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CareDoula® Talks

98 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 9 ratings

This podcast is grounded in Palliative Care concepts. We explore topics and tools to create an amazing day amidst dying. My own insights and others' that have something to say about dying well in this modern age, healing symptoms and supporting the people who are supporting our dying loved ones. May we bring peace and comfort to ourselves and to our communities.

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What is the Difference Between Hospice & Death Doula Services?

May 29, 2020 16:07 - 46 minutes - 107 MB

This is one of the biggest questions I get, "how are death doulas and hospice different?" Or, "why would someone need an end of life doula when there is hospice?" Or, "are death doulas competing with hospice?" These are variations of the same question. Listen in as I give you a foundation of what role each plays.

How Death Doulas Support During Covid

May 20, 2020 02:22 - 18 minutes - 19.9 MB Video

End of Life Doulas are in a new time, incorporating all that is occurring due to the pandemic.  New discussions evolve daily, weekly, and will continue to do so. We are out of the shock of it all. We are into expansion again. We are trying on how we will move with the times now. In this podcast Deanna shares how the pandemic has affected a death doula's practice. 

WHAT DEATH DOULAS SHOULD KNOW, 5 PRO TIPS

May 16, 2020 04:31 - 27 minutes - 25.5 MB

5 Important things a Death Doula must know to help their professional practice  are: 1) Get the word out about your service before every little thing is in place; 2) Know, inside and out, what the #1 tool of the trade is and take great care of it; 3) ... go to our blog post to read the rest, better yet, listen in or even better, watch the video! blessings. :) Deanna www.qualityoflifecare.com

3 Keys to Starting Your End of Life Doula Practice

May 07, 2020 21:05 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MB

As you study the 3 keys to starting your end of life doula practice, you may feel awkward right now, but over time, as you learn more about these principles and practice them, you will feel better. I promise! It's not rocket science to accompany the dying, it is a human endeavor, natural to us--it is something we have always done. However, if you want to do this in a professional capacity, it has been my experience that you need to have more intentional development. Blessings on your jou...

Death Doula Discussion on Vigil (pro tips)

April 29, 2020 01:13 - 19 minutes - 18.1 MB

Vigil days (pre-death vigil) is what most people think of when they think of serving the dying and their families. Here are some tips that may be helpful if you are considering doing this service professionally.  

Death Doulas Use Same Skills for COVID-19

April 26, 2020 18:48 - 17 seconds - 251 KB

What you have learned as a death doula is the same set of skills and awarenesses that you need now, during COVID-19. Its not that we need new skills, its that we need to dive deeper within for a newer deeper level of self care to be that guiding light that we already are, whether we are aware of it or not.  QualityOfLifeCare.com

Suffering with Serious Illness? What to do. Listen in Death Doulas and Healthcare Advocates

April 21, 2020 17:15 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MB

You can heal from your illness and NOT have to suffer. That is the message in this video. Unconventional ways to use the medicine most think only hospice uses. (all death doulas and healthcare advocates should know backwards and forwards whats in this video.) love, Deanna QLC Resources

New Death Doulas, you can help now during the pandemic, you dont have to wait.

April 19, 2020 17:57 - 1 minute - 1.79 MB

As a society we have been turned upside by the covid-19 pandemic. What death doulas in training can do now to support.

Real EOL Doula Stories: Meet Kimberly King Wise

November 11, 2019 13:41 - 1 hour - 58.5 MB

Kimberly King Wise is a Certified End of Life Doula, Home Funeral Guide, Certified Business Manager and Virtual Assistant with 21 years of experience supporting coaches, trainers and authors. She is a passionate death positive movement advocate and is uniquely skilled in helping death positive business owners kickstart their businesses into high gear. Listen in as she gives us several pearls from her years of experience.

Understanding World Religions for Birth and Death Doulas: Amy Wright Glenn

August 23, 2019 18:42 - 35 minutes - 13.7 MB

The doula's role can be powerfully strengthened and supported with a clear understanding of the basic tenets of five of our world's religions: Hinduism, Buddhism, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. For over a decade, author, hospital chaplain, and birth/death doula Amy Wright Glenn taught in the Religion and Philosophy Department at The Lawrence School in New Jersey.  Now, for the first time, Amy will combine her studies as a scholar of comparative religion with her work as a birth and de...

