll no longer be driven by it. What then will keep you and your partner intimate?? This is the area Joy Chisom points us at in this wonderful episode 😊😊 Also, our first ever Twitter space on WHAT MEN NEED IN A RELATIONSHIP? was also recorded, check it out if you were...

REAL LOVE

April 15, 2022 19:25 - 6 minutes - 5.63 MB

It's Good Friday and a time to reflect on what Christ did for us many years ago❤️Joy Chisom shows us how this can also be useful to us in our various relationships ☺️☺️

PURPOSE!!

April 08, 2022 19:19 - 5 minutes - 5.59 MB

We have been so caught up with our jobs, business, career, school and many others that we forget that we were sent down here for a reason. Anyone who has not yet found his or her purpose would find it difficult being happy single and would likely not enjoy their relationship when they get into one; because purpose is what gives you that self fulfilment. In this episode, Joy Chisom shows us how we can find our purpose and also shows us how to go about it's fulfilment. Do not forget that you ca...

THE NECESSARY P's IN A RELATIONSHIP: Pt. 4 - Provision

April 01, 2022 19:10 - 9 minutes - 9.24 MB

In our world, it's paramount that a man provides for his home. Even the scriptures says any man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel. But then what happens to his helpmate, his helper. As a lady what provisions are you able to also offer in your relationship. Or you rely on your man to get everything done. Listen to this episode and find out how provision can help take your relationship to the next level ☺️☺️

THE NECESSARY P's IN A RELATIONSHIP: Pt. 3 - Promises

March 25, 2022 19:15 - 8 minutes - 7.62 MB

Trust is one of the foundations of a good relationship and this trust is built when each party is deliberate to keeping to their words and promises. In this episode, Joy Chisom shows us how this P - Promises can either make or mar our relationships.

THE NECESSARY P's IN A RELATIONSHIP: Pt. 2 - Protection

March 19, 2022 05:44 - 12 minutes - 11.3 MB

Hello Real Talk Fam, we continue our series on THE NECESSARY P's IN A RELATIONSHIP and this episode we talk about PROTECTION 😊 And we should know that, watever you do not protect, you give the enemy the right to destroy. Learn more on this by listening 🤗

THE NECESSARY P's IN A RELATIONSHIP

March 11, 2022 19:10 - 11 minutes - 21.5 MB

We start off with another series THE NECESSARY P's IN A RELATIONSHIP and for this episode, the first P we look into is PRAYER 🙏🙏 Abraham's servant made a simple prayer to God to help him find a wife for his master's son (Isaac). Moving our mind away from the conventional about this subject matter, Joy Chisom brings to our knowledge what we've missed about this 😊

HEARTBREAK CAUSED BY OUR EXPECTATIONS

March 04, 2022 19:20 - 10 minutes - 9.36 MB

Having expectations are not bad, but when they are not fulfilled what happens? The general feeling one might get is feeling down and sometimes doubt themselves. Joy Chisom helps us understand how to navigate these expectations so we do not end up hurt. ☺️☺️

MARKING ONES TERRITORY

February 25, 2022 19:29 - 6 minutes - 6.42 MB

Is it necessary to mark ones territory? Can we say this is caused by a doubt of ones place in their partners life? Well, this episode broadens our understanding on how to mark ones territory and also help guide us on how to prevent this from ending our relationships.

THE ARCHITECT

February 18, 2022 19:39 - 5 minutes - 5.46 MB

Most of us are not aware that we are the architect of our relationship. But the issue is, we want to skip the part of sketching how our relationship would be and jus jump into the building. This and much more does Joy Chisom talks about in this episode. "Do not let what you feel, override what's vital"

IMPORTANCE OF DEPENDING

February 11, 2022 19:28 - 7 minutes - 6.94 MB

Many see depending as being a burden. For others it makes them feel vulnerable. But then in a relationship should one have this mindset about depending? Is this all there is to depending? Find out more in this Valentines episode as Joy Chisom throws more light on depending 😌😌

TRUE PARTNERSHIP

February 04, 2022 19:23 - 5 minutes - 5.01 MB

Many of us use the word partner in our relationship but we do not practice true partnership. In this episode, we get to see where we've missed it. True partnership can never occur until self is deleted, this and much more Joy Chisom talks about in this episode.

WHEN YOU SAY YOU CARE

January 28, 2022 19:20 - 4 minutes - 4.48 MB

Many times, we make statements that we care. Some persons go as far as repeating these words because they feel a repetition stamps the whole thing. Is this some word one says to their partner as an obligation? Do we understand how care works? This Joy Chisom speaks on in this episode. Opening us to understanding that care is beyond the norm we know.

DO WOMEN JUST WANT TO NAG?

January 14, 2022 19:37 - 7 minutes - 7.27 MB

Welcome to the year 2022, and starting this year Joy Chisom starts by treating what's common in our world. Today, women are seen to complain alot. Most of the time, they are even termed as "nags" but have we paused to ask ourselves this question, DO WOMEN JUST WANT TO NAG? Were they created this way, or there is a propeller? This and much more Joy Chisom treats as she talks about Women and nagging.

IMPORTANCE OF DEFINING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

December 03, 2021 21:08 - 5 minutes - 4.96 MB

Not putting a name to something makes it to be tagged anything by anyone. In this episode, Joy Chisom talks about how not having a defined relationship makes you loose important things in life and also slow down your path. Listen and find out more 🤗

FOCUSING ON YOUR PARTNER NOT THE GENDER

November 26, 2021 19:20 - 4 minutes - 4.33 MB

Many of us are so knowledgeable about the opposite sex that we use the general knowledge to relate with our partner. In this episode, Joy Chisom talks about how this has blinded us from knowing and understanding the individuality of our partner. Listen to get more 🙂🙂

RESPECT IN RELATIONSHIPS

November 19, 2021 19:25 - 6 minutes - 6.11 MB

A man's love language is respect. So, this has made respect to be tagged to the women alone. In this episode, Joy Chisom shows us that both partners are to respect each other. She explains the type of respect to be given to others and the one meant for our partner. For the men, God tags your respect for your woman as a gate pass to unhindered prayers. Find out more by listening and do not forget to relate with your host on any of her social media platforms. 🤗🤗

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