#120: The Relationship Help Doctor - with Rhoberta Shaler!

Live Your SPAlife

English - October 30, 2019 02:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB - ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
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Previous Episode: #119: Setting Social Boundaries - with Shirley Yang!

Next Episode: #121: How to have Tough Conversations - with David Wood

Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to provide the insights, information, and inspiration for clients and audiences to transform relationship with themselves and other humans to be honest, respectful, and safe in all ways. Even the United States Marines have sought her help!

Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls Hijackals to stop the crazy-making and save their sanity. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making, she hosts two podcasts: Emotional Savvy and Save Your Sanity. Her YouTube channel, ForRelationshipHelp, has reached over 270,000 views.

Important Topics

The reason why the United States Marines sought her help
How the term "Hijackal" came about
What does Hijackal means
How to know if you are in a relationship with Hijackal
The importance to work within yourself
What is it that makes you attractive to Hijackals
Steps if you have just realized Hijackal patterns in your relationship and you want to stop the crazy-making
Not to beat yourself up
Figure out who you are today
Maintaining boundaries
The importance on spending time with yourself
Spiritual understanding
Coercive control

Quotes

"You need to keep promises to yourself."
"You need to spend enough time with yourself to clarify who you are, what your values are and your vision for your life."
"Start small."
"Don't set one unless it is not negotiable."

Books

Eastern Body, Western Mind by Anodea Judith
Kaizen for Couples by Rhoberta Shaler
Escaping The Hijackal Trap by Rhoberta Shaler

Connect with Rhoberta:

Free Ebook - How to Spot a Hijackal - https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/bonus-hijackal-book/
Email list - http://TransformingRelationship.com/subscribe
Transforming Relationship - http://TransformingRelationship.com/
Email - [email protected]
Work with Dr. Shaler - beaclient.com
Radio/Podcasts - RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Speaker Site - RelationshipHelpDoctor.com

Other links and resources:

Free Gift from Diane (Life Reset Quiz) - https://liferesetquiz.com/

Bankcode - https://MyBankCode.com/Victory

Diane Halfman's website - http://www.DianeHalfman.com

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