You've done everything your mind has told you was right but deep down there is this feeling that something is not alright. - By Sri Krishnaji

Do you think outer change can ever be an enduring solution? 

You have gone in search of a more secure career choices or a more secure relationship to combat anxiety, or have taken pills. 

Your standard response to disappointment has been to search for more exciting options and newer people.

But any intelligent person out there will realise that these are not real solutions.