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Managing Relationships: Acknowledging other ministry gifts
April 25, 2023 12:33 - 15 minutes - 14.1 MBToday's podcast is a very much-needed conversation. I look around the body of Christ and I see a lot of anomalies. Some have miss interpreted their roles and rather than cover, guide and counsel they want to control and dictate. I know there are Elizabeth- Mary covenant relationships. Women who acknowledge those gifts and anointings God sends their way. We need more of such especially within the local assembly. Identifying, acknowledging and appreciating the ministry grace around you is a s...
Managing Relationships (Submission)
April 18, 2023 09:17 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MBThe Bible's prescription for a successful marriage is clear. Husbands Love your wives, wives submit to your own husbands. Women who have the unique grace to be influential in ministry, the corporate world or in the marketplace, need to learn submission through the Holy Spirit not rob themselves of the unique role their husbands play in bringing out the best in them. The goal is not who is more influential, it is how we establish thr purpose of God.
Managing Relationship: Submission
April 04, 2023 07:39 - 18 minutes - 17.5 MBSadly, we have found ourselves in a generation where submission has been modernized. Many don't even want to hear the word submit. Immediately their guards are let up! They become defensive. Because of erroneous teaching on the subject, some have decided to throw away the baby with the bath water. Submission is emphasised at weddings as a law rather than a tenet of faith that is mutual. The issue of submission is drummed in the ears of young brides leaving out the importance of Christ being t...
Managing Relationships: Dealing with Offenses
March 29, 2023 11:53 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MBOffence is a cancerous plague attacking the body of Christ. We undermine its power to stand in the way of our progress and prosperity. John the Baptist was offended by Jesus. David's brothers were offended by his boldness and inquisitiveness. Joseph's brothers were offended by him because they perceived his father loved him more and he thought too highly of himself. Jesus could not do any miracle in his hometown because they were offended by him. Prov 18:19 says "A brother offended is harder ...
Managing relationships: "Mamarization" of things
March 21, 2023 08:27 - 12 minutes - 12 MBSadly, relationships nowadays have become very superficial. Some want to identify with the big names and shots just because of how it makes them look. It's just for thr gram. We call people mama and papa and yet they cant correct or rebuke us. We hop from one person to the other as it pleases us and when needed. Relationship is beyond someone's word, post or youtube video blessing you. It is deeper than that. It has to be genuine, time must be invested and it should be mutual. This is how we ...
Managing Relationships : Submitting to Authority
March 14, 2023 12:09 - 16 minutes - 15.3 MBHello Beautiful! This is so dear to my heart. See a lot of young people make the mistake of just running off on half revelation. Some feel because they now have a voice and a following they don't need anyone guiding or counselling them. Their ego has gotten in the way and they don't even realize it. God will always surround you with people that have gone ahead of you or are in positions you desire to be in. Emotional intelligence is very vital in delivering on your assignment. Sometimes these...
Managing Relationships: Diary of a pastor's wife.
March 07, 2023 08:50 - 10 minutes - 10.1 MBWelcome to March 💃💃. I am excited to be doing this with you this month. This March I will be looking at Managing relationships. Relationship is a currency more powerful than money. Many times money has failed and relationship has made a way. Managing the relationships God brings on our journey is very crucial to finding fulfilment and succeeding in the role. Not just as a pastor's wife but generally as a human being. Do not despise the importance of relationship and the role it plays in fulfi...
Be the Wife!
February 28, 2023 07:51 - 9 minutes - 8.92 MBWhoever said you must be the women's ministry leader simply because you are the pastor's wife. Too many women feel frustrated in roles they don't have grace for. Many have left their post like Queen Vashti and concerned themselves with duties they have no business with. The Pressure to be relevant has come at the expense of being the wife of the pastor.
Dairy of a pastor's wife: Do i have my assignment?
February 21, 2023 08:05 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MBI get asked this question a lot. Pastor's wives are perceived as women whose life purpose is to serve the purpose of their husbands. In this podcast, I tried to enlighten us and possibly change this narrative. Everyone who shows up on the earth has a unique assignment. That you got married to a pastor should not steal that away from you. Rather it should provide a platform for you to give expression to it better. Because marriage is a partnership that makes two better than one.
Offended and Anointed?
February 20, 2023 16:59 - 13 minutes - 6.8 MBToo many wounded people in the church. Many hurting by something someone did to them either unknowingly or unknowingly. Many have left the church or are in the process of disengaging because of unaddressed offences. I pray for healing and restoration.
Dairy of a pastor's wife: Now that i am a pastor's wife
February 14, 2023 07:05 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBRegardless of the role/office, it is such a unique privilege to be able to serve the purpose of God. But I believe the devil is trying so hard to stand in the way of helping many embrace the blessedness that comes with this unique responsibility. Being a pastor's wife if at all should enhance God's calling and assignment over your life. Embrace this truth and see your life blossom. 🥰
Help! I did not marry a pastor: Diary of a pastor's Wife
February 07, 2023 07:00 - 12 minutes - 12 MBWelcome to February!! To all my dear sisters who feel robbed because the man they married was a young committed brother who just loves the Lord but at the same time has a job or a career they are pursuing. Suddenly says he has a calling to pastoring. How? When? Such women begin to feel pressured and feel they will be deprived of their privacy and no longer will have full access to their husbands. Is that true?
