People support a world they help create! In this episode you'll hear from one genius mom on how she avoided an argument and gained cooperation. She's a disruptor! Instead of saying what most parents say, "don't do what your friends are doing" she thought like a teen and instead asked what electives her friends were doing. Her daughter talked with her friends and came up with the solution mom was hoping for too. When we let kids feel the idea is theirs, they buy in and cooperate. They may even say "you're right."