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Probably True

179 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 days ago - ★★★★★ - 67 ratings

Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. 

Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are, none of us, alone.

The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty but charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  

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Episodes

Wisdom (with Patrick Marano)

April 15, 2024 01:04 - 27 minutes - 37.7 MB

[CW: Drug use & addiction] Youtube sensation and Adult Entertainer Patrick Marano brings us three tales of sex, drugs, and the wisdom of sluts. Featuring: The Good Old Days, Definitely NOT dead family, and The Wanted. Also: second-hand sex toys, near-death experiences, and Canadian strippers. YouTube version: https://youtu.be/M-qbQ0pU_hQ — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issu...

Construct

April 08, 2024 01:00 - 9 minutes - 12.9 MB

What gender-neutral words can you use for queer people instead of 'Daddy'? From Star Trek to star signs, here's a queer take on the struggles of being non-binary when you look very cis. And totes masc. ALSO! From Astrology to Apology: how to avoid misgendering someone, what to do if you mess it up, and why courtroom dramas should incorporate star signs. — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackl...

Inspire (with Dr. Alfredo Carpineti)

April 01, 2024 01:00 - 33 minutes - 45.9 MB

History is full of queer role models - you just have to know where to look. From 'confirmed batchelor' to 'Just Good Friends', Dr Alfredo Carpineti explains how our gay, lesbian, bisexual, and trans heroes are hiding in plain sight throughout history. (Turns out the 'step-bro' thing has been around a VERY long time...) LINKS! - Buy a copy of Alfredo's book about science, queers, and history: 'Invisible Rainbows - Exploring the Unseen Universe Beyond Our Senses': https://unbound.com/books...

Procedure

March 25, 2024 02:00 - 16 minutes - 22 MB

An interrupted gym session leads to looking for support in all the wrong places, a message from God, and the need to search deep inside myself. Really deep. All the way in there. Also involved: the best biscuit, some surprisingly strong pelvic floor muscles, and an unexpected way of dealing with stubborn sweetcorn. ---- Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engagi...

Away

February 02, 2024 17:28 - 3 minutes - 4.65 MB

The BEST transgender joke ever told. AND I'm taking a little break. I need to rest and hibernate and generally recharge. Back in a couple of weeks.  — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.  Get exclusive content, stickers, and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: patre...

Bingo (with Nathaniel J Hall)

January 22, 2024 02:01 - 34 minutes - 47 MB

[CONTENT WARNING: Gross STI symptoms and some mentions of drug use.] Sex, drugs, and... Cameras up your bum: Actor, writer and HIV Activist Nathaniel talks us through some bad luck, iffy decisions and slightly strange medical referrals. — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone....

Manners

January 15, 2024 02:02 - 13 minutes - 18.7 MB

'Inspired' by more awful experiences, here's one tart's guide to better bedroom etiquette. And if anyone knows manners, it's the English. Featuring: The best grip to use when tickling his fancy; what their choice of drink says about your sexual opponent; and why respect is key. Also involving, for no real reason: Half-melted waxworks, a terrifying Roomba, and a sulking hottie. — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy ...

Merry

December 19, 2023 02:00 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

Christmas doesn't have to be merry - sometimes it's ok just to get through the day. Featuring a hatred of Christmas music brought on by trying to 'do Christmas right' while dealing with seasonal depression, a portacabin with delusions of grandeur, and the joys of spending Christmas with my mother. I hope your festive season goes as well as it can. If you're feeling lonely or down, come join me in the Probably True Discord: https://discord.gg/n3aNaj533T (this is the 'join us' thing I blat...

Vibe (with CJ DeBarra)

December 11, 2023 02:02 - 33 minutes - 46.6 MB

The secret double life of author, journalist and LGBTQ+ sex communicator CJ deBarra. It involves the benefits of drug-infused lube, a terrifying number of sex toys (some of them extremely large), and the realisation that being honest, open, and proud of who you are and what you do is the best way to live. Cj's first book, 'NeuroQueer: A Neurodivergent Guide to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between' is available here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/NeuroQueer-N... Their website is https://caro...

