What do you do, when you don't know what to do? 1) You should focus on your values. Life is about discovering and becoming yourself. 2) Take action; Talk it out to get a second opinion' Trust your gut; Sleep on it Take a new job or quit an old one' Leave a relationship or stick it out and see if it gets better; go back to school to train for a new job' or stay put' spend money to fly to a cousin's wedding or skip it and send a gift. With decisions big and small, it's easy to be uncertain. You can also hem and haw and sit on the fence..