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Midlife Plot Twists with Lucy Baber

29 episodes - English - Latest episode: 11 months ago - ★★★★★ - 4 ratings

Welcome to Midlife Plot Twists with Lucy Baber! In this show, we'll be chatting about all of the weird and unexpected ways that our lives seem to be changing as we inch closer to turning the big 4-0. As my friends and I start approaching 40, we all seem to have one thing in common—MAJOR PLOT TWISTS are happening all around us.


We're seeing midlife career changes and body changes, responsibilities shifting, and so much more. Whether you're starting over in something major in your life or have accomplished the goals you set for yourself, we're tackling the big questions we all have... like what now or what's next?


Join us on this journey to discussing the topic of women's issues as we approach midlife (or maybe you're already there). Hit subscribe and tune in!


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S2E15: Moving On in Midlife with Elaina Wright

August 04, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 67.2 MB

In every season of life, we're face with letting go and moving on from certain things. In today's final episode of Midlife Plot Twists, we're talking about exactly that. My dear friend Elaina Wright joins me to discuss the major midlife plot twists that have happened over the last few years, how they've impacted our lives and what it has looked like to move on from them. I've enjoyed the beautiful and magical conversations that have come from this podcast over the last three years and have ...

S2E14: Feeling Complete in Midlife with Raquita Henderson

July 07, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 68.9 MB

By the time we reach midlife, many of us are aware of what we want for ourselves and those around us. Fellow photographer, Raquita Henderson lives a life that allows her to feel complete. Through this process, she's gone through her own personal growth journey that has allowed her to be a woman she (and the people around her) can be proud of. Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help photographers better serve people. If you're ready to invest in yoursel...

S2E13: Midlife Plot Twists in the Movies, Pt. 2 with Scott Zielinski

May 26, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 104 MB

Did you love our conversation last year about midlife plot twists in the movies? We're back with part 2, where we're diving into the final 5 movies that feature a midlife plot twist! Scott Zielinski joins me again to share his knowledge on all things horror and discuss some of his favorite plot twists with me! Spoiler alert... we do share a few spoilers throughout this episode! Listen to part 1 of this conversation here in season 2 episode 7. Today's episode is brought to you by my mento...

S2E12: Midlife Caretaker with Arianna Neromiliotis

April 28, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 86 MB

As we get older, so do our parents, which sometimes means that we become their caretakers. Arianna Neromiliotis knows the intricacies of being a caretaker in midlife very well, as she ultimately had the opportunity to be an advocate and caretaker for her mother for the last few years of her life. Arianna's mother, Aurora, began showing signs of Dementia beginning in 2017, but in 2019, she ultimately needed full-time care. Listen in as Arianna shares how she approached her mother's diagnosis,...

S2E11: Midlife Soul Work for Dating with Tracy Ready

March 31, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 102 MB

Are you putting yourself out there in the dating realm? Whether it feels like you're finding success or you're struggling through bad dates, Tracy Ready believes the first step is through soul work. In today's episode, Tracy joins us to share about her program, The Soul Detox, and how you build a healthy relationship with dating (or with a partner) through that soul work. Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help photographers better serve people. If you...

S2E10: Midlife Fertility with Sharon Fisher

February 24, 2023 11:00 - 53 minutes - 73.3 MB

Have you waited to have children? Maybe you're just curious about your hormones in midlife! Today's guest, Sharon Fisher joins me to discuss midlife fertility, motherhood, and hormones in today's episode! Listen in as we discuss how our bodies change, what to expect with menopause and perimenopause, and resources for treatment! Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help photographers better serve people. If you're ready to invest in yourself and your busi...

S2E9: Midlife Investments with Jhanel Wilson

January 27, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 40.2 MB

Investing in real estate can feel intimidating, yet the opportunities are valuable once you grasp how they work. Real estate investor, Jhanel Wilson joins us to share how she has built her $12 million real estate empire over the last 19 years. Listen in as she shares how she got started with her first investment, what new investors need to know, and how to build a team that supports your investment opportunities. Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help...

S2E8: Midlife According to the Cards with Jenna Matlin

December 16, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 61.3 MB

Have you had tarot cards pulled for you before? In today's episode, Jenna Matlin joins us to talk about her experience as an intuitive reader, along with the history of tarot. Listen in as she explains the dynamics between tarot and psychology, why people typically turn to tarot for the first time, and what impacts tarot can have on you in mid-life! Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help photographers better serve people. If you're ready to invest in ...

S2E7: Midlife Plot Twists in the Movies, Pt. 1 with Scott Zielinski

November 18, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 63.8 MB

It's not often that I share my own midlife plot twists here on the podcast, but today, I'm introducing you to two of them, my newfound love for horror movies and my partner, Scott Zielinski. In this episode, Scott and I begin our two-part series on 10 horror movies that feature a midlife plot twist! If you're a fan of horror films and plot twists, this episode was made for you! Spoiler alert... we do share a few spoilers throughout this episode. Today's episode is brought to you by my mento...

