Blame it on movies like She’s All That and 10 Things I Hate About You—but most of us believe (secretly or not) that we’ve got the power to reshape the right guy into our ideal mate. "We want to live that fairytale and believe that love can conquer all.

Here’s the reality—to get along with another human being over the long term, adjustments and transitions have to be made. Case in point: If one of you hates cats and the other desperately wants a kitten, one of you will have to cave to the other's desires (eventually).

Today's topic is Can you change a woman or man in a relationship?