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Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens

198 episodes - English - Latest episode: 22 days ago - ★★★★★ - 118 ratings

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place.

I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.

Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.*

When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!

When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex positive, light and fact based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.

To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.*

I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.

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*Not a thing.

**In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get really real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?

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Episodes

Explaining STIs to kids under 10 -- Episode 197

April 03, 2024 12:00 - 5 minutes - 4.52 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Health officials recommend more syphilis testing after U.S. newborn cases skyrocketed in 2022 What are STDs? BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even ...

Boy masturbating in mom's bedroom; should you buy condoms in front of your kids; and is a body pillow OK for my teen? -- Episode 196

March 20, 2024 12:00 - 14 minutes - 11.2 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Good old Amaze has great videos on masturbation (and more)! Show your kids ages 9+. Masturbation Females and Masturbation Birth Control Basics: Condoms, The Pill and The Patch  Anime Body Pillows! Check some out here. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube ...

What does sex positive mean? -- Episode 195

February 28, 2024 13:00 - 7 minutes - 7.15 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! The Meaning of Sex Positivity, Explained - My pal and colleague Nadine Thornhill is interviewed for this article! She's fab. Check her out here.  Peggy Orenstein BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the detai...

The Valentines Edition: Telling a 6 year-old they can have a "girlfriend" as long as they get good grades; helping tweens navigate crushes; and are trans kiddo romantic sleepovers damaging? -- Episode 194

February 14, 2024 15:29 - 17 minutes - 15.9 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & B...

Sugar dating with Casey O'Roarty and Christy Keating -- Episode 193

January 17, 2024 13:00 - 42 minutes - 37.4 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Joyful Courage with Casey O'Roarty The Heartful Parent with Christy Keating BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids...

Neurodivergent kid struggles with impulse control and gal can't keep her hands out of her pants -- Episode 192

January 03, 2024 13:00 - 20 minutes - 17.7 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Helping Women Period - provides FREE period products for homeless and low-income bleeders. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watc...

How to tell adults to respect your kids' body-boundaries -- Episode 191

December 20, 2023 13:00 - 10 minutes - 9.59 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Feather Berkhower is a terrific sexual abuse preventionist. She's been at this for a very long time and knows her stuff! Check out her article here. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex ta...

Funny sex talk stories from Huff Post part 2 -- Episode 190

December 13, 2023 13:00 - 5 minutes - 4.54 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch wi...

How to talk about C-Sections -- Episode 185

December 06, 2023 18:27 - 5 minutes - 4.63 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Be...

My two superpowers, Thanksgiving, and talking about Two-Spirit people -- Episode 187

December 06, 2023 18:25 - 5 minutes - 5.42 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! These folks do a great job of explaining the two-spirit identity.  A terrifc list of books for kids and teens! Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Children’s and YA Book Lists  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the de...

Funny sex talk stories from Huff Post part 1 -- Episode 189

December 06, 2023 18:24 - 7 minutes - 6.29 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post Sugar Dating podcast BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even som...

4-year-old obsessed with private parts and a funny story about getting caught in the act -- Episode 188

November 29, 2023 13:00 - 13 minutes - 10.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! RAINN.org - To find a child advocacy center in your area Consent Parenting for support for surviors. Consent Parenting for support for surviors.  Savvy Parents Safe Kids for general info to keep kids safe. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full...

A fetus isn't a baby and gay marriage doesn't mean people will marry their pets, idiot! -- Episode 186

November 15, 2023 13:00 - 8 minutes - 7.74 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Fetal Development Stages of Fetal Development Illustration   Other resources BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  S...

Kiddo thinks he isn't horny enough and the connection between sex talk freak out and porn exposure -- Episode 184

November 01, 2023 12:00 - 14 minutes - 13.5 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! What's wrong with a lack of interest in or desire for sex? Nothing.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! ...

How to talk about kink -- Episode 183

October 25, 2023 12:00 - 5 minutes - 4.83 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Working the kinks out BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips...

Talking with neurodiverse kids about masturbation and what to do if your kiddo REALLY doesn't want to talk about sex -- Episode 182

October 18, 2023 12:00 - 15 minutes - 13.2 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! If your kid is neurodiverse and you’d like to be part of my focus group and get on my special newsletter list, send me an email. [email protected]  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts an...

The top 3 STIs and how to talk about them -- Episode 181

October 11, 2023 12:00 - 11 minutes - 10.3 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! What Are the 3 Most Common STIs? STDs and HIV (from Amaze.org for kids age 10+) BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with you...

9-year-old is pushing boundaries with clothes and makeup, how to handle anime with a teen, and a funny sex talk story --Episode 180

October 04, 2023 12:00 - 21 minutes - 17.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Check out my Instagram How to Talk to Your Daughter About Her Clothes  Celebrate Your Body book Common Sense Media Assasination Classroom - watch here  BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on ...

