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Real Talk Love Therapy

22 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 5 years ago - ★★★★★ - 78 ratings

Welcome to Real Talk Love Therapy, a podcast developed by social media personalities Daysha Veronica and Eli Vazquez that aims to challenge traditionally held views about love, and redefine what it means to be a millennial navigating love, sex, and relationships from a POC perspective.

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EP 21: How To Survive Bringing Bae Home For The Holidays

December 20, 2018 00:00 - 55 minutes - 76.2 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we talk all things about bringing your partner home for the holidays! How do you deal with crazy family? What if you all get into a fight? Which room ya'll banging in? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To learn more about Daysha, Eli, and the purpose behind Real Talk Love Therapy, check out this article on Yes...

EP 20: Breaking Down The Triangle Theory of Love

November 29, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 99 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking about the Triangle Theory of Love! We break down the importance of intimacy and answer the question if passion can sustain in a relationship? What do you think? Tag your friends and let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To learn more about Daysha, Eli, and the purpose behind Real Talk Love Therapy, ...

EP 19: Who Should Pay On The First Date?/Money In Relationships -- Featuring: Gadiel Del Orbe

November 08, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 99.3 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking with Pero Like producer, comedian, actor Gadiel Del Orbe about who should pay on the first date and all things money! Who do you think should pay? When do you talk about how much you make? Does it matter if he makes less than you? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To learn more about Daysha, E...

EP 18: What Are The Boundaries Of A Hot Friend?

October 25, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 41.7 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking about what are the boundaries when you are in a relationship and you have a friend who is attractive. What do you do if your partner is jealous? How do you manage communication? Who do you have to choose? Your friend or your partner? Let us know if you ever dealt with any of these issues in the comments below! Let us know on soci...

EP 17: Is Polyamory Right For YOU? -- Featuring Kat Blaque

October 11, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 57.2 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking with YouTuber personality and transgender activists Kat Blaque! This week we discover world of polyamory! What it's like being transgender and black in that space. Also, who makes dinner when everyone is fucking someone else!? Would you consider being poly? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To...

EP 16: What Are The Right And Wrong Reasons For Getting In A Relationship?

September 27, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 44.2 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking about what are some of the right reasons and some of the wrong reason for getting into a relationship. We talk about learning to invest in yourself, the pressures of getting into a relationship and much more! Have you gotten into relationships for the wrong reasons? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalkloveth...

EP 15: Would YOU Have A Three Way? -- Featuring Kelsey Darragh

September 13, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 56.8 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking with actor, producer and personality Kelsey Darragh! We discuss proper do's and don'ts in three ways. The journey of self-confidence and open relationships. Would you consider a three-way? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To learn more about Daysha, Eli, and the purpose behind Real Talk Love ...

Real Talk Love Therapy Special Vlog Announcement!!!

September 06, 2018 00:00 - 1 minute - 969 KB

This week we have a VERY SPECIAL announcement regarding the future of Real Talk Love Therapy. To hear the exciting news check out the link https://youtu.be/DmF6XFOyY28 on Yes Queen @Youtube! Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! https://www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy. Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To learn more about Daysha, Eli, and the purpose behind Real Talk Love Therapy, check out this article on Yes Quee...

EP 14: The Virgin-Hoe Dynamic

August 30, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 117 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! https://www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking with Lauren Manzano a 29-year-old champion pole dancer and virgin. We discuss the struggles the term "lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets" and much more! What are your thoughts on this episode? Do you also think Amber Rose is dull? -Eli lolz Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To...

EP 13: Body Image In Relationships and Special Interview With Contest Winner, Luz Garcia

August 23, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 43.8 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! https://www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This week on Real Talk Love Therapy we are talking all about body image in a relationship, and what are the best ways to talk about your own issues with body image as well as how to support your partner. We also spend some time chatting with Scroll, Double Tap, or Dm winner, Luz Garcia (@luzzgee) What are your thoughts? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Re...

EpisodeEP 12: Can Career Driven People Have It All? -- Featuring Ryan Bergara 12

August 16, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 46.5 MB

Get RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy Inspired by this article on Inc (buff.ly/2pH0rlI), Eli, Daysha and our special guest from BuzzFeed Unsolved, Ryan Bergara (@ryanbergara) try to decide between our top 3 priorities as far as family, friends, health, work and sleep are concerned. What are your thoughts? Let us know on social media using the hashtag #Realtalklovetherapy! To learn more about Daysha, Eli, and the p...

EP 11: We Find Out Who Has The Better Dating Profile

August 09, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 47.3 MB

Unlock access to RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy This episode we finally dig through the apps and talk all things dating profiles. Talking about the differences between them all while discussing our online dating horror stories. Listen to the end to hear us judge each other profiles. How do you feel about online dating? Do you have a profile? What are the keys to online dating success? Let us know your thoughts...