EOL Doulas in Real Life: Elizabeth

February 02, 2019 20:23 - 33 minutes - 30.8 MB

Meet Elizabeth, a massage therapist and end-of-life doula in private practice. She shares her story with us here of how she was a hospice volunteer and naturally came to develop her end of life private practice. She also shares about a new technique she developed for practitioners who serve people at the end of life, "Nurturing Touch for the Dying." Listen in and visit her website: www.elizabethernrecht.com  Email her at: [email protected] Another amazing interview brought ...

Rev Bodhi Be On "In Case You Might Die One Day"

January 06, 2018 15:45 - 46 minutes - 33.3 MB

Reverend Bodhi Be discusses with me about living as a student of suffering, dying and grieving. "We don't value suffering in this culture, that is why we are always pushing it away." Join us in this heartfelt discussion on suffering, soul and spiritual life ... What if we got grounded in the world right here right now as a way of widening and deepening our spiritual life? Join Us In Maui: 2nd Annual Death Doula Conference Show Sponsor: Quality of Life Care, LLC. since 2005, supporting th...

Self Care for Professional Caregivers

December 16, 2017 14:27 - 45 minutes - 64.5 MB

We had a fantastic time in this interview! But of course, I'm not talking with just anyone who is carefully living in between the lines--I'm speaking with Elena Lipson, Divine Self Care Mentor. Self care is more than a bubble bath, it is deep. We are used to quick fixes and band aids and measuring our results often by grand moments of success or failure. But sometimes (and this is one of those times) 'success' as far as our care for our selves goes, should be measured over time. The proof ...

Hospital Companion

July 11, 2017 14:20 - 8 minutes - 12 MB

Our role as end of life doulas is not only for the imminent days of dying. Some people want to focus there and there are many other places where we can be so useful. In the hospital is one of them. Listen in as I go over what is involved.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Moment of Death Research

June 27, 2017 11:37 - 43 minutes - 62 MB

Dr. Micahel Barbato stays busy enlightening us in end of life matters for decades. Recently he has completed a study with other physicians regarding what they have found inin brain activity among some people at thte moment of death. Listen in on our podcast today to hear all about it!  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Are You the 'Go-to' Person?

June 20, 2017 12:20 - 10 minutes - 14.9 MB Video

The "Go to" person is that special person within a circle that people know they can turn to during serious situations. Whether it has to do with end of life or not, if you are this person within your family and friend circle, then you are actually dealing with many of the same issues that end of life doulas face. And, it's trickier to be this person because you are known as the best friend, the daughter, the 'cousin who knows', the nurse relative - somehow you are 'in the know', as well a...

"The Calling," You Have It or You Don't

June 13, 2017 12:52 - 7 minutes - 10.2 MB

Anyone can receive end of life training to know more about the time period, what to do, how to be helpful and to feel more comfortable assisting others. But not everyone who seeks this out has the 'calling.' The calling is that powerful desire deep in your bones that you knoow you are meant to offer yourself in this way in service to others as they die. When people reach out to me, they talk about this and it is interesting that so many feel strange for having the calling to serve others ...

Referring to Hospice

May 31, 2017 01:17 - 12 minutes - 18.1 MB

Yes! Refer to hospice as a death doula. You may be serving people who are not on hospice yet and who may not realize all they are missing by NOT getting the great care they are entitled to. You may be instrumental in relieving their suffering by getting them into palliative care (whether or not they are dying). Listen in as we talk about all this.   End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

"Nurse With the Purple Hair"--A New Film by Sean Cunningham

May 23, 2017 04:22 - 31 minutes - 44.1 MB

This interview with Sean Cunningham is so wonderful as you can hear the awe in his voice for the work of hospice. He shares how he came across the 'nurse with the purple hair,' and how he came to create the film. World-renowned filmmaker of the Friday the 13th series, he takes us on quite a different journey this time. Easy to talk to and not at all what I expected, I hope you also enjoy hearing from someone who has discovered the inspiring nature of hospice work.  End of Life Care Cert...

Birth, Breath and Death with Amy Wright Glenn

May 19, 2017 02:35 - 34 minutes - 48.1 MB

Amy Wright Glenn earned her MA in Religion and Education from Teachers College, Columbia University. Amy is a Kripalu Yoga teacher, Birthing Mama® Prenatal Yoga and Wellness Teacher Trainer, (CD)DONA birth doula, hospital chaplain, and founder of the Institute for the Study of Birth, Breath, and Death. Amy is a regular contributor to PhillyVoice and author of Birth, Breath, and Death: Meditations on Motherhood, Chaplaincy, and Life as a Doula published in 2013. She is also the author of Hold...

