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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

73 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 93 ratings

Hi! We’re Lacey & Flynn and we f**cking love having sex together. But it wasn’t always this way. A few years ago, we were barely having sex at all. Lacey didn’t want to anymore and Flynn wasn’t happy about it. Instead of breaking up though, we decided to dig into exactly what was going on.

How was it possible we’d gone from loads of sex in that honeymoon phase to completely cold between the sheets? We began a mission to explore all the reasons sex dries up in longterm relationships and that’s what we’re bringing you in this show.

From resistance to rejection, non-existent sex drives to constant arguments, we’re going to give you the ins and outs of why your sex life isn’t working then show you what to do about it.

After years of healing our own relationship by committing to our sex lives like it was our business, we made helping other people with their sex lives our actual business. Since then, we’ve taught thousands of singles and couples around the world via our online course Sex Elevated, how to talk about sex, how to ask for what they want, how to heal their baggage and ultimately, have epic, soulful and satisfying sex lives.

On this Podcast, we’ll be teaching you (and showing you!) everything we’ve learned through our private lives, our studies and our experience helping thousands of people in the same boat. Sometimes we’ll even have sex and break it down for you so you can actually see (well, hear) the work in action. We’ll also invite special guests into the conversation and even answer your personal questions live on the show to help you transform your relationship and sex life.

Hilarious, emotional, spiritual and 100% real, we’re leaving no stone unturned as we share the intimate workings of our sex life with you. This might make you uncomfortable. It might make you excited. If you tune in and really dig deep, this podcast will totally change not only your sex life, but how you relate to pleasure, healing, and who you are as a person.

Whether you’re in a rut, an epic relationship, looking to spice things up, or wanting to develop a more soulful intimate life, we’re going to show you what it looks like to actually do the work to make your relationship and sex life amazing. Tune in then find all the juicy details from each episode at laceyandflynn.com/podcast

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Episodes

70. Farewell: our last episode

December 05, 2022 06:00 - 53 minutes - 74.3 MB

The only thing we know how to share is the truth.  And that truth is, dear listeners, that this is very likely our last episode. And needless to say, we’re feeling quite emotional about it.  But we’re also basking in celebration over what we've created together. We have reached so many people (over half a million downloads) and have poured so much of our truth into this work and our mission to show people the truth of intimacy, love, communication, and integrity. And we are very proud of...

69. Polyamory, masturbation, challenge and resistance

November 28, 2022 06:00 - 31 minutes - 44.4 MB

What are our views on polyamory and open relationships? How to overcome shame around masturbation? Do we work with couples?  These are just some of your questions that we’re answering in today’s episode. And though we‘re not having sex, we are riding your questions straight into a full-blown answer climax.  And, of course, we go really deep on each of these questions to help you find the answers you’re looking for so that you can grow and learn on this amazing journey with us.  We’re d...

68. The Yeti story and Lacey's vulnerability hangover

November 21, 2022 06:00 - 47 minutes - 66 MB

A rare silver Yeti lived in the deepest part of the forest. She was magical and creative, but she was very big, and all of the other creatures were scared of her and couldn't reconcile how tender she was with her brutish appearance… Not knowing that this would turn into the episode that it did, we start today with a very special and magical bedtime story that turned out to be so much more. We explore the true meaning behind Lacey’s bedtime story, her recent experience that has left her w...

67. Sex Fun is the best fun

November 14, 2022 06:00 - 40 minutes - 56.3 MB

Let’s play a sex game! After all, sex fun is the best fun.  So today, we’re bringing you a (mostly) silly episode with Lacey’s completely made-up sex game. (And yes, you can play along too!)  And though today’s episode is light and jovial, it’s also educational and insightful. We do get a bit serious at times as we discuss disrupting the energy of how you approach sex and relationships. We also explore dropping below judgment in order to learn about your sexuality, who you are, what you ...

66. How to give a blow job

November 07, 2022 06:00 - 29 minutes - 41.3 MB

Aaand we’re back after an unintentional hiatus! We’re sorry to leave you hanging, so stay tuned for more details on what we’ve been up to.  In the meantime, in today’s episode, we’re doing something that we don’t usually do: coming at you with a how-to. As in, how to give a blow job (we kinda gave it away in the title).  This isn't your typical how-to, though, because we always want to come at things from an embodied landscape, doing things from within first. So, today we want to take yo...