Diary of a pastor's wife: Who is giving you labels?
January 31, 2023 07:44 - 11 minutes - 10.3 MBDo not try and fit into a box God did not put you in. To truly fulfil your assignment you need to be truly Free. Understanding that your true freedom does not come from being accepted by people but from being accepted by God. Do not fall victim to the trap of comparison. No one is the standard. Christ is our standard. We measure ourselves with Christ NOT another creation of His. Paul says it's unwise to do so. This year give yourself permission to truly live!!!
Embracing your Uniqueness.
January 24, 2023 11:16 - 9 minutes - 9.09 MBNO ONE is like you! Let that sink in. Think about it. Let it become a revelation to you. You were uniquely created and formed by God for a specific assignment that has your name tag and your thumbprint. That means no matter how many pastor's wives there are, no one can carry out your assignment the way you would. As you grow and subject yourself to inevitable change, as you allow yourself to evolve you permit yourself to become an improved version of who you are. To know this is to know peace...
Diary of a pastor's wife Episode 2: Her Identity
January 17, 2023 09:15 - 11 minutes - 10.3 MBThis January I will be speaking to your identity! Who are you? Is your life purpose defined solely by the office you occupy? Is there more to you? Did you know understanding your identity as first defined by God will help you fulfil your role as a pastor's wife? Did you even know that there are several expressions to who you were created to be? And being a pastor's wife is just one of the many ways to give expression to who you are meant to be. Click and listen! You will be blessed. ❤
Diary of a Pastor's Wife: He's got you!
January 10, 2023 08:31 - 5 minutes - 5.3 MBWelcome to 2023 and welcome to the first episode od Diary of a Pastor's wife. I am excited to be going on this self-discovery, purpose redefining and assignment-establishing journey with you. The office you occupy is a unique one that God only graces you to fill and function in. So come along. Every Tuesday let's unravel!!!
Lesson 39: leadership is servanthood
August 08, 2022 21:40 - 14 minutes - 2.53 MBIf you are not ready to serve then don't aspire to be a leader.
Lesson 38: Don't limit God, your assignment is way bigger than you.
August 07, 2022 22:11 - 18 minutes - 3.12 MBIt's not just about you. You are a part of something much more bigger than you.
Lesson 37: God does not speak English. He speaks spirit.
August 06, 2022 21:49 - 13 minutes - 2.3 MBYou need to train your spirit man to be able to decode how God speaks. You can limit Him to a language.
Lesson 36: you attract those you are graced to lead.
August 06, 2022 21:47 - 13 minutes - 2.32 MBThe people that navigate towards you are those you have grace for. Be sensitive
Lesson 35: God does not use untested vessel
August 04, 2022 21:52 - 17 minutes - 3.06 MBBefore you stand before Goliath, He will first test you with the lion and the bear Before you go naming Eve. He will test you with the animals..
Lesson 34: your experience cannot be seperated from how you lead.
August 04, 2022 16:49 - 30 minutes - 28.4 MBIt is important to own your story. Embrace your journey. It is unique to you.
Lesson 33: Rejection comes with the territory
August 03, 2022 19:36 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MBYou cannot get everybody to like you because you are not sent to all. Some will accept your assignment in their lives and some will reject it. It doesn't mean you have failed.
Lesson 32: you often don't qualify before you are chosen.
August 01, 2022 21:29 - 14 minutes - 2.57 MBGod does not call the qualified. He qualifies the called.
Lesson 31: Leadership is a privilege not an entitlement
July 31, 2022 21:34 - 14 minutes - 2.57 MBTo lead is to serve. Leadership is responsibility. It's not about how brilliant or better than others.
Lesson 30: Each child is unique
July 30, 2022 21:32 - 18 minutes - 3.15 MBIt is our duty as parents to train up A child the way he SHOULD go. To do that the responsibility is on us to know the way the child is meant to go.
Lesson. 29: Sex is a joker card in marriage
July 30, 2022 20:14 - 17 minutes - 2.98 MBOne of the key enabler of great marriage is great sex and its greatest enhancer is Great communication. Sex should be enjoyed within the confines of the marriage bed undefiled.
Lesson 28: The grass is greener on the other side because someone took time to take care of it.
July 28, 2022 21:37 - 20 minutes - 3.54 MBMarriage requires hardwork and deliberate commitment.
Lesson 27: sometimes love is expressed as pain
July 27, 2022 21:30 - 15 minutes - 2.65 MBDon't waste your pain, love can also be expressed as no. Jesus loved Lazarus he started back 2 days and the end of the day it was for his glory.
Lesson 26: To love is to Give!
July 27, 2022 21:22 - 15 minutes - 2.62 MBThere is no love without giving. Love is sacrificial it thinks not of self but of others. You will give of your time, resource, skills and money.
Lesson 25: Marriage is God"s power plan.His grand agenda.
