When it comes to relationships, conflict and altercations are inevitable. But it doesn’t have to be emotionally distressing or callous. The trouble with arguments is that they don’t work.


I’m not talking about a good debate, where you have some great ideas, and they clash, and you start a healthy back-and-forth that feels fun. I mean arguments – where tension starts to rise, responses start to get personal, and you go around in circles without getting anywhere.


Often this kind of conflict takes on a life of its own, where you end up arguing about things that are most times, not an issue. In this episode, NOTEBOOK III, Adeyinkablack shares details of a recent altercation he had, and how best he handled the situation is what we would find out. ENJOY!!!