65. Fuck yourself rich

October 10, 2022 05:00 - 52 minutes - 71.7 MB

It’s Manifesturbation™ week!  If you want more pleasure and wealth in your life, then you’re in the right place. We are so excited and giddy this week to be launching Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations. So today’s episode is all about Manifesturbation™, what it is (and what it isn’t), who it’s for (and who it isn’t for), and how this practice has been changing the lives of women everywhere (and men too!). And it’s time for you to start co-creating your life, unlocking your sexual en...

64. The top 5 things Lacey manifested this year

October 03, 2022 05:00 - 49 minutes - 68.9 MB

Ready to see manifesting in action and become the co-creator of your own life? In today’s epic episode, Lacey shares the top 5 hottest and most potent things she’s called into her life and our lives this year (there’ve been so many, she had to narrow it down). From articles and TV shows to 40k profits and sold-out retreats, this year has been incredible.  And it’s not that we’re not special or different, but we’ve manifested the life of our dreams and want you to know that you can too. ...

63. Manifesturbation™ [Listener Favourite]

September 26, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 112 MB

Want to explore what it means to create your life through pleasure? Enter Manifesturbation™. We are all about manifesturbating right now, which is why we decided to bring our Manifesturbation™ episode back!  Manifesturbation™, the act of using your sexual energy to create the life you desire, helps you to stop thinking, attune to yourself, become more clear on what you truly want, and align to a bigger vision. You connect to yourself and your pleasure and then have it all arrive in your ...

62. Rag-doll sex

September 19, 2022 05:00 - 49 minutes - 69 MB

Trigger Warning: There is a brief mention of rape in this episode in the context of trying to find the correct language around giving your partner full permission to dominate you. What happens when you surrender fully and be dominated by your partner? Rag-doll sex. And that’s what this episode is all about. If you’ve listened to our previous episode, you know how much Lacey wants Flynn to lead. And this episode is about precisely that, Lacey feeling safe enough to fully surrender and F...

61. The big argument: Lacey wants Flynn to lead

September 12, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 85.9 MB

Today’s episode is a big one. It’s not what we had planned, but we’re sharing this process, this big emotional release and open communication, to help bring you to the point of your own discovery. This is us working through one of the biggest pains in our lives and something that needed to happen. Hopefully, there'll be moments in this episode that you really relate to and give you insight into what's happening in your own life and your own relationships. In this episode, we talk abou...

60. Life-changing anal and why we're no longer working together

September 05, 2022 05:00 - 52 minutes - 72.1 MB

Welcome back, everybody!  We're back in your earholes with a bang, and we’ve got lots of news, including our recent deep cosmic anal experience. And we want to tell you about it not just to pat ourselves on the back but because it was actually life-changing.  We’ve also had some recent breakthroughs in terms of how we work together (don’t worry, this podcast and our course, Sex Elevated, aren’t going anywhere).  So today, we’re sharing how exactly these two things are related and how t...

59. Greek mountain sex & Flynn's tantric cock massage

July 11, 2022 05:00 - 44 minutes - 61.1 MB

We’ve missed you, dear listeners!  We are back with a brand new episode about where we've been, everything that's going on at the moment, and what to expect from us in the future.  We just came back from a life-changing holiday to Greece. And even though our original plan for this holiday was to have some sensational anal sex, that didn’t happen. But we did have very profound, hot, outdoor Greek sex on a mountain that we want to tell you about!  We're also sharing our collective strugg...

58. Have sex (even when you don't feel like it) [Listener Favourite]

June 13, 2022 05:00 - 57 minutes - 79.1 MB

Hello darling listeners. Today we’re sending you another powerful listener favourite in the final week of our Greek holiday rendezvous: Have sex (even when you don’t feel like it). Because the idea of having sex when you don’t feel like it is one of our most simple but controversial concepts. So in today’s episode, which is still one of our all-time favourite episodes and as rated by you all, we’re revisiting this concept as an important reminder that “the mood” isn’t something you need to...

57. We just had sex [Listener Favourite]

June 06, 2022 05:00 - 1 hour - 100 MB

Today, we’re bringing back the first-ever (and the most popular by far) episode of Lacey & Flynn Have Sex: We just had sex. So many people have listened to and responded to this episode so well; how could we not share it again? When we made this episode, we had basically just decided to create a podcast. We were going to have sex, then talk about it on air and blow people’s minds. But that didn’t feel right because it wouldn't actually be showing the truth and the rawness of the whole expe...