Chirp: When is it okay for someone to have sex? -- Episode 179

September 27, 2023 12:00 - 4 minutes - 4.24 MB

In this episode, Amy assigns a bit of homework.  When is it okay for someone to have sex?  You have to be able to answer this question for yourself before you can help your kids find the answer. Resources: My book: Birds & Bees & Your Kids: A Guide to Sharing Your Beliefs about Sexuality, Love, & Relationships GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Sa...

Should younger teens be put on birth control and kid majorly breaks down (and shuts down the talks) after sex ed at school -- Episode 178

September 20, 2023 12:00 - 24 minutes - 19.8 MB

In this episode, Amy answers a question about when to start birth control and offers help for a parent whose kid has shut down after sex ed at school. Resources: Learn more about Christy Keating and her amazing work at The Heartful Parent Collective. Safety of oral contraceptives for teenagers Amaze.org Every Body Curious GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to...

Chirp: How to find your child a therapist if they have been porn exposed -- Episode 177

September 13, 2023 12:00 - 5 minutes - 4.17 MB

In this episode, you'll learn how to find a therapist for your child if they have been porn exposed. Resources Join the postcarding movement!   Safer Society Press to find a provider in your area if you have concerns about sexual abuse or porn exposure.  GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources M...

Sex is on the table for 15-year-old kid with first girlfriend and kid watching "breast spanking" videos -- Episode 176

September 06, 2023 12:00 - 16 minutes - 14.4 MB

In this episode, Amy answers a question from a mom about her 15 year-old and his interest in sex.  Also, Amy offers advice to a parent who is concerned about her 12 year-old who is watching porn. Resources Join the postcarding movement!   My dated (2014) book for teens Dating Smarts: What Teens Need to Know to Date, Relate or Wait! Helps with values clarifcation and making sure they know what they are getting into (like that's a thing).  Safer Society Press to find a provider in your...

Chirp: What a healthy vagina smells like (usually) -- Episode 175

August 30, 2023 12:00 - 5 minutes - 5.02 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain how a vagina should smell. Great article on vaginal smells The Body Drama Book has great info about female bodies and more - including a bunch of photographs of different vulvas! Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news l...

Porn exposed kiddo acting out and mom's abuse triggering her. Daughter cries when mom tries to talk to her. -- Episode 174

August 23, 2023 12:00 - 13 minutes - 12.3 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions from the mail bag about porn exposure and how to talk with a kiddo who is distraught by the talks. Resources: Book: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Amaze.org Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Ti...

Chirp: Emergency Contraception -- Episode 173

August 16, 2023 12:00 - 4 minutes - 4.23 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain emergency contraception. Effect of levonorgestrel emergency contraception on implantation  What is EC and How Does it Work? Info from the World Health Organization  Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get ...

Kid buys tubular masturbation assistant and how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling -- Episode 172

August 09, 2023 12:00 - 15 minutes - 13.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions about how a mom should handle a kid who bought a tubular masturbation assistant.  Also, how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling Resources: Babeland has great sex toys! Feminist and birthed in Seattle Catamenial epilepsy   Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & ...

Chirp: Midwife -- Episode 171

August 02, 2023 12:00 - 5 minutes - 5.16 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain what a midwife is. Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can he...

Mom overhears gay son say he's going to 'slut his way through high school' and questions from kids with special guest star Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 170

July 26, 2023 12:00 - 20 minutes - 15.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Resources: Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions ...

REPLAY - Chirp: Sixty-nine (how could I resist?) -- Episode 169

July 12, 2023 12:00 - 5 minutes - 4.64 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain 69 to your kiddos. Resources How do you have oral sex?  From Planned Parenthood - don't let the title freak you out!  Also, throw a little cash their way if you can afford it! Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my new...

Phubbing and birth control for teens -- Episode 168

July 05, 2023 12:00 - 15 minutes - 13 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Parental Phubbing Leaves Kids Feeling Ignored and May Increase Depression How to Deal with People Who Won't Make Eye Contact   Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How...

F-you detrans movement; explaining Mx. to a preschooler, and navigating friends' phones -- Episode 167

June 28, 2023 12:00 - 23 minutes - 19.3 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on talking to a kiddo about a new teacher with the Mx. prefix.  She also helps a mom whose 10-year-old doesn't have a phone when all of the 10-year-old friends do. Resources: The Trans "Detransition" Wars Study Examines The "Social Contagion" Hypotheses of Transgender and Gender Diverse Identities Books: Annie's Plaid...

REPLAY - How to explain what being a lesbian means -- Episode 166

June 21, 2023 12:00 - 3 minutes - 3.32 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy explains what being a lesbian means. Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far…The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help y...