Experience Does Matter for Death Doulas

May 11, 2017 12:42 - 11 minutes - 16.1 MB

As an end of life practitioner, having experience underneath you really does matter. We all must start somewhere yes. Get a group of hospice professionals together as we share stories of our beginning days and you will hear the funniest and sweetest stories. That's my point: we don't know until we have been there. There is a big movement going on right now of people who feel called to serve the dying and we call ourselves a multitude of things: death doula, end of life doula, end of li...

Death Doulas and Palliative Care

May 04, 2017 04:10 - 18 minutes - 17.2 MB

Listen in as I discuss why it is so important to understand palliative care when you are an end of life doula. You will understand so much more about present services, especially if the person you are accompanying is not on hospice services when you begin working with them. This is paramount to your work.  End-of-Life Doula Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

The Sacred Life Journey of Sharon Lund

April 19, 2017 21:48 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MB

Last night sitting outside beside the powerful Maui ocean, Sharon and I talked about her own life and death journey. She has been serving others at the end of life since 1986 in a variety of ways, as she weaves in her own path of healing her own mind, body and spirit. There is a place for every single one of us who has this calling to be of help at the end of life in our communities. Regardless of how unconventional we feel we are, listen in as Sharon describes how her sacred journey u...

Community Healing with Dying Well Collective

April 10, 2017 00:00 - 43 minutes - 40 MB

The Dying Well Collective in Canada is doing beautiful work for the community. This interview with Glenda Myles, Founder of the Collective illustrates how she the death doula role is bridging death care in Canada. The website: http://www.dyingwellcollective.com  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Guest House for the Terminally Ill

November 10, 2016 19:57 - 32 minutes - 21.9 MB

The Social Model Hospice House is a beautiful model for care for those at the end of life. Today listen in as I interview Kevin Miller, Executive Director of the Toni and Trish House in Auburn Michigan. He discusses the concept of the social model of a hospice house and what it takes to run it, very different than a hospice house run by a hospice agency. The caregivers get tremendous support for up to 90 days. Visit the Toni and Trish House website here: https://toniandtrishhouse.org/  End...

The Be-Attitudes of Chaplaincy

September 13, 2016 13:57 - 34 minutes - 28.1 MB

The beautiful ministry of the chaplain during the end of life time period is one of the best offerings of hospice and hospitals. A great chaplain can do more to facilitate healing than most other roles or therapies or strategies combined.  Jo Jensen is one of these people who has this kind of skill and presence and has served children and adults alike. I have the great pleasure to know her and I wanted to introduce you to her.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. t...

When Your Calling is Your Business

August 09, 2016 22:14 - 1 hour - 47.5 MB

Join Janis Underwood and I in tackling a touchy subject...that of a person who wants to do their calling every day, not just after "work." The person who has no trust fund, organization to pay for them or a financially supportive partner. I am talking about most people who feel inspired to serve in a soulful way and they must deal with the issue of money. Janis is the Founder of Soul Biz Startup and learned first-hand the difficulties in building a soul-based business. After a long search fo...

Self Care for EOL Workers

July 03, 2016 17:48 - 1 hour - 52.3 MB

Support for self-care among workers who serve the dying is not as popular as you may think. It seems obvious that for hospice workers, hospital workers, firefiighters, paramedics and others in the healthcare world that taking very good care of ourselves would be a given, understood by all and supported by our employers.Craig Williams, L.A.c., Clinical Herbalist AHG, Ayurvedic Practitioner, Author, Health Coach, and so much more shares the hour with me discussing this deep topic. I've been wo...

Doing Death Differently with Patty Burgess

June 03, 2016 14:15 - 43 minutes - 23.8 MB

For the majority of people, the space between birth and death hold their attention, and is the focus of their journey. But for Patty Burgess, the ending point of death, with its surrounding fear, stigmas and mystery, is a rich area to indulge her ever expanding curiosity and passion for heartfelt life experiences. Join Patty and I as we discuss her work in the field and qualities that make for a wonderful EOL Doula. Please visit her website for great information: http://www.DoingDeathDiffere...

Some Perspective on Death Doula Training

April 19, 2016 23:28 - 55 minutes - 53.4 MB

This week's podcast gives some background on why there is death doula training. There is a huge movement of "light bearers," people who are called to serve the dying, coming forward looking for mentoring and training and to learn from those who know how to accompany others through death. Hospice is one way to serve and there are others being called who want to be helpful to families and hospice as well, people who don't fit the traditional roles of hospice. The real beauty is not that there ...

