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Precious Predicaments

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The show is designed to educate, encourage provide resources and empower individuals as they discuss their life challenging issues with a therapist.

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Women Health Concerns

March 25, 2024 21:00 - 1 hour - 29.8 MB

The month of March is Women in history month. There are many women that have made and are still making a difference in the lives of many. Today I will be discussing a topic that concerns women health. Do you or can you trust your doctor?  I really can't say that times have changed however, I am noticing that individuals are dying at all ages. Life expectancy is becoming questionable as well as women's quality of life. There are disparities in healthh care. There are also many concerns that w...

Immature Adults

March 20, 2024 01:00 - 1 hour - 34.8 MB

It has been said that maturity does not come with age. When it comes to dealing with an immature of childish adult what is the best response? Also what is considered immature behaviors when it comes to engaging in a relationship with another? Accountability and responsibility looks different for everyone. Often individuals may engage in childlike behaviors that may not have an impact on another however what is one to do if they find themself in a relationship with one that fail to thrive or a...

Projection

March 13, 2024 01:00 - 1 hour - 29 MB

It is said that maturity does not come with age. However, when a person experience pain be it internal or external such will be displayed in a number of ways. At times it could look like one may be ignoring things other times one may blame or project things onto others. It could be on purpose as a way to deflect or it could be unconscious to protect themself. However, when it it done to a love one or within a relationship such can destroy communication as well as the relationship.  Join myse...

Women On The Move

March 11, 2024 21:00 - 1 hour - 28 MB

March is Women In History Month. There are many women in the world that have done some amazing things and have made great contributions within their communities, the world and within their families. Often, such contributions are not recognized yet the impact has made a difference in the lives of others. If you are a woman on the move or would like to share about a woman that has made a big impact in your life I want to hear from you. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by...

Being Raised By A Narcissist

March 06, 2024 02:00 - 1 hour - 36.8 MB

Parenting is not an easy job. Individuals have different parenting styles as well as personailty types. When an individual is raised by a parent that may have an addiction, mental health issue or personality disorder such can be very challenging. Join myself and others 3/5/24 at 6pm Pacific as we discussed being raised by a narcissist. Individuals don't have the ability to choose their parents however, surviving childhood should not have to be difficult. One must also be aware of the behavior...

Toxic Attachments

March 04, 2024 22:00 - 1 hour - 40.9 MB

Have you ever wondered why one keeps choosing the same type of toxic relationships?  It seems like one will get into a relationships with individuals that possess the same behaviors just with a different name. As a therapist I have seen this far too often. As one explore their role the term toxic attachment comes to mind.  Toxic attachment denotes the way in which one form their closest and most intimate bonds. More often than not the toxic attachment is about the behaviors like jealousy, do...

Colorism

February 28, 2024 02:00 - 1 hour - 32.8 MB

We are still honoring Black History Month. Today I would like for you to join myself and guest callers as we provide insiight into colorism. Colorism is a prejudice or discrimination against individuals with dark skin tone typically among people of the same ethnic or racial group. Coorism within the Black community has been a serious emotional and psychological battle. Join myself and others as we discuss this topic as we must put and end to colorism and to do so will require a sense of awar...

The Crown Act

February 26, 2024 22:00 - 1 hour - 29.7 MB

Join myself and others as we discuss The Crown Act. I will discuss what it is as well as how it is being viewed today. In light of a case in Texas. What are your thoughts as it relates to denying a student an education due to the length of their hair? This has been an issue for individuals within the school system and within their employment.  To join in on the conversation call 561 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

Restoring Families

February 14, 2024 02:00 - 1 hour - 28.3 MB

The month of February is Black History Month. In honor of such join myself and others as we will be talking about restoring families. Last week we had a very interesting discussion which led to the question as to, " What happen to the black families?" Also how can we bring the black families back together? What is the importance of family? Relationships can be compicated. In may cases the death of a family member, the aging or illness of a family member can cause discord and friction with fa...

The Black Families

February 07, 2024 02:00 - 1 hour - 35.5 MB

The month of February is Black Histoey Month. In honor of such I will be honoring black families. It was estimated in 2022 that there were about 10.44 million Black families living in the United States. While the black family has been describe by some as a microcosm of the entire race. Its complexity as the foundation of African American life and history can be seen in numerous debates over how to represent its meaning and typical lifestyle is something that is often misunderstood however, ma...