Look

December 04, 2023 02:05 - 11 minutes - 15.4 MB

"You don't look non-binary" is a phrase I've heard (and thought) a lot in the last couple of years. Am I letting the side down? What DOES a non-binary person look like? Join this sweary quest as we get to the heart of the matter. Includes: Drag queens! Donuts! Historical homophobia! My nan! Several really FLIPPING annoying police sirens! Doesn't include: Skin-coloured underwear! Big, veiny distractions! Any ACTUAL research! --- Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er se...

Stone (with Kyle Turner)

November 27, 2023 02:12 - 25 minutes - 35 MB

CONTENT WARNING: Discussing the use of wacky baccy to improve meat shenanigans. Writer, film critic and big massive stoner Kyle Turner shares his experiences of mixing adult funtimes with Lucifer's Lettuce. Spoiler: It doesn't always go well. Featuring a guide to buying Adult Toys, an anti-intervention, and getting perved on during some Alone Time by a flaming skull. You can order copies of Kyle's book, harangue him on Twitter, and check out everything else he does via his website: htt...

Eat

November 20, 2023 02:01 - 8 minutes - 12.3 MB

From tossing salad to tickling their fancy, there are lots of ways to talk about eating ass. Kissing bootay. Twiddling their balloon knot. Due to YouTube being boring, I had to come up with lots of fun ways of talking about one of my favourite hobbies, including why you shouldn't try it in the shower. So, pull up a face, make sure you're sitting comfortably, and we'll begin. — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy story...

Slur

September 22, 2023 21:22 - 11 minutes - 10.2 MB

Is 'queer' a slur? A silly question, perhaps, but someone on the internet was annoying and I needed to rant about it. Featuring: Tree bukkake, TERFs, and some dodgy audio that (hopefully) I will have sorted out before the season starts properly in a few weeks time. NOW A MAJOR MOTION PICTURE! Check out https://youtu.be/TYLbilyGw0E to see these words coming out of my face! --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project...

Places

August 09, 2023 01:02 - 10 minutes - 14.4 MB

I amuse myself (and hopefully you) with an end-of-season tour of some of the place names I have lived in, their meanings, and other historical word-nerdy stuff. There's shagging in the park, Russian trains, American guns, and the *true* meaning of Manchester. Words are fun. Back in a few weeks. Until then, be good to yourself, and look after our queer siblings. We need it now more than ever. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filth...

Pimp (with Jonny McGovern)

July 18, 2023 00:09 - 38 minutes - 52.5 MB

Jonny's adventures on the New York nightlife scene in the early 2000s involve first love, sluttery, and turning pain into something beautiful. Or, if not beautiful, then at least a Gay Pimp Daddy wearing rhinestone jeans. An inspiring story of how "I'll show HIM!" somehow became fame, fortune, and a career spanning decades. GoGo For The Gold: https://youtu.be/gUzHSuYp1eE Hey Qween YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCStjBZ-91yduQVNtsBkjgJQ Soccer Practice music video: https://yout...

Flag

July 10, 2023 01:02 - 13 minutes - 18.8 MB

A symbol, a strap, and the true meaning of the only flag I care about. Or: How struggling to buy a Pride flag helped me realise that it’s definitely not for me. Also: Naked morning routines, shaved cats, and why I’m Queer Royalty. (In case it wasn’t obvious.) BONUS FEATURE: A huge info-dump about my life that could easily have been an email. (Don’t worry - it’s at the end so you can skip it if you don’t care.) ---- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winn...

Trek (with Seán Ferrick)

June 26, 2023 02:07 - 26 minutes - 35.7 MB

[CW: Alcohol abuse and suicidal ideation] The life-changing effects of Star Trek-themed sex. Check out Sean's filth at https://twitter.com/alttrekkie ---- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.  Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to ...

Teamwork

June 12, 2023 01:02 - 12 minutes - 16.5 MB

A how-to guide to group shenanigans. What's the best etiquette for multiplayer funtimes? Cheap lube, parasols, and Pickled Onion Monster Munch. Come see me do my first ever 'proper' standup gig, as part of the Frog & Bucket standup showcase! Sun 17th June 2023: https://frogandbucket.ticketsolve.com/ticketbooth/shows/873546210/events/128471045 --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a f...

