LET'S DIG | Pierre & Danilee Aristil
42 episodes - English - Latest episode: 13 days ago - ★★★★★ - 19 ratingsPierre and Danilee Aristil let you in on their personal chats. Inspiring you to DIG deeper relationships with God, yourself and others.
Jesus said, “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind… and equally important: Love your neighbor as yourself.”
- Matthew 22:37-39
Life gets better when our relationships do.
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Questions We've Never Asked Before | Transforming Relationships Through Questions and Reflection
July 02, 2024 15:00 - 18 minutes - 12.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Can asking the right questions truly transform your relationship? Join us for an eye-opening episode where we challenge our assumptions and biases with a little red box from "We Are Not Really Strangers." As our kids play in the background, we share our humorous initial impressions and the surprising traits that piqued our interest before dating. Through laughter and candid moments, we illustrate how targeted questions can unlock deeper understanding and connection b...
Identifying Toxic Traits | Setting Boundaries and Building Godly Friendships
June 25, 2024 13:00 - 30 minutes - 20.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Can you spot the toxic traits in your friendships? Join us on the Let's Dig podcast as we dissect the consistent and often overlooked characteristics that can poison our relationships. We demystify toxic behavior by emphasizing that these traits are not just occasional lapses but rather ingrained elements of someone's personality. With engaging analogies and insights from reliable sources, you will learn to identify signs of selfishness, manipulation, and lack of emp...
How to Trust God | Trusting God Through Life’s Toughest Challenges
June 18, 2024 12:00 - 28 minutes - 19.8 MBSend us a Text Message. What happens when you’re faced with life's toughest challenges, and your faith is put to the ultimate test? In this deeply personal episode, we open up about our journey through the emotional highs and lows of an unexpected pregnancy and the subsequent heartbreak of miscarriage. Through our candid reflections, we aim to provide hope and reassurance that God’s presence is steadfast, even in the darkest times. By sharing our experiences, we hope to encourage you to hol...
Navigating Marriage and Money: Finding Harmony Through Financial Transparency
June 11, 2024 16:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Picture this: you're arguing over a seemingly simple Amazon purchase, and before you know it, a full-blown financial feud erupts. Sound familiar? In this episode of Let's Dig the Podcast, we dive deep into the volatile world of marriage and money. We tackle the controversial notion that the higher earner should wield more financial control, debunking myths and sharing anecdotes that reveal the heart of financial disagreements. With personal stories and research insig...
Confronting Racism | The Power of Asking Questions
June 04, 2024 12:00 - 18 minutes - 12.9 MBSend us a Text Message. How does one handle a racist client without losing their cool? Join us for a gripping account of an alarming incident in our salon, where we faced racially insensitive remarks from a client who made snap judgments based on appearance. We candidly recount each microaggression and discuss their impact on our sense of identity. From sharing personal stories about our families to the delicate balance of addressing ignorance while staying composed, this conversation is bo...
Red Flags - Your Marriage Is In Trouble - When Partners Become Roommates
May 27, 2024 02:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Sometimes, the longest journeys we take are the ones within the walls of our own homes, particularly within the intricate dance of marriage. This episode peels back the layers of a sensitive subject many couples face but seldom speak of—the withholding of intimacy in a marriage. With a blend of empathy and candor, we examine the hidden battles that can lead a husband to distance himself from his wife, considering everything from undisclosed sexuality to addiction iss...
The Final Days with My Mother | Repairing Relationships Before It's Too Late: Avoid Regret After Losing a Loved One"
May 21, 2024 15:00 - 38 minutes - 26.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Join me as I bear my soul in recounting the deeply emotional and inspiring final days spent with my mother, Solange. Her serene departure and the coping process that ensued has been a profound journey, one that reveals the complexities of love, loss, and legacy. Each moment, from the lighter anecdotes that shine through the grief to the vital lessons of reconciliation and grace, is a testament to a life well-lived and a relationship cherished to the fullest. As we t...
What We Discovered about Our Sex Life after Many Years of Marriage
May 14, 2024 11:00 - 40 minutes - 27.9 MBSend us a Text Message. As we ventured through the uncharted terrain of intimacy within our marriage, it became clear that the vows we exchanged were just the beginning of a complex journey. Our latest episode is a raw and revealing exploration of how we navigated the thorny issues of sexual health and expectations, casting off society's pressures and the shadows that pornography can cast on a sacred bond. We lay ourselves bare, sharing the steps we took to communicate more openly and shift...