Last Comforts: Notes From the Forefront of Late Life Care

April 06, 2016 15:54 - 36 minutes - 27.9 MB

Ellen Rand, author of the book, "Last Comforts: Notes From the Forefront of Late Life Care,"has been a journalist for more than 40 years, including five years as a housing columnist for The New York Times. She is a hospice volunteer with Holy Name Medical Center in Bergen County, New Jersey, a member of the Hospice Volunteer Association and the Association of Health Care Journalists. Her essays have appeared in several medical humanities publications, including Pulse—Voices from the Heart of...

Hope for a Cool Pillow

March 30, 2016 13:44 - 35 minutes - 21.5 MB

Most people love hospice and the mission of hospice. And of course, there is always room for improvement. "In Dr. Margaret Overton's new memoir, HOPE FOR A COOL PILLOW (Outpost 19, March 2016), she explores about two polar opposite experiences with hospice during the decline and death of her mother and father.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

The Shadow Side of Compassion

March 13, 2016 19:35 - 33 minutes - 29.4 MB

This week's show I am discussing the shadow side of this wonderful ability of ours as humans to feel and live in compassion. We all may find ourselves in one or more of these spaces as we give to others. As you listen to the talk, please just see how you feel in your body as you listen. Did you get tight when I described one or more of these? If so, explore it and write about what it brought up.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, comp...

End of Life Doula Bag (Death Doula Bag)

February 01, 2016 18:48 - 19 minutes - 11.7 MB

One of the wonderful topics I share with other doulas is what is in our EOL Doula bag? What do we take with us when we go to families? Also in this discussion we include some ways we support people as well. Each doula is different in how they support people so our "bags" will be different. Please add to the discussion, what is in your bag?  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Talking With a Hospice Chaplain

January 20, 2016 13:28 - 33 minutes - 21.2 MB

Blane Brazier has worked full time in hospice since 2008. He has a unique ministry of using his guitar or sometimes the ukulele to engage the spiritual life of his patient's. He currently works at Amity Hospice as their Chaplain and Bereavement Coordinator where he also facilitates grief groups for bereaved family members. He recently wrote a booklet called CELEBRATING LIFE a Compassionate Guide Through Funeral Planning. The booklet serves as the last chapters or Afterward of Barbara Karnes ...

A Story of Forgiveness

January 11, 2016 18:54 - 22 minutes - 13 MB

Today I am speaking with Kelly Roman about her story of living in forgiveness for her father who died this year; and, how she is getting through the holidays. She is the Director of Recreation at a long term care facility in New Jersey; she has completed her studies this year as a Death Doula and as a Spiritual Counselor. Thank you for sharing your story with us Kelly. This is just one story of many in my 2015 Series: "Life and Grief Through the Holidays." http://love-empower-release.me/  ...

Martha Ward Shares a Beautiful Family Holiday Story

December 22, 2015 14:54 - 21 minutes - 14.6 MB

Today's podcast is a discussion I had with Martha Koock Ward of Austin. She is a delightful woman, 5th generation Austinite, and I loved what her family is doing to honor one of their deceased siblings. I asked her to share with us for the series I am doing called "Life and Grief Through the Holidays.   End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Using Death Doulas in Healthcare

December 14, 2015 17:03 - 45 minutes - 41.6 MB

Present day healthcare services are squeezed for time, doulas and practitioners need experiences and the person who is ill and dying and their family needs attention. If we can work together on creating a system that uses the skills of the doulas in serving people as they gain practical mastery of the art of it all, we will best serve everyone who is concerned that these doulas are well trained. If you are a person who sees the brilliance in this and works in hospice, home health or the ho...

December 8, 2015

December 13, 2015 19:52

I was sick this week so I had to cancel my interviews. We will be back on it for the December 15, 2015  peace, Deanna  

Life & Grief Through the Holidays: 2015. Kickoff.

December 02, 2015 03:04 - 37 minutes - 368 MB Video

We all go through loss. It can be devastating regardless of what time of year it is. Many people describe an extra heaviness during the holiday season (end of the year) and I wanted to address this with stories. People who have been there and are there now. We get strength from each other through our stories. I am not trying to fix anyone, help you “get over it,” or anything like this. My intention is to bring us together in community, across the miles, and share a common experience togeth...