Sniff (with Adam Zmith)

May 22, 2023 01:02 - 30 minutes - 41.4 MB

Poppers: All the answers, none of the headache. Where did they come from? Are they illegal? Why are there so many videos about them on 'adult' sites? Which drugs should you avoid while using them? (Spoiler: all of them. Seriously. Don't mix your drugs.) Queer author, historian and friend of the show Adam Zmith returns to talk us through the ins and outs (and in again, now hold it. That's it. Keep holding it, you little popper pig. Ok, now let it out.) of everyone's favourite "room odouriser...

Mental

May 15, 2023 20:42 - 10 minutes - 14 MB

It's Mental Health Awareness week, so here's a queer look at being diagnosed with ADHD & Autism in my late 30s, how to use your powers for good, and why therapy is a good thing. (Or: How Star Trek helped with my spicy brain, why you should never go Full Sherlock, and the least appropriate time to make a cup of tea.) --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created ...

George

May 08, 2023 01:02 - 29 minutes - 40 MB

Warrior-Queen and star of the Elder episode, George Hodson, passed away this week at the age of 74. Here's me saying a few nice words, and a repeat of Elder, his story of love, sex, queerness, and absolutely no shame. The full, unedited recording of the conversation with George that became his Probably True episode is available for free at https://patreon.com/probablytrue. (There are a couple of nice asides and additional stories that didn't make it into the final episode, and it's availabl...

Name

May 01, 2023 01:02 - 10 minutes - 14.7 MB

The fun (and irritating) experience of changing your name to something with less chest hair; advice for anyone thinking about doing something (anything!); and what they'd say about me if I were in a dog's home. Includes nightmare jobs, being drunk and trying to flirt, and The Tragedy of Esmerelda Cheyne. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind al...

Perform (with Charles Quittner)

April 24, 2023 01:01 - 23 minutes - 32 MB

Would you say "I love you" to a stranger in the middle of sex? Join Theatre Director Charles, myself, and a considerable amount of Whiskey as we talk about those Three Little Words, and how they can improve sex, even with a one-night stand. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.  Much like...

History

April 17, 2023 22:08 - 8 minutes - 11.7 MB

How honest should you be with your partner? Is there anything sexier than the naked truth? Should Death By Powerpoint be illegal under the Geneva Convention? From naughty storytime to drunken shag-maps, I spend too long on Twitter, consider the pros and cons of knowing everything about your lover's past, and get a bit Carrie Bradshaw about the whole thing. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ i...

Pop (with Ray)

April 11, 2023 01:06 - 36 minutes - 49.9 MB

Boys, boners, and... Balloons? Listener Ray 'pops' in to share the thing that gets him in the mood, whether it's in the privacy of his bedroom, a public street in Istanbul, or a bar with a particularly 'helpful' bartender... ------ Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.  Much like its creator,...

Ancient

April 03, 2023 01:06 - 12 minutes - 16.9 MB

What it means to turn 39a: Embracing my Golden Girls era, thoroughly disappointing whippersnappers, and a long ramble about how things were different When I Were Young. Stegosaurus, since you ask. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.  Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming col...

Cost

February 27, 2023 13:18 - 8 minutes - 11.6 MB

This isn't a podcast episode. There are no jokes, no fun stories, and no theme music. It's just me, being angry and sad about Brianna Ghey. I had a lot of feelings and, in true "I have a podcast" fashion, I hope this is a constructive way of dealing with them. I'm sorry it's not duck jokes and silliness. New episodes are coming soon, so there'll be plenty of that then. Check in on your friends. They are probably not ok. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeat...

Rhythm

September 26, 2022 23:07 - 6 minutes - 8.85 MB

Getting jiggy on a bouncy castle ends in blood, marshmallows aren't conducive to good sex, and metronomes aren't sex toys. Not even at 120bpm. The last episode of Probably True in the current season and it's a quick and dirty affair, just as these things should be. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are no...

Match (with Michael Kaye)

September 08, 2022 01:02 - 19 minutes - 27 MB

From closeted relationship to proud LGBTQ advocate: Michael's story involves playing it straight, getting relationship advice from a hookup, and crying in the toilets. We've all been there. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.  Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection ...

Sprint

August 24, 2022 01:01 - 10 minutes - 14.5 MB

On your marks, get wet, go! From sexy time to finish line, featuring various flavours of antidepressants, several tortured metaphors, and the wisdom of the ages. Possibly. A story of people too pretty to Do It Themselves, personal highlight reels, and remembering to stop and smell the rosebuds along the way. -- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind...