56. Holiday Sex

May 30, 2022 05:00 - 31 minutes - 44 MB

Have you ever noticed that the sex you have on holiday is different? Better? When we’re on holiday and in that state of complete relaxation and flow, we're more open to surprises and having the kind of sex we wouldn't typically have. We find ourselves stepping outside of our schedule and entering into a state of receptivity. This makes us feel more present and allows us to live in the now, which is ultimately how most of us want to live, but we're too stuck in our heads, either carrying th...

55. Fuck the fear away

May 23, 2022 05:00 - 42 minutes - 59.1 MB

Have you ever used sex to process your fear? We’ve been going through a chronic dry spell (well, chronic for us). The only time we’ve had sex in the last month was when we drove to another country, got a hotel room and had sex. And in a way, we left ourselves there, and it’s time to go back and get “us.”  Recently, we’ve been vacillating between moments of pure joy and gratitude and the other extreme of scarcity and conversations around the projection of our future - how do we get there,...

54. 3 ways to unlock your voice for men

May 16, 2022 05:00 - 48 minutes - 66.8 MB

We use our voice constantly, but are we using it fully?  Our voice is a part of who we are, and it is a part that can teach us so much more about ourselves if we only pay more attention to it. The way we use our voice to express ourselves is determined by so many different things, both physiological and psychological, and setting our voice free can help us become our true, authentic selves and live our lives to the fullest.    In today’s episode, we’re taking you on a journey of Flynn’s ...

53. Pussy Gazing: from shame to power [Listener Favourite]

May 09, 2022 05:00 - 57 minutes - 79 MB

Hello, hello, Lacey & Flynn Have Sex podcast family. It’s Lacey here, flying solo today to bring back one of your favourite episodes (and one that is really dear to me): Pussy Gazing: from shame to power. Because this practice, Pussy Gazing (yes, the act of taking a mirror to gaze at and connect with the space between my legs), transformed my sex life, births, career, everything.  And I wanted to bring this episode back to you today because not only does it have so much wisdom in it abou...

52. Sex robots, real dolls and the future of sex

May 02, 2022 05:00 - 38 minutes - 31.5 MB

***Trigger warning: There is a joke in this episode about sexual violence.***  People are having sex with robots.  And the sex technology market is booming and showing no signs of slowing down. We have vibrators, real dolls, sex toys, and now we have sex robots (AKA sexbots). So, where do we draw the line?  In today’s episode, we’re discussing the different ideas, feelings, and questions that came up for us after watching a BuzzFeed series episode around sex robots, real dolls, and the...

51. Lacey's 3-hour pussy massage

April 25, 2022 05:00 - 45 minutes - 63.6 MB

Have you ever considered getting a 3-hour pussy massage?  Well, if you haven’t, you might after this episode.  Another word used for this energetic, spiritual, physical space is the Sanskrit word, yoni. And a yoni massage is a sensual massage that is all about releasing tension in and around your vagina, allowing you to heal and connect more deeply with your body.  In today’s episode, Lacey walks us through her experience of driving to a beautiful cabin in the woods to spend over 3 hou...

50. Quickies, Doggy Style & Learning from Discomfort

April 18, 2022 05:00 - 38 minutes - 52.3 MB

When things get uncomfortable during sex, do you keep going or change up positions?  We’re still very much in a celebratory mood and are continuing the celebrations of Lacey & Flynn Have Sex (and Flynn’s birthday) with a mid-day office quickie for our 50th episode.  And in light of having so much to celebrate and be thankful for, we went into this episode with a quickie play mentality, jumping straight into it - no foreplay and no build-up. Because sometimes, all you have time for is a q...

49. Celebrating one year of Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

April 11, 2022 05:00 - 55 minutes - 76.1 MB

Can you believe that it’s been a year since our first episode aired?  We have so much to celebrate this month: the one-year anniversary of our podcast, 11 years of our togetherness, and Flynn’s upcoming birthday. But today, we’re celebrating the fact that our podcast is officially turning one!   When we recorded our first episode, wide-eyed and in our living room, even before it aired, we knew that something had changed in the universe and that things could never be the same.  Over the...

48. How to kiss (& a nostalgic prelude)

April 04, 2022 06:00 - 54 minutes - 74.8 MB

What makes a great kiss? Can you learn how to be a great kisser?  Kissing is so much more than putting your mouth on your partner’s mouth. It’s about meeting your partner’s energy with your energy and understanding the sensuality of your own body while simultaneously having an awareness of your partner’s experience.  In today’s episode, we get a bit silly and nostalgic as we take a trip down memory lane and explore the joy of kissing.  From pole dancing and Pamela Anderson to the impor...

