On this episode on Pillow Talk with the Tea Qimmah, Ashley and Aunyea speaks on the elements on how can you tell a good man or woman by these aspects and concepts are: 

Is Respectful

You feel valued and prioritized

Is Kind 

Follows through 

Encourages your growth 

Will actively listens 

Makes consistent effort 

There actions builds trust / Will always be honest with you

Will make you feel comfortable being honest

You feel loved

Will not be in a rush 

Will always make you feel beautiful

Will make you feel safe

Does the little things

Will never crosses the line

Will open up to you

Will never be abusive

Will stand by you


“When a someone commits their love and time to someone, there are no stipulations or circumstances required. There will be good times and there will be not-so-good times. There will be challenges and unexpected situations that arise. But he will stay by your side and be your teammate through it all.”

“Any man/woman can be by your side on the sunny days. The real test of character is whether or not he/she will hold the umbrella over you during the stormy days.”

Remember, if the person you are with puts in the effort to be this person for you, please let him/her know how much you appreciate them.


Ladies And Gentlemen if you still having an issue with telling if a man or woman is good than you need to now take a closer and deeper look at yourself and find out what it is about that you want, why are attracting the opposite of what you want (need) and deserve and begin to reflect on what’s going on with you. 

(Self Reflection/ Self Love/ Self Care/ Self Evaluation)









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