Lowered Expectations
73 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 7 years ago - ★★★★★ - 1 ratingTaking on life with blissful awareness and a sense of humor.
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Episodes
Feel Your Rage #152
August 30, 2017 19:06 - 27.1 MBWhat just happened - BCD 68
March 10, 2017 11:17 - 22.1 MBDiving into AA Alcoholics Anonymous - BCD 63
December 30, 2016 17:13 - 82.9 MBUPDATES!
December 16, 2016 16:31 - 10.7 MBLaying down the knowledge - BCD 61
June 30, 2016 04:54 - 79.6 MBSharing some wisdom for a good life
Ego Checking New Submissives - Behind Closed Doors 60
June 23, 2016 16:52 - 28.2 MBMy new sub is a bit full of himself.
Better Service - Behind Closed Doors 59
June 16, 2016 16:50 - 28.4 MBDiscussing ways for Bubby to service me better
Banning Danny - Behind Closed Doors 58
June 09, 2016 04:48 - 26.6 MBAfter a major breach of trust, we must say goodbye to one of Bubby's partners
My Kind of Dom - Behind Closed Doors 57
June 02, 2016 16:34 - 53.2 MBFinishing up the convo from last week with Katelyn
You're clearly a Dom, Katelyn - Behind Closed Doors 56
May 26, 2016 04:31 - 14 MBA friend of mine is coming into her dominant own
A good day - Behind Closed Doors 55
May 19, 2016 04:24 - 17.7 MBA good day - Behind Closed Doors 55
Negotiating Corporal Punishment - Behind Closed Doors 54
May 12, 2016 04:20 - 57 MBMr needs to balance the scales
Don't touch me - BCD 51
March 10, 2016 18:30 - 48.2 MBBubby is having some problems with his boundaries and I'm just a mess. Yay.
This Multi-Orgasmic Man - BCD 48
January 28, 2016 18:16 - 42.7 MBI can't stop orgasming and it's pretty good.
Puppy Comes Home - BCD 47
January 21, 2016 18:09 - 71.7 MBMy other pup comes back and I couldn't be happier.
Finances & Metamours - BCD 46
January 14, 2016 17:46 - 54.5 MBWe're flat broke, unemployed and full of love
Flogging Ali Mushtaq - BCD 45
January 07, 2016 17:37 - 75.6 MBCalifornia-based doctoral candidate and sexy mofo Ali Mushtaq stops by to talk about gay kink culture, being brown and mental health.
Understanding trust - BCD 44
December 24, 2015 08:00 - 47.9 MBI'm not feeling as trusted as I think I should and it's time to finally get to the bottom of it.
Dom alpha beta - BCD 43
December 17, 2015 07:50 - 66 MBBubby has a new play partner and is in need of some advice.
Rethinking Marriage - BCD 42
December 10, 2015 07:43 - 52.1 MBWe're getting married, but in our own way.
Rituals & Routines - BCD 41
December 03, 2015 08:36 - 49.4 MBRestarting an active D/s relationship means figuring out what works and what doesn't. So, we did.
Comprehending Submission - BCD 40
November 26, 2015 06:24 - 88.7 MBNow that everything isn't all doom and gloom, we've found some time to get back into an active kink life. Things got off the rails, but we got to a great destination regardless.
Dominant Vulnerability - BCD 39
November 19, 2015 15:31 - 65 MBAs a Dom, remembering to stay open is important. Even the ones in charge need to feel loved.
A kick in the ass - BCD 38
November 05, 2015 17:10 - 67 MBSometimes you need to give your partner a kick in the ass. For me and Bubby that time has come.
Emotional Politics in Polyamory - BCD 37
October 15, 2015 18:42 - 78.5 MBA partner Bubby and I share recently came back into our lives and it sparks an important discussion.
Seen, Heard, Understood and Valued with Devi Ward - BCD 34
September 24, 2015 04:40 - 63.8 MBThis week, I'm joined by a new friend of mine Devi Ward. You may know her from Sex is Medicine, her podcast on using sex as a tool to heal your soul. In this episode, we go deep into talking about what the soul needs to be satisfied. The answer may surprise you. Hint: It doesn't come from a store.
Love through vanishing vulvas with Alicia Beth - BCD 33
September 11, 2015 01:15 - 48.5 MBThis week, I'm joined by Alicia Beth HIV, sex educator and former host of Raw Sex Radio. In this episode, the bulk of our chat focuses on lichen sclerosis, an autoimmune disease that attacks the genital tissue. We also venture into dating with this disease and similar ones that affect one's sexuality physically, as well as tips for partners of those affected. Support Behind Closed Doors: Patreon.com/KeepItSexy
Make me over, please - BCD 32
September 04, 2015 00:34 - 68 MBExploring body image, confidence and why it's ok to feel "meh" about your partner. Bubby and I love each other and have great sex. Yet, I'm ambivalent about his looks overall. We explore what this means for us and in general.
Accepting pleasure with Garland Jarmon - BCD 31
August 20, 2015 11:32 - 68.2 MBPleasure is a tricky bitch. In this episode of Behind Closed Doors, we explore what it means to give and receive pleasure. Our guest, Garland Jarmon of Spiritual Eros shares his expertise on the topic and even helps me learn to open myself to the joy.
How to handle a mental health crisis - BCD 30
August 13, 2015 08:44 - 73.7 MBSupport LTASEX on www.Patreon.com/keepitsexy Bubby was recently hospitalized after a suicide attempt and a major freakout. Dealing with that has been more stressful than I imagined it would be. Here's how we worked our way through it.
Devotion, commitment and service - BCD 29
August 06, 2015 04:06 - 58 MBThis episode marks a turning point for Behind Closed Doors. I address this in the intro then we transition in to discussing what it means to sacrifice for your partner, remembering to enjoy the good times and what mature love really feels like.
Dealing with poly drama - BCD 28
July 30, 2015 04:35 - 48.7 MBEven when poly relationships start off smoothly, they can get off course quickly. Bubby's new partner is already causing trouble, so we talk about what to do.
The joys of new poly partners - BCD 27
July 23, 2015 04:35 - 40.8 MBI'm always happy to welcome new lovers to the family. Bubby recently got a new partner and it's going pretty well
No more drama - BCD 26
July 16, 2015 04:19 - 48.4 MBOnce the storm is over, it's important to get back to normal. Having fun is super important to maintaining long, strong relations.
Is this true love? - BCD 25
July 02, 2015 04:34 - 54.6 MBLife with Bubby and his borderline personality disorder is often very tough. Even still, our relationship is strong and devoted, even if we forget sometimes.
Dom sub emotional therapy - BCD 24
June 18, 2015 04:58 - 51.6 MBNow that things are settling back into a rhythm within my relationship, we're taking some time to really get those lingering feelings out. Of course, it's with a kinky twist, though.