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Loving Well

56 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 245 ratings

The secret sauce to the success of your marriage! Every season of this bingeable podcast series is chock -full of heartwarming love stories and practical marriage advice you can put into practice every day. The series from Focus on the Family will inspire you and your spouse to put Christ’s love at the center of your relationship. Along the way, marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley will get you thinking about healthy boundaries in a romantic relationship, about how to respect and cherish one another, and about honoring God in your most important relationship.

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Season 7, Episode 4: Oh No! I Missed Valentine's Day

February 16, 2024 07:00 - 30 minutes - 27.6 MB

Did you accidentally forget to celebrate Valentine's Day? The truth is, we all make mistakes in our marriages, but if you forgot to celebrate February 14th, you'll be encouraged by the tips John, Greg and Erin give. They'll share how to make the most of missed opportunities. Also, some of our own staff members describe the need to show your spouse grace after a mistake.   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount...

Season 7, Episode 3: Making Valentine's Day Amazing

February 09, 2024 07:00 - 26 minutes - 24.1 MB

How are you planning to celebrate Valentine's Day this year? To give you some ideas, John, Greg and Erin each share their opinion on an ideal Valentine's Day date. You'll also hear from a few Focus staff members, who tell about their favorite Valentine's Day memories. Plus, if you're in a spot where you can't afford to spend a lot of money, John, Erin and Greg will give you a few helpful perspectives.   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance"...

Season 7, Episode 2: Pulling the Plug on Busyness

February 02, 2024 08:15 - 17 minutes - 16.4 MB

You long for romantic dates with your spouse, but how are those possible when the schedule is full? John and the Smalley's share how they've navigated busy seasons in their marriages. Courtney Ellis describes how she dealt with a full season in her family. Also, Jodie Berndt offers ideas for how to pray for your mate, even when life is busy.   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance for your donation of any amount!   Learn more about your st...

Season 7, Episode 1: Making a Marriage Happy

January 26, 2024 10:30 - 25 minutes - 23.1 MB

How would you define a "happy" marriage? John, Greg and Erin explore that very question. You'll also hear Ted Lowe discuss some of the components of a good relationship. Also, Lisa Jacobson and her friend Phylicia Masonheimer share about a concept called, "biblical flirtation."   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount!   Learn more about your strengths and weaknesses as a couple by taking our free Marriage A...

Season Seven Preview

January 22, 2024 15:48 - 2 minutes - 2.45 MB

What's your favorite thing about Valentine's Day? John and the Smalley's share what they enjoy most about this special holiday, and get you ready for season 7 of the Loving Well Podcast.

Season 6, Episode 4: Appreciating Your Mate

February 10, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 31 MB

Learning to see your spouse through the lens of God’s love is one of the best ways to keep your marriage strong. John talks with Erin and Greg about why being humble is good for your relationship, and how you can appreciate the way God made your mate.   Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount!   Get this resource! Love Like You Mean it by Bob Lepine   Focus on Marriage Assessment   4 Animals Personality ...

Season 6, Episode 3: Healthy Habits for a Godly Marriage

February 03, 2023 10:00 - 32 minutes - 29.4 MB

Good habits are a necessary foundation for your relationship. To help you and your spouse develop healthy habits, John, Greg and Erin share how to make prayer, saying “I love you,” and other simple things regular parts of your daily life.   Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount.   Get the book: Simple Habits for Marital Happiness by Dr. Randy Schroeder   Focus on Marriage Assessment   If you've listene...

Season 6, Episode 2: Walking Through Seasons Together

January 27, 2023 10:00 - 32 minutes - 29.4 MB

Just like the ways the weather changes, your marriage will experience seasons. Greg, Erin and John offer some helpful perspectives on how you and your spouse can grow together during the changing seasons of life.    Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amountfocusonthefamily.com/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage-softcover   Book: Love in Every Season by Debra Fileta   If you've listened to any of our podcasts...

Season 6, Episode 1: The Beauty of Romance & Intimacy

January 20, 2023 10:00 - 32 minutes - 29.8 MB

Romance is a wonderful blessing in your marriage, and is a great gift to help keep your relationship strong. John, Erin and Greg discuss why romance and intimacy can help with the long-term health of your marriage.     Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount   The Fundamentals of Marriage: 8 Essential Practices of Successful Couples   God, Sex and Your Marriage   If you've listened to any of our podcasts...

