Exploring BDSM, Conflict Resolution, and the Power of Positive Submissive Men's Communities with Podopheleus

Ep 370:  Exploring BDSM, Conflict Resolution, and the Power of Positive Submissive Men's Communities with Podopheleus. He is an author, podcaster, and he runs submissive men's support groups.  Podopheleus started his pursuit into the world of BDSM four years ago. Since then, he has authored two books and runs support groups dedicated to submissive men journeying into the BDSM scene. His second book, "Sexual Equanimity," stands as an intriguing illustration of a submissive man's journey laden with emotions, relationships, and self-exploration.

His books: Sexual Equanimity (affiliate link, purchases through link give a commission to this podcast, thank you for the support!) https://amzn.to/3v1ikB2
Triple Form https://amzn.to/46ZzKeH

Get in contact with Podopheleus: https://linktr.ee/Podopheleus

His second book 'Sexual Equanimity', which delves into the life of a man navigating a breakup in the BDSM community. The conversation explores the significance of understanding oneself and setting boundaries to be an effective submissive. This episode highlights the importance of alignment in Dom-sub relationships, the value of open communication, and offers tips on finding a suitable dominatrix. He warns of the damaging effects of joining negative communities, like incels, and teases potential future projects. It concludes with a performance of 'Mistress, I'm Sorry', a song from the host's upcoming collection, which can be enjoyed alongside his book.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Presentation
00:37 Discussing the New Book: Sexual Equanimity
00:59 Exploring the Author's Website and Book Offers
01:34 Differences Between the New Book and the Previous One
02:38 The Creative Process and Challenges of Writing
03:12 The Story and Characters of Sexual Equanimity
05:10 The Unique Format and Structure of the Book
05:39 The Real Conversations and Experiences Behind the Book
06:14 The Emotional Journey and Growth Through Writing
07:00 The Educational Element and Musical Aspect of the Book
07:49 The Process of Recording the Songs for the Book
08:14 The Future Plans for the Songs and the Book
20:03 The Personal Impact and Growth from Writing the Book
31:44 The Importance of Finding the Right Dominatrix
42:01 Discussing Upcoming Sexual Topics
42:29 Interesting Interviews and Personalities
43:12 Future Projects and Collaborations
43:58 The Power of Personal Stories
47:02 Creating High-Quality Content
47:58 The Importance of Starting and Courage
49:45 Dealing with Criticism and Trolls
56:00 Personal Growth and Self-Reflection 58:18 The Importance of Boundaries 01:07:26 The Value of Direct Communication 01:09:25 Submissive Men's Community 01:15:08 Performing a Song from the Book

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