Is The Church Keeping Women Single

January 24, 2024 02:00 - 1 hour - 42.2 MB

For some many have said that being single with faith could be a challange. This could be for a number of reasons. However it appears that their are more single women than men attending church. Church should not be a dating place. However a question has been in the minds of some as to if the church is keeping women single?  Join myself and others as we address this concern. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

Intentional Dating

January 22, 2024 22:00 - 1 hour - 28.9 MB

The dating concepts seems to be constantly changing. When it comes to dating what are people really looking for? Despite the many up and downs that individuals have experienced within relationships it seems that many individuals are still eager to continue to search for love but still find the marketplace harder to navigate. There are different types of daters. Some individuals may be chronic daters. Others many be dating looking for help. While there are those that may be intentional daters...

Change Is Possible

January 10, 2024 02:00 - 1 hour - 29.2 MB

With every New Year comes promises and attempts at making changes within one's life. However, do many individuals follow through? Change is a process. Changing one's habits or behaviors can be a challenge. Many individuals don't want to change unless asked by another, forced or may do so as an attempt to manipulate another.  How can a person go about changing a habit or behavior? Is change even possible? What are the stages of change? Let's talk about it. I want to hear your thoughts. To cal...

Relational Trauma

December 11, 2023 22:00 - 1 hour - 28.9 MB

How would you define relational trauma? Many individuals have experienced trauma while in a relationship with another and did not realize the trauma until years later. Relational trauma is trauma that occurred within a close relationship. It may not be caused by just a single event but perhaps ongoing events. The trauma can be from the result of ongoing abuse, abandonment or enmeshment just to name a few. It can happen within childhood and even as an adult. The impact can last a lifetime with...

Fake Friends

December 04, 2023 22:00 - 1 hour - 29 MB

How did you determine if a person is a true friend? Many individuals have been connected with individuals for so many years until they view them as a family member. How did you maintain that relationship? And what are some of the characteristics that you found beneficial to the relationship?  Join myself and others as we talk about fake friends. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. I want to hear your thought.

Lifetime Partnership

November 29, 2023 02:00 - 1 hour - 40.5 MB

When it comes to relationships many individuals have their own perspective as to how it should go. One would say that is should be 50/50. Others believe that the man should pay all of the bills. While one may agree to having two incomes. Communication is key. Honesty is a must. Traditional relationships are changing. What is your thought? Social media has been an outlet for individuals to express their views about relationships. Let's talk about it. To join in on the conversation call 516 387...

Character Traits

November 27, 2023 22:00 - 1 hour - 33.3 MB

How woud you define character traits? Who are you and how did you become that way? When most individual think about character traits a person character flaws or defects are what often come to mind. However, what about the positive character traits that an individual possess. Also it is possible for an individual to change once they become aware that a trait they possess is not helping them grow in life. Join myself and others as I talk about character traits. To join in on the conversation c...

Helping Others

November 20, 2023 22:00 - 1 hour - 27.8 MB

When it comes to helping others there can be some benefits. However when has your help gone too far? We are approaching the holiday seasons and there are individuals that are in need or some assistance in a variety of areas. Many individuals can be family members, friends, coworkers or total strangers. One of the issues that many individuals struggle with is helping others as they are not sure if they are helping, hurting or enabling.  Let's talk about it. I want to hear your thoughts. Hosted...

Chemistry Versus Compatibility

November 13, 2023 22:00 - 1 hour - 29.5 MB

Relationships are becoming very complicated. Many individuals are entering into relationships with different intentions and expectations. Join myself and others as today we will be talking about what attracts individuals into a relationship chemistry or compatibility? As well as what is needed to keep the relationship going? Often times one may say they was attracted to the individual. However what were they attracted to? Did the person have potential? Or could it be it was all in your head? ...

Friendzone

November 06, 2023 22:00 - 10 minutes - 4.34 MB

How would you describe a friendzone relationship? Have you been friendzoned with someone that you would like to have a dating or romatic relationship with?  In popular culture it is said that friendzone is a relational concept, describing a situation in which one person is in a mutual friendship wishes to enter into a romatic or sexual relationship with the other person, while the other person does not. This concept can be confusing and may frustrate a person as they may be holding on waitin...

