If you’d met me before I became a mom, you would have been impressed. Not only had I earned a master’s degree and become the boss at my job, but I also wore stylish outfits and blow-dried my hair every time I took a shower, which was daily. So when I became a stay-at-home mom, I assumed that all the drive and determination that I’d brought to my career would make me an amazing mother. Here's why I'm not even close.