Parenting Unfiltered
84 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 19 ratingsWhen it comes to parenting, who really knows what they’re doing? Good thing you have sisters from the same mister to laugh your way through it. I’m Alicia Haygood and I’m Jessica Thomas. Each week we’ll talk about all the ups and downs of parenting. What you can’t expect is rainbows and sunshine everyday. As we have discovered, “Momming can be pretty shitty, at times.” So, come share a laugh with us while we talk parenting, without the pretty filter.
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Setting goals and setting examples
January 20, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 73.7 MBWe've talked about how important it is to teach our kids about setting goals and meeting them. How that feels when you hit success and the importance of it too. This week, we lived by example. And learn from our own failures and successes.
Advocating for your kids
January 13, 2023 07:00 - 38 minutes - 88.5 MBSpeaking up for what's right isn't always easy. And when it comes to your kid, you don't want to be the complaining parent, the controlling parent or the un-interested parent. There's a fine line one must take for that perfect balance. This week we dive into the right way to ask for what you want.
We're BACK! And it's 2023!
January 06, 2023 07:00 - 31 minutes - 71.5 MBCatch on up on how our holidays went. Santa, vacations, family traditions and NYE. 2022 went out with a BANG and 2023 started with a nap.
Raising kids in a religion or not?
December 23, 2022 15:09 - 33 minutes - 77.2 MBIt's Hanukkah week! Lots of festivites, sweets and presents all around. But when you're raising your kids in a mixed relgious household, does it get too confusing for them? And should we chose a religion for our kids or let them choose on their own?
Tiss the week before Hanukkah and all through the house...
December 16, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 77.1 MBHoliday break has officaly begun and the holiday's are right around the corner. Craziness is still happening, I mean DUH! life with kids. But, we're both excited for Hanukkah to this week. We talk about our holiday parties we're throwing, Jessica's ridiciulous baking schedule and some of our favorite Chanukkah memories.
Jessica's Birthday, (stupid) Elf on a Shelf and the magic of Christmas
December 09, 2022 03:43 - 37 minutes - 85.7 MBJessica is a whole year old at the ripe old age of 36. We talk about what it's like to be in her late 30's, how she celebrated and made sure she got the exact gifts she wanted. We also dive into the holiday spirit with Elf on a Shelf and the magic of believing in Santa. It's almost over for one of our kids.
Shopping Season (for ourselves), Thanksgiving is over and lessons Alicia learned
December 02, 2022 06:16 - 34 minutes - 78 MBWe play catch up after a week of Thanksgiving, family and travel. How much shopping happens for you compared to the family? And, how your kids aruging is actually GOOD for them. Jess, save the soap for a curse word or two.
Thanksgiving Week Chaos and Mood Swings
November 25, 2022 15:04 - 29 minutes - 66.5 MBHappy Thanksgiving to you! We hope you had a delcious day of feasting with family and friends. Tune in to hear how Alicia's handling life these days. A little crazy a little loving and a whole lot of bitching. We are truly Thankful and Grateful for each of you tuning in each week. And hope you have some good laughs as Alicia tries to release some Thanksigivng chaos and nerves.
How should we influence our kids?
November 18, 2022 07:00 - 32 minutes - 73.7 MBWe always want to make sure our kids are happy, living thier best lives. We, as parents, can influence them so much in life, what they eat, where they go to school, sports, friends, clothes etc. But how much is too much? When should life teach them a lesson and not us as parents. It's hard. We don't want to see our kids get their feelings hurt. We want to make sure they have the best of everything. But what lesson are they learning if we guide them too much?
Halloween Hangover....2 weeks later
November 11, 2022 14:39 - 30 minutes - 69 MBHalloween is exhausting! Parties, late nights and waaaayyy too much candy. We've recovered enought to finally tell how our weekend went. From Jessica's Beetlejuice bash, Alicia's walk of shame and the 10 lbs of candy from trick-or-treating (yes, we weighed it).
Fall Break Fun
October 28, 2022 16:59 - 40 minutes - 93 MBFall break has come and gone and we are so thankful. Hear how Alicia did camping (no that's not a typo) and how Jessica handled the last minute plans of her kids fall break. Hint, she didn't know about it until a 2 weeks before. We also get into reminding ourselves that while our kids are still super smart, they're only 8 and aren't all there....yet. The frustration with lack of logic!