These Habits SAVED our Marriage
May 04, 2024 17:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MBSend us a Text Message. When my spouse and I found ourselves teetering on the edge of marital collapse, we dug deep into our habits, discovering life-rafts that not only pulled us back to safety but propelled us into a more profound connection. Our latest episode takes you on a personal journey through the transformative power of physical touch, the laughter that came with a botched attempt at minimalism, and the shared dedication to fitness that has drawn us closer. We uncover the layers o...
Embracing the Unexpected: Financial struggles, health challenges, career changes, living situation and more!
April 30, 2024 11:00 - 34 minutes - 23.6 MBSend us a Text Message. When life handed us lemons, we not only made lemonade but also discovered the recipe for a stronger faith and community bond. I'm Pierre, and together with Dani Lee, we're peeling back the layers of our personal struggles, sharing how a summer without gas became a testament to resilience and unexpected blessings. Picture this: cold showers, microwaved bath water, and the grace of hotel stays and extra groceries. Our experiences might just change your perspective on l...
Crossing Cultural Bridges in an Interracial Marriage
April 23, 2024 11:00 - 57 minutes - 39.6 MBWhen my mother sat me down to talk about the hurdles of marrying someone from a different race and culture, I didn't realize how those words would resonate through my life. Now, as part of an interracial couple, I've lived the layers of complexity she warned me about, and it's a journey I'm eager to share with you. Together with my partner, we navigate the blending of traditions—from Thanksgiving feasts to teaching our kids about their multifaceted heritage. We're peeling back the layers on ...
The Truth About Crossing Cultural Bridges in an Interracial Marriage
April 23, 2024 11:00 - 57 minutes - 39.6 MBSend us a Text Message. When my mother sat me down to talk about the hurdles of marrying someone from a different race and culture, I didn't realize how those words would resonate through my life. Now, as part of an interracial couple, I've lived the layers of complexity she warned me about, and it's a journey I'm eager to share with you. Together with my partner, we navigate the blending of traditions—from Thanksgiving feasts to teaching our kids about their multifaceted heritage. We're pe...
From Friends to Lovers | How to Date Your Future Spouse
April 16, 2024 11:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MBSend us a Text Message. Embarking on the journey of dating with an eye towards the altar, we often find ourselves grappling with questions about the future. This episode peels back the layers of such relationships, sharing our own leap from light-hearted dates to planning a lifetime together. We get candid about the complexities of intertwining lives—managing everything from where we lay our heads to how we balance our checkbooks, and yes, the sometimes uncomfortable conversations surroundi...
Finding 'The One': Navigating Love and Dating in a Changing World
April 09, 2024 12:00 - 30 minutes - 21 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever experienced the serendipity of crossing paths with "The One" when you least expected it? Our latest episode takes you through a heartfelt exploration of love's unpredictable journey, from the bittersweet nostalgia of past romances to the profound connections that shape our lives. We share our own tales of love's labyrinth, laughing about the time a would-be father-in-law offered to foot the bill for an engagement ring and reflecting on the sage advice w...
Our Story | Part 2 | From MySpace to Marriage
April 02, 2024 11:00 - 36 minutes - 25.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever looked back and pinpointed the exact moments that defined your future with 'the one'? That's precisely what Dan Lee and I explore in a nostalgic journey through our summer of 2007. Our candid conversations pull back the curtain on college romance, MySpace melodramas, and the emotional tightrope walk of long-distance love. We share the raw uncertainties we faced and the laughter that bubbled through as we fumbled our way to understanding that we were mea...
Our Story | Part 1 | From College Chaos to Lasting Love: Unveiling 17 Years of Falling in Love
March 26, 2024 18:00 - 30 minutes - 21.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever stumbled upon a love story that felt like it was scripted in the stars? We're peeling back the curtain on our own, which kicked off with a chaotic meeting at Bible College. It's a tale laced with affectionate nicknames and a humor-filled debate on past fashion faux pas, but don't be fooled – it's these eclectic moments that have woven the rich tapestry of our nearly two-decade-long marriage. Strap in for a journey to Canal Winchester, Ohio, where a bass guitar ...
Teamwork in the Trenches of Parenthood and Personal Growth
March 19, 2024 10:00 - 29 minutes - 20.1 MBSend us a Text Message. When my partner slid her phone across the table to me—a single screenshot announcing her fertile window—the conversation that followed was as unexpected as it was profound. It sparked a journey into the heart of our partnership and the unpredictable adventure of parenting. Together, we unfold the raw and tender narrative of family planning, the hesitations of adding another child to our mix, and the indelible ways our children have sculpted our relationship and indiv...
