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Object Relations - Heads or Tails?

Not My Type

English - February 14, 2024 10:00 - 37 minutes - 51 MB - ★★★★★ - 21 ratings
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Jack and Jessica discuss a model of Object Relations manifesting on a quarter.




0:40 - Overview / review of Object Relations


3:00 - Assertive Types (3, 7, 8) and the Nurturing Object


4:09 - Compliant Types (1, 2, 6) and the Protecting Object


6:08 - Withdrawn Types (4, 5, 9) and the Belonging Object


7:53 - Hexad vs. Triangle


9:27 - Using a quarter as an "object" lesson: Frustration and Rejection as two sides of the same coin


13:53 - Attachment Types continuing connection to their Objects


15:54 - 7 and 8 having opposite affects toward the Nurturing Object


17:13 - Hexads per Center of Intelligence as inversions of each other


20:56 - Jack vocalizing his opinions


22:15 - Triangle types ending up somewhere they didn't intend to be


24:46 - Hexad types having already toppled / landed


25:37 - Attachment Types refusing to individuate


27:49 - Difference between the life journeys of triangle types and hexad types


30:36 - Jessica's real-time Frustration


33:40 - Sample of a past argument




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