For those who are not familiar with the BDSM scene, what usually comes to mind are images of whips, chains, handcuffs and pleasurable pain. What doesn't come to mind is one very important element that all ethical BDSM practitioners have built into their sexcapades to ensure everyone involved feels safe and cared for when they're finished playing.

 

Austin & Naomi discuss a practice known as after care, the import role it plays whether you're into BDSM or vanilla sex and why it's something everyone should be doing.