ER is No Place for the Dying

November 23, 2015 14:45 - 51 minutes - 42.9 MB

Amanda Carr is an ER nurse who has worked ERs around the country. She is on a mission. Her blog, Changing the Face of Dying, www.changingthefaceofdying.com, is where you can find her sharing her observations and making a difference. She recently accompanied me on my 2nd Doula Journey to New Zealand and Australia and we not only shared a wonderful experience meeting world leaders in end of life and seeing beautiful countryside, but we met our own souls and dug deep in our own spiritual nature...

Dr. Michael Barbato. Physician Midwifing Death.

November 15, 2015 09:31 - 47 minutes - 39.4 MB

Meeting Dr. Barbato and his wife Ann was one of the highlights of my trip to Australia. He has been a physician for over 50 years and Hospice Medical Director for over 20. He is not only an accomplished physician, author and educator but a very kind soul and lovely human being. Listen in as he shares about the 'deep sleep' state, about the hardest part of dying, about demedicalizing dying. We spent Saturday afternoon at his home in Kiama.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create...

What do you want? What do you love?

November 09, 2015 09:36 - 16 minutes - 13.6 MB

I am in New Zealand as this podcast is created overlooking the majestic Cathedral Cove. My heart was soaring as I conquered big fears in coming here. The fear of flying stopped me from traveling the last 20 years. What is stopping you from doing what you love? Is anything? Are you doing, being living as you love to do and be now? Let's live our dreams together. We are only here for a short time.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. training and mentoring doulas, co...

Zen and The Art of Dying. A Deathwalker Documentary.

October 25, 2015 22:54 - 36 minutes - 26.7 MB

Listen in as Zenith tells me about the film made about her and her thoughts of empowering families. I am so grateful to be spending the Day of the Dead with her November 8, 2015 during my trip to Australia and New Zealand. For more information on this: www.doulajourney.com. From Zenith's website: "I am not fixed in any belief, religion or dogma, I embrace them all and work towards a more universal and accepting approach, open to discovery, and in love with the mystery. What happens after d...

Empowering Your Community

October 19, 2015 15:19 - 24 minutes - 20.8 MB

Are you a person that wants to make a difference in your community related to illness, dying, death and mourning?  You can and you don't have to train with anyone to do so. What communities need are safe spaces where individuals can join together and explore their feelings and thoughts around these topics.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. Training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

You Don't Have to Be Dying To Get This

October 12, 2015 14:08 - 17 minutes - 15.9 MB

There is still so much misunderstanding about Palliative Care in and outside of Healthcare. There are educational videos I have found on the internet and definitions about Palliative Care that are flat out wrong. What is wrong: they are saying that palliative care is what you use at the end of life. Listen in and get the real scoop.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. Training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

MAID in California: October 5, 2015

October 06, 2015 19:29 - 22 minutes - 17.5 MB

I'm inviting you to explore this topic within yourself and with people you love and trust. I am inviting you to not be in grand, heated debates but in introspective, respectful discussion with others. Practice the discipline of silence and respect as you hear what your partner is saying about their thoughts on the subject.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. Training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Assisted Suicide in California: October 5, 2015

October 06, 2015 19:29 - 22 minutes - 17.5 MB

I'm inviting you to explore this topic within yourself and with people you love and trust. I am inviting you to not be in grand, heated debates but in introspective, respectful discussion with others. Practice the discipline of silence and respect as you hear what your partner is saying about their thoughts on the subject.  End of Life Care Certificate Program Learn.Create.Serve. Training and mentoring doulas, companions, guides and midwives since 2005  

Spotlight on an EoL Doula Series: 1st episode

September 29, 2015 16:48 - 37 minutes - 28.5 MB

There is an explosive growth of people wanting to serve others as companions and service providers of all kinds. This is their vocation; they want to serve full time, not just after work or on weekends. The willingness to pursue their vision of serving others opens many doors for people in their personal life as well. It is very common that people will give themselves permission to explore and pursue new interests and deepen what they are already doing because now they are giving life to ...

How Can Branding Help the EOL Movement?

September 23, 2015 16:16 - 29 minutes - 23.1 MB

Heather Poduska is a personal brand strategist, speak-to-sell expert for entrepreneurs, image consultant, and former professional operatic soprano. Heather uses her expertise to teach entrepreneurs how to clarify and deliver their own unique and profitable brand message so they can attract and convert ideal clients . I had the idea to talk with her about her ideas of how principles of branding could help our end of life "death positive" movement. Listen in! Heather's website: http://www....