Insecurities

November 01, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 37 MB

How do you define insecurity? Being perfect takes too much work and is difficult to achieve. However, many individuals are struggling with feeling insecure about a variety of things. Insecurity is an uncertainty or having an anxiety about onself. It is also considered a lack of confidence. Individuals can handle a certain level of insecurity from time to time however when such is impacting one's self esteem or self worth or perhaps causing difficulties within the relationships with others it ...

Cheating And Adultery Behaviors

October 30, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 28.2 MB

When it comes to cheating or adultery what is the difference? Relationships and marriages can be complicated however cheating and infidelity are not the only things that can cause a breakup or end the relationship. When it comes ot being a cheater it does it comes from watching others perhaps in one's family or circle? Or is it the partners fault? Too often the partner will blame themself however this behavior can be for many different reasons. Let's talk asbout it. I want to hear your though...

Breaking Family Cycles

October 23, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 38.7 MB

Being a cycle takes courage. One would bravely have to decide to stand up against the status quo. In such case it is family traditions, habits, attitudes and beliefs. When one become sick and  tired and start to realize that certain things are not working in their life or may perhaps may be causing chaos as they relate to others it may be time to go back to where things may have originated. One may then decide to pursue their own values and needs even if so may cause chaos within their family...

Breast Cancer Awareness Month

October 18, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 30.3 MB

The month of October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Join myself and others as I will be providing information and sharing information as it relates to breast cancer. In 2008 at the age of 59 my mother passed away from breast cancer. A breast cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming. Treatment options have changed over the years.If you are someone you know is dealing with breast cancer I want to hear your story. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914 at 6pm Pacific. Hosted by Jeanette...

Ending Domestic Violence

October 16, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 29.5 MB

The month of October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This evolved from the "Day of Unity" in October 1981 conceived by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The intent was to connect advocates across the nation who were working to end violence against women and their children. Domestic violence is prevalent in every community, and affects all people regardless of age, socio-economic status, sexual orientation, gender, race, religion, or nationality. Physical violence is oft...

Cheating Spouse

September 27, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 33.6 MB

Infedility can be traumatic and can be one of the most challenging problems faced in a relationship. While many individuals can be blindsided when they find out about the spouse or partner cheating others may have suspected the infidelity because of actions that are out of the norm. Many have used the excuse that I was accused which is why I stepped out of the marriage or relationship. Others may just be a chronic cheater or may have felt that there would be no consequences or perhaps it was ...

Stress And Grief

September 25, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 32.5 MB

When it comes to grief many individuals process it differently however, there may be expectations by others as it relates to how an individual should feel. However what most individuals fail to realize is the impact that stress may have on the individual which could at times lead to death of perhaps prolong the grief process.  Join myself and others today as I provide information regarding stress and grief. If you are dealing with either of them you do not want to miss this show. To join in ...

Self Defeating Behaviors

September 20, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 32.6 MB

Self defeating behaviors can be your own worsr enemy. It is common to retreat to negative behaviors when under stress or during challenging times. Such behaviors can vary such as alcohol and drug abuse, procrastination, becoming defensive, complaining, blaming others, negative self talk, people pleasing behaviors, and stubbornness.These behaviors can destroy lives as well as relationships. Self awareness and coping skills are important. One's thoughts and beliefs can be part of the problem. A...

From The Pit To The Palace

September 13, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 30.8 MB

Many individuals have experienced some type of trauma. There are three types of trauma acute trauma, chronic trauma and complex trauma. Symptoms can range from intrusive memories, avoidance, negative changes in thinking and mood and changes in physical and emotional reactions.Trauma can have signs and symptoms. While going through it is difficult to find purpose. Join myself and others as I interview Dr. Gail James an acclaimed Clinical Christian Therapist and Inspirational Speaker. Dr. Gail ...