Starting over with 3 kids
October 21, 2022 14:26 - 1 hour - 164 MBStarting over can be scary. Especially when you have no job, no place to go and 3 little kids in tow. But staying put can be even harder. Sunnie Feedoor was a young mom who knew that getting out of her situation was the way to show her kids, and herself, what doing the right thing means. No matter how tough it may be, growth, change and most importatnly happiness is what you need to chase in life.
Lazy Parenting
September 30, 2022 14:30 - 34 minutes - 79.6 MBThis week we dive in lazy parenting. Sometimes it's fine and sometimes it's not. We go over some of our lazy parenting moments and how it kind of bit Alicia in the butt this week.
Couples Retreat
September 23, 2022 07:00 - 26 minutes - 59.7 MBLast weekend we went on a couples retreat. No, there was no yoga, therapy or fireside chats. It was everything but that! Tune in to hear how we handled it all.
Second Child Parenting
September 16, 2022 11:09 - 38 minutes - 89.1 MBWe've talked about parenting styles in the past. But do you notice the differnce of kid 1 vs kid 2, 3, 4 in your parenting styles? This week we talk about the differences in our kids and how we mature as parents from the first to the rest. And you hear about Syndey's awesome water bottle stickers. Too much?
Life...
September 09, 2022 07:00 - 21 minutes - 48.4 MBThis week....well, it's kind of just another week. Life scheudles are starting to settle. School routines are working. And per usual, we're tired as Fu*k! Enjoy!
Finding the Green Flags in your marriage
September 04, 2022 14:59 - 21 minutes - 49.1 MBAlicia attended the What She Said event last week, in Scottsdale. An afternoon spent with some strong, determinded women to celebrate our accomplishments. One of the women she got to interview was @taranicolinaa Tara met her forver partner at the tender age of 19. Six years marreid and 2 kids by 25. Not the same lifestyle we were living at 25! Sit back and listen, as we learn how to see the green flags in life.
One and Done for this Mama
August 26, 2022 14:32 - 41 minutes - 94.7 MBMaking the decision to have a child is not always an easy choice. This week, we talk to Shannon Melton on her choice to have only one child. A reminder that sometimes we don't put ourselves first when it comes to life choices. (side note, Alicia's audio sucks. But not the content!)
The Importance of Extended Family
August 19, 2022 07:00 - 24 minutes - 55.6 MBFamily. We created it. We're a part of it. And while we all complain at some point about it, our extended family is who we are. Where we come from. And let's be real, NO ONE knows the crazy in your family except your siblings and cousins. This week, we talk about the importance of the extended family.
School is BACK!
August 05, 2022 16:27 - 35 minutes - 81.8 MBAlright parents, you made it through the summer. No more whining of "I'm bored" No more vacations needing to planned. School is BACK and it's time for those awesome, amazing, dedicated teachers to take over the daytime babysitting. Tune in as we talk about summer ending, Jessica not knowing when school starts and curriculum questions.
All Good Things Must Come to an End
July 29, 2022 07:00 - 30 minutes - 68.8 MBSummer is coming to an end. Nanny Alicia has hung up her bag of tricks. We talk about summer blues, making core memories and our own favorites past times.
Nanny Alicia & A Couple of her Kid Clients
July 22, 2022 07:00 - 26 minutes - 61.2 MBAlicia finally made it to GA! Whoo Hoo! We (ahem) Alicia is exhausted driving this minivan of rugrats around town. Tune in to hear how great of a job she's doing. Special treat this week! We have Sydney and Jaxon join in. Get ready for some laughs.
Expectations vs Reality for this new mom
July 16, 2022 00:29 - 35 minutes - 81.5 MBJessica's sister from another mister is here to talk about being a new mom!! Sweet baby Brooks was born in April and we got to ooo and ahhhhh over him while we talked about all of the ups and downs of being a new mom. We also discuss transitioning from the role of step-mom to mom.
Vacationing with Kids
July 08, 2022 07:00 - 24 minutes - 56.7 MBWho doesn't love a nive vacation. From relaxing on the beach, adventuring in the mountains or exploring a new place. All of these things are much needed. Now add in your little people and well, that's a whole new ballgame. Listen to how we vacation with and without kids.