Season Six Preview

January 16, 2023 10:00 - 2 minutes - 2.57 MB

We all have those married couples we look up to. There’s something special about a marriage that goes the distance. Join John Fuller, along with Greg and Erin Smalley who’ll share about some of their favorite couples, and preview the upcoming season of the Loving Well podcast, which launches January 20th. 

Season 5, Episode 4: Answering Marriage Questions

February 11, 2022 10:00 - 32 minutes - 29.8 MB

There’s no such thing as a bad question! Today, John and the Smalley’s answer questions about marriage on a variety of topics.   Get the book "Cherish"   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 5, Episode 3: Loving by Words and Actions

February 04, 2022 10:00 - 39 minutes - 36.3 MB

Sometimes, you don’t need to do something extravagant to improve your marriage. It might be that giving a simple complement, or a seemingly small act of love can take your relationship to the next level. Join John and the Smalley’s as they discuss how words and actions can make a difference in your relationship.   Get the book "Cherish"   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 5, Episode 2: Loving Your Best Friend

January 28, 2022 10:00 - 23 minutes - 21.7 MB

Marriage is a unique and special opportunity to build a lifelong friendship. John, Erin, and Greg share some of the ways they’ve learned to be friends with their spouse and discuss how you can cultivate a friendship as a couple.   Get the book "Cherish"   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 5, Episode 1: Love Without Expectations

January 21, 2022 10:00 - 24 minutes - 22.4 MB

Is it possible to love your spouse without expecting something in return? John Fuller and Greg and Erin Smalley share how they’ve learned to rely on God’s love in marriage and offer a practical perspective on what it means to truly love your mate.   Get the book "Cherish"   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season Five Preview

January 17, 2022 10:00 - 1 minute - 1.29 MB

Welcome to Season 5 of the Loving Well podcast! Join John Fuller as he chats with Greg and Erin Smalley about how God’s love helps you to love your spouse through simple and creative actions. Throughout this season, we’ll explore how a relationship with Christ can influence the ways you love and treat your spouse.   Get the book 'Cherish'   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 4, Episode 4: Developing Spiritual Connection

February 12, 2021 10:00 - 35 minutes - 32.8 MB

Connecting spiritually and emotionally with your spouse are some of the most important things you’ll do together. John talks with Greg and Erin about spiritual goals for you and your spouse. Plus, Ryan and Selena Frederick explain how practicing transparency can bless your marriage.   Get the Book: Reconnected   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 4, Episode 3: Rekindling Simple Romance

February 05, 2021 10:00 - 30 minutes - 28 MB

Romantic moments aren’t limited to the most picturesque settings. In fact, they can come from the simplest places. John, Greg and Erin discuss why romance is important, Matt and Lisa Jacobson tell a fun story about how an ordinary moment turned romantic, and Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey give some creative acronyms for finding connection in your marriage.   Get the Book: Reconnected   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 4, Episode 2: Connecting in the Busy Times

January 29, 2021 10:00 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MB

When life gets busy, keeping your marriage a top priority requires intentional effort. John Fuller talks with Greg and Erin Smalley about how they stay connected in busy seasons, Mark and Susan Merrill discuss simplifying your schedule, and Matt and Lisa Jacobson describe the different ways husbands and wives desire connection.   Get the Book: Reconnected    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 4, Episode 1: Love & Laughter

January 22, 2021 10:00 - 41 minutes - 37.9 MB

Having fun and laughing together are some of the greatest joys of marriage. When you find reasons to enjoy life, it can lead to some wonderful memories as a couple. Join John Fuller as he talks with Greg and Erin Smalley about how laughter has helped their marriage. Plus, comedian John Branyan tells funny stories about himself and his wife, and Pastor Ted Cunningham explains why laughter is healthy for your marriage.   Get the Book: Reconnected   If you've listened to any of our podcasts...

