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Nother Mother Podcast

39 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 year ago -

Nother Mother Podcast is a podcast that discusses real life blended family situations. The good, bad and very ugly. We're awkward, honest and use vulgar language (sorry, not sorry!)

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Episodes

Episode 37: Raising Teens with Brooke (The Struggling Stepmom)

January 30, 2023 13:00 - 1 hour - 55.6 MB

Do you want to hear our take on what it's been like raising teenagers? What about raising teenagers that go between two homes? Brooke and I chat about puberty, connection, bad habits and our very obvious fears of the future when it comes to our teenage step children.

Episode 36: Dealing with Stress with Jes from The Wellness Element

January 23, 2023 13:00 - 1 hour - 56.8 MB

Stress...we all experience it on a day to day basis. Whether it's scrolling through social media, having an argument or in a time crunch at work. Honestly it's a lot...to top it off, being a part of a blended family and co parenting with a high conflict person can cause stress to the point of illness.  Jes, from The Wellness Element, is here to go more in depth on the conversation surrounding stress and the impact it can have on our overall health. She talks strategy, routines and rituals t...

Episode 35: Are you the Blacksheep?

January 04, 2023 13:00 - 56 minutes - 52 MB

I hope everyone had a fantastic Christmas and New Years break...let's dive in to what the next year looks like for me and what I am striving for. Also, I was able to to really dive in to my inner Black Sheep and can't help but notice some similarities when it comes to being a Stepmom. 

Episode 34: REAL stories Christmas Edition

December 23, 2022 13:00 - 38 minutes - 35.6 MB

This episode is not to made out to make you have a more negative outlook on the holiday season with a blended family, but to one day give you hope that not every Christmas will be a fight or stressful trigger. But there is a huge chance that one day it can be shared without any negativity or drama. Stay hopeful, stay consistant- this too shall pass. Merry Christmas listeners, I wish you nothing but happiness this year! xo Dana

Episode 33: Relationship help with Transformed Couples

December 19, 2022 13:00 - 56 minutes - 52.2 MB

Did you know that 60% of second marriages end in divorce? That statistic, combined with their own experiences as a blended family is what pushed Garrett and Chelsea to start Transformed Couples and help other blended family couples (and nuclear family couples) to help communicate and resolve conflict in healthy ways to make them feel more connected and resilient.  Listen as we dive in to the meat and potatoes of relationship conflicts and how they can help you get your romance back on track....

Episode 32: Self Care and Stepmom Guilt

December 07, 2022 13:00 - 50 minutes - 47.2 MB

How much are you actually prioritizing yourself these days? When is the last time you actually did something for you? Being a part of a blended family can add some stress to your life (as well as many amazing experiences too) and as a result, it is extra important to make sure you make time to destress and rest. Let's talk about ways we can take care of ourselves, Stepmom guilt and whatever else comes up!

Episode 31: Guess whose back again!?

November 16, 2022 13:05 - 55 minutes - 51.3 MB

After a long extended break while I get my shit together I'm happy to update you all on what's been going on with me! A proposal, new members of the family, a positive turn around in co-parenting and some normalcy for my kids. Listen in on what's been going on and what Nother Mother Podcast has to look forward to!

Episode 30: Raising the Children Differently

March 28, 2022 12:00 - 42 minutes - 38.9 MB

It can be hard to navigate how to raise your children with your spouse, but when you mix in the mine, yours and ours kids, it cant feel like you're juggling too many things at once. Dana discusses her tips on raising them differently and trying to meet your bonus children half way.  PSA: this will take an open minded and patient person to attempt. Enjoy!

Episode 29: Back at it again!

March 21, 2022 12:00 - 46 minutes - 42.6 MB

Back in the saddle again!! It's been a few months since I recorded anything. Life has been an absolute gong show and I can't believe how good it feels to sit down and talk it out. Just a little update on what's been going on in my house with my family and why I felt the need to take a break and focus on ALL. OF. IT. In this episode I'll fill you in on an update with my dad's health, and what that relationship with him is like. An update on what it's like raising a teenager who is having a ...

A letter to my Bonus Daughter

January 26, 2022 13:00 - 6 minutes - 5 MB

A letter to my bonus daughter. These are all things that I have reminded her throughout the entire time we've been a blended family- but I felt the need to get those feelings out to inspire others. We have had so many ups and downs that I think it's so important to remember the times when we were getting to know each other and the relationships were being built. I know how many cons there can be when comparing a blended family to a nuclear family, but how many people not only get to fall in ...

Episode 28: Cellphones & Social Media

January 20, 2022 13:00 - 38 minutes - 35.9 MB

Discussing such a controversial topic that everyone seems to have an opinion on (of course everyone is entitled to have one). At what age is best to give your child a cell phone? What about social media? And is it something we should be discussing with our co parents before deciding to purchase one for our kids? Dana talks about her experience with her bonus child's social media and how it has affected her blended family. 