47. Why is she so mean to him?

March 28, 2022 06:00 - 30 minutes - 42 MB

How many times have you witnessed a woman being mean to her partner? How often have you heard a man respond with, "Yes, Dear"? Or maybe you are the woman or man in these scenarios?  We've received a lot of feedback from our episode about porn, self-pleasure, and soft men, and today's episode is an extension of that episode.  Because a common dynamic we're seeing in many relationships is one where the woman becomes quite mean, aggressive, and volatile. And unfortunately, the man is on the...

46. Orgasm edition: How to make him cum

March 21, 2022 06:00 - 55 minutes - 76.5 MB

We are so excited to share part two of our special edition orgasm episode: How to make him cum.  In our last episode, we talked about what the feminine requires to step into her orgasmic potential. And today, we are focusing on the masculine and why this is such an uncomfortable space for so many men right now. Because as a man, you have to walk a fine line between your inbuilt animal instinct to procreate and your desire to connect with your partner on a deeper level, all while steering t...

45. Orgasm edition: How to make her cum

March 14, 2022 06:00 - 52 minutes - 71.7 MB

Have you lost your direct path to orgasm? Maybe you've been with your partner for a while, and though they've made you cum in the past, life has gotten in the way. And sure, you can still make yourself cum, but it just doesn’t leave you feeling as satisfied or connected. Thanks to a wonderful listener request, we are so excited to share part one of our special edition orgasm episode with you today: How to make her cum. (Because we believe that the feminine has to come first.) We don't us...

44. Porn, Self Pleasure and Soft Men

March 07, 2022 06:00 - 38 minutes - 52.5 MB

Men, it's time you check out of porn and check back into your body so you can have epic sex that satisfies you both. In today's society, many men have lost their compass, confidence, and ability to ravage a woman from a place of integrity beyond the political correctness of the standards determined by porn. And because it's been a constant in our lives for so long, many men have also become addicted to porn, not even recognizing how this is impacting their lives and relationships.  In to...

43. That time we had a threesome with our bestie

February 28, 2022 06:00 - 53 minutes - 73.1 MB

Have you ever had a threesome? If not, have you ever wanted to have a threesome? In this really special episode, we’re having our very first interview on the podcast with a very special guest. Our dear friend, Amanda Noga, is joining us today to talk about that time we had a threesome (though we like to think of it as a romantic adventure). And things get quite graphic. We’re bringing you behind the scenes to tell you the whole story of how this romantic adventure came about. From the un...

42. Sauna sex and the art of letting go

February 21, 2022 06:00 - 56 minutes - 77.8 MB

We didn't know we’d end up slamming on the brakes (both in the car and during penetration) or our own brand of jungle sauna sex, but that's what happened when we went on a date night.  And you're about to go behind the scenes.  In this sex recap episode, we’re sharing our recent sauna sex experience and how we came to see so much about letting go. (Pun not intended.) Letting go of expectations. Letting go of the need to make things happen a certain way. Letting go to be free.  We’re al...

41. Flynn's (penis's) journey with trauma & healing

February 14, 2022 06:00 - 56 minutes - 77.3 MB

We don’t often talk about penis trauma or the things men go through. In this episode, we dive into Flynn’s three testicle and groin surgeries (due to a varicocele), the impacts of circumcision on newborn baby boys, and the problems with normalising these traumatic events. The changes we make to our bodies are just that, our own. But what happens when changes are made to our bodies when we’re too young even to realise what’s happening? How can we seek the support we need to heal from thes...

40. We tried period sex (again)

February 07, 2022 06:00 - 55 minutes - 76.6 MB

And we almost didn’t release this episode. Given the stigma and epic amount of shame and trauma around periods, it’s no wonder that this can lead to insecurities and awkwardness when it comes to having sex on your (or your partner’s) period. In this episode, we attempt period sex for the first time in a long time (because last time didn’t go as planned) and discuss why people have period sex, what the issues are, and how we can help people with this part of life. And yes, things get me...

39. Lacey heals her rejection wound + listener questions

January 31, 2022 06:00 - 55 minutes - 76.4 MB

Do you ever feel like there’s something that wants to come out during sex? Frustration? Confusion? Sadness? Have you ever felt shy or even shame when referring to your own body parts? And what about this; have you ever had an unhealed wound from childhood come out of absolute fucking nowhere in the form of pure rage? If you’re reading this (and being honest with yourself), you’re likely nodding your head and saying YES to at least one of those.  In this episode, we’re answering a couple ...