Season Four Preview

January 18, 2021 10:00 - 3 minutes - 3.13 MB

Welcome to season 4 of the "Loving Well" podcast! For this season, we'll explore ways to rekindle joy in your marriage through laughter, simple connections, romance and affection, and good spiritual habits. Featuring Focus on the Family broadcast guests like Greg and Erin Smalley, John Branyan, Pastor Ted Cunningham, Ryan and Selena Frederick and more.   Get the Book: Reconnected

Season 3, Episode 4: God's Plan for Your Love Life

February 15, 2020 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MB

Happy Valentine's Day! As you celebrate your marriage, we want to encourage you to build your relationship on the foundation of God's love. Call-in guests share their best marriage advice; Rhonda Stoppe talks about her favorite Bible couple; and Ryan and Selena Frederick describe how God sustained them through a trying season.   Focus on Marriage Weekend Getaways   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Episode 4: God’s Plan for Your Love-Life

February 14, 2020 07:00

Happy Valentine’s Day! As you celebrate your marriage, we want to encourage you to build your relationship on the foundation of God’s love. Call-in guests share their best marriage advice; Rhonda Stoppe talks about her favorite Bible couple; and Ryan and Selena Frederick describe how God sustained them through a trying season. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

Season 3, Episode 3: Loving Your Spouse (Part 2)

February 07, 2020 10:00 - 33 minutes - 30.6 MB

Inspiring husbands to love their wives with practical ideas and finishing the discussion on principles for a healthy marriage.   Focus on Marriage Assessment   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Episode 3: Loving Your Spouse pt. 2

February 07, 2020 07:00

Like the way Christ sacrificially loved His church, husbands are commanded to love their wives. Greg, Erin and John discuss the difference a godly husband makes in a marriage; Fawn Weaver tells more stories from interviewing married couples; Pastor Ted Cunningham gives ideas for having fun with your spouse; and Dave and Ashley Willis offer practical ideas for a husband to connect with his wife’s heart. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

Season 3, Episode 2: Loving Your Spouse (Part 1)

January 31, 2020 10:00 - 36 minutes - 33.7 MB

A wife can encourage her husband's heart by choosing to respect him. John and the Smalleys give some great thoughts for how a wife can practically bless her husband; Dave and Ashley Willis unpack the communication differences between men and women; Fawn Weaver talks about lessons she learned from interviewing married couples around the world; and Rhonda Stoppe shares the desire of every wife's heart.   Focus on Marriage Weekend Getaways   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please...

Episode 2: Loving Your Spouse pt. 1

January 31, 2020 07:00

A wife can encourage her husband’s heart by choosing to respect him. John and the Smalley’s give some great thoughts for how a wife can practically bless her husband; Dave and Ashley Willis unpack the communication differences between men and women; Fawn Weaver talks about lessons she learned from interviewing married couples around the world; and Rhonda Stoppe shares the desire of every wife’s heart. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

Season 3, Episode 1: Love Stories

January 24, 2020 10:00 - 30 minutes - 27.8 MB

Sharing heartwarming love stories and discussing healthy boundaries for a romantic relationship.   Focus on Marriage Assessment   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Episode 1: Love Stories

January 24, 2020 07:00

Nothing brightens your heart like falling in love. Join John, Greg and Erin as they describe some of their favorite love stories; author Rhonda Stoppe tells how she fell in love with her husband Steve; the Boundless Show roundtable discusses praying for a future spouse; and call-in guests share their engagement stories. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

Season Three Preview

January 17, 2020 10:00 - 2.83 MB

Valentine's Day is the perfect time to reflect on your love story. What better way to rekindle those warm feelings and special memories than with a romantic song? Join John Fuller, Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley as they preview Season 3 of the Loving Well podcast and talk about their favorite love songs.

Season 3 Preview

January 17, 2020 10:00 - 3 minutes - 2.86 MB

Valentine's Day is the perfect time to reflect on your love story. What better way to rekindle those warm feelings and special memories than with a romantic song? Join John Fuller, Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley as they preview Season 3 of the Loving Well podcast and talk about their favorite love songs.   Focus on Marriage Weekend Getaways

Season 2, Episode 4: Valentine for a Lifetime

February 14, 2019 10:00 - 32 minutes - 30.1 MB

Even after the children leave home, your spouse will still be there. Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how mature couples can thrive in the second half of marriage, and Bob and Cheryl Reccord offer tips for you and your spouse to stay active during the later stages of life.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 2, Episode 3: Parenting Together

February 07, 2019 10:00 - 23 minutes - 21.4 MB

Kids change a marriage, but they can also strengthen the bond with your spouse. Arlene Pellicane explains how you can keep your romance alive amongst the busyness of parenting, and Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how to keep your priorities in order during the cold seasons of marriage.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 2 | Episode 3: Parenting Together

February 07, 2019 07:00

Kids change a marriage, but they can also strengthen the bond with your spouse. Arlene Pellicane explains how you can keep your romance alive amongst the busyness of parenting, and Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how to keep your priorities in order during the cold seasons of marriage.