Parent (with Marley Conte)

August 15, 2022 01:02 - 23 minutes - 31.9 MB

How do you tell your child you're non-binary? With food. And ice cream. And lots of books. Coming out as bi, non-binary, and grey-ace later (but not *late*) in life means there might be awkward conversations with your kid. Also paperwork. So much paperwork. Pink, Blue and You (via Pride Bookshop): https://bit.ly/3QFd0J6 Marley's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenonbinaryparent/ --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy sto...

Proper

August 09, 2022 13:40 - 12 minutes - 17.2 MB

Constantly beset and bedevilled by the feeling you're Not Doing Gay Right? (Or trans, or non-binary, or bi, etc, etc) Me too!  A little look at what it means to be visible, who decides if we're doing it right, and something about a Findus Crispy Pancake that will probably put you off your dinner.  Don't let the straights get inside your head, they'll only make you boring. Monkeypox: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CgQC8CYvpZa/ Probably True on YouTube! https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube ---...

Pray (with George Azar)

July 18, 2022 01:10 - 28 minutes - 39.6 MB

[TRIGGER WARNING: CONVERSION THERAPY] Ex-outreach pastor for notorious Ex-Gay religious organisation Exodus Ministries, George, shares his story of how, when he tried to 'pray away the gay', he ended up gaying away the pray. Eventually. George's book, My Gay Church Days, is available now, and you can reach him via his Insta account, @MyGayChurchDays. Let him know I sent ya. ;) --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling pr...

Trade

July 11, 2022 11:53 - 11 minutes - 15.5 MB

Is it worse to work in a boring 9-5 or get someone off in ten minutes and go back to bed? It's called a blow job for a reason, Stephanie. Stories of an amateur tart trading Gentleman's Services for a haircut, thoughts on happy endings, and the only kind of healing you get from crystals. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer s...

Survivor (with Michael Roberts)

July 04, 2022 13:13 - 32 minutes - 44.3 MB

[CONTENT WARNING: Sexual and emotional abuse; thoughts of suicide.] Michael tells how his local priest insinuated his way into the lives of his devout family, before manipulating and abusing him over many years, how he managed to break free, and the difficulties he found when trying to hold those responsible accountable. A heavy listen, a story of abused power, suffering at the hands of people who consider themselves above the law, and the institution that enabled them. You can find copie...

Euphoria

June 13, 2022 15:46 - 12 minutes - 16.7 MB

The continuing non-binary adventures! A story that involves Mario Lopez, broken zippers, and the kindness of strangers. Or, how a vulnerable moment led to something beautiful. And slinky. And SWISHY. SO FLIPPIN SWISHY! I've just realised there's not even any sex in this one. Oh well. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer sibli...

Mug (with Demitri Wylde)

May 09, 2022 09:05 - 20 minutes - 28.1 MB

When the sex is that good, you can forgive them for almost anything... But is it good enough to keep going back, despite theft, armed robbery, and... a man asleep in a chair...? Demitri Wylde thinks so, especially as he got a video souvenir of the good bits. Check out his writing, podcasts, and sexual deviance right here, or just search for 'Demitri Wylde' wherever you want to find him. (And if anyone finds the video, please send me a link. For science.) --- Stories of queer life and ...

Sweat

April 25, 2022 01:07 - 14 minutes - 20.3 MB

The Probably True guide to Gay Saunas: What to expect, good etiquette, and some basic hot-tub maintenance. Roll on up for slime, sex and a sad story of a slippery mobile phone. Some say it's still there, waiting to be claimed by anyone brave or foolhardy enough to try... - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are...

Virgin (with Matthew Hodson)

April 11, 2022 01:04 - 26 minutes - 36.4 MB

From wandering into Heaven as a 15-year-old to living, loving, (and shagging) under the shadow of HIV in the 80s and 90s, Matthew Hodson, HIV activist and underwear model (or so he says), has plenty of stories to share. Including how he made a tidy profit the night he was unburdened of his virginity, and what happened when a journalist told his mum he was living with HIV. AIDSmap.com - @MatthewHodson on Twitter. - @MatthewhodsonLondon on Instagram --- Stories of queer life and even q...

