When we enter into relationships of any kind we have to evaluate. This would not be a topic if I did not see so many broken relationships amongst my peers. I think we may fall deep for the wrong reasons, then once we're in deep we evaluate to find out that it might not work, then instead of spliting (if there's no marriage or children by this point) we get bitter and angry. This only makes me think that there needs to be more work on the front-end. For example, asking questions that may be uncomfortable, evaluating intentions and motives with the evidence through actions, and having the courage to walk-away if it ain't right or to challenge intentions without the fear of rejection.  Anyway, let's talk about it.