REPLAY - Alternatives to porn: The Joy of Sex! The Joy of Gay Sex! The Lesbian Sex Bible! -- Episode 165

June 14, 2023 12:00 - 7 minutes - 5.12 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy discusses alternatives to porn for teenagers. Show notes: The Joy of Gay Sex The Lesbian Sex Bible The Joy of Sex   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees &...

REPLAY - Gay guy and his gal-pal sexually bullied by 10-year-olds. True story. -- Episode 164

June 07, 2023 12:00 - 35 minutes - 26.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy interviews two college students about their weird experience with a group of young kids. Show notes: Be a Positive Bystander What is Sexual Bullying and Why Do Kids Engage in It?   Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get h...

Gay Pride Episode! -- Episode 163

May 31, 2023 12:00 - 21 minutes - 17.6 MB

REPLAY - A 13-Year Old With a Newly Transgender Friend... Who He Kissed Before, A 9 Year Old Who Wants to Dress Sexy, and Explaining Rape Scenes in Movies -- Episode 163 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who wants to know how to support her son whose friend has recently come out as transgender - after the son and his friend shared their first kiss.  S...

Slut -- Episode 162

May 17, 2023 12:00 - 5 minutes - 5.4 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the term 'slut'. List of sexual slang terms from Bark BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds...

Personal baggage but still needing to do the sex talks. And comments about kids' bodies -- Episode 161

May 03, 2023 12:00 - 20 minutes - 18.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a parent who is worried about their past experiences with their own sex education creeping into their talks with their kids.  Amy also gives advice to a parent who is worried that her partner, through his conversations with their kids, could be introducing body issues for their children. Book: Fat Talk   Other resources My ...

Mifepristone and a never-ending period --Episode 160

April 19, 2023 12:00 - 6 minutes - 6.57 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about medication abortion, plus a story about a never-ending period. Great video for kids about medication abortion BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees ...

Ejaculate Responsibly! And vasectomies --Episode 159

March 29, 2023 12:00 - 10 minutes - 9.8 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Ejaculate Responisbly. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Cente...

Guest Star! Questions from kids and more with Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 158

March 15, 2023 12:00 - 44 minutes - 32.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Rowena from Amazing Me, who provides sex education resources for families and schools. Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Article: Empathy in children  BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and ge...

IVF -- Episode 157

March 08, 2023 13:00 - 7 minutes - 6.33 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about IVF. Books for kids about kids concieved through fertility treatments  BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get yo...

Ganged by the Ski Patrol and parents on different pages about the talks -- Episode 156

March 01, 2023 13:00 - 22 minutes - 19.3 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a mom about what to do after her young son gets ahold of a racy book on Kindle Unlimited.  Also, how to handle the talks when parents disagree on how to have them. If you want to check it out (and buy it) Ganged by the Ski Patrol Sexual Values & Attitudes handout Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What t...

Guest Star! First Period Pointers with Liz from Raising Flora -- Episode 155

February 15, 2023 13:00 - 52 minutes - 37.9 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Liz from Raising Flora, who offers first period pointers for kids and caregivers. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get...

Our Bodies, Ourselves -- Episode 154

February 08, 2023 13:00 - 4 minutes - 3.86 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Our Bodies, Ourselves. Our Bodies, Ourselves Today BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The...

Guest Star! Emily Cherkin talks about how to get a grip on screen time -- Episode 153

February 01, 2023 13:00 - 39 minutes - 28.3 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with The Screen Time Consultant, Emily Cherkin, about ways to help your kids manage their screen time. Screen Time Consultant - check out Emily's freebies: Top 3 Tech-Intentional Tips Webinar and her eBook "7 Ingredients for Screentime Balance" on the top of her website. Which Parental Controls Do I Recommend? None.  I'm 43. I Made a Fake Snapchat Acc...

IUD -- Episode 152

January 25, 2023 13:00 - 3 minutes - 3.44 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy explains IUDs. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trust...

Abortion and fertility BS; girl wants mom to smell her fingers; boy wants to see mom's privates up close; and a funny about an angry penis -- Episode 151

January 18, 2023 13:00 - 19 minutes - 16.6 MB

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about abortion and fertility.  She also disucsses young, developmentally typical kiddos' antics. Abortion Care 101: The different types and their impact on fertility BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips ...

Erections -- Episode 150

January 11, 2023 13:00 - 5 minutes - 4.55 MB

In this episode, Amy explains erections. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webin...

How to handle "sexy" dance moves and ending co-sleeping -- Episode 149

January 04, 2023 13:00 - 15 minutes - 13.9 MB

In this episode, Amy talks about sexy dance moves and co-sleeping.   Rebecca Michi - Children's Sleep Consultant BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have ...

REPLAY: Talks with uninterested 13 year old, consent with doctors, and explaining transitioning friend to a 2 year old -- Episode 148

December 28, 2022 13:00 - 31 minutes - 27.4 MB

Savvy Parents Safe Kids C is for Consent (book) BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!  Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks –   Birds & Bees & Kids  The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special ...