Rebound Relationships

August 30, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 30.6 MB

When it comes to dating such can be an interesting process. People date for different reasons. One may not want to be alone, others may be chronic daters as other may be dating with the intention to marry or be in a committed relationship. A question has been asked, " If the relationship ends how long should one take before entering a new relationship?" Such response may vary. Then there are those that immediately start dating yet may not have healed from the previous relationship. When this ...

Modern Women

August 28, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 30.3 MB

The term Modern Woman can be a controversial topic.In our society we have tradition and what is considered to be traditional. When I heard of this new term I wanted to have an open discussion as I noticed that the role of a woman has changed and continues to be changing. The modern woman is said to have a voice, knows the need of other women and can take part in making important decisions in her community. There are challenges as to what a woman should be as well as how she should act. The ro...

Love Bombing

August 16, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 36.6 MB

Dating today is much different from what it use to be. Today there are different ways to meet people. However, the type of relationship, longevity of the relationship, communication, trust, and commitment means different things to individuals. Abuse within a relationship can present itself in different forms. Join myself and others today 8/15/23 at 6:00pm Pacific as we discuss Love Bombing. Love Bombing is a type of emotional abuse where someone uses grand gestures to manipulate another pers...

Confirmation

August 09, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 36.4 MB

How do one know when they have received confirmation? Many often get the word confused conformation. Acts 14:22; 15:32 refers to confirmation as the strengthening of mind, purpose, and conviction. It also speaks about confirmation enriches the baptized with the strength of the Holy Spirit so that they can better witness to Christ in word and deed. Confirmation is also considered as a gift of grace. Many are confused as to The Word of God. Many view being prophesized to as a way of receiving c...

Alcoholism And Mental Health

July 24, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 41.5 MB

There is a difference between alcohol use and abuse. There are many individuals that consider themself a social drinker. There are also individuals that have symptoms of alcohol addiction yet are unaware of how such condition can transition into a number of issues. Alcohol abuse can cause symptoms of depression, anxiety, psychosis and antisocial behavior, both during intoxication and during withdrawal. Many individuals have obtained assistance to address their mental health symptoms yet lack ...

National Minority Mental Health Awareness Month

July 19, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 38 MB

The Month Of July is National Minority Mental Health Awareness Month. Many minorities suffer in silence as it relates to their mental health needs. Many parents are also frustrated as they try to obtain services for their family members or love ones as it relates to symptoms and the behaviors of their love ones. Join myself and others as we discuss this very important topic. To join in on the conversation catt 516 387-1914. I want to hear your thoughts. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.

Setting Boundaries With Adult Children

July 17, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 34.8 MB

Boundaries is something that is necessary and important yet can be difficult to impliment. When it comes to implimenting them with your adult children they can  become a challenge for many reasons. Join myself and others 7/17/23 at 2pm Pacific as we discuss setting boundaries with adult children. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. I want to hear your thoughts. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT

Respecting Boundaries

July 10, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 36.5 MB

When it comes to boundaries many often have difficulties respecting the boundaries that have been set by another. Such can be for a variety of reasons. Boundaries are important for all types of relationships as it let's others know where you stand. If you have difficulties setting boundaries or feel that others often ignore your boundaries you don't want to miss this show. Live 7/10/23 at 2pm Pacific. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT

Helpmate

June 28, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 31.5 MB

When it comes to your relationship is your partner or companion a helpmate? Do you feel supported or safe? Is your partner providing appropriate guidance or assistance or could it be that you are perhaps wasting your time? When it comes to a relationship many individuals have their own perception as to how a relationship should be. Many individuals often minic the relationships that they saw from others including their family members or parents. Comparing your relationship with another can b...

Unnecessary Stress

June 26, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 32.3 MB

Stress is something that many individuals deal with on a day to day basis. However, it is a known fact that many individuals deal with stressors that are unnecessary. Such can lead to chronic illness or injury. Some common stressors are normal. Such at times can serve a useful purpose.Stress can be used to motivate as well as break a person down.  Join myself and other 6/26/23 as we talk about unnecessary stress. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT. To join in on the show call 516 387-1914. I want...

Fatherhood

June 12, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 29.2 MB

Being a father can be a challenging yet a rewarding experience. For many young men, fatherhood is something that many men have ignored as others have done their very best with the skills that they have to be the best father that they could be. Father's Day is approaching this weekend. How will you be honoring your father or the men in your life? I just celebrated my Uncle Leon's 96 Birthday and what I learned was that he was called daddy and granddaddy by many.  In honor of Father's Day join...