Rules

April 04, 2022 01:00 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

Join the Probably True Discord chat thing: https://bit.ly/probtruediscord It's important to know whose rules we're playing by, and whether or not they work for us. The joy of queerness is that if they don't work, we can change them. And also we get free tacos on Tuesdays. Commemorating a sexy encounter, a shiny bicycle, and a wanky explanation about what works for you might not work for me, why that's ok, and what I can do about it. Also, don't be afraid to tell people how you feel. Or...

Elder (with George Hodson)

January 01, 2022 02:07 - 30 minutes - 42.1 MB

Boarding school shenanigans, first love, and overflowing pens: Elder Queer George shares some of his many adventures as a Good Boy turned badass. Enjoyed George's tales of debauchery and decadence? Drop him a line and tell him: [email protected] -- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. Muc...

Gifts

December 24, 2021 21:27 - 11 minutes - 15.3 MB

The final part of the Love Languages miniseries, brought to you from my mum's spare room, in the grand tradition of Christmas. Whether it's buying my way into relationships, compensating for my company, or just getting caught perving on a stranger by my boyfriend, gifts are a complicated part of life and love. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to re...

Time

December 06, 2021 02:01 - 10 minutes - 15.1 MB

The next episode in the Love Languages miniseries looks at Quality Time: If you care about people, spend time with them. (There's a bit more to it than that but, admittedly, not much.) Also: Why it's not a good idea to suffocate feelings with DimSum; how I'm part canine; and a general warning about drum circles. COMING SOON: The Probably True Ask Me Anything Christmas episodet! Get your questions in to [email protected] before December 20th to be involved, and be sure to provid...

Words

November 23, 2021 02:04 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

Part 3 of the Love Languages miniseries looks at Words of Affirmation: How to craft a compliment, how to make it all about them, and how to take (a compliment) like a pro.  Also, Jurassic World, Americans, and getting addicted to saying nice things about people. It's like heroin, but not actually like it at all. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created ...

Touch

November 09, 2021 02:01 - 10 minutes - 13.9 MB

Good cuddles don't have to mean adequate diddling. Physically touching another human is extremely good for your mental health. It's got something to do with sea creatures. Possibly. Thoughts on non-sexual physical contact, intimacy, and an epiphany in crushed velvet. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are ...

Snog [Redux]

November 01, 2021 02:17 - 10 minutes - 13.8 MB

My brain is a bit mushy, so here's an episode from the archives on how to be a better kisser. SNOG: Slobber. Bad breath. A tongue like a malfunctioning blender. Drawing on my depressingly wide experience of bad kissers, I explain how to not be one yourself. OR: How to snog someone without choking them with your tongue. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Crea...

Acts

October 18, 2021 22:28 - 10 minutes - 13.8 MB

Love languages: What are they? How do we use them? Can I have some cake? If I do it like this, will you be finished before the next episode starts? These and other questions will be answered in the first of a five-episode mini series looking into the many different ways we can tell the people in our lives how much we care. Or, if you're anything like me, realise that someone you dated years ago was really into you, but it went horribly wrong because you didn't share a love language. PROBA...

Adopt (with Richard Orchard-Rowe)

September 27, 2021 13:00 - 29 minutes - 40.1 MB

Love, laughter and lobbing shoes: The story of a gay couple's journey to start a family, including temper tantrums, sneaky social workers, and a LOT of wine. Paul's podcast, Adoption Adventures, is available in all reputable podcast places, and on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings ...

Enby

September 20, 2021 12:26 - 12 minutes - 16.7 MB

Do you come out as Non-Binary? How do you know if you are, or not? Can I get a sponsorship deal after mentioning talking about my genitals so much?  All these questions and more, answered with a resounding "I don't know. Sit down and have a biscuit." ----- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone....

Hero (with Peter Tatchell)

July 20, 2021 23:19 - 32 minutes - 45.2 MB

What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome to disagree with my conclusion. 'Hating Peter Tatchell' is available now on Netflix and is definitely worth a watch. Check out http://petertatchellfoundation.org to sign up for the newsletter, and for details on Reclaim Pride. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  Probably True - the ...

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