Out is the New In is a non-profit to know about
June 26, 2022 16:38 - 24 minutes - 55.8 MBIn honor of LGBTQ+ Awareness month, we'd like to introduce you to retired Scottsdale Police officer Johnnie G. His son came out as gay at the age of 17. Afraid to tell his dad because of the macho police mentally, Johnnie embraced his son with love, admiration and support. It was then that Johnnie knew his passion in life was supporting the LGBTQ+ community. He launced Out is the New In. An amazing organization where a percentage of all purchases go to support other non-profit organizatins. ...
Living childhood through our children's eyes
June 17, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 75.9 MBWe all have great memories of childhood. Camping, roller skating and swimming all summer long. This week, we talk about reliving some of our childhood memories through our child's lifes. The good, the bad and the funny moments.
Mom's Sick and the world keeps going...
June 10, 2022 07:00 - 34 minutes - 78.6 MBWe're back!!!! Did you miss us last week?! Tune to hear how Alicia surived illness while the world didn't stop to care. Jessica chimes in with her two-cents on getting help with the kids.
Mental Health in Motherhood
May 27, 2022 07:00 - 29 minutes - 67.5 MBMay is Mental Health Awareness Month. And being a mom of two, our mental health is always in need of checking in. It's a serious topic that needs to be seriously talked about. Alicia is open about her journey in therapy this past year. Hear how we sisters get through the tough times, and teach our kids to get through the hard times too.
Positive Parenting Moments
May 20, 2022 07:00 - 29 minutes - 67.4 MBThis week is nothing but good news from this crazy crew. We decided to make a whole episode out of it!
Allana Robinson and Parenting Lessons
May 13, 2022 07:00 - 52 minutes - 120 MBWe have a special guest this week, Allana Robinson of the Uncommon Sense Parenting podcast. But don't let her podcast name fool you, she actually makes a LOT of sense. Buckle up parents, you're about to have a lot of "ah-ha" moments. And, I'm pretty sure we just made a new best friend in Canada. https://www.allanarobinson.com/
It's our FIRST Birthday
May 06, 2022 07:00 - 24 minutes - 55.9 MBHoly Cow! We did it! We survived our first year of Podcasting. And it's all because of YOU! We talk about how this grand idea of starting a podcast started, how we've grown over the year and what to expect for our 2nd year at Parenting Unfiltered.
How much should we know about our kid's school days?
April 29, 2022 07:00 - 36 minutes - 84.4 MBAhhhhh, PTO drama on this week's episode. You know Alicia loves bringing her PTO mama drama to the podcast. This week we discuss how much we should really know about our kid's daily lives. Is important to have every details of every day sent home to us? Or, should we ask our kids more and rely on them to tell us about their day?
Passover, Easter and Sex Talks
April 22, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 76.2 MBWhat do Passover, Easter and sex talks have to do with one another? Well, nothing excpet they all happened this week on Parenting Unfiltered. This week, we talk about our successful sedar's how much longer the Easter Bunny will last and how Alicia's sex talk with her son went.
How Exhausting can one person get?
April 15, 2022 07:00 - 31 minutes - 72.6 MBThis week, we had a "Who's more exhausted?!" competition. But seriously, do you ever feel like your well rested and ready to go? How long can one take it before a mommy timeout turns into a mommy vacation? hmmmm..vacation sounds great! There's a clear winner between us.
Girls vs Boys. When does it start to differ?
April 08, 2022 07:00 - 29 minutes - 67.2 MBWe all know that boys and girls are different. But when do they start acting different? This week, we dive into how our girls are outspoken in negative ways.
From College Besties to Parenting Together
April 01, 2022 07:00 - 22 minutes - 52 MBAlicia met Wes the beginning of freshman year at Ole Miss. They instantly hit off and have been best friends ever since. Now they're raising kids and the friendship is still just as strong. Listen as Wes and Alicia reminence on life pre & post kids.
Mom's Night Out...Vegas Style
March 25, 2022 07:00 - 24 minutes - 56.6 MBAlicia's birthday was last week. And if there's one thing you should know about Alicia, her birthday is the most important holiday of the year. So if you were going to do one night of celebrating, why not do that one night in Vegas?! Hear her tales of Mom's Night Out, in Vegas.