Becoming Delivered

June 07, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 29 MB

Many Believers as well as Non Believers struggle with being delivered from certain behaviors, habits or people. Sometimes one may not know how or where to start. Join myself and others as we talk about becoming delivered. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney 

Empty Nester

June 05, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 37.2 MB

This is the time if year when many parents are celebrating their child's high school or college graduation ceremony. Such can create both fear, joy, anxiety, depression as well as other mixed emotions. If such is your only or last child how are you dealing with the empty nest. Or have you even processed your feelings. As such will also affect one's behavior. Join myself and others today as we talk about empty nesters. There are some pros and cons as it relate to being an empty nester. It was...

Toxic Love

May 24, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB

How do you define love? Love can be an intense, deep affection for another person. Love also means to feel an intense affection for someone else. Love can refer to a strong like for something or someone. Love can have many other senses. It can be used as a verb and a noun. However what is one to do when the love has become toxic? Join First Lady Tammy Robinson and myself as we talk about Toxic Love. I want to hear your thoughts. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. Hosted by Jean...

Releasing Trauma

May 22, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 29.4 MB

Understanding trauma and it's impact on one's mental health, relationships, emotions and overall well being can be complicated. Many individuals have experienced some type of trauma. One may carry such trauma as well as act it out in many areas of thieir life. The behaviors one may exhibit can affect or impact others. The emotions can become complex and can become trapped in one's body causing phsyical as well as emotional pain.  Join Dr. Dave Tuck and I as wel provide information as to rele...

Resist Temptation

May 17, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 29.2 MB

Join myself and others as we discuss resisting temptations. Today we are living in a world where temptations are all around us. The temptation may vary. However there are ways to resist temptations. It was once said resist temptation and the devil will flee. However what does that really mean? How can one go about resisting temptations. I want to hear your thoughts. Hosted by: Jeanette Abney LMFT

Honoring Our Mothers

May 15, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 29 MB

Yesterday many individuals celebrated Mother's Day. Such is a day for mothers as well as mothers to be are honored by others. Such could also be a sad day for individuals who's mother are no longer living or they may perhaps be in a bad relationship with their mother. Question is how did you honor your mother or spend your day? Being a mother can be a difficult yet rewarding task and it is one that shoud be recognized more than just one day a year.  In honor of mothers I want to know if you ...

Womanizing

May 10, 2023 01:00 - 1 hour - 38.6 MB

When it comes to being a womanizer how would you describe such behaviors? In terms of defination such behavior can include when a man often has temporary sexual relationships with women or tries to get women to have sex with him .Many may not be aware of how such behavior can impact another in a lot of ways. A woman may perhaps be in a relationship with a boyfriend or husband and may not know or understand the behaviors or how to engage in a relationship with the individual. Join myself and ...

Wrongfully Convicted

May 08, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 33.8 MB

The Criminal Justice System is one that does not always play fair. There is also a saying, " Don't do the crime if you can't do the time." However what is one to do if they get arrested or convicted for a crime that they did not commit? A conviction may be classified as wrongful for several reasons: The person convicted is factually innocent of the charges.There may have been procedural errors that violated the convicted person's rights. Eyewitness misidentification, false confessions. police...

Situationship

May 01, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 29.7 MB

Are you in a relationship that seems to be undefined as to if you are exclusive or not? Are you spending time with a person yet it is not clear where the two of you stand? Dating can be complicated which it does not have to be. Often times when individuals meet they may have an interest in each other and enjoy spending time with each other. However when is the right time to discuss where the relationship is going? Situationship appears to be the new buzz word as it relates to relationships. ...

Effective Communication Skills

April 24, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 37 MB

Effective communication is a skill that is important to have. Whether one is speaking with a family member, partner, in the public or within the work place. How one communicate is very important. By delivering messages clearly there is no room for misunderstanding or alteration of message, which decreases the potential for a conflict. There can be barriers to communication. Individuals can also have bad habits. If you are in a relationship with another or have difficulties communicating with ...