Embracing Change: Transforming Challenges into Opportunities
March 12, 2024 13:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MBSend us a Text Message. As I sat tweaking the studio lighting and cooling the room to the perfect temperature, it struck me how even these small rituals of change set the stage for the monumental transformations we're about to share with you. Our latest episode unpacks a transformative concept bestowed upon us by a former CEO: change is not just inevitable, but a rich source of opportunity. We delve into personal stories and pivotal moments that highlight the essence of preparation, communi...
It's Our Anniversary! 3 Things You Should Know
March 05, 2024 11:00 - 35 minutes - 24.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Fourteen years ago, we exchanged vows, blissfully unaware that our journey together would be our greatest education in love and identity. Celebrate with us as we unpack the pivotal lessons we've learned throughout our marriage, especially during a year that put our bond to the test. We kick off our anniversary episode with an intimate discussion about the importance of maintaining individual identities in marriage. We reminisce about our early years, our youthful mis...
Unlocking the Secrets to Roles and Relationships
February 27, 2024 11:00 - 32 minutes - 22.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever found yourself bleary-eyed at 2 AM, debating with your partner about whose turn it is to check on a feverish child? Our latest episode takes a humorous look at the unexpected moments of parenting, the cultural color of Haitian home remedies, and how these scenarios are a litmus test for the 'glass half empty or half full' debate. We open the curtain to the intimate stage of our family life, sharing stories that will have you nodding along and laughing in recogni...
Crafting Balance and Boundaries: Integration Over Perfection in Life's Roles
February 20, 2024 11:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MBSend us a Text Message. As someone who's juggled the hats of a husband, father, music producer, and podcaster, I've discovered that the key to balance lies in integration, not perfection. Together with my partner, we delve into the art of weaving our children into the fabric of our daily tasks, teaching them patience and adaptability, while I reveal how I blend these roles to craft a cohesive daily routine. This episode is a candid look at the practical strategies that help us stay afloat a...
Cracking the Code on Relationship Languages Without Words
February 13, 2024 11:00 - 23 minutes - 15.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever caught yourself chuckling at those marriage memes that hit a little too close to home? We've been there, and this episode is all about unpacking the humor and heart of love languages. My partner and I walk you through our own dance of missteps and milestones, sharing the kind of personal stories that'll make you nod in recognition and maybe shed a tear or two. It's about more than just getting the giggles over familiar quirks; it's about learning to channel our ...
Navigating Loss and the Duty of Friendship: A Journey Through Heartache and Healing
February 06, 2024 11:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MBSend us a Text Message. When the unthinkable happens and tragedy strikes close to home, we're often left floundering in a sea of what-ifs and could-have-beens. This episode is a raw and vulnerable journey through the heartache of losing a dear friend to a murder-suicide, a traumatic experience that imposes profound sorrow and complex emotions upon those left behind. We navigate these treacherous waters together, sharing personal anecdotes that underscore the crucial role of vigilance and ho...
Cultivating Clarity in Relationships Through Personality Insights
January 30, 2024 11:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever felt the sting of a loved one's assumptions colliding head-on with your intentions, spiraling into a family fight? We've been there, and we're pulling back the curtain on the crucial, yet often overlooked, art of communication within our most cherished relationships. From the chaos of clashing expectations to the intimate dance of self-awareness and conveying intentions, our latest episode is a candid exploration of the steps we've taken to keep our fam...
Signs We Needed Therapy
January 23, 2024 12:00 - 36 minutes - 25.4 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever felt like you and your spouse were nothing more than well-acquainted roommates, passing by each other with a dead "good morning"? Our marriage teetered on that precarious edge, and we're laying it all bare—the raw, uncut journey of recognizing our disconnection and the healing that Jesus and therapy brought into our lives. Breaking down the facades we crafted from our days in Bible college and our roles in a church, we faced the painful but task of re...
When we said, "Let's Have A Baby!"
January 23, 2024 11:00 - 29 minutes - 20.2 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever felt the thrill of turning a dream into reality, or the pride of nurturing a seedling ambition into a towering tree of achievement? That's exactly where we take you in our latest episode, as we stroll down memory lane to our first season's pivotal moment with "Let's Have a Baby." It's not about literal parenthood – it's a shout out to the birth of our aspirations. We share the journey of evolving from being the support for others to embracing our own creative i...
4 Years Later...What Happened?!
January 23, 2024 10:00 - 17 minutes - 12 MBSend us a Text Message. Ever felt like you're the only ones whose marriage isn't a fairy tale? We've been there, too. In our latest heart-to-heart, we peel back the curtain on our relationship's toughest year, sharing how we faced a pandemic, realized the impact of our different cultures, and questioned our young marriage. Our candid conversation isn't just about our trials; it's a testament to the power of prayer, therapy, and the hard work of rebuilding. Join us as we laugh, reflect, and ...