Season 2 Episode 6: Growing from Midlife Pain with Kirsten Lewis Bethmann

October 28, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour - 85.7 MB

As we get older, we hope things get easier, yet many of us face some of our worst fears during midlife. In today's episode, Kirsten Lewis Bethmann joins us to talk about growing from midlife pain and experiences. Listen in as she shares how her life has shifted in the last two years, what experiences she's had to overcome, and the growing process. Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help photographers better serve people. If you're ready to invest in yo...

S2E5: Midlife Financial Planning with Ashley Adams-Duncan

September 30, 2022 10:00 - 56 minutes - 51.8 MB

Have you financially prepared your loved ones for when you're gone? It's not something we like to think about or even consider until later in life. The truth is, it's never to early to get life insurance! In today's episode, Ashley Adams joins us to share about how her mother's passing impacted her family, both emotionally and financially. The experience she had through her mother's death led to a major career change in which she now advocates for life insurance as an agent. Listen in as Ash...

S2E4: Midlife Diagnosis with Emily Zilber

August 26, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour - 55.2 MB

Getting diagnosed with ADHD brings a lot of clarification and answers to a long-time struggle, but that diagnosiss doesn't come lightly. In today's episode, Emily Zilber joins us to share what it looked like to get diagnosed with ADHD in her 30's. Through finding a community to getting access to resources, listen in as she shares her story. Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I help photographers better serve people. If you're ready to invest in yourself ...

S2E3: Midlife Body Relationships - Latoya Dixon Smith

July 29, 2022 10:00 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MB

Our desires shift as our bodies change, which can cause problems with partners if we aren't sure how to communicate with them. Latoya Dixon Smith of Greenville Boudoir joins us to share about her work not only as a boudoir photographer, but a sex doula. Listen in as Latoya explains what her role is as a sex doula and how she helps her clients, along with the approaches she takes and tools she uses in her practice! Today's episode is brought to you by my mentorship opportunities, where I hel...

S2E2: Finding a Mentor

June 24, 2022 10:00 - 1 hour - 55.9 MB

While most of our conversations happen with those who are either approaching midlife or currently living in it, today's guest isn't quite there yet. Korie Mitchell joins us for today's conversation to share how finding a mentor in her late twenties has impacted her personally and professionally. Now 30, Korie is able to reflect back on the power of mentorships in her life, how to approach finding the right mentor, and what to look for! You can view full show notes at http://midlifeplottwist...

S2E1: Midlife Mindset

May 27, 2022 10:00 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MB

Season two of Midlife Plot Twists is here! If you wondered where I've been, what's been happening since our last episode aired, and what's coming, this episode was made for you. This is my first episode since turning forty, so I'm getting a little personal about life, my business, and this podcast—along with the mindset shifts that have happened for me over the last few years! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

#013: Midlife Creativity - Rachel Mayer

July 30, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 56.7 MB

Have you held yourself back from exploring your creativity to its fullest? Rachel Mayer, a Philadelphia based piano teacher, realized as she was approaching midlife that she's never really taken chances or stepped outside of her comfort zone when she came to creativity—despite having an identity in creative arts. Listen in as she shares how she decided to redirect the story she'd been telling herself her whole life. Rachel explains how she found a way to step out of her comfort zone, explor...

#012: Sex & Faith in Midlife - Reverend Dr. Beverly Dale

June 25, 2021 12:37 - 56 minutes - 51.7 MB

It's not often that you hear of faith-based sex positivity being discussed by a well respected Reverend. Today, our special guest is Reverend Dr. Beverly Dale, aka Dale, who is the founder of The Incarnation Institute of Sex & Faith, joins us to discuss sexual healing, sex positivity, and faith! In this liberating conversation, she peels away the barriers that many of us put up from a sex negative upbringing and shares scripture-based references highlighting how many churches could shift how...

#011: Redefining Relationships in Midlife - Paige Wolf

May 28, 2021 10:00 - 59 minutes - 27.1 MB

The role that certain relationships play in our lives is ever-changing, but what about how we view relationships in general? In today's episode, Paige Wolfe joins us to share about how being a polyamorous woman has impacted her life and relationships. Paige, a wife and mother, has chosen to live an open life of acceptance! Listen in as she educates us on polyamory, deciding what relationships are right for you, and what it's been like to explore dating and a polyamorous lifestyle during midl...

#010: Midlife Reinvention - Paige Lewis

February 12, 2021 12:00 - 55 minutes - 50.7 MB

Over the course of our lives, we've been molded into the people we are today. What happens when the things that have defined us for so long leave our lives? In today's episode, Paige Lewis joins us to discuss what it means to reinvent yourself, a challenge she's faced a few times in her life. From leaving a religious cult as a teen to changing professions in midlife due to health concerns, Paige's resilience has given her the bravery she needs to make it through. Listen in as she describes ...

#009: Women's Health in Midlife - Julie Cristol

January 15, 2021 11:00 - 53 minutes - 49.4 MB

As women age, we begin to face new experiences in our health for which we have not had a chance to really prepare. Examples include menopause, and the less commonly discussed, perimenopause. Thankfully, Julie Cristol so graciously agreed to join me for this special episode where we discuss the questions that most women are nervous to ask about menopause, advocacy, healthcare, and even sex! Meet Julie (00:51) Perimenopause (3:26) Lucy’s Journey with Perimenopause (5:39) The average age of...