38. Pussy pain, cock attunement and deep penetration

January 24, 2022 06:00 - 54 minutes - 74.9 MB

Are you often having sex that just feels contracted? Do you feel your painful sex might be caused by a shallow vagina? Several of you have messaged us about this very topic so in this episode, we’re exploring our genitals! Join us in our curious journey to see if the pussy and cock are capable of being in sync with each other’s sensitivities, utilizing the full sensory experience to acknowledge one another’s discomfort, and what connection is essential for your pussy to really allow for a de...

37. Flynn's "premature" ejaculation situation

January 17, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 112 MB

Premature. Ejaculation. You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve experienced it. You may have even ended a relationship because of it. But we’re here to flip the script on this stigma. Is it really ‘premature’ ejaculation or is it simply cumming earlier than expected? There are tons and tons of stories, expectations, and stigmas we bring into our daily lives and especially into sex. So, in this sex ‘sode, we’re exploring how these show up in our lives (such as Lacey’s experience of the kids moving in...

36. 11 reasons why they don't want to have sex with you

January 10, 2022 06:00 - 1 hour - 88 MB

Has your partner constantly been rejecting you? Have you just not been “in the mood” lately? Or do you believe you’re just not interested in sex? Well, this is the episode for you. Listen, we have been there before. After more than 10 years together plus coaching students and clients, we’ve compiled 11 reasons why you or your partner just… don’t want to have sex. And we want you to know, you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re walking you through each reason and giving you tips on what ...

35. 2022: Age of the power couple

January 03, 2022 06:00 - 58 minutes - 81.4 MB

What can happen when you move deeper into your relationship? What is waiting for you when you purposefully choose to work with your partner? Welcome to 2022: the year, the era, the age of the power couple. We’re ready to support you in stepping beyond the common view of relationships and into electrified unions that are deeply connected on a soul level. In this episode, we explore the common misconceptions around relationships as the “ball and chain” and something you “have to do” in the...

34. Sex Guinea Pig [Listener Favourites]

December 27, 2021 06:00 - 56 minutes - 104 MB

With the holidays fast upon us, we’re rewinding and giving you one of our listener favourites to revisit: Sex Guinea Pig.  This episode received a ton of love and responses from you, our listeners. It’s a raw and genuine expression of vulnerability, emotion, and realness which also led to us being nominated for the Skylark Collective’s International Women’s Podcast Awards in Raw Emotion.  We hope that this episode helps to illuminate your own emotional experiences and where you feel vuln...

33. Why we have sex on a podcast

December 20, 2021 06:00 - 48 minutes - 88.1 MB

When this year started, we had no idea we would find ourselves having sex on a chart-topping podcast for the world to hear. Yet, here we are, 7+ months in continuing to spread our work of progressive sex education.  In this episode, we’re sharing the story behind our journey of creating this podcast, how we chose to have sex for all of you to hear, and some of our biggest fears stepping into this concept.  Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear our story through censorship and...

32. Expectations, guilt, & holidays

December 13, 2021 06:00 - 58 minutes - 80.3 MB

It’s the holiday season! A time for fun, festivities, checking out, expectations, and blowups, if we’re being honest (which you know we are). This is a time where you may want to simply check out now that you have time away from work, but instead, it’s the best time to truly check in with yourself, your partner, and your relationship.  In this episode, we explore the realities of the holidays and the people we spend them with, how expectations lead to most holiday disappointments and blowu...

31. Touching with intention

December 06, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 112 MB

Has touching your partner become just another routine part of your day? Have you ever found yourself going to kiss your partner goodnight and… there’s really nothing there?  When we are disconnected from ourselves, touch can feel empty. Words can feel empty. We can end up just going through the motions in our day-to-day actions and even in our gestures towards our partner. This gives us interactions that are fleeting and shallow and leaves us craving true satisfactory intimacy. So, in th...

30. Ass trance: Into the wormhole (Part 2)

November 29, 2021 06:00 - 44 minutes - 61.5 MB

If the idea of diving right into bum oral makes you uncomfortable, you need to pause and head over to episode 29. Ass trance: Into the wormhole (Part 1) to get warmed up for this one.  We’re continuing our anal exploration from part 1 and it’s honestly taken a different turn than we expected. In this episode, we actually end up giving you a front row seat to a real, authentic experience of feeling disconnected during sex and resisting your full expression along with an example of what to ...

