The “Shoulds” Others Put On Me
Pantano Christian Church Podcast
English - April 25, 2021 17:22 - ★★★★★ - 14 ratingsChristianity Religion & Spirituality pantano christian church tucson arizona non denominational inspirational difference radical Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Every time you say “yes” to one thing, you say “no” to something else.
There’s a huge pressure to do the shoulds others put on us. Sometimes those expectations form or influence the shoulds we put on ourselves. The expectations of others often cause us to feel like we are being evaluated, judged, rated, or ranked. The should of others implies we have failed or fallen short. Our natural reaction is to be angry, resentful, defensive, or pull away. Worse, when we try to live in the expectations of others, we end up living someone else’s version of our life rather than the version God desires. Whose story will we live? The one God has for us or the ones others have for us? We have to learn to be bold and say “no” to the shoulds of others that distract us from the story God wants to write in our lives.