#008: Midlife Chill - Paury Flowers

December 31, 2020 12:00 - 1 hour - 55.3 MB

Paury Flowers joins us to share how she's found herself pivoting her career in midlife to combine her passion for health and wellness, cannabis, and emergent strategy. Listen in as she discusses the cannabis industry, the war on drugs, and legislation on cannabis. Get to Know Paury (1:28) Creative Consulting (18:09) What Paury’s Excited By (22:55) The War on Drugs (28:08) Regulation and Legislation on Cannabis in New Jersey (31:19) Advice to Younger Self (53:18) Links instagram.com/p...

#007: Preparing for End of Life in Midlife - Rachel Moore

December 16, 2020 11:00 - 1 hour - 71.4 MB

We talk about major life changes and plot twists that happen in midlife on this podcast, but today we're tackling the tough conversation of preparing for end of life. At just 39-years-old (just 2 years ago), Rachel Moore was diagnosed with terminal colon cancer. Listen in as she joins us to discuss how this plot twist has impacted her everyday life, her husband, her three beautiful children, and even her parents. Get to Know Rachel (1:16) Rachel’s Overall Health Before Diagnosis (6:28) T...

#006: Midlife Intuition - Jeannine Cook

December 03, 2020 11:00 - 58 minutes - 54 MB

Do you ever feel a desire to do something that's so outside of your comfort zone, with no real understanding as to why? Jeannine Cook calls that intuition. In episode 6 of Midlife Plot Twists, Jeannine shares about her journey to opening Harriett’s Bookshop a few weeks before COVID happened, along with the good, the bad, and the ugly that came with it. Listen in as she shares about some of her favorite reads, how this shop has impacted her life, and where her intuition is calling her to nex...

#005: Black Excellence in Midlife - Dr. Tomayia Colvin

November 12, 2020 11:00 - 37 minutes - 33.9 MB

My dear friend, photographer, and educator, Dr. Tomayia Colvin, recently joined me for a candid conversation about life after 40. In this episode, we talk about the impactful community she's built for black photographers, what dating looks like in her 40's, and the advice she'd share with her younger self. Tomayia, I'm so proud to call you friend. About Tomayia (1:43) The Photo Cookout (4:02) Creating Bridges of Opportunity for Black Photographers (7:16) Making Long-Term Impact on Diver...

#004: Midlife Authenticity - Charlie Baber

October 29, 2020 10:00 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

I recently had the chance to sit down with my dear brother-in-law, Charlie Baber to discuss what being his authentic self looked like as he approached 40. Authenticity is a word we toss around on social media, but what if we dug a little deeper into it's true meaning. In being his authentic self, after 38 years of life, Charlie realized that he was gay. In today's episode, Charlie describes what it felt like to come out to his wife, his kids, his church, and most importantly, himself. Lis...

#003: Midlife Recovery - My Neighbor Anne

October 15, 2020 10:00 - 48 minutes - 44.5 MB

Recovery—it's not a conversation we often hear about, but being a show all about midlife plot twists, it's a conversation I'm very open to discussing. Today my dear friend and neighbor, Anne, is joining me for a truly eye-opening conversation around her struggle with alcoholism. In this conversation, we're tackling here long-time battle with alcohol, her decision to enter rehab in her 40's, what that looked like during COVID, and the importance of diving into therapy. SHOW NOTES: Introduci...

#002: Midlife Career Moves - Mari-Carmen Farmer

October 01, 2020 10:05 - 1 hour - 58.4 MB

Changing careers can be daunting, but what about making career moves in your 30's or 40's? My dear friend, Mari-Carmen Farmer, joins me to share all about how her life experiences led her to making a midlife career move to become a midwife. Listen in as Mari shares about her experience with loss, the comfort she's found in the symbolism of labyrinth, and how becoming an empty nester left her feeling motivated and accomplished. SHOW NOTES: Get to Know Mari (0:51) Mari’s Journey to Becoming...

#001: Finding Yourself in Midlife - Renee Shea

October 01, 2020 10:00 - 42 minutes - 38.5 MB

As we approach midlife, many of us are finding ourselves again—particularly when we run into a midlife plot twist. I've watched my amazing friend, Renee Shea, conquer her own midlife plot twist with strength and grace. Listen in as we discuss how she managed unexpected plot twists in her business and personal life. About Renee (1:06) Renee’s Photography Transformation (5:25) Accepting and Creating Her Brand (9:10) Renee’s Midlife Plot Twists (13:35) Takeaways & Learning from MidLife Plo...

Trailer: Midlife Plot Twists Coming on October 1st

September 24, 2020 13:41 - 2 minutes - 1.96 MB

Welcome to Midlife Plot Twists with Lucy Baber! In this show, we'll be chatting about all of the weird and unexpected ways that our lives seem to be changing as we inch closer to turning the big 4-0. As my friends and I start approaching 40, we all seem to have one thing in common—MAJOR PLOT TWISTS are happening all around us. We're seeing midlife career changes and body changes, responsibilities shifting, and so much more. Whether you're starting over in something major in your life or hav...