Episode 27: Stepmom Insecurities

January 14, 2022 13:00 - 36 minutes - 33.5 MB

An update on my bonus daughter's upcoming birthday, and walking through all of the insecurities that we as Stepmom's have rolling through our brains on a daily basis. Let's start rewiring our brains to thinking differently about what we are actually worried about and just cut ourselves some slack! 

Episode 26: How your high conflict co-parenting situation is affecting others and how you can fix it

January 07, 2022 13:00 - 30 minutes - 27.9 MB

Have you ever felt the whole room shift when you and your spouse exist in the same room with other people? Or maybe you have some mutual friends that have heard both sides of the drama? This episode is for you. Let's set some boundaries together and learn to control what we let affect us. If this type of drama is affecting people outside of the home, can you imagine how our children feel....It's time to do better, together!

Episode 25: Christmas Update/Stepmom Hacks to keep you on track to the New Year

December 30, 2021 05:19 - 48 minutes - 45.2 MB

Merry Christmas!! Dana updates you on how Christmas went with her blended family and the special moments that were captured along the way. It's not everyday we have MULTIPLE positives but this holiday season was very special!  Dana discusses the 6 things that she does between Christmas and New Years to keep her family on the right track and get things back to normalcy to be the most productive she can be.

Episode 24: Homeschooling in a Blended Family with Special Guest Megan!

December 20, 2021 13:00 - 49 minutes - 46.1 MB

Amanda & Dana welcome Megan from Instagram (@be.arrows4homeschool) onto the show, where she chats with us about homeschool and how that works for her blended family. We talk about how in the world she was able to get all of the parents on the same page, homeschool curriculums, a day in the life of a homeschool and other wonderful resources she has to inform us with when looking into homeschooling your kids. We hope you enjoy!

Episode 23: Differences in Family Values

December 14, 2021 13:00 - 41 minutes - 38 MB

Dana gives an update on what's going on with the podcast right now, updates listeners on a small win involving a hair appt with her bonus daughter and shares all of her trials and tribulations regarding how different the two households are and how it is affecting her bonus daughter.

Episode 22: Preparing for the Holidays in a Blended Family

November 29, 2021 13:00 - 33 minutes - 31.3 MB

Dana tells a few naughty Christmas jokes (sorry, not sorry) and gives some advice on preparing for the holidays before shit hits the fan! Don't be afraid to reach out to us if you had something else to add. Please remember that we are not experts and thought not all of this may be applicable to you and your family. Enjoy!

Episode 21: Am I the drama?!

November 16, 2021 13:00 - 45 minutes - 41.9 MB

Dana goes solo on this episode to discuss self reflection of your role as a stepmom. Have you ever thought about whether or not you add conflict to your blended family? It is something that you may be doing regularly that you didn't even think was a big deal. Dana gives 6 examples of high conflict behavior and examples of situations she has been through and changed for the better. You are not alone- enjoy the show!

Episode 20: We did NOT know what we were getting into

November 08, 2021 13:00 - 51 minutes - 47.9 MB

Amanda and Dana catch up on Halloween, recent events and all of the things we didn't know when getting into a blended family. Raise your hand if, while venting about an issue, anyone has ever told you "You knew what you were getting yourself into..".  This is literally the worst thing you can say to a step parent because not one of us actually knew how any of this would pan out. There are certainly a lot of beautiful and amazing experiences to be had but society has drawn a veil on a lot of...

Episode 19: Covid Politics and Being Blended

September 21, 2021 12:00 - 56 minutes - 52.2 MB

Dana & Amanda discuss the ongoing dividing issues of Covid Politics combined with the stressful role of being a Stepmom and how this all effects our kids. 

Episode 18: Bonus Mom Guilt is REAL

September 13, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 66.2 MB

Amanda and Dana vent about the real deal of stepmom guilt and how real it feels in this season of Motherhood. I REPEAT: You. Are. Not. Alone.

Episode 17: Nature VS Nurture

August 30, 2021 12:00 - 54 minutes - 50.6 MB

Amanda and Dana discuss the old debate of nature versus nurture and how that aligns with being apart of a blended family. 

Episode 16: We're Back! Here's what's up!

August 16, 2021 12:00 - 43 minutes - 40.4 MB

We took the summer off to be present with our chaos and we missed you! Here's an update on what is up with our Blended Families!

Episode 15: Would you Rather with Brooke

June 28, 2021 12:00 - 20 minutes - 19 MB

Dana & Amanda play Would you Rather with Brooke @thestrugglingstepmom. We had to keep the episode short and sweet but can't wait to do another one at a later date!

