Episode 279 is about knowing your why.


Commitment is the single most important key to a successful relationship. With a background in business administration and information technology, AJ Grossman now practices law as a result of an internal force - his calling. He knows what he wants from life: to help people turn around their marriage for the better so that kids can grow up with happy parents.


In a marriage, there needs to be an equal balance between both partners. Otherwise, the marriage will fail. However, if you know what you want from this relationship from the start—that may help you decide whether or not to stay. It's vital that people can take care of themselves first before they are able to take care of others.


Do you want to know your why? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/




Quick Timestamps


00:04:45 AJ's story


00:08:33 I felt like I fit


00:12:28 How are we going to separate ourselves


00:12:51 Going with the flow of things


00:16:50 Idea on marriage


00:17:20 Getting married too young


00:17:49 Core values


00:19:24 Recognizing your own contribution to a failed relationship


00:21:01 Lenses we look at the world through


00:21:50 Every failed relationship is an opportunity


00:26:43 Cheating doesnt have to end in divorce


00:29:26 Seeking opportunities


00:31:00 Adverse childhood experiences


00:34:01 Getting married later in life


00:36:18 Stale marriages


00:40:29 Distractions in marriage


00:43:44 Fear of the unknown


00:44:17 Using marriage as identity


00:46:08 Self worth and esteem in marriage


00:48:39 Doing things to fit in vs align with purpose


00:50:18 Aligning with the true you


00:52:38 Victims picking themselves up after divorce and thriving


00:54:01 Victimhood is self created


00:56:06 How do you know divorce is most serving


01:03:53 Holding your standards too high


01:06:54 Marriage vs partnership




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