EP 10: Marriage In The Millennial Age -- Featuring Briana Byrd

August 02, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 60.3 MB

Unlock access to RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy So this week we're talking all about what marriage looks like for the millennial generation, and digging deeper into the societal pressures that some can feel when it comes to being married by a certain age. And our special guest this week is former BuzzFeed personality, and marriage enthusiast, Briana Byrd (@Breezus88)! So what are your thoughts on this week's e...

EP 9: Is It A Turn Off To Be Funny And A Woman? (Viewer's Choice)

July 26, 2018 00:00 - 51 minutes - 35.2 MB

Unlock access to RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy So this is our first viewer's choice episode, and we were asked to explore the question of whether or not it's a turnoff for women to be more funny than their male partner. If you are interested in helping to choose the future discussions that we have on RTLT, subscribe to our Patreon today to get exclusive access to vote! So what are your thoughts on this week'...

EP 8: The Anatomy Of A Fuckboy -- Featuring Ryann Graham

July 19, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 47.8 MB

Unlock access to RTLT exclusive bonus content by subscribing to our Patreon today! www.patreon.com/realtalklovetherapy So if you're someone that dates in this day and age (especially online), then I'm sure you've run into one of these... A fuckboy. And I'm many of us know that there's nothing worse than the conundrum of a person who is the ultimate fuckboy, but tries to act like they aren't one. So​ for this week's episode, we finally decided to dig a little deeper into the anatomy ...

EP 7: Is Black And Brown Love A Fantasy?

July 12, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 45.8 MB

**PLEASE SUPPORT OUR PATREON SO WE CAN KEEP RTLT ALIVE** buff.ly/2IL2ywr So this episode is on a much deeper topic than what we usually cover, but after being reminded about an unfortunate story that Daysha heard about after going back to her high school to do an assembly with current students, she realize that RTLT would be great platform to discuss the issue of the underlying tension between men and women of color in the dating space. Yes Queen Article recap: https://buff.ly/2m9Q...

EP 6: Exploring The 5 Love Languages -- Featuring Vanessa Parish

July 05, 2018 00:00 - 1 hour - 53.3 MB

**PLEASE SUPPORT OUR PATREON SO WE CAN KEEP RTLT ALIVE** https://buff.ly/2IL2ywr So for this week's episode, we're talking all about The 5 Love Languages, and how to use them to enhance your romantic/interpersonal relationships. We decided to invite my good friend, Vanessa Parish, who is the former host of Buzzfeed Tasty's web show, Tasting Our Roots, onto the couch since she read the book as a teen to help with communication issues that she was having with her mother, and that she...

EP 5: Do Breakups Always Have To Be Messy?

June 28, 2018 00:00 - 49 minutes - 34 MB

This week's episode is all about breakups, and exploring whether or not they always have to end in a hot mess? So Eli and Daysha both just got out of long-term relationships, and found that their breakups were quite “pleasant”... Well as pleasant as a breakup can be anyway. But they also recognized that, this time around, they were the ones that ended the relationships they were in. So they decided to dig into their relationship past to see if there was a time that they had been bro...

EP 4: Dick Pics- Featuring Curly Velasquez

June 21, 2018 00:00 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MB

So for this week's episode, we're moving #EggplantFriday to Thursday, as Eli and I decided to explore the world of dick pics and sexting! And we couldn't think of a guest more perfectly suited to bring us into this world other than Pero Like’s Curly Velasquez! And given that I've never gotten one, and Eli very rarely sends them, we decided to let Curly school us on the art of sending a good dick pic... And BOY did we learn! Yes Queen Article recap: buff.ly/2llUCbx So how do you fee...

EP 3: What Is The Best/Worst Way To Ask Someone Out?

June 14, 2018 00:00 - 56 minutes - 38.7 MB

So for this week's episode, after experiencing a series of crappy attempts of people trying to show romantic interest in her, Daysha decided that she wanted to talk about what are some of the best and worst ways that people show romantic interest in one another, as well as examining the deeper fear of why rejection is so hard to handle, and if there is a viable chance to ever make direct consent have that sexy appeal everyone still wants to maintain when flirting. This week's articl...

EP 2: Career vs Relationships; Does It Always Have To Be One Or The Other? - Featuring Becky Harris

June 07, 2018 16:24 - 53 minutes - 111 MB

For this week's episode, since Eli and I are super hustlers out here grinding non-stop, but both in long term relationships with partners that have more of a 9-5 energy (and thus more time to focus on the relationship), we decided to tackle the age old question of whether or not it's possible to realistically manage a successful career, and a successful relationship at the same time, or if you really do have to choose one or the other. And we figured there was no other perfect guest ...

Why Aren't Eli and Daysha Dating?- Real Talk Love Therapy

May 31, 2018 00:00 - 23 minutes - 42.8 MB

Welcome to the first episode of Real Talk Love Therapy, a podcast developed by social media personalities Daysha Veronica and Eli Vazquez that aims to challenge traditionally held views about love, and redefine what it means to be a millennial navigating love, sex, and relationships from a POC perspective. So Daysha and Eli met while working at the viral media company, BuzzFeed. And after appearing in a series of popular videos as a romantic couple, they soon became one of the BuzzF...