Postpartum Life in a Pandemic
May 08, 2020 11:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MBSend us a Text Message. Danilee talks about what it’s been like having a newborn in a world that has changed so much. Hear her talk from her heart and encourage mom’s everywhere, we’re not in this alone! We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdigthepodcas...
Adjusting To Our New Normal With Kids
April 24, 2020 10:00 - 35 minutes - 24.6 MBSend us a Text Message. The Aristils talk about all the factors of being quarantined with their kids. Mainly, how it effects their 6 year old and the things that they’re finding help them adjust to the new normal. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdi...
Social Distancing: No More Hugs?
April 16, 2020 10:00 - 27 minutes - 19.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee discuss they’re feelings on the new Social Distancing rules. They’re honest with how it makes them feel now and how it may effect the future. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdigthepodcast More: ...
Coronavirus: This is CRAZY! 🤯
April 09, 2020 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee are happy to be back! After having a baby girl and finally getting to bring her home, they talk about adjusting to the new normal, a global pandemic #coronavirus. They discuss how they’re dealing with it all and what are some things that are helping them through this time. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected]...
Can't Believe We Just Had A Baby
February 06, 2020 10:00 - 46 minutes - 31.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee tell the story of how their daughter Brooklyn Eve came into the world 2 months early and how their adjusting to life with a baby in the NICU. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdigthepodcast More: ...
From the Hospital Room: This Pregnancy Is NOT What We Thought It'd Be
January 24, 2020 10:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee open up about how different their second pregnancy has been, including dealing with a health issue that causes them to record straight from the hospital. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdigthepodcast ...
Mini Chat: Who's Pushing You?
January 14, 2020 10:00 - 9 minutes - 6.36 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee share a quick snippet of their late night chat of who’s in their circle and who’s missing from that circle. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdigthepodcast More: http://letsdig.buzzsprout.com/ Al...
"Sometimes I Feel Like I Can't Talk to You"
January 02, 2020 10:00 - 43 minutes - 30.2 MBSend us a Text Message. Communication can make or break a relationship. In this episode, Pierre and Danilee discuss the struggles of communication within their marriage and their every day relationships with friends. Listen to hear what they’ve learned and what they’re still working on. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.fa...
"Babe, I Think I'm Depressed" Part 2: How We Got Through It
December 17, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 8.43 MBPierre and Danilee continue their conversation about dealing with Pierre's depression. They share all the things they did that helped them recover and get through it. #LetsDig To here Pierre's song, click below: "No U Won't" - Pierre ______________________________ We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepo...
"Babe, I Think I'm Depressed" Part 1: What It Felt Like
December 17, 2019 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MBSend us a Text Message. After a big job loss and a few other setbacks, Pierre opens up to Danilee about dealing with depression. In this “Let’s Dig” chat they share what they struggled with and how they got through this tough season. To listen to Pierre's song click this link below: "No U Won't" - Pierre ________________________________________ We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 E...
"Babe, I Think I'm Depressed" Part 2: How We Got Through It
December 17, 2019 10:00 - 12 minutes - 8.43 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee continue their conversation about dealing with Pierre's depression. They share all the things they did that helped them recover and get through it. #LetsDig To here Pierre's song, click below: "No U Won't" - Pierre ______________________________ We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www....
That Time Pierre Tried to Convert Us to Minimalism!
December 10, 2019 10:00 - 35 minutes - 24.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee discuss what things have brought value and purpose in their life. In this #LetsDig chat they share their different view points on what stuff to keep or throw away. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letsdigthepod...
The Aristil Holiday Dispute
December 03, 2019 10:00 - 38 minutes - 26.8 MBSend us a Text Message. This #LetsDig chat Pierre and Danilee debate Holiday traditions and how they feel about them. They dig it out with their differences of how they feel about them as individuals and finding the balance for them as a family. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast Instagram: ...
"Let's Have A Baby"
November 26, 2019 10:00 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Pierre and Danilee talk about birthing dreams and visions and where they’ve experienced struggles and victories when it comes to chasing dreams. They have a late night chat and dig a little deeper into where they are in both of their careers. #LetsDig We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/l...
Intro Episode
November 21, 2019 19:00 - 21 minutes - 14.9 MBSend us a Text Message. In this #LetsDig Intro Episode, Pierre and Danilee share with you the vision behind “Let’s Dig The Podcast”. You’ll hear a little about what brought them to start this podcast and what you can expect to hear in the upcoming episodes. We would love to hear from you, so #LetsConnect! Send us a message, voicemail and/or join our community: Call: 626-578-5640 Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letsdigthepodcast ...