54. How to Recover and Rebuild Your Marriage w/Chad N. Zueck

Chad and his wife were high school sweethearts with a resolve to never divorce, but they didn’t get any instruction on how to stay married and they didn’t realize how broken we were. They thought they were normal, but "normal marriages" in both of their families usually ended in divorce. 

Chad and Marla didn't divorce but their struggle could have destroyed their marriage. Military service, college, different shifts, kids, and being ill equipped makes for a difficult marriage. Chad breaks down some things that he learned about himself and what they did to recover and rebuild their marriage. This one is real and raw. 

Here are some things Chad mentioned in the opening of the podcast: 

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"A wounded heart without the cure is like a severely wounded animal… it runs for thick cover and dies alone." -Chad N. Zueck

A few Takeaways: 

Here are some things that will help you become a better man/husband.

Commit to your wife. Really commit. No divorce option marriages fair better than those who think marriage is a contract (an exchange for goods and services).
Develop Soft Skills (listening, communication, non verbals, handling conflict, Being honest, Integrity, Sit in silence during your morning ritual (quiet time), hand holding
Find Chivalrous Ways to Honor.  Her Open the Door for your wife (girlfriend)
Find creative ways to SERVE HER (without thinking sex is the payoff for your efforts)
Bring Your Bride to Church
Take walks together
Make Her a Priority
Lead her by example.
Lead her by being considerate
Ask, "What are your dreams and goals?" 

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