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Ep 110 | The Ten Destructive Delusions of Dating

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

English - May 29, 2021 16:00 - 2 hours - ★★★★★ - 811 ratings
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If you, or maybe someone you care about, man or woman, is in the throes of dating, then banishing mad myths and loathsome lies about male-female relationships is crucial. Recover reality by investing time in this show. One of the five indispensably important parts of your life is family, and that is really the only reason to be dating. It would be a shame to waste time doing dating wrong. Here is a list of the ten lies we’ll debunk together:
1. We broke up weeks ago so she’ll be okay with me dating her roommate now.
2. My GF/BF is having dinner with her/his ex but it’s nothing, they’re just friends.
3. Everyone has one true soulmate somewhere and my purpose in dating is to find him/her.
4. You’ll always recognize true love.
5. No, he doesn’t have a job but he can get one anytime he wants.
6. I know he says he’s not interested in marriage but he’ll change his mind.
7. Hooking up is no big deal these days, right?
8. My income is irrelevant to her; she really loves me for me.
9. It’s healthy to date many people before settling down for marriage.
10. She says she wants to build her career so we’ll be a two income couple.
Integrate the fundamental five elements of your life, your 5F’s. Read my free eBook “The Holistic You” which you can download now for nothing right here: https://www.wehappywarriors.com/the-holistic-you
Forget dreaming of a massage with warm butter and become a Happy Warrior, rather than being a tennis ball floating down the gutter of life.
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If you, or maybe someone you care about, man or woman, is in the throes of dating, then banishing mad myths and loathsome lies about male-female relationships is crucial. Recover reality by investing time in this show. One of the five indispensably important parts of your life is family, and that is really the only reason to be dating. It would be a shame to waste time doing dating wrong. Here is a list of the ten lies we’ll debunk together:

1. We broke up weeks ago so she’ll be okay with me dating her roommate now.

2. My GF/BF is having dinner with her/his ex but it’s nothing, they’re just friends.

3. Everyone has one true soulmate somewhere and my purpose in dating is to find him/her.

4. You’ll always recognize true love.

5. No, he doesn’t have a job but he can get one anytime he wants.

6. I know he says he’s not interested in marriage but he’ll change his mind.

7. Hooking up is no big deal these days, right?

8. My income is irrelevant to her; she really loves me for me.

9. It’s healthy to date many people before settling down for marriage.

10. She says she wants to build her career so we’ll be a two income couple.

Integrate the fundamental five elements of your life, your 5F’s. Read my free eBook “The Holistic You” which you can download now for nothing right here: https://www.wehappywarriors.com/the-holistic-you

Forget dreaming of a massage with warm butter and become a Happy Warrior, rather than being a tennis ball floating down the gutter of life.

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