Episode 14: Bonding with your Bonus Child(ren)

June 21, 2021 12:00 - 57 minutes - 53.6 MB

Dana & Amanda discuss how they bonded with their children, and how they continue to show up for their bonus children. Huge shoutout to @mynourished home for the amazing tips on how to build relationships with your bonus children. Oh and.....Dana got DUCKIES!!

Episode 13: Let's Talk About Sex

June 10, 2021 12:00 - 57 minutes - 53.4 MB

Amanda & Dana talk about SEX. Tips on how to spice things up in the bedroom, pure exhaustion from motherhood and having the "talk" with your kids.

Episode 12: Infertiltiy & Positive Co-parenting with special guest Sarah

May 31, 2021 12:00 - 58 minutes - 54.1 MB

Dana & Amanda welcome Sarah (@ukstepmum) on the show to discuss positive co-parenting, putting the kids first, infertility and the amazing work she has done by putting a petition together in the UK for women in a blended family to have access to fertility treatments. 

Episode 11: Stepmother's Day Aftermath

May 19, 2021 12:00 - 25 minutes - 23.8 MB

Amanda & Dana are reunited once again and it feels so goooooodd! We just had to discuss our Stepmother's day shitshow and compare notes. How was your Stepmother's Day?!

Episode 10: Stepmom Support System

May 17, 2021 12:00 - 55 minutes - 51.4 MB

Amanda & Dana chat with Brooke from The Struggling Stepmom blog to discuss all things stepmother-hood and how to be a strong support system for that stepmom in your life. To read Brooke's most recent blog on 'A Stepmom's Need for a Support System' head on over to  www.strugglingstepmom.com 

Episode 9: The Preteen/Teenage Stage with The Stepmum Collective

May 11, 2021 20:57 - 1 hour - 60.3 MB

Dana & Amanda discuss the difficult stages of raising a preteen/teenager in a blended family, with Billie & Jordan from The Stepmum Collective.  The Stepmum Collective has started a petition for women in the UK to receive fertility treatment, because they are denied as a result of their spouse already having a child. To sign their petition click on the link below. Petition · Stop denying women fertility treatment because their partner already has a child! · Change.org

EPISODE 8.5: Getting Through Mother's Day

May 08, 2021 12:00 - 33 minutes - 31 MB

To all the Bio Mom's, Step Mom's, Foster Mom's, Mom's-to-be or Childless Mom's, you are amazing and SO appreciated- this episode is for you!

Episode 8: Blending Extended Families

May 03, 2021 12:00 - 54 minutes - 50.9 MB

Introducing your new family to Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents or even your Parents, can be really stressful and awkward for everyone involved. Amanda & Dana talk about their experiences and tips on who to make the transition smooth.

Episode 7: Would You Rather?- Stepmom Edition/Off topic Shit

April 26, 2021 12:00 - 57 minutes - 53 MB

Taking a break from the serious shit- let's have a laugh! Amanda & Dana play the Stepmom edition of Would You Rather? And updates on how things are going lately- Dogs, Ducks, Covid & some suggestions on staying positive. Enjoy!

Episode 6: Being Raised by a Narcissist

April 19, 2021 12:00 - 58 minutes - 54.2 MB

Are you co-parenting with a narcissist? Dana & Amanda discuss their experiences of being raised by someone with narcissistic behavior and give tips on different strategies on how to deal with one.

Episode 5: Questions in 2020

April 12, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 71.8 MB

Dana & Amanda create an open discussion on what is going on in the world and how it affects our families. Being in a lockdown for over a year and all of the inconsistencies we've experienced, lead us to ask the questions that we haven't been provided answers to and give an open and non judgmental space to discuss this as parents.

Court Prep Survival Guide

April 06, 2021 12:00 - 50 minutes - 46.8 MB

Amanda & Dana discuss how to prepare for court, mediation and arbitration given their own experiences. Self care, organization & appearance are just a few of the topics discussed in this week's episode.

Episode 2: Covid 19 & Being Blended

March 29, 2021 12:00 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MB

Dana & Amanda discuss the impact that Covid 19 has had on blended families and the adjustments that have been made. Stress, relationship strains, and mom guilt are just a few of the hurdles blended families have had to adjust to. 

Episode 2: Co-parenting VS Parallel Parenting

March 22, 2021 12:00 - 54 minutes - 50.6 MB

Discussing the pros and cons of co parenting and parallel parenting in a blended family and what that could mean for your family.

Step Mom No No's

March 15, 2021 14:00 - 54 minutes - 50.5 MB

Our very first Episode!! Thanks for tuning in loves! This episode focuses on what NOT to do when becoming a stepmom. Amanda and Dana reached out to hundreds of stepmom's around the globe to give advice to new step mom's, and this is what they recommended. Grab a drink (or whatever) and enjoy!