29. Ass trance: Into the wormhole (Part 1)

November 22, 2021 06:00 - 51 minutes - 71.7 MB

Today, we’re eating ass and de-shaming our lives (and this one’s a 2-part special)! Checking in with ourselves, we find that Lacey’s at a place in her life where she is completely done with not being her fullest, truest self. She has zero space to pretend she’s anyone other than the Viking Lacey! De-shaming her life is of the utmost importance right now and it’s what’s led us to today’s topic: anal. Join us on our anal exploration journey as we dive deep into the social constructs around...

28. The joy of simple sex

November 15, 2021 06:00 - 51 minutes - 71.2 MB

Have you ever found yourself in the infamous “I’ll be happy when…” mentality? You know, the thoughts that say once you reach the destination or achieve that goal that you’ll be so much happier. Here’s the truth: focusing solely on the destination can very easily leave you feeling underwhelmed, unsatisfied, and far from happier. It is so imperative that you treat the journey just as important as the destination whether it’s in your career, your personal goals, or your sex life. Often, we mi...

27. Dry spells & the yoga of sucking cock

November 08, 2021 06:00 - 58 minutes - 80.8 MB

Have you ever found yourself right in the middle of a dry spell? Maybe you’re even wondering, “How the heck do I initiate sex at this point?” Well, we recently broke our own dry spell (woo hoo!) and, in this episode, we’re sharing our 5 key takeaways from this experience to help you break through your dry spell and rekindle your connection with your partner. We’re also exploring the real reason you’re irritated with your partner (we promise it’s not because they leave the tea towel lying o...

26. 5 tips for more satisfying & connected sex

November 01, 2021 06:00 - 49 minutes - 68 MB

How can I have a deeper connection with my partner? What is soulful sex and how can I have that in my relationship? We’ve worked with thousands of couples and have found that most of them are doing the same things that just simply aren’t working in their relationships. Some of these include coming together to have sex only if they’re “in the mood” (which - spoiler alert: does not work!), only allowing themselves to experience pleasure through their pussies and cocks, and focusing solely on...

25. Free your voice & be your true self

October 25, 2021 05:00 - 41 minutes - 58.1 MB

How has life led you to hide your voice and shield who you are from the world? What can your voice reveal to you about your true self?  It’s not often that we think of our voices as a part of ourselves that can be changed. We see it as something set in stone, but really it reflects so much and can very easily be changed by our conditionings, our trauma, and our lifestyles.  In this episode, we explore our personal connections to our voices, dive into the ways they’ve been shaped over the...

24. Communicating with clarity and truth

October 18, 2021 05:00 - 44 minutes - 61.3 MB

What does it mean to speak the truth? Why is it important to speak the truth and how do you allow your partner the space to do so, as well? We’ve witnessed that so many people in life will do anything to dodge speaking the truth. They’ll go far and wide to sugarcoat it, to soften it, and to turn it into something other than the truth. We’ve all become disillusioned with speaking simple truths in our relationships, at work, with our families, everywhere.  In this episode, we’re exploring ...

23. Rage fucking & turning yourself on

October 11, 2021 05:00 - 44 minutes - 61.5 MB

Have you ever found yourself unleashing your anger unintentionally onto someone you love? Your partner, your kids? What if we told you there’s a much healthier way to release your rage and that it’s through sex? Between your legs is an untapped world of power and pleasure. This sacred, amazing place is capable of helping you dig deeper into every single emotion you could ever experience and release it in a much more positive and energetic way. In this episode, we’re showing you how to use ...

22. Leave the clit alone: an orgasmic journey

September 27, 2021 05:00 - 58 minutes - 80.2 MB

Do you always need clitoral stimulation to orgasm? Have you ever felt like a victim to your own body thinking you can only receive pleasure and reach orgasm by rubbing your clit?  Normally, we don’t use orgasm as the goal during sex, but in this episode, we’re doing a complete 180! Thanks to one of our listener questions we received on Instagram, we are going on a different sexual exploration than we’ve done in years: the pleasure journey without intentional external clitoral stimulation t...

21. 5 tips to be in fun & flow with your partner

September 20, 2021 05:00 - 47 minutes - 66.3 MB

What can happen when love and ease flow through your relationship? Dreams can come true. Goals can be accomplished. Overwhelm can be diminished by laughter.  We just returned from possibly the best holiday we’ve had in a long time as parents. During those potent 5 days of freedom, we disconnected from technology, lived spontaneously, and, as a result, realized something so important: when you’re living in fun and flow with your partner - the nucleus of your life - everything is just so muc...