Episode 305 examines the choice between victimhood and taking ownership of your life, and how it impacts your success.


In this episode, Raylen Davis from the Elevated Coaches Academy joins us to discuss the power of leaning into discomfort to achieve success. We explore the importance of focusing on the emotional and inner self, and how mentorship can be a powerful tool for growth.


We also discuss the detrimental effects of creating meaning around things and the steps to take in turning your life around. Raylen shares insights on choosing between victimhood and letting go of it, and decoding the formula for success. Taking full ownership and responsibility of your life and marriage is essential to finding fulfillment, as is being present and understanding your authentic desires. We delve into how to access the power that is already within you, the benefits of slowing down to speed up, and how a serving mindset and language can transform your life.


As Raylen says, "purpose comes from pain." Join us as we explore this concept and gain valuable insights on how to live a more purposeful life. Listen to the episode and learn more from https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/.




Quick Timestamps 


00:04:47 Raylen Story About Programming


00:06:47 Leaning Into Two Things for Success


00:07:46 Focusing on the Emotional Side (the inner self)


8:27-9:56 IAN GOLD


00:09:58 Power of Mentorship


00:12:06 Creating Meaning Around Things


00:12:59 Raylen’s Defining Moment


00:16:10 Creating Meaning Around Things


00:16:34 Decoding the Victim and Success Formula


16:59-18:15 IAN GOLD


00:18:55 Taking Full Ownership and Responsibility


19:41-20:52 IAN GOLD


21:34-23:46 IAN GOLD: Ball Off the Foot


00:23:57 Taking Responsibility


00:25:55 Being Present


00:31:04 Understanding What You Want


31:56-36:50 IAN GOLD: Defining Success


00:37:14 Self-Mastery by Robert Green


00:38:00 Power vs. Force


00:38:39 How to Access the Power That Is Already in You


42:57-44:19 IAN GOLD: Slowing Down


45:22 - 47:36 Should & Could Mindset


00:47:38 Power of Cold Plunge


00:49:07 Serving or Not Serving


01:00:00 Purpose Comes From Pain




Books or Articles mentioned: Self-Mastery by Robert Green & Power vs. Force by David Hawking




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