Season 2, Episode 2: When Everything is New!

January 31, 2019 10:00 - 31 minutes - 29 MB

The early years of marriage are filled with changes. Pastor Ted Cunningham explains how couples can transition well after leaving their parents' home, Dr. Juli Slattery talks about working through the sexual dynamics of marriage, and Bill and Pam Farrel discuss how young couples can learn how to communicate with each other.   Focus on Marriage Assessment   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 2 | Episode 2: When Everything is New!

January 31, 2019 07:00

The early years of marriage are filled with changes. Pastor Ted Cunningham explains how couples can transition well after leaving their parent’s home, Dr. Juli Slattery talks about working through the sexual dynamics of marriage, and Bill and Pam Farrel discuss how young couples can learn how to communicate with each other.

Season 2, Episode 1: Date-Nights and a Diamond

January 24, 2019 10:00 - 31 minutes - 29.1 MB

Young love is exciting, but it must be built on a solid foundation in order to flourish. Join John, Greg and Erin as they share their engagement stories. You'll also hear from guests Roger and Diane Ingolia about the importance of having a marriage mentor, and Gary Thomas on how to find a godly spouse.   Focus on Marriage Assessment    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Season 2 | Episode 1: Date-Nights and a Diamond

January 24, 2019 07:00

Young love is exciting, but it must be built on a solid foundation in order to flourish. Join John, Greg and Erin as they share their engagement stories. You’ll also hear from guests Roger and Diane Ingolia about the importance of having a marriage mentor, and Gary Thomas on how to find a godly spouse.

Season 2: Preview

January 21, 2019 10:00 - 1 minute - 1.36 MB

Focus on the Family is celebrating Valentine's Day with a new season of the Loving Well Podcast! Join John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife, Erin, as they discuss how to embrace and enjoy your romance journey, no matter what part you find yourself in.

Season 1, Episode 6: Lasting Love

February 14, 2018 10:00 - 36 minutes - 33.3 MB

A strong and lasting marriage is a beautiful thing. In this final episode of our ‚ÄúLoving Well‚Äù podcast series, Gary Thomas and Dr. David Clarke describe what you can start doing today to build a marriage that will stand the test of time.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Episode 6: Lasting Love

February 14, 2018 07:00

A strong and lasting marriage is a beautiful thing. In this final episode of our “Loving Well” podcast series, Gary Thomas and Dr. David Clarke describe what you can start doing today to build a marriage that will stand the test of time.

Season 1, Episode 5: Intimate Love

February 12, 2018 10:00 - 43 minutes - 40.2 MB

True intimacy is essential for a marriage to thrive. In this episode, Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner, along with Bill and Pam Farrel, explain ways you and your spouse can develop deeper physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Episode 5: Intimate Love

February 12, 2018 07:00

True intimacy is essential for a marriage to thrive. In this episode, Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner, along with Bill and Pam Farrel, explain ways you and your spouse can develop deeper physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy.

Season 1, Episode 4: Loving Fun

February 09, 2018 10:00 - 31 minutes - 28.8 MB

Whether it’s an inside joke or a big night out, having fun with your spouse can re-energize your marriage. Join us as we hear from Pastor Ted Cunningham and Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley about simple ways husbands and wives can make fun a priority in their relationship.

Episode 4: Loving Fun

February 09, 2018 07:00

Whether it’s an inside joke or a big night out, having fun with your spouse can re-energize your marriage. Join us as we hear from Pastor Ted Cunningham and Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley about simple ways husbands and wives can make fun a priority in their relationship.

Season 1, Episode 3: Romantic Love

February 07, 2018 10:00 - 39 minutes - 36.4 MB

Love can take many forms, but few are as meaningful as romantic love between husband and wife. We‚Äôre exploring that love today with the help of Cindy Dagnan and Pastor Ted Cunningham, who will reveal fun and simple ways to add more romance to your marriage.   Date Night DVD   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Episode 3: Romantic Love

February 07, 2018 07:00

Love can take many forms, but few are as meaningful as romantic love between husband and wife. We’re exploring that love today with the help of Cindy Dagnan and Pastor Ted Cunningham, who will reveal fun and simple ways to add more romance to your marriage.