July 25, 2022 21:34 - 18 minutes - 3.09 MBMarriage was instituted by God not just for multiplication but to carry out His assignment.
Lesson 24: love and faith are just two sides of the same coin
July 25, 2022 21:32 - 13 minutes - 2.33 MBFaith works through love. We all need a measure of faith to stay in love.
Lesson 23: Love is an action word.
July 23, 2022 21:40 - 19 minutes - 3.29 MBIn love we make compromises, sacrifices, we adapt, we make changes to accommodate our spouses differences. It's not just about spending money. It's about doing what it truly means to love.
Lesson 22: you can only let someone love you to the extent to which you love yourself.
July 23, 2022 20:52 - 14 minutes - 2.54 MBYou cannot give what you do not have. Find yourself, love yourself, acknowdge yourself then you can appreciate when someone loves you and you won't feel drained when you love someone.
Lesson 21: Love is NOT a feeling, it is a decison.
July 22, 2022 08:59 - 18 minutes - 3.24 MBYou decide to love someone based on an informed knowledge of your life together. Not based on just how you feel. Feelings are very unstable.
Lesson 20:My wealth is not defined by my material possession but by my circle of influence.
July 21, 2022 21:30 - 16 minutes - 2.86 MBYour life does not consist of the abundance of the things that you possess. Relationship is a currency.
Lesson 19: The Blessing of the Lord is NOT anything physical or material. He is a person
July 19, 2022 21:29 - 13 minutes - 2.4 MBThe blessing of the Lord makes rich and HE adds no sorrow. Prov: 10: 22 Don't mistake THE blessing for blessings.
Lesson 18: Value every level of relationship
July 19, 2022 21:25 - 14 minutes - 2.5 MBThe currency of life is relationship. No one is designed to be an island. We are social beings and God designed us to interact. Appreciate everyone God brings your way regardless.
Lesson 17: Everything starts with a seed.
July 18, 2022 20:59 - 15 minutes - 2.58 MBUnderstanding the power of a seed. Inside every seed is the potential for a BIG mighty tree. Do not despise the days of small begining.
Lesson 16: Believing the best of everyone regardless of background and opportunity.
July 16, 2022 22:37 - 13 minutes - 2.31 MBLife shouldn't always be about what I can get. It should be be with a pure heart believing the best in everyone God brings our way. You Never know!
Day 15: Prioritize those who make you a priority.
July 16, 2022 07:06 - 13 minutes - 2.29 MBDon't give your precious time to time wasters and those who are parasitic in nature. Not every one should be given priority. Your life. Wisdom requires that you pay attention to those who value you, your contributions, your time and your person.
Day 14: Never judge a book by it's cover. There are pages and chapters, get reading!
July 14, 2022 22:33 - 18 minutes - 3.26 MBWe are in a generations where everything is superficial. We don't invest time in know something before we make our conclusions. Remember, assumption is that lowest level of Knowledge. Don't be a victim.
Lesson. 13: Friendship is a powerful tool in fulfilling purpose.
July 14, 2022 08:18 - 17 minutes - 2.95 MBGod sends people our way as friends. Some are there for the long haul and some are seasonal and in phases. Understanding the importance of each will guide your heart and mind.
Day 12: there are often no 2nd and 3rd chances. Grab your one chance!
July 12, 2022 22:00 - 18 minutes - 3.22 MBWe often feel we will get many chances in life. Sometimes you are only presented with one window of opportunity, one life changing chance. What do you do? How prepared are you to embrace that opportunity?
Day 11: Separation is a master stroke in the hand of God for promotion and advancement
July 11, 2022 22:22 - 16 minutes - 2.77 MBSometimes God using separation as a tool to get us on track His will and purpose. It is not always easy or comfortable but trust God that He is working it all for your good.
Day 10: God is the God of the starts, stops, commas, turns, u-turns and slow downs.
July 11, 2022 08:16 - 15 minutes - 2.7 MBOur journey with God is never linear. There will be interjections along the way. But God in His sovereign nature was everything all planned out and makes sure everything works out together for our good. You just have to trust Him.
Day 9: There are No coincidences with God, only God-incidences.
July 09, 2022 22:37 - 12 minutes - 2.16 MBGod has a way of connecting the dots. He ensures you are at the right place, at the right time with the right person. He works behind the scene to ensure that His word does not fall to the ground void.
Day 8: Trust in the lord through it all.
July 08, 2022 22:58 - 22 minutes - 3.87 MBTrust God in the good and bad. Trust Him when it is clear and when you don't have all the answers. Trust Him in and out of season.
Day 7: to be under authority is paving the way for someone to be under your authority
July 07, 2022 21:27 - 18 minutes - 3.22 MBSubmitting to authority is like sowing seeds for the future. You can only give what you have.
Day 6 The Family is a tool in God's hand.
July 06, 2022 23:10 - 17 minutes - 2.95 MBSince we did not have an input in determining which family we came through, it was all within God's infinite wisdom. Then we need to trust Him that He determined what was best for us regardless of the imperfections and lack thereof.