Working Towards a Goal
March 18, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 77.2 MBHow good are you at setting a goal and reaching it? How about your kid? This week we dive into ways to encourage our kids to make and reach those goals. Also, have you seen Disney's new Red Panda?
Butt Worms and other Fun things
March 04, 2022 07:21 - 35 minutes - 81.2 MBThis week we catch up and recap our family vacation, together. And yes, we also talk about Butt worms. They are just as gross as it sounds.
CIA Mom
February 25, 2022 12:50 - 38 minutes - 88.3 MBThis week we feature badass mama Cathleen Butler. We talk about her days as a CIA Targeting Officer, helping to capturing some of the most dangerous criminals in the world. But when it came time to start a family, the balance in life wasn't there. Cathleen talks us through the hard decision of giving up her job to be a stay-at-home mom. And starting a new career as a published aurthur. Her book, Juliet's War comes out later this year. https://cathleenbutler.com/ Follow her amazing story ...
Burnt out Parenting
February 18, 2022 07:00 - 47 minutes - 109 MBWe al feel burnt out on days. But what have you ever gotten to the point where your mental & physical health starting suffering...daily? Kandice Staudt joins us to talk about her struggle to balance life. Ultimatley something had to give.
Ex-Pat Parenting from an American/Peruvian
February 11, 2022 07:00 - 32 minutes - 75.4 MBParenting is rough, no matter which country you live in. But what about starting a new life and parenthood in a new country? This week we have Rachel Snare join us. American Rachel, met her Peruvian husband at MBA school. Moved back to Peru with him and started a family. So what's like to learn a new language, start a new life and family as an American? Hear her story as she gets ready to move back to the States.
How to Co-Parent after Divorce
February 04, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 77.7 MBThis week we have our friend Beth Tate join us to talk about how she put her kid first during her divorce. Leading with your mind over your heart to make sure you child feels nothing but love, from both parents. Sounds hard but it can be done. She also gives us a little tidbit into sex talk with an adolescense. How would you describe horniness??
Mommy Maintenance
January 28, 2022 20:30 - 31 minutes - 72.9 MBLet's be real, age really is just a number. It's kids, life, and everything else that ages our beauty. This week, we talk about our own beauty routines. What works, what doesn't and what we want to try next. We also are give some sisterly beauty advice to each other.
Are you turning into your parents?
January 21, 2022 07:00 - 34 minutes - 78.3 MBIt's enevitable. We eventually turn into our parents. But when? And why? We dive into the traits we see with out parents. And even call each other out on a few things.
From Cancer Survivor to Motherhood
January 14, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour - 139 MBSome people grow up imaging motherhood. The cuddles, smiles and crying. But no one really knows what their journey to becoming parent looks like. Definitely not the journey Rachel went through. Diagnosed with stage 3 cervical cancer at the age of 33, Rachel had no idea how that diagnosis would change her journey to motherhood.
Are you a prudish mom?
January 07, 2022 07:00 - 27 minutes - 63.7 MBThis week, Alicia calls out Jessica on being a prudish mom. She went from a pre-mom who used to twerk it (and was really good at it) to now family edited pop music. The debate goes on with some more stories of our childhood actions.
Happy New Year
January 03, 2022 04:37You DID IT!!! You survived another year of parenting!! This week we reflect on this past year, talk new year goal, Fuck a New Year's resolution and some of our favorite NYE memories.
Merry Christmas
December 24, 2021 07:00 - 29 minutes - 68.2 MBWe're back! And just in time for 'Ol St. Nick to arrive. Christmas is definitely a little different as a parent. This week we talk about what our holiday plans are. If you can't tell, we're not the kind of parents who buy into the whole "must have" toys. Are you?! We also reminisce about some of our favorite holiday toys growing up.
Are you a helicopter parent
December 10, 2021 07:00 - 23 minutes - 53.5 MBWhat kind of parent are you? This week, Alicia is a hungover, exhausted parent who really doesn't want to parent at all. Jessica, on the other hand, is chirpy, cheerful and baking cakes (again). We dive in to what kind of parent we are, and talk about the feral child in the neighborhood.