This episode is was inspired by a listener question about why some children scream all the time. So I've taken this issue and broken it down into the two main reasons that children learn to scream - they are accidentally taught as small infants to scream as a way to interact with parents or children are frantic for connection with their parents to help them deal with strong emotions.

During this episode, I explain how accidental parenting can lead to a screaming child even though that was not the goal. And, if a child is searching for connection with their parent by screaming, I delve into how an insecure attachment can motivate little ones to scream in a frantic attempt to get some connection with their parents. Luckily, the solution to both of these causes is to focus on creating a secure attachment and guide screaming children towards more emotionally healthy ways to express their needs and get comfort.

The information in this episode is heavily based on Attachment Theory by John Bowlby and the aspects of cognitive and emotional child development. Listeners will finish the episode with new understanding about why children develop screaming habits and what parents can do to move their child towards healthier behaviours.

New episodes are published each Tuesday so stay tuned for more science-based Proactive Parenting information.

Proactive Parenting is based on validated theories and scientific research to provide the information you need to care for your modern family. Not everyone grew up in a completely healthy family of origin and consequently may be unsure of how to be a parent when they start a family. Proactive Parenting was created for parents who need a solid foundation to start raising their children, and for parents who want to do better. It is a way to move past old behaviours, break unhealthy habits, and replace them with parenting actions that will lead to a healthy family life for both children and parents.

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